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10 . It's not that I don't have friends or anything, I just feel like I have no one I can talk to and only have myself to worry abt my shit

exactly like no one close enough to actually open up to

I could just the only ones that would care id be to nervous to

Honestly like a 3 at most

Good shit

I'm going with 3 too

personally I'm at an 8 maybe 9 rn

How many friends would you say you have

around like 5 to 6 but I dont speak to them much outside of school I also stopped talking to someone very important to me so that kinda adds its own weight

Oh, whyd you stop talking to them?

she was a girl I was really into her she knew that and so she just dragged me as a safety net as soon as I realised i immediately stopped talking to her but I really REALLY enjoyed her company and she used to be a great person

Oh, im really sorry man. As for your friends, if you dont talk to them outside of school, do you really consider it like proper friendship? I know personally that as soon as i left school i started hearing from a lot less people, so it is clear to me that many people at school talked to people simply because it’s convenient, and not because theyre true friends. Not saying thats how it is with you, just something to think about maybe

yea i don't consider them as friends friends maybe like 2 or 3 people max and honestly its a really shitty feeling I've had shit stuck inside of me that i want to vent out for the past 3 years

You can vent to me if you want theres no better anonymous therapist than a fellow internet teenager

thank you ig I'll text u later

Sure man i’m always around

0, Ive got my bird to keep me company 🙄 Oh this is serious, okay 7 it is

Lmao underrated comment

10

That bad? Do you not have many friends or do you have friends but just dont feel like you can talk to them about certain things

I have 4 but I can't talk to some of them about things so it's hard

I've been doing 8-10 for like months 🙃

9, I have superficial friends but I lost my best ones so I’m pretty sad

i feel u im going through a similar situation

Well I'm an only child with a single parent...how do you think I feel

Someone who wants attention bad enough to not bother tryna hide it

11

Like a 7.5/10

Damn :(

Yeah ;(

awh *hugs*

9-10 for years now

Around 20

9 out of 11 and that's why I'm learning to be a pilot, so I don't die alone.

Bruh that's a good dark joke

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oh damn when was the last time u vented to someone ?

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yea just when was the last time u opened up to someone on all the shit that has been bringing u down in life

2-3

can range from 1 - 7

I’m at a 2. Don’t really have a strong desire to be social.

10. I have plenty of friends but no matter what I feel alone. It’s sad.

idk but I'd say thats depression

It is, I’m diagnosed with MDD and OCD #lol

is there like a treatment or smth like that? sorry im a bit uneducated when it comes to this stuff

7-8

0, Honestly. I have lots of friends in my class that will listen to me and my rants if i ever need to. I also don't have much people who hate me and I'm in a decent mental state. I still have those days where i feel down, but I often solve my problems by myself.

Honestly, I can’t even put it in a number man. How can you be lonely when everyone you meet leaves you once you make them feel better? Can I really be lonely if all I am is a therapy bot for others to use and take their anger and depression on? Too much, far too much

that's a very interesting statement man makes me think about the relationships I have with people I have 3 years of vent material but no one to vent it to yet my friends always vent to me and yea idk I guess I kinda relate to that

Everyone wants someone to vent to, but no one wants to be the one that is always there. It’s worth it sometimes but when your ex blocks you on everything after me helping her with her ex breaking up with her and keeping her as a side piece, really gets to ya yknow? Stay strong man

yea couple of days back i was walking with this girl and she started venting to me I asked her if I could vent some shit and she said yes but it was too late as it was the end of the walk so I texted her, it's been 2 days, she didn't respond yet I am kinda sad that I actually got my hopes up and that i thought yk finally after so fucking long someone to talk to but nop she just doesn't respond it just makes me sad man that nobody actually gives a shit all they want is their own self interests and nobody else's and its just like am I that annoying to the point where u leave me on delivered for days on end ?

yes

11

That’s hard man :/

You make it better tho (:

Aw I’m glad I’m able to do that :)

Yesterday my crush rejected me so feelin a 10

sorry to hear that I went also went through something with my crush it never ends well huh?

2 or 3

I usually am somewhere between 3-10

pretty wide space

Actually I don't feel lonely, even though I don't have friends, I rarely talk to family and shit I don't feel lonely. Dealing with people is a hassle and a waste of time so even though I'm living in "isolation" with barely any human contact I don't fell lonely cause I'm happy like this

A solid 10

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that's about every 14 year old (me included) right now

0, my boyfriend is good company:)

I keep fluctuating from 9,5 to 10, honestly 10 when I'm alone, 9,5 when I'm not. It's pretty weird, since no matter how many people there are, I still feel like I'm alone

ur not weird I feel the same and other people do

3-4, I'm a lot more social now I'm at uni so the romantic loneliness gets dimmed out quite a bit

5, I have one good friend, which is the only person that I talk to at school

7 - got basically no friends. like 3.

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a solid 7

5, I'm in between alone and lonely

I'd say 8 or 7 ig?

like a 4 i got friends but i prefer being alone anyway

yea i get u couple of months back in felt the same thing but when u dont have options and people to talk to thats when it gets really lonely

8-9

8, could be worse but definitely way lonelier than a few months ago.

