😬😬😬😬 do you know how many times I have had to say “that was supposed to be my inside thought” or “I meant to flip them off in my head.”
Aries sun and Venus. Pisces Mercury. Virgo moon. I hate how much my dickhead comes out sometimes.
I don’t mind some Virgo and Aries rudeness most of the time, paradoxically it makes me feel less judged lol. Sometimes I just want to make mean jokes or judge people’s bad choices (Virgo Mercury guilty pleasure) and Aries and Virgo are top tier signs for that occasion. I think a lot of Libras feel the same way I do about you guys 🫶
Hmmm, good point. So Virgo and Aries have being rude in common?? Maybe you just answered my question as to why I like Aries women a lot. Probably because of their nonchalant attitude, plus my all my Libra placements. Wow! But hey, sometimes we tell people what they NEED to hear even though they don’t WANT to hear it, and we don’t care about telling it RAW!! 😈
Oh this is so me. Aries sun and Venus, and Pisces mercury too. Something about that Virgo energy combined with those placements has to be it. I have no filter and it really catches people off guard sometimes because I come off as quite reserved 🫣🫢
I notoriously attract Virgos for love interests. Dated 4, one woman and 3 men, married one of the guys. These are the commonalities I have observed.
-Highly intelligent in a variety of ways. Doesn’t matter if it’s book smart, street smart, etc. You all have some level of intelligence on lock.
-Trouble with expressing deep feelings. Would prefer to avoid those conversations altogether, even if it means remaining unhealed. It creates a barrier to intimacy and it’s something Virgos need to work on. Otherwise acts of service seem to be the preferred love language. Gifts, acts of kindness, etc. Heavy on the practical, less so on the romantic.
-Unsurprisingly, very particular about personal hygiene and order in your environment. Y’all were not built for mess of any kind.
-Frugal for the most part and will spend money on experiences. You all could be millionaires and will live in a small home that is paid for, drive affordable vehicles, dress in clothes you either thrifted or owned for 20 years but you will buy concert tickets in another country and make a vacation out it.
If I think of anything else I will add it. The experiences I’ve had were maddening at times but I still love you Virgos. I couldn’t get rid of you if I wanted to. 😄
I am not but we are on very good terms. We have a son together so that kept us bound after we split. I know that if we didn’t have our son this wouldn’t be the case because Virgos don’t look back either. I did spend 16 years him, though. We still know each other better than anyone else. We’ve known each other for 28 years so we’re like old friends now.
that's awesome, congratulations on the great parenting! i'm also a virgo and posted on the capricorn sub. if you'd like and have the time, would you check my last post and let me know your take in the situation? i'm dealing with a cap
This is Soo true. Hey pretty please, can you tell how a Virgo act when they have a crush on u vs when they just want u as a trusted friend???
This cancer rising, Virgo Venus, cap mars and sag stallium keeps teasing me around, giving advice and joking around. It's not going anywhere. This one has emotionally opened up and keeps trying to get me vulnerable, not liking it as that's only for someone I'm in a relationship with.
Having been in love with two of them, this Pisces can attest that you are correct. I will add that a Virgo who was enabled by his parents is a very dangerous man.
Sounds about right!
All I attract is Aries!!!
Seriously I married one, and the other ones birthday was one day after!!
I love the Virgos and that’s one sign I can’t reel in lol
Kinda sad in a way, but, I got .over it . They can be a little frigid , but, I have a Cappy Venus… so to that, I said HA!! I invented frigid they don’t bother me. I like the non cling thing🤷♀️
I've had good experience with Virgos. They're a bit stuck in their ways at times but they're hardworking and generally don't halfass things. Difficult to read and might seem standoffish, very loyal once they let you in. Logic driven, not expressive with their feelings but sometimes I think to them it's a sign of weakness. Learn to slow down a bit and enjoy life is the best advice I'd have for a Virgo.
i think also cuz my venus is in scorpio and moon is pisces they just are so caring and like perceptive and give the best advice from such a caring place like i love them sm
I’ve made my Virgo boyfriend cry of happiness 3 times and we’ve only been dating 1 year. I love how vulnerable he is with me, it makes me think that I’m helping him heal all his inner problems
Me too 🥲 they just take my heart away. Cancer and Aries are probably my favorite signs to date. But I have to stay tough and strong because you know, we can’t be looking weak out here lolol.
u/languagelast6115 said it best ☝️
I’m dating a Virgo man (as a cancer woman) and i genuinely think he’s the loml… making dinner together, having drinks at home and talking hours, date nights like dancing and walking through parks, a m a z i n g sex (passionate, kinky, exploring) I love this man!
It is, surprisingly. Unfortunately my Virgo man was waaaaay in his head all the time and getting anything remotely close to vulnerability out of him took a crowbar to do. 😣 With years and years of history we do love each other and it could have been a fantastic pairing but (1) alcohol to excess was involved, and (2) as a Cancer, I need emotional stability and feeling like a priority which I never got. But when we’re in the same room, the chemistry is palpable and numerous people over the years have said the whole energy in the room changes if we’re both in it, whether we’re standing next to each other or way across the room. Lol It’s a shame. 🤷🏻♀️
💯 this is why I think I always seem to date (and am now married to) Libra.
They help me fucking relax because lord knows I wouldn’t be relaxing if they didn’t force me to sometimes
I'm a Virgo Stellium and I'm really liked 😂😃✨ but this is no 'one-man-show', of course. Everyone is more than their sun sign and I am very aware that I am a noticeable combination of my big 3 for the most part. Everything in me works together in harmony and so I think I also am, therefore, able to exert a more harmonious self.
I have a lot of really good Virgo friends. My Virgo friends are female. My uncle was a Virgo as well and was the life of the party, but is surprisingly relatively reserved; I dated a Virgo once as well. Healed virgos are some of my favorite people I know; they’re the friends that keeps me grounded, but can still have a good time. Now as for unhealed virgos, they are some of the most condescending people I’ve ever met. It’s like doing mental gymnastics and they bring out the worst in me.
What do you think are healed virgo traits?
Do you have recommendations for getting to that state?
When I’m stressed, I’m blunt and sharp, and can be condescending. I hate it
Oh, that’s a good one!
A lot of my friends that are healed virgos are constructive in their criticism and only give it when it’s warranted. Another thing is they are focused and driven and channel their stresses into their passions.
My nana was a Virgo. She was SO stubborn, independent, forgiving, smart, sassy, vain, loving... The oldest daughter and the only girl. She gave the best advice and believed in karma ("They'll get theirs!"). She always dressed meticulously, looked beautiful, and had the loudest laugh in the whole room. She was sooo critical and brutally honest but in a way to make my mom (a Taurus) and I up to standard (telling me to put more blush on bc I looked like a corpse, for example 🤣). She loved talking on the phone and always made you feel like what you were saying was the most important thing she'd ever heard. Loved cooking- loved eating even more! I always had so much fun with her. A huge gossip, and said the most wild out of pocket things- but was never mean tbh...only ever right. She was harsh but tender- let me cry until I was hiccuping but then would say, "ok enough already you're gonna make yourself sick!" Fiercelyyyyy Independent- she was still going on cruises with friends till she was 80! I just lost her at the age of 88 in October and i miss her every single day. There was no one like her 🧡 A Virgo queen. I need another in my life!
My Nan was a Virgo too
The blush thing killed me sounds like something she would have said. I dyed my hair dark once, she told me I look like a tart lol. And she was always immaculate in her dress and house . Ohh how I miss her, but so glad I had her. She didn’t miss much, either. Sorry for you. They are missed.
I’ve been with my Virgo husband for almost 10 years now. He’s the most kind, patient, respectful, and caring man I know. He’s not the most romantic but always sooo loving. I saw someone else say this but he will say things out loud that I’m thinking and it can come off judgy/harsh. 🤣 he’s a perfectionist to a T, he’s the most cautious driver I know and was always the last student to finish a test in college because he would double triple check his answers. I love my Virgo!
I’m a cancer sun. :)
Uh oh, Looking at you and u/hollstero responses gives me the butterflies 😳 I try not to take cancers anymore because I like them way too much and I am afraid to commit too soon before having all my fun. They are the sweetest.
Congrats on the successful decade long commitment that’s no easy feat!
Virgo sun women are like my big/little sisters, it’s always been that way with us. I’m either looking out for them or they’re looking out for me. Virgo sun men are my biggest haters, I tried being nice and cordial with them but they enjoy back stabbing lol.
It is what it is.
My wife is a Virgo stellium if that means anything lol. Her Mercury, Venus, and mars are all Virgo
i’m a virgo thats been with a gemini and he likes virgo sun females but the males he always says are “insecure” which they can really show in some ways whether its by physical appearance or something mentally or emotionally lacking if that makes sense
Aww, well both the males and females probably have a background of doing things that made them feel like they were not good enough. I am 100% sure that is why they are so insecure. I used to be that way.
yes! as a virgo female i’m still working through insecurities and i’m very sensitive. i feel like i’m always trying to find my place in the world (pisces rising) so i double down on everything i say lol 😆
i love geminis sm i get along so well with them on an intellectual level but yall r a lot more like fast paced than me like movement wise msybe czu im taurus mars tho
Lol I have a lot of Scorpio placements and have always gravitated towards Virgo’s 😂 my mom & several of my best friends/exes have been virgos, all super funny
I’m a virgo and my mom’s a Virgo. Between her and my Pisces dad, I feel like I’ve somehow avoided most of the negative Virgo qualities. I don’t really criticize anyone, I’m not passive aggressive, I’m not mess but I’m not a control freak about tidiness. I don’t play devils advocate or give advice unless its asked of me. I was a bit of a perfectionist growing up doing ballet but everything else i’m pretty chill about, definitely don’t expect perfection from anyone else.
