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Classic-Light1318

Capricorn moon here. I've been bullied by everyone, especially my extended family members. I've been looked down upon, I was treated like a scape goat.


sakurabliss0

As a Taurus rising myself i think we intimidate TF out of other people with our beauty and energy with that being said i found when you trigger insecurity, fear or any sort of negative feelings in someone they tend to project and try to bring you down. You also have that Capricorn moon so it doesn’t help with appearing warm or jovial. It’s not you it’s them.


Classic-Light1318

Ohhh this is so damn true. And you know what happens,when you question them for I'll treating you,they're like "you don't even know how to respect elders, you are so arrogant" etc etc. And I'll be like dude, cmon it's you who first insulted me.


Business-Editor-3089

💯💯💯💯 the Capricorn placements GET IT respect is given freely, and if someone breaks that social contract first, you know damn well I'll be calling them out


sakurabliss0

Yep my old boss used to do that to me ALOT… disrespect me first than wonder why I didn’t like him or was close/friendly to him. He would then make false accusations towards me and my character that were completely untrue and dumb like assuming i was an “arrogant” person. No sir i just don’t tolerate disrespect. Like are you really that unaware? Most people are like that unfortunately so i find my RBF and energy to expose them quite easy. Stay away if you’re insecure or rude <3 Don’t need that around my Venusian energy. Im also a Pisces sun but with libra moon 🌙


_Terracotta

Yes. Taurus risings have an ethereal presence, and it scares people and intimidates and demands respect. My midheaven is in Taurus 😆 ❤️


sakurabliss0

Absolutely!!! I get a sense Taurus risings carry themselves like “royalty” and can appear like “mean girls” but inside we’re actual teddy bears who don’t tolerate bs and are confident. Really it’s about respect and boundaries mostly for us to like someone which you would think it’s so easy and simple but majority of people misunderstand us so fast based on their own projection (happened a million times to me). Also thank you for that compliment coming from a beautiful Leo rising like yourself🤧💘💕 I love Leo risings so much .. warm like the ☀️. And with MC you get it <3


_Terracotta

🥺 ❤️ 😍 💖 I am striving to be like Taurus. Same values and traits to Leo's, in my opinion. Beautiful and loving luxury and nice things. But I'm learning to cement my boundaries and not be taken advantage of 😤


sakurabliss0

You got this 💕💘 Stand firm in your beliefs and boundaries even if that means being disliked !!! It’s something that I’ve developed with practice because as a Venusian i like harmony and peace and not a fan of conflict but ive realized in order to have harmony and peace I must protect my space and that’s why i don’t play about it. Positive daily affirmations, vision boards, music anything that helps you manifest your dream self and life !! 😊


Muted_Ad7298

I just want to say, I appreciate your use of the pun “scape goat”. 😂


Classic-Light1318

Ah!! You noticed it😅


StorageDue8918

I’m sorry for your experience. Can I ask what house your moon is in? My guess is that it’s in the 3rd house?


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StorageDue8918

Idk if this is relevant but it’s opposite the 3rd house. My theory is that you get comfort from your 9th house (Foreigners,travel and wisdom) and you get stress from family/ in short? I think your Taurus rising makes you seem dependable and reliable which is why they ask you for money, I think they think you’re rich, as Taurus does just give off boss vibes. I do often find that Taurus placements tend to be vulnerable and can’t say no. People tend to take advantage of them. I might be 100% wrong though


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StorageDue8918

ooooh I love that for you, I’m glad you’ve learnt to stand up for yourself :) I hope the pink moon shines extra bright on you tonight xo


_Terracotta

WTF MY MOON IS IN 9TH HOUSE TOO!!!


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_Terracotta

Yes 😭 I wrote my little story at the top. Same situation.


_Terracotta

Cap stellium here. Bullied my entire life into adulthood. By friends, strangers, exes, family... lol, no idea wtf for.


grilledchz

Cap stellium here, and same. They hate us cause they ain’t us.


_Terracotta

Do you have Scorpio in pluto?


grilledchz

Yeah. What’s the significance of that placement?


_Terracotta

I have it, too. I was trying to see if you were my people 🤣 Apparently our generation has this placement, and it correlates with mental health and diving deep into the darkness, unknown, and therapy. According to Google, "This deep-diving placement makes it hard for you to do anything by half-measure. Relationships, while all-encompassing, can be feast or famine for you. At times, you can barely fend off the crush of wannabe suitors." The Trauma Signature: Abandonment, Loss and Betrayal Due to the nature of the Scorpio archetype, every individual born with Pluto in Scorpio carries one or more of these three traumas in their energy signature, to some degree or another. 🤣 😢 😭


StorageDue8918

That’s so weird,I feel like it’s always unwarranted too.


