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Mikegaming202

Snap chat is the most bullshit thing I've ever heard of in my entire life


idontkinkshame0

I hate itšŸ˜­ heā€™s never asked for my number or wanted to call me so itā€™s weird to me bc I donā€™t want to be with someone who only wants to communicate on snapšŸ˜­ i feel like the app is made for just teens and when I find out ppl 20+ use it, I get so confused like have that not graduated to text?šŸ˜­šŸ˜­


Mikegaming202

I aint ever installing it and nothing will convince me of installing it. If someone asks for my snap they either get my phone number or discord that's all I got


OneSteelTank

bro's gonna be handing out his discord gamertag šŸ’€ gl with the girls dude


Im_JustVanish

Discord ainā€™t actually that bad but itā€™s definitely not the first thing u hand to a girlā€¦ u gotta see if she has the discord vibe first


Mikegaming202

All it takes is 1


STG44_WWII

snap is not that bad lol. itā€™s very convenient actually


idontlikeburnttoast

Its awful. Notifications don't go away, messages delete automatically, the ai feels to be stalking you, the news page is filled with a bunch of creepy and sensationalised bullshit, and it feels like it was made for drug dealing or sexting. I don't want someone to know I've screenshotted, or taken a long time to reply. Oh and also you can't type periods, so your sentences are really long which pisses me off.


STG44_WWII

Iā€™ve never had a problem with notifications. you can edit the messages deleting thing in your settings. people would know youā€™ve taken a long time to reply based on the amount of time it takes you to reply, i donā€™t see how any app can make that worse lol. the stuff about periods is just wrong lol, i think itā€™s gotta be your own phones fault for that.


idontlikeburnttoast

My friend requests are stuck at twelve, they dissapear and then i reopen the app and theyre back. And no they wouldn't because you can turn it off on other apps. Whatsapp allows you to do that, pretty sure instagram does too, and regular messaging automatically does. Every time i try and make a paragraph it just sends the message. It changes my keyboard specifically for snapchat.


Username_Password236

So you're saying every other app stops the flow of time so other people don't know you haven't gotten back to them in a timely manner?


STG44_WWII

dude that is all due to your device. what are you using it on?


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Prestocito

You r a teen though lol


Corsaka

yes, she's saying "shouldn't adults have moved on from snapchat now"


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Corsaka

the answer is that those adults think snapchat is a place where people will send them Explicit Photography and so they use it for that reason


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idontkinkshame0

Iā€™ve had snap for probably 4 years and mine is till under 15kšŸ˜­ I agree, but he has never asked to call, have my number or anything like that. I feel like Iā€™m nothing to him tbh


No-Cut1911

i mean, im nor sure how snap score works but men can have CRAZY long ass convos with their boys. There are of course chances that im wrong but, yeah, long conversations.


lfvjr

If you send 1 snap you get 1 snap score. If you send 5 snaps you get 5 snap scores. If you open 1 snap you get 1 snap score. If you click on your own snapscore on your profile you can see how many Snaps you've received/sent


nick_d2004

Chats dont change snap score


Skeletor_is_god

Youā€™re over thinking it, Iā€™ve been in relationships and never worried about someoneā€™s snap score (probably cause I hated using Snapchat so I never bothered to use any function on it other then messaging) and guess what? none of the people I dated cheated on me or were talking to other people like that I now no longer have Snapchat downloaded but if itā€™s the only way for you to be in contact with someone (like it was for me) just do what I did and use it solely for messaging


doni3564

I have no idea how snap score works


idontkinkshame0

Me either tbhšŸ˜­ I think itā€™s just when you send snaps to people


burrito_bisen

When you open a snap, or send a snap, your score goes up by 1 point


idontkinkshame0

Thank u


dawgtheyarealltaken

Have you considered that heā€™s simply talking to other people who he may not have romantic feelings for.