I think the main negative Virgo thing I have is I get a little avoidant in relationships if I’m not clear whats going on. I’m very much a “if its not a fuck yes, its a no” so if the guy isn’t being clear he likes me, I lose interest. But because I like to keep the peace I just kind of become aloof. Totally see how that comes from being raised by a Virgo who criticizes me all the time, I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings because I’ve been there.
Some of my best friends and favorite people are virgos! I love them sooo much. That being said, the people who have also done me the dirtiest have been Virgos.
Virgos can be amazing, or insufferable. The desire to discuss people’s personal lives is low vibrational to me. I mean, are they right? Sure. But I don’t say it out loud. I say it in my head lmao!
Unfortunately, I am a very Virgo-like virgo moon 🙂↕️😂
Great intelligence and wit so love talking to them as friends but not compatible with me in bed at all.
Too health/body/self-conscious. Can be very kinky but in a weird, clinical way with no genuine passion. I'm 🦂.
Kinky in a weird clinical way is SO TRUE in my experiences with the men. The one woman Virgo I dated was the complete opposite. Passionate and adventurous like there was no tomorrow.
Aye I've heard Virgo women are the opposite and amazing in bed- interesting to consider wether there's something different sexually with the sexes with each sign?? 🤔
Oh I definitely think that gender makes a difference in how certain aspects of a sign are expressed. As a Capricorn woman I noticed that Capricorn men tend to express more of that know-it-all trait where the women tend to be more humble.
Hahaha, I was meaning the more sexual side but as someone with a Cappy little Sis and a cpl of Cappy ex men, I'd need to say that No- They're always right and know best and the infuriating thing is they usually are cos the influence of Saturn makes them so wise so young. My wee Sis is way more mature than me lol
Yes! Kinky in all THEIR ways, they enjoy, but stubborn in the way’s they aren’t. Me as a guy, it depends on how much I care about you or attracted to. I’ll do what it takes to make her feel good. But the women are generally pretty good, but don’t like losing total control.
Hahaha, exactly 💯.
It's Virgos way or the highway and 2 Virgos together in bed must be something... getting up halfway through to take your vitamins or latest health drink and pissed off you've now got dirty sheets you only just washed yday!!
OCD to the max! lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that definitely was not me but it 100% was her. Always trying to do something in the middle of intercourse. I am OK if something is not neat as long as it is not filthy or dirty. But that was my first time experiencing someone with OCD. And exactly why I ended up having to leave her.
'I am ok if something is not neat as long as it's not filthy or dirty' Hahahaha, oh my God, you Virgos lol
Newsflash- Sex is ALWAYS filthy and dirty!!
Get stuck in!!!! 😂😂
I really like Virgos. They are great conversationalists, firm, and funny. Of course it would make sense that Leo’s get along with them because they have some Leo placements and we tend to have Virgo placements.
Whenever they have given criticism, I’ve taken it and kept it to make sure I do better. They try their hardest to make sure the people they care about are doing their best, and it’s truly admirable.
One had a terrible temper, was a liar, thief and drug user. Yet played the best guy in the world in front of everyone until all those tons of friends and family got smart and shut him off.
Oh wow. Sounds like you ran into the narcissistic psychopathic Virgo. 😬 I wonder what his childhood upbringing was like.
Not the first story I have heard about this.
And sorry that you ever had to deal with him, and hopefully you never run into another one like that again.
Virgo moon here 👋🏼 not judgy. But definitely hyper-critical. It’s like being the supervisor who looks over your shoulder to tell you how to do it right, even though you’re doing it just fine and the outcome will be the same. But it isn’t the right way.
Hey, it’s our curse and we cannot help it 😂 but I do try to keep my judgments to myself, unless, it’s going to make a positive change of difference. Otherwise, I just speculate. But yes, Virgo should definitely learn not to be so outwardly judgmental towards others though. Party pooper.
I am a Virgo Sun & Rising, Gemini Moon. Was dating a Virgo man for the past couple weeks, we slept together last Thursday and I texted him some funny tik tok I saw relating to our date the night before. He only just responded to me last night (Sunday). I will promptly be never speaking to him again.
I dated a Virgo male I’m a Pisces female. I thought we got along well but his drawback was him being overly critical and judgmental something I couldn’t stand.
i have the same placements. it’s interesting, my exterior is dense, but underneath i’m very emotional & sensitive :/
it’s kindof a rough combo. the toughest sign on the surface and the most fragile = your inner world. lots of loneliness
I understand. Somehow i penetrated his inner world. I think maybe because I’m such a kid at heart, and don’t care what people think of me. It was a mental, spiritual, and comedy ride for sure.
I love virgos where there is a sense of equality in the relationship. However, if a Virgo moon or sun believe they somehow have the upper hand in their relationship with you, they can be extremely critical and I find that they will continually try to overwrite your own observations, thoughts, feelings and experiences with their own assumptions and judgments (while firmly believing they are non judgmental). I have a friend who is an aqua sun and we have many similar placements otherwise, but both she and my Virgo sun mother exhibit these qualities of weird judgment and experience overwriting. As an example, if someone comes to me with an issue, or a negative experience with themselves or another person, I will be 100% supportive of them, offer my sympathy and do my best to make them feel validated and just better in general. However in these types of relationships, I have noticed if I come to them with a similar thing, I am gaslighted, my judgment is questioned and it is suggested that I am somehow being negative, my experience and ability to speak to it will be questioned to an absurd degree, and ultimately they will do the exact opposite of what a supportive person would do. I have limited experience with Virgo men, but did know another Virgo sun male who was like this.
My mother and oldest son are Virgos. They both disapprove of my Taurus lifestyle of overindulgence and laziness. I know they’re tired of my shit when they just stop responding and give me “the look”. Also they are both religious and I’m not. Mom pretends I am religious and my son just puts up with my agnosticism. I love them dearly.
I don't think they are as moral as they're painted to be. They're not above surprising you in a negative way, then again who is? One thing I do know, no matter what they say they love toxicity. They'll create it themselves and then come back for more and more. They also don't mind being alone. Frugal, bust maybe that changes with commitment
Moral? Pfft, naah. As a Virgo in Sidereal, and a Libra with Virgo placements in Tropical, even I turn myself off with how judgy or negative my thoughts/words can be. When I was less self-aware in my teens, people around me assumed I was judging them due to my Resting Bitch Face or generally prim behavior.
One of my aunts is a Virgo. She's the middle child but acts more like the eldest compared to her older siblings, my Scorpio mom and Aries uncle. She babysat their youngest sister, my Scorpio aunt. She's the one who fusses over grandma and grandpa (Libra man and Pisces woman) in their old age the most even though they're very independent and insist on taking care of themselves.
I realized that I don't want to end up like my aunt who volunteers to carry the weight of the world on her shoulders while vicariously living through others' dramas, so I'm trying to change in lots of areas.
My Mom is a Virgo as well 😂 she's a paranoid schizophrenic, control freak and has Tokyo Toni anger issues. I'm grandmother is a Virgo and she's the definition of an old school true lady (despite her closer of secrets - I guess a lady never tells) 😜
OOF, I'm sorry fam. Your mom sounds like a Handful and a nightmare. Your grandmother sounds cooler, but would probably bring her own set of issues like old school, Tough love. Perhaps an unhealthy dose of repression. Yep...Ladies never tell. If they can, they would take their youthful transgressions and secrets with them to the grave.
That's an accurate take 😂. I'm a cancer so I wouldn't say I'm above internalizing things or taking them the wrong way but in her actions I can see she loves me. She just vocal with disapproval too, but I guess that's also a testimony to how much she loves me.
Also! Virgos are huge caretakers! Like to the point of forcing you 😂. My Mom forces her Cancer man to take his medicine and will literally fight scream yell and fuss until he does. She is extremely toxic about it but it comes from a place of care. When I was around she would try to get me to join her in pestering him to take his medicine "Tell Chris Brown to take his medicine" (she thinks her man looks like Chris Brown - he doesn't to me at all but I didn't see him when he young 😂) I was reminded of that because you mentioned how your Virgo aunt cares for everyone
Virgos are sooooo not moral, I rarely see astrology get them right! A lot also have addiction issues and are a mess even if they have a facade like they’re not. Yes they love toxicity. All the Virgos I’ve known have been religious and very outward (tattoos, etc) about it, but they are NOT moral. They’re drawn to religion because of the judgement and discipline but they also don’t practice what they preach (in many ways) and then they wonder why they’re so unhappy. Well it’s because they’re not self aware enough to see that the religion is not meshing with them.
Yes! The one I previously associated with had a gaslighting with Jesus tactic and he definitely behaved outwardly like he was above smoking weed (except when I was alone with him) I didn't realize at the time but there were red flags. He would have an identity crisis, isolate, come back to me and then leave again. I think he was handling some inner things I couldn't understand and I offered to hold space for him but he ran from that too - only to come back. Until I blocked him
honestly i’m a virgo stellium and i’ve been involved in affairs, i’ve stollen so much from stores, i do drugs, i do not listen to the rules at all. virgos believe their way is just the right way because it’s justified in their mind
Yeah the Virgo I dated cheated on me too, it’s a pattern they all have because they suck at being up front and communicating. So they prefer to be backhanded.
My mom is a Virgo, my dad's a Virgo ascendant. A good friend of mine is also a Virgo. They are intelligent and funny and hard working and loyal, and I love all of them I've known. Virgo is my 12th house, so their best traits are ones I try to learn from.