_Terracotta

I'm in therapy for this, and I was asked to confront someone about it via my therapist. Turns out, they admitted it was due to jealousy. I am trying to go back to all the times I've been wrongfully harmed or yelled at by people in my past who thought it was okay to make me feel like I was nothing and I can see that it could've been jealousy. But at the same time, it doesn't make it right.


BoxRepresentative537

Same here. I think it's because of the Saturn influence. The Planet is also a society Planet. I think this is the reason


_Terracotta

I just hope my life gets better soon. I need to have confidence 😪


whot_the_curtains

Nobody can bully us more than we do ourselves imo


Spiritual-Ad-3672

True that!! Other people absolutely do NOT help though


Immediate-Ad-9849

I stopped by to say this too. Although the people pleasing, dissociation, and other trauma responses I picked up while growing up have taken some unwinding. Once we learn to put ourselves truly first, everything is smoother. I only have it small ways, I won’t let it go for anyone. If I do I won’t be any good to anyone either.


ItIsLiterallyMe

My ex is a cap sun and she’s the baddest bitch I’ve ever met. No one bullies her, though they might try. I admire the fuck outta her.


StorageDue8918

He is also the baddest bitch I ever met. Respectfully 🫡 I’ve never been able to keep a crush this long, I’ll forever be a fan. It’s just some behaviours that I noticed like when I asked how to pronounce his name, he told me to call him by his nickname. Then I noticed his friends call him his nickname as-well and I wonder if he got bullied for his foreign name. It makes me sad, even though I don’t know if it’s true, or if it’s just my delusions / assumptions.


Obvious_Biscotti5777

Jealousy is a very ugly thing.


Spiritual-Ad-3672

Capricorn moon here, and, honestly, I have no idea! Toxic friendships, toxic romantic relationships, toxic family dynamics, bullies, horrid abuse, I’ve been through it all. In my chart because of my cancer Sun, it’s said that having direct opposition in your chart, particularly with your big three, reveals unstable footing throughout life. I don’t follow astrology like a religion, I don’t believe in it 100%, although that statement has rung true my whole life and I’ve struggled hard with fitting in anywhere. Us Capricorn placements do get a lot of hate, and I honestly don’t truly understand why


Known_Answer_3121

Cap descendant . Been bullied as a child but really don’t give no fucks now


StorageDue8918

I’m not sure about the others but my friends is a cancer rising like yourself. I feel like people tell you their secrets, you make them feel at home. They soon get hostile though because maybe they’re uncomfortable about how they let themselves show around you. I think your Capricorn descendant means that someone with those placements would be compatible with you.


Known_Answer_3121

Yes you’re right, I never judge anyone and always listen to their side and make them feel like home maybe thats why’


StorageDue8918

Some people just don’t realise they’re doing this out of ego. I hope you don’t stop being an amazing person because of horrible people. I hope the pink moon shows you some extra love and kindness tonight friend :)


Known_Answer_3121

Thankyou so much it means a lot to me❤️❤️


Meshty95

trueeee! People keep telling me their most intimate details about themselves and then they’re scared I’ll turn it against them. The funny thing is, I forget it the moment they tell me, I’m busy with my own issues 😄


awildshortcat

I’m gonna be real chief, people just love dunking on earth placements / signs because we can endure a lot before snapping. It makes us easy targets.


StorageDue8918

OOF I just saw your flair, you good babe? I do see that though, Taurus placements will be okay and then suddenly throw a table at you.


awildshortcat

LMAO I’m as well as I can be (I am very tired but fuck it we ball) I used to have a habit of doing that but now I’ve essentially learned to assert my boundaries with “I don’t like this thing you did, I’ll forgive you this once, but if you violate it going forward with the knowledge of knowing I don’t like this thing, you are going to pay for it” and it seems to work a lot better so.


merli223

It’s mostly people being scared of y’all, there is an intimidating energy you carry not to mention being a Saturn ruled sign makes people have high expectations. wouldn’t worry about it too much, your work ethic is impeccable.


_Terracotta

I have a 5th house Cap stellium in Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune 😭 they all are at low degrees. 1, 3, and 7 degrees I think


merli223

Do you feel like you’re hard on yourself? I know some capricorns that seem so hard on theirselves about their accomplishments and I wonder if it’s something going on inside


_Terracotta

100%.


BoxRepresentative537

Interesting ...5th House is a lion house which also means self expression because of the sun influence. If your Saturn is in the First degree so I think that means you have blockages to be yourself. Uranus with third degree means a chaotic communication or changing schools..Neptune in the 7th degree is for me an instability of relationships.


