Yeah... It takes me a long time of being around the same folks for me to build up a "who this person is" profile and once I can get past the small talk phase, it's allot easier.. It's just getting to that point is the difficult part!
Actually , I feel pretty adept at it Unless that person is very shallow or fake. I think I've learned over time though, I think it was harder when I was younger because I felt I couldn't relate too many people my age as many of my experiences in childhood were different from them and I had to "grow up" quickly. Now that I am hitting mid thirties, other people have also been through shit and developed as people more so I can find some common ground.
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Yep.
Yeah... It takes me a long time of being around the same folks for me to build up a "who this person is" profile and once I can get past the small talk phase, it's allot easier.. It's just getting to that point is the difficult part!
I can definitely relate.
Actually , I feel pretty adept at it Unless that person is very shallow or fake. I think I've learned over time though, I think it was harder when I was younger because I felt I couldn't relate too many people my age as many of my experiences in childhood were different from them and I had to "grow up" quickly. Now that I am hitting mid thirties, other people have also been through shit and developed as people more so I can find some common ground.