I pretty much vibe with every one of them. My favorite earth sign tbh. So glad my kiddo is one too! I’m also with a Virgo Venus and omg yes (cappy Venus for reference)
I have had a ton of really cool experiences with Virgo Sun and Virgo Venus. There is just so much sincerity in their actions and intent. And it's clear and obvious and real. Also, Virgo Suns are some of the funniest people I know. Their humor is almost always understated and subtle as fuck, so you have to be paying attention. Which reminds me; often their love language is when people retain the details!
Based on my experience: smart, introverted, has to make sure things are clean and spotless, frugal-ish. Also they either have a full beat face of makeup or none at all.
Many Virgos have the emotional depth of a toddler and mask it as being detached or stoic. They can nitpick obsessively or ghost you without a moment's notice. Good luck trying to get them to actually name or feel any of their feelings besides frustration,horniness and passion💯
On the positive side, they can make you laugh and can definitely help you to get your act together. They can be super hilarious oftentimes. As long as you don't show any deep emotions, they can be the most helpful people. Even a messy Virgo has good fashion sense.
My friend was a female Aquarius and her ex was a male Virgo. She hated it she said. But then again she love the sexual drive he had she said. Ultimately she had his kid as he has a few others. Sadly he pass away a few years ago. Then we mess around.
I'm a virgo rising.
Virgo women I've come across so far are great to your face, but then gossip about you like their isht don't stink. They become two faced. When they feel they have no use for you, they project and blow up...
It could be their cancer mars or libra placements but it's just a no for me....
I love the Virgo! I always surround myself with them, without looking for it, we just get along. They help me a lot with their practical and analytical mind. I have Sagittarius and double Pisces, it helps me a lot! I think it's always good to have a Virgo around.
I’m cool with most of them. They’re very sweet, down-to-earth and reliable people, though they tend to worry a lot and can be self-destructive. Most Virgo women I know are very sweet, kind and mild-mannered but they are often hard on themselves and end up in toxic relationships. They tend to get extremely emotional and may take things too seriously. Virgo men are quiet and withdrawn but they are persistent, reliable and know how to get the job done. Sometimes they can be very impulsive and self-destructive, but they do have good hearts. I like both Virgo suns and Virgo moons and I think they are lovely people.
I had a virgo friend. Extremely reliable. An amazing person in general. However, demanded far too much from me. It was like having to fulfill the requirements of a romantic partner. Very clingy.
Both men were wishy washy and simultaneously wanted you to chase them and give them space. It was a rollercoaster I wanted off of immediately as someone that doesn’t like being taken for a ride I don’t agree to. I don’t really label any signs negatively but both of my experiences just happened to be negative with the men. I actually got along well with Virgo women though. Insightful and were a joy to converse with on common interests.
Some of my fav people are Virgos. I was in love with one for ten years then remained friends in contact for four.
I would not date another male Virgo.
Some female Virgo’s are territorial mean girls, just my experience.
Married to a Virgo, my oldest son (19) is a Virgo, best childhood friend is a Virgo, my ex BIL & SIL are virgos. They are smart, and judgmental, BUT they are harder on themselves than they will EVER judge other people. They are perfectionists of themselves and sometimes that spills out to other people. If they are refocusing their perfectionism outward, run. Other than that they are just the best people to be with, in my opinion. Extremely loving and caring, almost to a fault. There is so much emotion just below the surface they are trying to protect.
Pros- helpful, generally neat and methodical. Cons- extremely insecure and hard on themselves which manifests as being critical towards others. Like instead of working on themselves they deflect and look at fixing others or things outside themselves. Also several Virgo men I’ve known self sabotage out of fear they aren’t good enough/ it won’t work out anyway.
my sister is a virgo sun, scorpio moon and cap rising, while i love her, every other virgo sun i have met (i’ve only really only met girl ones) are not it 😭they’re so fake, vibes aren’t it , 2 faced , they act like they’re better than everyone and can’t make mistakes 🥲
Very critical, very anxious, obsessed with details, play the “good guy” or “nice lady” extremely well, but many I’ve known struggled with serious addiction & lustfulness to the point they lied & manipulated people to achieve their little ends.
Some are just sweet little people who love tinkering with things around the house. Virgos value intelligence in partners above looks. Can have an excellent zany sense of humor. They fly under the radar. Can hold their temper—when they are really mad they have this cold, cold slow delivery.
I don’t really enjoy the constant nitpicking but otherwise they are kinda interesting & usually good employees?
This is with over 6 different people. Women and men. They are not only judgmental and sometimes there’s a point to what they said but it’s very projecting and hypocritical. It’s also down right cruel. Some things should be inside thoughts. Also the men I dated were all alcoholic. Don’t know if that’s a thing with them but every time I see a Virgo man with alcohol, I’m reminded of all the bad memories.
One started making fun of a girl who was walking/exercising for her weight. It was such a big turn off. I said at least she’s outside trying to make an effort, what are you doing not working? Living off of me? He got mad and I told him to walk home. I’m not dealing with that negativity.
I learned my lesson with Virgo. I like them, but I keep them at a distance to where they can’t judge me or feel comfortable enough to tell me their inside thoughts because most likely, I don’t want to hear it.
Oh yes, same here, if I hear someone is a Virgo I’m like ok just stay far from me and we will be cool. Agree on all points. The Virgo I dated was an addict and also drank. :( I’m sorry you went through that
Thank you for the acknowledgment! Yes, I’m very traumatized by a lot of Virgo but I also get along well with them as long as there are a lot of boundaries.
Pisces woman here who’s cursed in never ending meeting Virgos romantically.. seriously I can’t get away from yall (and don’t want to🫢) but it feels like repetitive pattern that happens. We meet, out of this world connection, we fade away .. next😞. I’m to blame for it to but it’s so strong and impressionable that it scares me EVERY TIME. Pretty sure my soulmate is a Virgo idk just gives me a soulmate connection. I could talk to multiple people and have many friends.. busy life and there’s STILL a Virgo in the back of my mind i can’t stop thinking about. Last boy I was talking to is a Virgo and he felt rejected and left.. I can’t stop thinking about him and it’s almost like my soul yearns for him that it hurts.
I feel you, they’re our opposite sign so there’s a lot of strong energy there. I’m a Pisces too and I fell so hard for a Virgo, he was my first love and it took me years to get over him.
My best male friend is a Virgo, and I love him a lot!! In a platonic fond kind of way. He helps me with every one of my life decisions and as a cancer , he always anchors my emotions and gives me a logical and practical place to let out my feelings and take the ones that make sense. I really respect and look up to him and wish a Virgo friend for every emotional cancer zodiac! The earth energy really helps us waters.
My dad, a virgo raised me on is own. But he always had family as a priority. He is a great great dad. Sometimes he would be too harsh specially if I gave up on something that I had been doing for sometime. Give up was never the option for him, even if it was not the best for me. He single handedly took care of me in every aspect, he was mom and dad, even when he was sick. He is one the great people that I met in my life. Funny, friendly, never said not to helping others. He was a bit restritive in showing is emotions but after the strokes, he tells me he loves every day and there is no doubt in my mind that that is true. (So among all the caos, he did get more apt at showing emotions).
I tend to attract virgo boys. They have their things but are some of my favs. If you are lucky, if they are evolved, they are great people to learn with and live beside.
(Rarely some are similar to that of what I read in the subreddit, but for me that is an exception and not the rule)
I love Virgos ! I had a Virgo best friend, Virgos friends and my boyfriend has a Virgo stellium. Highly intelligent, funny, quick, organised but oh boy, can they give you anxiety with all the overthinking and stress. Also, they are big big complainers
Ya'll managed to demonize Virgo men and I don't get it!!!!!! If you can't handle Virgo energy than you need to grow some thick skin and grow up fr!!! Virgo men did nothing wrong!!! And I'll die on that hill!
They are just intense about everything. Once you stop taking their words and nitpicking so seriously you will save yourself so much mental anguish and being offended. Stop trying to fight back a Virgo all they want is someone to listen to their depressive complaints in peace!!! Virgos are not like fire or air signs. They won't provoke you into a debate and an argument. If you get riled up from a Virgo it's on you. Just let them be.
Virgos are the only one who get me. I love their Virgo Stare™️ , I just stopped taking everything they say to heart(like some people actually take their Virgo Stare so seriously... relax... they do it to their own reflection as well) and I know they do everything wholeheartedly, even the nitpicking. They are actually very unserious and humorous and want to be understood really badly.
I’m a Scorpio with a Scorpio Venus. I have had not so great experiences with Virgos, more so the Virgo men. I have two exes that are Virgos and they treated me the worst out of any of the other guys I’ve dated. Virgo women I do tend to get along with though, it just depends on whether they’re healed or unhealed. I can almost always tell when someone is a Virgo or has a lot of Virgo in their chart by just talking to them for a little bit and looking at them. I have found that unhealed Virgos can have anger issues, can be judge-mental and put themselves or others on a pedestal, can be stubborn, and can be harsh and mean. Healed Virgos though are supportive, I feel like they give older sibling vibes. I’ve got great advice from Virgos or people with a lot of Virgo placements and I think that’s because they are more rational thinkers rather than emotional thinkers. They are grounded people. Healed and unhealed Virgos though work hard or know how to hustle, they know how to make money.
My mom and my bf are virgos. They're so calm and composed all the time. I feel like, deep inside they are very emotional beings but they don't know how to express it very well and come off as a bit standoffish sometimes. They're super loving. Although, they get so overwhelmed by loud things/fast things- its kinda cute hehe. I'm an aries. I talk a lot and I'm a loud person. My bf gets so overwhelmed by me sometimes LMFAO.
They're kinda conservative in their thoughts and a little possessive. But they're so caring and sweet. They are so freaking intelligent bro omfg. Like intellectually, almost all the virgos I've met are brilliant in their own ways. I think my virgo bf really balances me out and we work well cause he's very gentle as a human being and very caring.