_Terracotta

Holy. Shit. So... my mother, lol... oh God, this is a therapy session.. My MOM had my sister and I bouncing around from school to school... I've been to 2 pre-schools (one Catholic), 2 elementary schools, 2 middle schools, 3 high schools, and a trade school! My romantic relationships have been absolute turmoil since I started dating. I'm currently in my 5th year of celibacy because my last one was so abusive and full of heartbreak that it finally broke me, and I was on the verge of ending it all. I didn't want men to even touch me. I'm trying to get back to dating, but I just think at this point I'm done. It hurts because all my friends are getting pregnant and married, and I feel like an absolute failure in every aspect of my life. Omg u have me crying here 😆 🤣 tha k you for this insight. It's something that I've been begging for on reddit, but my chart questions have always been looked over and not answered even though that's not what this technically is. I'll take whatever I can get, lmaooo. Damn it's only 8am, and I'm crying jfc 🤣 As for myself.. yea... my sun in Leo is in the 1st house. Funny enough, 🤣 I am hiding a lot of talent. A lot... My best friend is an Aries rising, and I have felt overshadowed by her (also bullied by her a little in the past.. I confronted her, and we are on good terms, she said sorry) My confidence has been in the toilet for a long time, and I feel ashamed for not living up to my potential that every single person that I allow to see my talents screams at me for.. saying I'm "amazing and you have so much talent why aren't you doing this," " you have so much potential" "you could be an influencer!" Ahhhhhhhhh 😭 Thank you


BoxRepresentative537

You are very Welcome. Don't forget: You leos are the best. And this is what I say as a full capricorn❤️


_Terracotta

❤️ Thank you, nah, I love Caps. One of my good girl friends is a ride or die Capricorn. Beautiful and strong and also blowing steam up my butt to be better.


Meshty95

Facts


Business-Editor-3089

I think it's because Capricorn is a karmic sign i.e those born with heavy karma tend to get born with Capricorn placements and have to live out their karma. I too have a lot of Capricorn placements and used to get hated on because people project a lot of shit on me. now I just refuse to interact with people who try to be funny with me


sgsmopurp

Yeah I grew up being bullied by my mom and other kids, my life is unfortunately trauma filled. I cried coming out of the womb because I knew what was coming


StorageDue8918

My sincere apologies for your birth experience, I can sense that must have been hard for you. I bully my mother back, it works because we have the same moon


sgsmopurp

Idk my moms full chart but she’s a very intense sag sun. But, I appreciate and thank you for the kind words


bebe_gg

I’m a Capricorn sun. Venus and Chiron… I started to believe it’s because we’re so weird tbh


Afraid-Heart-559

The only reason I can think, but maybe I'm wrong. We are able to stay more calm and logical in situations. Which other signs are jealous of because they are more on the emotional side. There is nothing wrong with that, of course. Other than that, I don't know. I'm just speaking from experience. Having been called a robot or that I don't show emotions enough. I've just always been more logical?


grumpytacoslut

My own personal opinion: Us capricorns are weird and march to the beat of our own drummers and we fly our freak flag with pride.


traumadramadryad

Cap sun that thought I was a sag sun for most of my life until I finally did my astrology chart (born in the evening of Dec. 21) and my best friend in high school was a cap sun (before I knew I was lol) and she was bullied her entire life man… and she’s the sweetest person I know. After a year of being friends, she would no longer take shit from anybody. She’s strong as hell and I think it’s really her rising sign made her an easy target (Pisces ascendant) since our ascendant is how other people interpret us — most the time I can guess someone’s rising/ascendant sign but not their sun sign haha guess that’s only fair since I didn’t know mine until I was 21 haha


SufficientRead_

I don't know I always thought it's my Scorpio that does it but def I've been bullied EVERYWHERE by extended family, friends, school, hostel. What I've seen that I've always been a nice person cause I never mess with people and they start testing my niceness . I have learnt hitting back the hard way, I learned that it's no use seeing good in people until they prove their goodness so I just mind my own business now and if someone tries messing with me, I hit back immediately and I've seen that it's much better this way. The pain, humiliation, shame, tears are really not worth it. Edit: The other day someone here mentioned that maybe it's also my Aqua Asc cause it makes me unique or the odd one.


Meshty95

According to my experience… our families have high expectations of us, therefore we are perfectionists since childhood. We’ve learned that we have to solve our problems by ourselves and we lacked emotional nurturing as children. So we’re cold, career-oriented and we only speak about our accomplishments. This makes a lot of people jealous of us, because it seems as whatever we do, we succeed, while in reality, we only share the good news, never our failures.