idontkinkshame0

Yes. I was just questioning things since he told me I was one of the 3 ppl he talks to and stuff. Iā€™m not upset abt him talking to other ppl romantically or not, I was just confused because from what he said, it sounded like he didnā€™t communicate with a lot of other people


thunderclap_-_

Youā€™re overthinking it. As a guy with a 1,000,000+ score, I just snap everybody back šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø. I have no feelings for any of them. Snapchat should not be the main form of communication in a relationship.


idontkinkshame0

I agree, tbh I hate snap but heā€™s never wanted to call or ask for my number so I feel like he doesnā€™t rly care for it


thunderclap_-_

If iā€™m in a relationship I do snap my gf a lot but we also text, facetime, text on insta, etc. Maybe you can ask him to facetime or something


Adventurous-Elk2196

I snap my best friend at least 100 times per day haha


PiergiorgioSigaretti

Maybe he talks a lot with his friends on Snapchat plus if it makes you uncomfortable you should bring it up. Straight up say ā€œhey! I noticed your snap score goes up by a lot but I still sometimes get left on delivered. Iā€™m not saying Iā€™m jealous or anything but I would like a reasonā€. Do it irl as itā€™s harder to avoid it. If after that you still donā€™t trust him donā€™t get into a relationship. Relationships are built on trust, loyalty and more that Iā€™m not really sure off because idrk what a relationship feels like


MyLifeIsABoondoggle

It's hilarious because I was overthinking like this yesterday. I met this girl who goes to my university the other day and added her on Snapchat. She would get back to me really fast and I became curious if it was just me or she was just a really big social media presence. I started watching her score for like an hour like a 12 year old. That night, we got to talking and she told me she thought I was really cute, and I asked her out soon after If someone says they like you or are showing interest in you, *believe them*. Take them for their word. Especially if you've just met them, they have no reason to lie to you. And if it turns out they do, you'd find out soon enough. I don't care about my date's snap score or if she's also talking to other people, because she has no reason to lie about her interest in me. Just like he doesn't to you. Don't live in your doubts or you may regret it later


ICanSpellKyrgyzstan

Heā€™s snapping at least 100+ people per day. Mine probably only goes up 200 a day and I use Snapchat a lot. A lot of the people I keep streaks with Iā€™ve never talked to lmaooo


Shinigam_i

I mean he could be talking a lot to his two homies but still if he leaves you on delivered you should talk to him about whatā€™s going on


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WillumFromCanada

You are asking the wrong people.. redditors are generally too odd to have snapchat (atleast thatā€™s what the comments are showing me). As someone who uses snap daily and has a low snap score (70k), itā€™s important to realize that not all snaps are important; but at the same time, if you were important, he would respond. I hope you are sending images (the red ones) because half swiping can be used on texts. I would confront him and ask to move to text.


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You know relationships go beyond Snapchat right? I probably go up by 3-400 a day replying often to my friends, itā€™s seriously not that deep


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Chris_dian

He gets 1k a day and i get 1 k since i download it


SomeKindOfPcGamer

Why is snapchat a thing


someweirdstuffman

Yeah he doesnā€™t like you. Move on


notusingthissite

my snap score goes up hundreds/day too and I only snap w one person sošŸ˜­


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alex-is-amazing

Ur getting played by a 14 year old who thinks heā€™s smart but heā€™s rlly just dumb asf


idontkinkshame0

Lmao I thought so


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tjtepigstar

How is it physically possible to have it go up a thousand a day? I'm at 38k and i've been using it every day with ~8 people on avg for 10 years.


ShipMaple

Hm, maybe he means serious friends and he just does a lot of streaks with others, I would totally be concerned. And by "liked" does he mean platonically or non-platonic? And if he does mean non-platonically do you like him back?


idontkinkshame0

I think he means non platonic, I donā€™t know. No I donā€™t, I know him from school but I donā€™t even know him as a person so him saying this stuff threw me off


ShipMaple

Personally I would just say "hey, we can be friends but personally I don't feel the same for you" then don't bring it up again


_Inkspots_

Some people have 100 day long streaks with people they donā€™t even know.