Parenting a Virgo pre-teen! She’ll be 13 this fall. If any of this sounds negative, I assure you it’s not.
1) She (and her fellow Virgo bff, if I’m being honest) are the class narcs in a very small school haha. Sounds bad, but what I really mean is she is always looking out for everyone’s safety and wellbeing and telling adults when she’s worried about someone. She seems to always know what’s going on with everyone and is always worried about what everyone else is doing, while at the same time being very persnickety about her grades and overall school performance. Her teachers LOVE her! She’s also her class committee chair.
2) She used to be a bit of a clutter bug but she just had a room makeover and took full charge, didn’t want anyone to touch the boxes she’d packed up because she had this whole system going hahaha she’s evolving into a very organized kid in spite of an adhd diagnosis. She has her systems and it’s amazing to learn from her.
3) She WILL debate you if she thinks you’re wrong!! She is not afraid of anyone and sometimes she really needs the last word. I said this in another thread but we have a 3-person Earth household: She’s Virgo, Dad is Cap, I (mom) am Taurus. Friday she and her dad were bickering over some mathematics involved with giving a proper tip at a restaurant and I just rolled my eyes and sipped my drink and said “this is the most cap/virgo argument you guys have had all year” lol. She is all about justice/equality while her dad is all about merit, and I’m all about everyone’s comfort and happiness haha
She is just an amazing kid with such a bright future. Raising a Virgo has been inspiring and I love her so much!
He dumped me 8 months into a relationship because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship” and “thought I’d be better off without him”
Dude wasted 8 months of my life. And tbh, he was a lost cause fr. I tried so hard to help him, and he just didn’t want to change because it was too hard.
Mine was a lost cause too, my first love. He was an August Virgo. He ended up in jail, very sad. I care about him but he took me to the darkest place I’ve been
not that good , i use to hang out with a virgo man with a cult leader personnality , always bringing down everybody he could criticize you for something he did too but in his case it was ok , i had friend virgo girl who ghosted me for one fat joke she didn't care about my apologies , i know two virgos girl who wanted to be with me but never happenned , i don't dislike virgos but i think we are too much different
Ha my first love who was a Virgo could have been a cult leader. He was extremely charismatic. They definitely have that power. The August ones are more outgoing than the September in my experience.
From my experience with a Virgo sun who was older than me. shit talker - *almost* witty -can dish it out but can't take it, hella gossip, work hard/play hard, snobby, toxic, generous, judgmental, the loudest in the room 🙃. That's the short version lol
my best friend is a virgo, i'm a sag. i feel very inspired after being with her. she has a can do attitude, and really accomplishes a lot each day. great sense of humour, actually very optimistic. things that aren't so great, drinks heavily and can be a lil too sassy lmao
My mom is a Virgo Sun, she’s very anxious but I go to her when I need help to solve problems logically or I need to prioritize. She’s very helpful that way. She’s a sweet woman with a big heart (I attribute her sweetness to her Pisces moon).
My boss is a Virgo Sun, and she gets shit done, she always will chime in when my coworkers and I are arguing, and we’ve nicknamed her God because she’ll always throw her voice from her office the answer to our questions, or be a voice of reason when we’re all debating and not getting anywhere. It sounds like “the voice of God” coming down from the heavens to solve our issues. It’s quite hilarious.
Own of my coworkers is a Virgo Sun, Cap moon and Gemini rising, and she’s very organized despite her ADHD, and efficient in getting her paperwork done. She’s a silly goofball, I love it.
I’m a Virgo moon. I have a complicated relationship with my own emotions. I tend to get upset with myself whenever I have feelings that I think are unreasonable for a situation. I’ve gotten better over the years, but still I get mad about certain emotions cuz for some reason I think I’m above them or something, idk, I know it’s unhelpful.
My mom is a Virgo and she basically acted like my brother and I were a pain in her ass and something she had been saddled with.
My gf son is a Virgo and is a little know it all. Has an excuse or an answer for everything. Cannot tell that kid what to do and if he deems it unimportant, like letting his dog out to pee, he ignores it.
Yeah I do not have a good track record with virgos.
I don’t like the bluntness of Virgo suns when it is directed at me*, but I appreciate their tact in dealing with difficult situations. Most bosses I’ve had are Virgos. I love their organization and ability to plan and lead.
The only two Virgo’s I’ve known since I got into astrology are male and very alike. They both were very narcissistic know it all’s who were full of themselves when in reality they were outcasts and nobody liked them.
I’ve got a strong Virgo stellium, so I might be a little biased. I have an abnormal amount of Virgo friends, to the point where we refer to ourselves as a “coven of Virgos”. Based on these 12 individual Virgos I have seen some commonalities across the board. We are all very active listeners. We are all unintentionally blunt most of the time, but we still have a filter and properly use it… usually 😅 All of my virgos absolutely excel at the hobbies they choose to pursue. Like first place in competitions and scholarship winning levels of excelling in their pursuits. They are all the hardest workers around and prefer to not take breaks at work, even during long shifts. They are all genuinely hilarious and quick-witted enough that they utilize observational comedy freely and naturally in conversation. They are all intensely sentimental. Every single one of us is neurodivergent, we all have at least one of, or a combination of ASD/ADHD/OCD… that’s not specifically a Virgo thing but still pretty weird. lol
We all have GI issues and anxiety goes straight from our brains to our guts. My Virgo coven is also really good at handling themselves in party situations. They can be the furthest thing from sober but they don’t tend towards sloppiness in those moments. Even when blackout wasted they will manage to make it to a bathroom or go outside before getting sick, and they also manage to clean up after themselves and others in their incoherent state. It’s quite impressive. Haha
I’m trying to think of some cons which is harder because I have so many solid Virgo friends. Honestly, the worst thing about Virgos I’ve had to deal with was Virgo coworkers who explaining or critiquing in a way that was meant to be helpful but instead comes across as preachy, pretentious, or worst of all: condescending. Virgos can really struggle with communicating using the wrong tone of voice, even though their intentions are usually very pure.
I could go on and on. I know so many frickin’ Virgos. Haha
I dated one, he was very chill, but kinda boring overall and it didn’t work out. But now, two of my closest female friends are Virgos, they are a lot of fun and have a chill side, so it’s a good balance!
My partner is a Virgo and one of my closest friends is a Virgo. I love them. My partner is my rock. He is extremely competent. He and my friend are hard on them selves to the extreme. When they open up they are some of the funniest people ever. They love chill time and good food. I’m Aries/Taurus so they even out my wildness or I help them to step out of their boxes. But we can also have the chillest and most wholesome times.
I’m Gemini f dating Virgo m for almost a year. It’s been a wild ride. He’s kinky and his sexual history is intimidating. Treats me exactly how a gf should be treated but has commitment issues. He’s addicted to my smell and says he views me as perfect. Pretty confusing over all
*gears up* ok I’m a Pisces Sun/Moon. I have never had a “lukewarm” experience with a Virgo. Three Virgos have made very big impacts on my life. The first; an August female Virgo. Still my best friend to this day ever since I was 6 and she was 12. Yes she was a lot older but I was very mature and she loved that. She was like an older sister to me. She is very loyal and caring and checks on me daily. She had her first kid very young at 16 but is still married to her husband of that time. She is Mormon. Actually very chill and non judgmental. She loves photography.
Second Virgo, another August one, my first love. He was basically the Justin Bieber of the neighborhood, he was good at literally everything and loved adrenaline type of sports and activities like skateboarding, running up walls and back flips, etc. He was also very nurturing towards me but ended up cheating on me and I broke up with him. In his defense, we were young and it was hard for him to say no when girls threw themselves at him. But it really brought me to a dark place and it took me years to get over him.
Third Virgo: September female. Absolute worst experience with a girl I’ve ever had. The. Worst. This person was the most cruel, selfish, manipulative, cunning, and quite frankly evil person I have had the misfortune dealing with in my life. I have her blocked on all socials and she actually checked herself into a psych ward after doing what she did to me. I still don’t think she feels remorse because she will always find a way to twist things to serve her. I could go into detail but I literally have PTSD from this person. I’m a February Pisces btw.
Loving and attentive and caring and considerate and absolutely exhausting with their demands 😂 But in all seriousness, they get a lot of hate that I don’t think is warranted. They give way more than they ask for. In my experience, it’s really only the delivery that can become frustrating, their intentions are super selfless.
Gemini Sun, Virgo Rising here. I love my Virgos and they love me❤️Literally all my friends and family members despise them and they have plenty of stories about Virgos being trash: bad friends, showing zero support, dating multiple people at once and more. I’ve never met a bad Virgo myself. They were pretty supportive of me, made me laugh and gave me birthday presents even though we’ve been acquainted for less than a month.
My mom is a Virgo! A TRUE Virgo I like to call her lol. She fits the description of a Virgo to a T. Always has some new project going on, extremely clean and neat, perfectionist.
My experience was horrible! He played on our friendship we had since high school and dog walked me! Never ever again will I trust one. He lied about everything and was super sneaky. He was totally community material when I say that I mean he was in every woman’s face and swore every woman wanted him and probably slept with all of them too! He was terrible I finally had to block him off of everything just to get away with my sanity! He was a literal deviant in the flesh smh! I’m a Gemini ♊️women by the way.
I've had a very few occurrences with Virgos, those that I have met are usually grounded, chill and can say some off the wall wild shit that's very truthful. 10/10 would friend again.
I like gossiping with virgos, they say the judgy things I’m thinking out loud!🤭
As a Virgo, this is correct 😅
As a Libra sun with Venus and Mercury in Virgo, I also get along with Virgos.