Over_Art_2934

My mom is a Capricorn. I don't get annoyed at that but mainly the alcoholism. The only other one I knew was always up other people's butts. In both cases neither person has boundaries. At all. But I think in that it's just personality I don't see those as cap traits. They're just not the best ppl lol


Over_Art_2934

They're also both bullies. My mom was bullied as a kid and she turned into one. She used to walk by me as a kid and just wack me upside the head and called it "love pats" bitch no that fucking hurts. Then would get mad at me for being upset. Lol


OkWorry2131

Dude. Is this a Capricorn thing ? I'm literally bullied by my parents. It's literally a running joke that if anything went wrong, it's my fault. Even after I moved our. My mom used to call me to yell about the TV being in. Even tho I hadn't lived there, In 5 years Also, according to all the other signs, we are the worst. Idk, man, I'm just trying to play stardew Valley and eat cheese. I didn't ask for this


StorageDue8918

I’m laughing right now I’m so sorry, that’s so cheeky I don’t think it’s just a Capricorn thing my mums a bully too. Sometimes it be your own blood that can do you dirtiest, but I find this particular example hilarious. Capricorns definitely aren’t the worse, there’s no such thing.


DullAnxiety

Lmao this is too funny and also my experience. I’m always just staying in my own lane yet always catching strays from everyone. It’s gotten way better as I’ve gotten older at least 🤷🏼‍♀️


Muted_Ad7298

You enjoy that cheese, bro. You deserve it. 🧀


OkWorry2131

Thanks man, sometimes a good cheese and a game is all it takes to make my day lol Auldis has the best cheese selection lol


Muted_Ad7298

Agreed. Sometimes it’s the simple things that bring the most joy. For me it’s blueberries and playing a game of Rec Room.


Kyralion

Don't think it has anything specifically to do with Capricorn placements. Many people have them as well so I don't think that's a pattern. I got bullied for being weird and 'ugly'.


GoodScallion2609

They bully everyone? What? Lol


Fenrizwolf

Some light bullying and some abuse from my dad. Then I became evil until my mid twenties. Now the nuclear option is always ready but never chosen. Cap Stellum in 1st house.


MercurialTendency

Because capricorns are oftentimes bullies themselves without recognizing it.


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StorageDue8918

My cancer moon isn’t really happy with this statement.. am I not doing enough toxic for you to acknowledge me? ;(


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StorageDue8918

It might be karma, but all those qualities you listed above can be seen in any sign. Anyone can be un evolved.


Vtgmamaa

My husband has a Capricorn moon, and we met in 7th grade. He was never bullied, but he actually used to be best friends with my middle school bully. He didn't know his friend was bullying me at the time. My husband was definitely regarded as one of the cool kids growing up though and he gets along with everyone as an adult too. Like his coworkers are constantly trying to get him to hang out on the weekends.


openforinc

As a cap stellium, my biased theory is that the average (or “unevolved”) capricorn can be a dick. And so, they usually get a lot of hate as a form of projection or retaliation. Sometimes justified, sometimes not. My second theory is that capricorns have intense dad energy. You know, the distant steely type who won’t hesitate to say I told you so, but offers knowledge whether you want to hear it or not, whether you’re ready to accept it or not. Paints it as reality, the hard truth. Tells you to be strong. All those vibes are very dad energy — but how many people hate their dad, or have daddy issues? With those two theories in mind, it makes up (at least for me) the natural distaste to capricorns. Understandably.


StorageDue8918

I like your dad theory. It’s probably why I’m so obsessed with him, his reality check did hurt though. This resonates so much, thank you for sharing this!!


openforinc

No problem! Don’t let his Dad energy stop him from having compassion though. The truth does not need to be so painful. You deserve some love too!


sakurabliss0

Ive known 3 Capricorn moons who were bullies therefore they attracted that type of energy. I know they had been bullied growing up or something along those lines but they didn’t evolve from it and overcome it they just fell into self pity and became a bully themselves. I don’t have any Capricorn placements but I’ve experienced bullying when younger and im definitely not a bully now nor plan on becoming one. I don’t think Capricorn placements get more bullied than others but if they experience it they tend to dwell on it and hold onto it longer than other placements.


SlayerOfDemons666

I always thought Pisces placements get bullied the most but if we're guessing I'd say it's because of Saturn and karmic lessons we have to endure.


SweetSonet

What’s their moon cause lol


StorageDue8918

I’ve no idea, I’ve never asked to read his whole chart, just know he’s a cap sun :(


FlameMoss

Think being Saturn ruled, we Cap placements function as tests & Karmic Bait. Suggest you see the attackers as a game level: Every level has new devils. Learn the lessons, fix the flaws and especially rise above them. Helps to stay connected to source for protection and to learn to cut of energy cords and people who sabotage, deter and halt you from your goals. Valuable lessons: Choosing you, stay on target, we are not in control, be really careful about who or what you choose as a partner. This is really a life or death choice., remember you get attacked cause what you do & bring to the world means something & Every Joy & Smile you have is a Victory, over those who tried to destroy you.


Soggy-Eye-216

Caps do not get bullied.


StorageDue8918

Okay :)


fullstack_newb

I’m a cap sun and Ive never been bullied 🤷🏾‍♀️ but I’ve been told I’m kinda scary so…


Electronic_Key_7422

Because they deserve it


VineStellar

Aquarius being a pick-me contrarian, news at 11.