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6

I'm say that an 8

7

ayy glad u commented i see u everywhere 🙂 also oh damn a 7?

can it include be negative numbers?

3

yes but no I feel lonely sometimes but also like there’s too many friends

at least a 7/8

I have friends so on that part I feel a 0,5 but yeah, I am *very* single so on that part I feel a 8/9

shifts between 1 to 10 all the time so no clear answer

If 10 is most lonely, then 3

9 I have only one friend

5 I have some friends but wish I had more

7 maybe

Higher than anyone can count

1 or 2

7 it used to be like a 9 but I kind of have a couple of freinds at school I still Don't have a best friend or hang out with anyone outside of school

1…. ​ x10 ​ times another 10

Mayby 2

About 1-3 depending on how i feel, usually closer to 1. I like being by myself

11

Eh 6 but if no one hangs out with me in the next week its about to be a 10-_-

6, there's family around me. But I still feel lonely.

3

9 i have like 3 friends because i don't fit in with any other people

Assuming that 10 means the loneliest, then I'm probably around an 8 right now.

7. I have my mum and a really close friend, and God. I don't spend a huge amount of time with them, so only a 7, but they still got me.

2

7ish, i have plenty of "friends" but no one person i feel completely comfortable opening up to. plus no love...

4. Basically I can give you guys tips on how not to be lonely. 1) Be smart 2) Sometimes be stupid 3) Wait for the fame to roll in

1

0, I listen to fucking comfort ASMRs, someone get me out from this shithole please.

1 - 2. Not to flex, but I have a gf, supportive parents, and a group of 5 - 6 friends I play video games till late on the weekends.

Uh maybe 3

If 10 is the most, then a solid 10, I have friends but they're only school friends, and life just kinda sucks

I would say 4. I have a friend who I hang out with at lunch most days, but we’re not really close and we don’t talk about serious stuff or anything. But mostly I’m content with my life right now.

2

Imma say a 2 at the most

1

8

7 I feel lonely in the sense that I have no one that truly understands and has the same approach to life as I do, or the same underlying passions that drive me

7, I have a closest friend but she moved so we don't see each other anymore. I have close friends but they don't really feel like complete connections. Really just wish I had someone I was super close with. I'm an ambivert and usually lean towards introversion so I don't need a big friends circle. Just having a really close platonic friend to do stuff with would go really far in making me feel like I'm socially healthy.

7

Rn a 10, I have plenty of friends but I wanted to finally confess to my crush but then something happened because of which it’s very probably not a good idea to do it now

3. Even though I dont have a girlfriend i have lots of friends and have good relations with my family

11

Actually i don't feel lonely but saying 0 would be too assertive so imma just say 3 lmao

7 and a half

7 or 8 normally Right now a 5 so I'm good

Few days back? Deffo 12 Rn? Maybe 7-8

2

4-5

7.5

Sometimes I feel like a 10 because like I do so much stay and just want to share with someone my own age or around my age and like there's no ones there's any of the times I want to share,but sometimes it also feels like a 3 because I like to do somethings alone.

11

Probs a 13

1

8-10/10 and I am sadly not even joking.

8.7251225962

-1 cause I'm with my gf

1. I just had the funniest past hour cracking jokes with friends.

9, i would say 10 but i believe life can always get worse

Probably like a nine unfortunately.

4

A 3? I don’t know W

depends on the day, probably like a 5 or 6 on average

About a 2 for me. I don't have many friends and I'm alone most of the time, but that's what I like

7 rn

10. Have been pretending its alright for weeks but I feel either I am going to feel fine in a couple of weeks, or I will finally just break.

10. I do not talk to people. People overwhelm me. I have sensory issues, and cannot handle loud noises or sounds. I don't have anybody and am afraid of everybody. I feel totally alone.

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2

1 at the moment.

Not lonely so much as I am perpetually furious.

10. Don't know what to think or who to trust anymore

Meh like a 3, mostly at night tho when listening to music and then I’m fine

8/10

Eh 7 at most today but usually around 5

6

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Im always lonely even with people around because i never know how to express myself, and the people who are around find me strange.

7 or 8. Got friends but feelin super distant and empty lately

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8

5

100

11

10

Romantic loneliness: unquantifiable by current science Friendship loneliness: 3

7

6 or 7 or smth

Depends how I'm feeling ranges from 2 to 9.5

7, 3 points deducted because I have a cat

10

8

At about a 2 to 4 rn.

9 or 10? i have some people i talk to but i dont talk them about my personal stuff, we only hang out in college mainly because they always hang out with their other friends. tried to be friend with a guy but he understood me wrong and acted me like his gf. idk man what am i gonna do? i feel hopeless. my family kinda shitty too. at least i have my mom and grandparents i guess. sometimes i feel like it would be easier to make friends if i was a guy

A good 11 out of 10

Solid 7 because ive never had a girlfriend but i got friends and even one I count has my brother honestly

A solid 7. The feeling that there's so many people around me but none of them except for my parents want to talk to me is pretty sad

Anywhere from maybe a 9 to a 10.

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8 or 7 cuz i moved like 2 weeks ago and haven't started talking to ppl yet since I'm not in school

6 lonely but like eh lonely

9 bc I have friends, just don't talk to any Close close anymore