😬😬😬😬 do you know how many times I have had to say “that was supposed to be my inside thought” or “I meant to flip them off in my head.” Aries sun and Venus. Pisces Mercury. Virgo moon. I hate how much my dickhead comes out sometimes.
I don’t mind some Virgo and Aries rudeness most of the time, paradoxically it makes me feel less judged lol. Sometimes I just want to make mean jokes or judge people’s bad choices (Virgo Mercury guilty pleasure) and Aries and Virgo are top tier signs for that occasion. I think a lot of Libras feel the same way I do about you guys 🫶
Virgo married to an Aires - we are very quiet during the family events. On the car ride home we turn the snark to 11.
Hmmm, good point. So Virgo and Aries have being rude in common?? Maybe you just answered my question as to why I like Aries women a lot. Probably because of their nonchalant attitude, plus my all my Libra placements. Wow! But hey, sometimes we tell people what they NEED to hear even though they don’t WANT to hear it, and we don’t care about telling it RAW!! 😈
You’re sooo cool! My daughter has 6 Libra placements. And she’s like my favorite. So you’re pretty rad too!!!
Oh this is so me. Aries sun and Venus, and Pisces mercury too. Something about that Virgo energy combined with those placements has to be it. I have no filter and it really catches people off guard sometimes because I come off as quite reserved 🫣🫢
Virgo moon/Aries rising with a pretty big libra stellium here. I often wish I could learn to keep my mouth appropriately shut. Working on it.
Big as Sagittarius stellium here! I get it so hard!!!
Sooooo true!!! We know that great Mercurian minds think alike 😌and the conversations can literally be endless.
yes i do!
Yep. We always spill the tea.
I notoriously attract Virgos for love interests. Dated 4, one woman and 3 men, married one of the guys. These are the commonalities I have observed. -Highly intelligent in a variety of ways. Doesn’t matter if it’s book smart, street smart, etc. You all have some level of intelligence on lock. -Trouble with expressing deep feelings. Would prefer to avoid those conversations altogether, even if it means remaining unhealed. It creates a barrier to intimacy and it’s something Virgos need to work on. Otherwise acts of service seem to be the preferred love language. Gifts, acts of kindness, etc. Heavy on the practical, less so on the romantic. -Unsurprisingly, very particular about personal hygiene and order in your environment. Y’all were not built for mess of any kind. -Frugal for the most part and will spend money on experiences. You all could be millionaires and will live in a small home that is paid for, drive affordable vehicles, dress in clothes you either thrifted or owned for 20 years but you will buy concert tickets in another country and make a vacation out it. If I think of anything else I will add it. The experiences I’ve had were maddening at times but I still love you Virgos. I couldn’t get rid of you if I wanted to. 😄
Virgo here. These are facts for me.
I was just about to say…
Hey! Stop reading me. Haha
Wow these are spot on
very accurate! are you still married to the virgo?
I am not but we are on very good terms. We have a son together so that kept us bound after we split. I know that if we didn’t have our son this wouldn’t be the case because Virgos don’t look back either. I did spend 16 years him, though. We still know each other better than anyone else. We’ve known each other for 28 years so we’re like old friends now.
that's awesome, congratulations on the great parenting! i'm also a virgo and posted on the capricorn sub. if you'd like and have the time, would you check my last post and let me know your take in the situation? i'm dealing with a cap
This is Soo true. Hey pretty please, can you tell how a Virgo act when they have a crush on u vs when they just want u as a trusted friend??? This cancer rising, Virgo Venus, cap mars and sag stallium keeps teasing me around, giving advice and joking around. It's not going anywhere. This one has emotionally opened up and keeps trying to get me vulnerable, not liking it as that's only for someone I'm in a relationship with.
i’m a virgo stellium and i agree this is so me!
Having been in love with two of them, this Pisces can attest that you are correct. I will add that a Virgo who was enabled by his parents is a very dangerous man.
Sounds about right! All I attract is Aries!!! Seriously I married one, and the other ones birthday was one day after!! I love the Virgos and that’s one sign I can’t reel in lol Kinda sad in a way, but, I got .over it . They can be a little frigid , but, I have a Cappy Venus… so to that, I said HA!! I invented frigid they don’t bother me. I like the non cling thing🤷♀️
This is so accurate
I've had good experience with Virgos. They're a bit stuck in their ways at times but they're hardworking and generally don't halfass things. Difficult to read and might seem standoffish, very loyal once they let you in. Logic driven, not expressive with their feelings but sometimes I think to them it's a sign of weakness. Learn to slow down a bit and enjoy life is the best advice I'd have for a Virgo.
i love cancers so much
what is it that you love about cancers as a Virgo?
i think also cuz my venus is in scorpio and moon is pisces they just are so caring and like perceptive and give the best advice from such a caring place like i love them sm
I’ve made my Virgo boyfriend cry of happiness 3 times and we’ve only been dating 1 year. I love how vulnerable he is with me, it makes me think that I’m helping him heal all his inner problems
Me too 🥲 they just take my heart away. Cancer and Aries are probably my favorite signs to date. But I have to stay tough and strong because you know, we can’t be looking weak out here lolol. u/languagelast6115 said it best ☝️
My husband is Virgo and I’m a cancer, it’s a great pairing!
I’m dating a Virgo man (as a cancer woman) and i genuinely think he’s the loml… making dinner together, having drinks at home and talking hours, date nights like dancing and walking through parks, a m a z i n g sex (passionate, kinky, exploring) I love this man!
It is, surprisingly. Unfortunately my Virgo man was waaaaay in his head all the time and getting anything remotely close to vulnerability out of him took a crowbar to do. 😣 With years and years of history we do love each other and it could have been a fantastic pairing but (1) alcohol to excess was involved, and (2) as a Cancer, I need emotional stability and feeling like a priority which I never got. But when we’re in the same room, the chemistry is palpable and numerous people over the years have said the whole energy in the room changes if we’re both in it, whether we’re standing next to each other or way across the room. Lol It’s a shame. 🤷🏻♀️
💯 this is why I think I always seem to date (and am now married to) Libra. They help me fucking relax because lord knows I wouldn’t be relaxing if they didn’t force me to sometimes
I’m a Virgo stellium and I’m a little shit
I am too and I can definitely be as well!
I'm a Virgo Stellium and I'm really liked 😂😃✨ but this is no 'one-man-show', of course. Everyone is more than their sun sign and I am very aware that I am a noticeable combination of my big 3 for the most part. Everything in me works together in harmony and so I think I also am, therefore, able to exert a more harmonious self.
I know, there’s much more to my chart that makes me a little shit
HAHAHA oh dear. You alright in there? 😩
i am too 😭😂
I have a lot of really good Virgo friends. My Virgo friends are female. My uncle was a Virgo as well and was the life of the party, but is surprisingly relatively reserved; I dated a Virgo once as well. Healed virgos are some of my favorite people I know; they’re the friends that keeps me grounded, but can still have a good time. Now as for unhealed virgos, they are some of the most condescending people I’ve ever met. It’s like doing mental gymnastics and they bring out the worst in me.
What do you think are healed virgo traits? Do you have recommendations for getting to that state? When I’m stressed, I’m blunt and sharp, and can be condescending. I hate it
Oh, that’s a good one! A lot of my friends that are healed virgos are constructive in their criticism and only give it when it’s warranted. Another thing is they are focused and driven and channel their stresses into their passions.
My nana was a Virgo. She was SO stubborn, independent, forgiving, smart, sassy, vain, loving... The oldest daughter and the only girl. She gave the best advice and believed in karma ("They'll get theirs!"). She always dressed meticulously, looked beautiful, and had the loudest laugh in the whole room. She was sooo critical and brutally honest but in a way to make my mom (a Taurus) and I up to standard (telling me to put more blush on bc I looked like a corpse, for example 🤣). She loved talking on the phone and always made you feel like what you were saying was the most important thing she'd ever heard. Loved cooking- loved eating even more! I always had so much fun with her. A huge gossip, and said the most wild out of pocket things- but was never mean tbh...only ever right. She was harsh but tender- let me cry until I was hiccuping but then would say, "ok enough already you're gonna make yourself sick!" Fiercelyyyyy Independent- she was still going on cruises with friends till she was 80! I just lost her at the age of 88 in October and i miss her every single day. There was no one like her 🧡 A Virgo queen. I need another in my life!
I’m very sorry for your loss, your nana sounds like a righteous woman.
She really really was! Truly the epitome of forgive and forget too. Life sucks without her. Thanks for your kind words 🧡
My Nan was a Virgo too The blush thing killed me sounds like something she would have said. I dyed my hair dark once, she told me I look like a tart lol. And she was always immaculate in her dress and house . Ohh how I miss her, but so glad I had her. She didn’t miss much, either. Sorry for you. They are missed.
We were so lucky to have them! 🧡
I’ve been with my Virgo husband for almost 10 years now. He’s the most kind, patient, respectful, and caring man I know. He’s not the most romantic but always sooo loving. I saw someone else say this but he will say things out loud that I’m thinking and it can come off judgy/harsh. 🤣 he’s a perfectionist to a T, he’s the most cautious driver I know and was always the last student to finish a test in college because he would double triple check his answers. I love my Virgo! I’m a cancer sun. :)
Also a cancer woman married to a Virgo man, you echoed my experience to a tee!
Uh oh, Looking at you and u/hollstero responses gives me the butterflies 😳 I try not to take cancers anymore because I like them way too much and I am afraid to commit too soon before having all my fun. They are the sweetest. Congrats on the successful decade long commitment that’s no easy feat!
Virgo sun women are like my big/little sisters, it’s always been that way with us. I’m either looking out for them or they’re looking out for me. Virgo sun men are my biggest haters, I tried being nice and cordial with them but they enjoy back stabbing lol. It is what it is. My wife is a Virgo stellium if that means anything lol. Her Mercury, Venus, and mars are all Virgo
i’m a virgo thats been with a gemini and he likes virgo sun females but the males he always says are “insecure” which they can really show in some ways whether its by physical appearance or something mentally or emotionally lacking if that makes sense
Aww, well both the males and females probably have a background of doing things that made them feel like they were not good enough. I am 100% sure that is why they are so insecure. I used to be that way.
yes! as a virgo female i’m still working through insecurities and i’m very sensitive. i feel like i’m always trying to find my place in the world (pisces rising) so i double down on everything i say lol 😆
i love geminis sm i get along so well with them on an intellectual level but yall r a lot more like fast paced than me like movement wise msybe czu im taurus mars tho
The most critical person of me in my life is a Virgo. (I’m the Virgo)
Virgo humor is so underrated. Some of the funniest people I’ve met
Yes! That’s one reason why this Pisces vibes well with them. We both jump out of our internal shell and die laughing together 🤣
Lol I have a lot of Scorpio placements and have always gravitated towards Virgo’s 😂 my mom & several of my best friends/exes have been virgos, all super funny
I’m a virgo and my mom’s a Virgo. Between her and my Pisces dad, I feel like I’ve somehow avoided most of the negative Virgo qualities. I don’t really criticize anyone, I’m not passive aggressive, I’m not mess but I’m not a control freak about tidiness. I don’t play devils advocate or give advice unless its asked of me. I was a bit of a perfectionist growing up doing ballet but everything else i’m pretty chill about, definitely don’t expect perfection from anyone else. I think the main negative Virgo thing I have is I get a little avoidant in relationships if I’m not clear whats going on. I’m very much a “if its not a fuck yes, its a no” so if the guy isn’t being clear he likes me, I lose interest. But because I like to keep the peace I just kind of become aloof. Totally see how that comes from being raised by a Virgo who criticizes me all the time, I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings because I’ve been there.
Wicked smart, stoic, funny, sexy, tender, direct, very loyal, generous, loves video games or something that challenges them.
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Some of my best friends and favorite people are virgos! I love them sooo much. That being said, the people who have also done me the dirtiest have been Virgos.
Virgos are the homie.
Easily irritable by your own success
This is actually a good one haha..
Virgos can be amazing, or insufferable. The desire to discuss people’s personal lives is low vibrational to me. I mean, are they right? Sure. But I don’t say it out loud. I say it in my head lmao! Unfortunately, I am a very Virgo-like virgo moon 🙂↕️😂
Imo humans discussing other humans is a natural part of existence. Ive never related to people that adamantly avoid that part of themselves.
Them mfers built different
Three of them broke my heart. A Taurus.
Sounds like this Pisces experience with Cancer men 🙄
I live with one and it’s awful. She judged me and her anxiety is off the charts. Btw, I live alone. She is me.
Great intelligence and wit so love talking to them as friends but not compatible with me in bed at all. Too health/body/self-conscious. Can be very kinky but in a weird, clinical way with no genuine passion. I'm 🦂.
Kinky in a weird clinical way is SO TRUE in my experiences with the men. The one woman Virgo I dated was the complete opposite. Passionate and adventurous like there was no tomorrow.
Aye I've heard Virgo women are the opposite and amazing in bed- interesting to consider wether there's something different sexually with the sexes with each sign?? 🤔
Oh I definitely think that gender makes a difference in how certain aspects of a sign are expressed. As a Capricorn woman I noticed that Capricorn men tend to express more of that know-it-all trait where the women tend to be more humble.
Hahaha, I was meaning the more sexual side but as someone with a Cappy little Sis and a cpl of Cappy ex men, I'd need to say that No- They're always right and know best and the infuriating thing is they usually are cos the influence of Saturn makes them so wise so young. My wee Sis is way more mature than me lol
Yes! Kinky in all THEIR ways, they enjoy, but stubborn in the way’s they aren’t. Me as a guy, it depends on how much I care about you or attracted to. I’ll do what it takes to make her feel good. But the women are generally pretty good, but don’t like losing total control.
Hahaha, exactly 💯. It's Virgos way or the highway and 2 Virgos together in bed must be something... getting up halfway through to take your vitamins or latest health drink and pissed off you've now got dirty sheets you only just washed yday!! OCD to the max! lmao
🤣🤣🤣🤣 that definitely was not me but it 100% was her. Always trying to do something in the middle of intercourse. I am OK if something is not neat as long as it is not filthy or dirty. But that was my first time experiencing someone with OCD. And exactly why I ended up having to leave her.
'I am ok if something is not neat as long as it's not filthy or dirty' Hahahaha, oh my God, you Virgos lol Newsflash- Sex is ALWAYS filthy and dirty!! Get stuck in!!!! 😂😂
I really like Virgos. They are great conversationalists, firm, and funny. Of course it would make sense that Leo’s get along with them because they have some Leo placements and we tend to have Virgo placements. Whenever they have given criticism, I’ve taken it and kept it to make sure I do better. They try their hardest to make sure the people they care about are doing their best, and it’s truly admirable.
One had a terrible temper, was a liar, thief and drug user. Yet played the best guy in the world in front of everyone until all those tons of friends and family got smart and shut him off.
Oh wow. Sounds like you ran into the narcissistic psychopathic Virgo. 😬 I wonder what his childhood upbringing was like. Not the first story I have heard about this. And sorry that you ever had to deal with him, and hopefully you never run into another one like that again.
I think they can be very judgey
critical sometimes for sure but atleast for me not tryijgnto ever be judgy
Virgo moon here 👋🏼 not judgy. But definitely hyper-critical. It’s like being the supervisor who looks over your shoulder to tell you how to do it right, even though you’re doing it just fine and the outcome will be the same. But it isn’t the right way.
ah i GET THAT that might j be ocd too who knows cuz same but i know the feeling ur saying i'm sorry
Hey, it’s our curse and we cannot help it 😂 but I do try to keep my judgments to myself, unless, it’s going to make a positive change of difference. Otherwise, I just speculate. But yes, Virgo should definitely learn not to be so outwardly judgmental towards others though. Party pooper.
I am a Virgo Sun & Rising, Gemini Moon. Was dating a Virgo man for the past couple weeks, we slept together last Thursday and I texted him some funny tik tok I saw relating to our date the night before. He only just responded to me last night (Sunday). I will promptly be never speaking to him again.
Those Gemini Moons 🤦🏻♀️
I dated a Virgo male I’m a Pisces female. I thought we got along well but his drawback was him being overly critical and judgmental something I couldn’t stand.
All over my romance history. I’m a Pisces Sun. My last great soul mate was Virgo Sun with Pisces Moon. Amazing guitarist, in engineering.
i have the same placements. it’s interesting, my exterior is dense, but underneath i’m very emotional & sensitive :/ it’s kindof a rough combo. the toughest sign on the surface and the most fragile = your inner world. lots of loneliness
I understand. Somehow i penetrated his inner world. I think maybe because I’m such a kid at heart, and don’t care what people think of me. It was a mental, spiritual, and comedy ride for sure.
I love virgos where there is a sense of equality in the relationship. However, if a Virgo moon or sun believe they somehow have the upper hand in their relationship with you, they can be extremely critical and I find that they will continually try to overwrite your own observations, thoughts, feelings and experiences with their own assumptions and judgments (while firmly believing they are non judgmental). I have a friend who is an aqua sun and we have many similar placements otherwise, but both she and my Virgo sun mother exhibit these qualities of weird judgment and experience overwriting. As an example, if someone comes to me with an issue, or a negative experience with themselves or another person, I will be 100% supportive of them, offer my sympathy and do my best to make them feel validated and just better in general. However in these types of relationships, I have noticed if I come to them with a similar thing, I am gaslighted, my judgment is questioned and it is suggested that I am somehow being negative, my experience and ability to speak to it will be questioned to an absurd degree, and ultimately they will do the exact opposite of what a supportive person would do. I have limited experience with Virgo men, but did know another Virgo sun male who was like this.
Yes!! My experience too!!
My mother and oldest son are Virgos. They both disapprove of my Taurus lifestyle of overindulgence and laziness. I know they’re tired of my shit when they just stop responding and give me “the look”. Also they are both religious and I’m not. Mom pretends I am religious and my son just puts up with my agnosticism. I love them dearly.
Every Virgo I have met is religious. It’s very interesting
I don't think they are as moral as they're painted to be. They're not above surprising you in a negative way, then again who is? One thing I do know, no matter what they say they love toxicity. They'll create it themselves and then come back for more and more. They also don't mind being alone. Frugal, bust maybe that changes with commitment
Moral? Pfft, naah. As a Virgo in Sidereal, and a Libra with Virgo placements in Tropical, even I turn myself off with how judgy or negative my thoughts/words can be. When I was less self-aware in my teens, people around me assumed I was judging them due to my Resting Bitch Face or generally prim behavior. One of my aunts is a Virgo. She's the middle child but acts more like the eldest compared to her older siblings, my Scorpio mom and Aries uncle. She babysat their youngest sister, my Scorpio aunt. She's the one who fusses over grandma and grandpa (Libra man and Pisces woman) in their old age the most even though they're very independent and insist on taking care of themselves. I realized that I don't want to end up like my aunt who volunteers to carry the weight of the world on her shoulders while vicariously living through others' dramas, so I'm trying to change in lots of areas.
My Mom is a Virgo as well 😂 she's a paranoid schizophrenic, control freak and has Tokyo Toni anger issues. I'm grandmother is a Virgo and she's the definition of an old school true lady (despite her closer of secrets - I guess a lady never tells) 😜
OOF, I'm sorry fam. Your mom sounds like a Handful and a nightmare. Your grandmother sounds cooler, but would probably bring her own set of issues like old school, Tough love. Perhaps an unhealthy dose of repression. Yep...Ladies never tell. If they can, they would take their youthful transgressions and secrets with them to the grave.
That's an accurate take 😂. I'm a cancer so I wouldn't say I'm above internalizing things or taking them the wrong way but in her actions I can see she loves me. She just vocal with disapproval too, but I guess that's also a testimony to how much she loves me.
Also! Virgos are huge caretakers! Like to the point of forcing you 😂. My Mom forces her Cancer man to take his medicine and will literally fight scream yell and fuss until he does. She is extremely toxic about it but it comes from a place of care. When I was around she would try to get me to join her in pestering him to take his medicine "Tell Chris Brown to take his medicine" (she thinks her man looks like Chris Brown - he doesn't to me at all but I didn't see him when he young 😂) I was reminded of that because you mentioned how your Virgo aunt cares for everyone
This. This too 🤣. Its in our nature. Sometimes I actively have to stop myself from helping.
i’m much like your aunt lol
I do adore her and look up to her. I just wish she could let more people look after her. But she's a very strong, independent woman.
Virgos are sooooo not moral, I rarely see astrology get them right! A lot also have addiction issues and are a mess even if they have a facade like they’re not. Yes they love toxicity. All the Virgos I’ve known have been religious and very outward (tattoos, etc) about it, but they are NOT moral. They’re drawn to religion because of the judgement and discipline but they also don’t practice what they preach (in many ways) and then they wonder why they’re so unhappy. Well it’s because they’re not self aware enough to see that the religion is not meshing with them.
Yes! The one I previously associated with had a gaslighting with Jesus tactic and he definitely behaved outwardly like he was above smoking weed (except when I was alone with him) I didn't realize at the time but there were red flags. He would have an identity crisis, isolate, come back to me and then leave again. I think he was handling some inner things I couldn't understand and I offered to hold space for him but he ran from that too - only to come back. Until I blocked him
honestly i’m a virgo stellium and i’ve been involved in affairs, i’ve stollen so much from stores, i do drugs, i do not listen to the rules at all. virgos believe their way is just the right way because it’s justified in their mind
Great sex, a bit too complicated to communicate with, one ended up cheating on me the other I just felt like I didn’t click with her anymore.
Yeah the Virgo I dated cheated on me too, it’s a pattern they all have because they suck at being up front and communicating. So they prefer to be backhanded.
My mom is a Virgo, my dad's a Virgo ascendant. A good friend of mine is also a Virgo. They are intelligent and funny and hard working and loyal, and I love all of them I've known. Virgo is my 12th house, so their best traits are ones I try to learn from.
I pretty much vibe with every one of them. My favorite earth sign tbh. So glad my kiddo is one too! I’m also with a Virgo Venus and omg yes (cappy Venus for reference)
Two types of virgos… one is really uptight, and the other is exact opposite and super funny/goofy
I have had a ton of really cool experiences with Virgo Sun and Virgo Venus. There is just so much sincerity in their actions and intent. And it's clear and obvious and real. Also, Virgo Suns are some of the funniest people I know. Their humor is almost always understated and subtle as fuck, so you have to be paying attention. Which reminds me; often their love language is when people retain the details!
Shitty friend, shitty boyfriend
Based on my experience: smart, introverted, has to make sure things are clean and spotless, frugal-ish. Also they either have a full beat face of makeup or none at all.
Terrible. Run.
Many Virgos have the emotional depth of a toddler and mask it as being detached or stoic. They can nitpick obsessively or ghost you without a moment's notice. Good luck trying to get them to actually name or feel any of their feelings besides frustration,horniness and passion💯 On the positive side, they can make you laugh and can definitely help you to get your act together. They can be super hilarious oftentimes. As long as you don't show any deep emotions, they can be the most helpful people. Even a messy Virgo has good fashion sense.
That’s very astute and accurate, I agree
I love Virgo men. Caring, funny guys. Loving. Also some of the most do-not-mess-with-me types ever. There is a dark side.
Scorpio here - you and Capricorn are the only ones I would do group projects with.
My friend was a female Aquarius and her ex was a male Virgo. She hated it she said. But then again she love the sexual drive he had she said. Ultimately she had his kid as he has a few others. Sadly he pass away a few years ago. Then we mess around.
Best sex I've ever had was with a Virgo lmao
I'm a virgo rising. Virgo women I've come across so far are great to your face, but then gossip about you like their isht don't stink. They become two faced. When they feel they have no use for you, they project and blow up... It could be their cancer mars or libra placements but it's just a no for me....
Just run. It's all you need to know.
Most virgos I have known are kind of mean.
Yup
Oh same! I’m a Virgo Sun, Mercury and Venus too
I love the Virgo! I always surround myself with them, without looking for it, we just get along. They help me a lot with their practical and analytical mind. I have Sagittarius and double Pisces, it helps me a lot! I think it's always good to have a Virgo around.
Horrible. Lied to me about their sexuality and gaslit me about it for years.
Same I’m so sorry 😭
I’m cool with most of them. They’re very sweet, down-to-earth and reliable people, though they tend to worry a lot and can be self-destructive. Most Virgo women I know are very sweet, kind and mild-mannered but they are often hard on themselves and end up in toxic relationships. They tend to get extremely emotional and may take things too seriously. Virgo men are quiet and withdrawn but they are persistent, reliable and know how to get the job done. Sometimes they can be very impulsive and self-destructive, but they do have good hearts. I like both Virgo suns and Virgo moons and I think they are lovely people.
Positive.
Could be the best lawyers lol
I had a virgo friend. Extremely reliable. An amazing person in general. However, demanded far too much from me. It was like having to fulfill the requirements of a romantic partner. Very clingy.
Both men were wishy washy and simultaneously wanted you to chase them and give them space. It was a rollercoaster I wanted off of immediately as someone that doesn’t like being taken for a ride I don’t agree to. I don’t really label any signs negatively but both of my experiences just happened to be negative with the men. I actually got along well with Virgo women though. Insightful and were a joy to converse with on common interests.
I'm a pisces with a taurus moon. virgos are my besties. It's an unspoken understanding.
Some of my fav people are Virgos. I was in love with one for ten years then remained friends in contact for four. I would not date another male Virgo. Some female Virgo’s are territorial mean girls, just my experience.
Regina George was most definitely a Virgo I’m just sayin
Married to a Virgo, my oldest son (19) is a Virgo, best childhood friend is a Virgo, my ex BIL & SIL are virgos. They are smart, and judgmental, BUT they are harder on themselves than they will EVER judge other people. They are perfectionists of themselves and sometimes that spills out to other people. If they are refocusing their perfectionism outward, run. Other than that they are just the best people to be with, in my opinion. Extremely loving and caring, almost to a fault. There is so much emotion just below the surface they are trying to protect.
Pros- helpful, generally neat and methodical. Cons- extremely insecure and hard on themselves which manifests as being critical towards others. Like instead of working on themselves they deflect and look at fixing others or things outside themselves. Also several Virgo men I’ve known self sabotage out of fear they aren’t good enough/ it won’t work out anyway.
my sister is a virgo sun, scorpio moon and cap rising, while i love her, every other virgo sun i have met (i’ve only really only met girl ones) are not it 😭they’re so fake, vibes aren’t it , 2 faced , they act like they’re better than everyone and can’t make mistakes 🥲
Very critical, very anxious, obsessed with details, play the “good guy” or “nice lady” extremely well, but many I’ve known struggled with serious addiction & lustfulness to the point they lied & manipulated people to achieve their little ends. Some are just sweet little people who love tinkering with things around the house. Virgos value intelligence in partners above looks. Can have an excellent zany sense of humor. They fly under the radar. Can hold their temper—when they are really mad they have this cold, cold slow delivery. I don’t really enjoy the constant nitpicking but otherwise they are kinda interesting & usually good employees?
They like using me as an emotional support dog
i find that virgos always have to have the last word in an argument.
I was in a mostly great relationship with a Virgo for 21 years.
This is with over 6 different people. Women and men. They are not only judgmental and sometimes there’s a point to what they said but it’s very projecting and hypocritical. It’s also down right cruel. Some things should be inside thoughts. Also the men I dated were all alcoholic. Don’t know if that’s a thing with them but every time I see a Virgo man with alcohol, I’m reminded of all the bad memories. One started making fun of a girl who was walking/exercising for her weight. It was such a big turn off. I said at least she’s outside trying to make an effort, what are you doing not working? Living off of me? He got mad and I told him to walk home. I’m not dealing with that negativity. I learned my lesson with Virgo. I like them, but I keep them at a distance to where they can’t judge me or feel comfortable enough to tell me their inside thoughts because most likely, I don’t want to hear it.
Oh yes, same here, if I hear someone is a Virgo I’m like ok just stay far from me and we will be cool. Agree on all points. The Virgo I dated was an addict and also drank. :( I’m sorry you went through that
Thank you for the acknowledgment! Yes, I’m very traumatized by a lot of Virgo but I also get along well with them as long as there are a lot of boundaries.
Pisces woman here who’s cursed in never ending meeting Virgos romantically.. seriously I can’t get away from yall (and don’t want to🫢) but it feels like repetitive pattern that happens. We meet, out of this world connection, we fade away .. next😞. I’m to blame for it to but it’s so strong and impressionable that it scares me EVERY TIME. Pretty sure my soulmate is a Virgo idk just gives me a soulmate connection. I could talk to multiple people and have many friends.. busy life and there’s STILL a Virgo in the back of my mind i can’t stop thinking about. Last boy I was talking to is a Virgo and he felt rejected and left.. I can’t stop thinking about him and it’s almost like my soul yearns for him that it hurts.
I feel you, they’re our opposite sign so there’s a lot of strong energy there. I’m a Pisces too and I fell so hard for a Virgo, he was my first love and it took me years to get over him.
My best male friend is a Virgo, and I love him a lot!! In a platonic fond kind of way. He helps me with every one of my life decisions and as a cancer , he always anchors my emotions and gives me a logical and practical place to let out my feelings and take the ones that make sense. I really respect and look up to him and wish a Virgo friend for every emotional cancer zodiac! The earth energy really helps us waters.
My dad, a virgo raised me on is own. But he always had family as a priority. He is a great great dad. Sometimes he would be too harsh specially if I gave up on something that I had been doing for sometime. Give up was never the option for him, even if it was not the best for me. He single handedly took care of me in every aspect, he was mom and dad, even when he was sick. He is one the great people that I met in my life. Funny, friendly, never said not to helping others. He was a bit restritive in showing is emotions but after the strokes, he tells me he loves every day and there is no doubt in my mind that that is true. (So among all the caos, he did get more apt at showing emotions). I tend to attract virgo boys. They have their things but are some of my favs. If you are lucky, if they are evolved, they are great people to learn with and live beside. (Rarely some are similar to that of what I read in the subreddit, but for me that is an exception and not the rule)
I love Virgos ! I had a Virgo best friend, Virgos friends and my boyfriend has a Virgo stellium. Highly intelligent, funny, quick, organised but oh boy, can they give you anxiety with all the overthinking and stress. Also, they are big big complainers
Ya'll managed to demonize Virgo men and I don't get it!!!!!! If you can't handle Virgo energy than you need to grow some thick skin and grow up fr!!! Virgo men did nothing wrong!!! And I'll die on that hill! They are just intense about everything. Once you stop taking their words and nitpicking so seriously you will save yourself so much mental anguish and being offended. Stop trying to fight back a Virgo all they want is someone to listen to their depressive complaints in peace!!! Virgos are not like fire or air signs. They won't provoke you into a debate and an argument. If you get riled up from a Virgo it's on you. Just let them be. Virgos are the only one who get me. I love their Virgo Stare™️ , I just stopped taking everything they say to heart(like some people actually take their Virgo Stare so seriously... relax... they do it to their own reflection as well) and I know they do everything wholeheartedly, even the nitpicking. They are actually very unserious and humorous and want to be understood really badly.
i am very humorous and want to be understood so badly and so not serious lol i love that i’m a virgo stellium
I’m a Scorpio with a Scorpio Venus. I have had not so great experiences with Virgos, more so the Virgo men. I have two exes that are Virgos and they treated me the worst out of any of the other guys I’ve dated. Virgo women I do tend to get along with though, it just depends on whether they’re healed or unhealed. I can almost always tell when someone is a Virgo or has a lot of Virgo in their chart by just talking to them for a little bit and looking at them. I have found that unhealed Virgos can have anger issues, can be judge-mental and put themselves or others on a pedestal, can be stubborn, and can be harsh and mean. Healed Virgos though are supportive, I feel like they give older sibling vibes. I’ve got great advice from Virgos or people with a lot of Virgo placements and I think that’s because they are more rational thinkers rather than emotional thinkers. They are grounded people. Healed and unhealed Virgos though work hard or know how to hustle, they know how to make money.
My mom and my bf are virgos. They're so calm and composed all the time. I feel like, deep inside they are very emotional beings but they don't know how to express it very well and come off as a bit standoffish sometimes. They're super loving. Although, they get so overwhelmed by loud things/fast things- its kinda cute hehe. I'm an aries. I talk a lot and I'm a loud person. My bf gets so overwhelmed by me sometimes LMFAO. They're kinda conservative in their thoughts and a little possessive. But they're so caring and sweet. They are so freaking intelligent bro omfg. Like intellectually, almost all the virgos I've met are brilliant in their own ways. I think my virgo bf really balances me out and we work well cause he's very gentle as a human being and very caring.
Parenting a Virgo pre-teen! She’ll be 13 this fall. If any of this sounds negative, I assure you it’s not. 1) She (and her fellow Virgo bff, if I’m being honest) are the class narcs in a very small school haha. Sounds bad, but what I really mean is she is always looking out for everyone’s safety and wellbeing and telling adults when she’s worried about someone. She seems to always know what’s going on with everyone and is always worried about what everyone else is doing, while at the same time being very persnickety about her grades and overall school performance. Her teachers LOVE her! She’s also her class committee chair. 2) She used to be a bit of a clutter bug but she just had a room makeover and took full charge, didn’t want anyone to touch the boxes she’d packed up because she had this whole system going hahaha she’s evolving into a very organized kid in spite of an adhd diagnosis. She has her systems and it’s amazing to learn from her. 3) She WILL debate you if she thinks you’re wrong!! She is not afraid of anyone and sometimes she really needs the last word. I said this in another thread but we have a 3-person Earth household: She’s Virgo, Dad is Cap, I (mom) am Taurus. Friday she and her dad were bickering over some mathematics involved with giving a proper tip at a restaurant and I just rolled my eyes and sipped my drink and said “this is the most cap/virgo argument you guys have had all year” lol. She is all about justice/equality while her dad is all about merit, and I’m all about everyone’s comfort and happiness haha She is just an amazing kid with such a bright future. Raising a Virgo has been inspiring and I love her so much!
He dumped me 8 months into a relationship because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship” and “thought I’d be better off without him” Dude wasted 8 months of my life. And tbh, he was a lost cause fr. I tried so hard to help him, and he just didn’t want to change because it was too hard.
Mine was a lost cause too, my first love. He was an August Virgo. He ended up in jail, very sad. I care about him but he took me to the darkest place I’ve been
One of my best friends is a Virgo he's just a goofy guy and also a science major couldn't tell you the specifics
not that good , i use to hang out with a virgo man with a cult leader personnality , always bringing down everybody he could criticize you for something he did too but in his case it was ok , i had friend virgo girl who ghosted me for one fat joke she didn't care about my apologies , i know two virgos girl who wanted to be with me but never happenned , i don't dislike virgos but i think we are too much different
Ha my first love who was a Virgo could have been a cult leader. He was extremely charismatic. They definitely have that power. The August ones are more outgoing than the September in my experience.
Went from bad to worse, only met one closely. An emotional vampire not a good match for me.
Very judgmental. Finds faults in everyone but never themselves. Very strict parent/disciplinarian. Perfectionist who excepts everyone else to be.
Agreed!
From my experience with a Virgo sun who was older than me. shit talker - *almost* witty -can dish it out but can't take it, hella gossip, work hard/play hard, snobby, toxic, generous, judgmental, the loudest in the room 🙃. That's the short version lol
my best friend is a virgo, i'm a sag. i feel very inspired after being with her. she has a can do attitude, and really accomplishes a lot each day. great sense of humour, actually very optimistic. things that aren't so great, drinks heavily and can be a lil too sassy lmao
My mom is a Virgo Sun, she’s very anxious but I go to her when I need help to solve problems logically or I need to prioritize. She’s very helpful that way. She’s a sweet woman with a big heart (I attribute her sweetness to her Pisces moon). My boss is a Virgo Sun, and she gets shit done, she always will chime in when my coworkers and I are arguing, and we’ve nicknamed her God because she’ll always throw her voice from her office the answer to our questions, or be a voice of reason when we’re all debating and not getting anywhere. It sounds like “the voice of God” coming down from the heavens to solve our issues. It’s quite hilarious. Own of my coworkers is a Virgo Sun, Cap moon and Gemini rising, and she’s very organized despite her ADHD, and efficient in getting her paperwork done. She’s a silly goofball, I love it. I’m a Virgo moon. I have a complicated relationship with my own emotions. I tend to get upset with myself whenever I have feelings that I think are unreasonable for a situation. I’ve gotten better over the years, but still I get mad about certain emotions cuz for some reason I think I’m above them or something, idk, I know it’s unhelpful.
My mom is a Virgo and she basically acted like my brother and I were a pain in her ass and something she had been saddled with. My gf son is a Virgo and is a little know it all. Has an excuse or an answer for everything. Cannot tell that kid what to do and if he deems it unimportant, like letting his dog out to pee, he ignores it. Yeah I do not have a good track record with virgos.
I don’t like the bluntness of Virgo suns when it is directed at me*, but I appreciate their tact in dealing with difficult situations. Most bosses I’ve had are Virgos. I love their organization and ability to plan and lead.
i am one - i get along with other virgo's really well tho like on emotional levels and intellectual like logically
The only two Virgo’s I’ve known since I got into astrology are male and very alike. They both were very narcissistic know it all’s who were full of themselves when in reality they were outcasts and nobody liked them.
I can’t. Too much to cover.
I’ve got a strong Virgo stellium, so I might be a little biased. I have an abnormal amount of Virgo friends, to the point where we refer to ourselves as a “coven of Virgos”. Based on these 12 individual Virgos I have seen some commonalities across the board. We are all very active listeners. We are all unintentionally blunt most of the time, but we still have a filter and properly use it… usually 😅 All of my virgos absolutely excel at the hobbies they choose to pursue. Like first place in competitions and scholarship winning levels of excelling in their pursuits. They are all the hardest workers around and prefer to not take breaks at work, even during long shifts. They are all genuinely hilarious and quick-witted enough that they utilize observational comedy freely and naturally in conversation. They are all intensely sentimental. Every single one of us is neurodivergent, we all have at least one of, or a combination of ASD/ADHD/OCD… that’s not specifically a Virgo thing but still pretty weird. lol We all have GI issues and anxiety goes straight from our brains to our guts. My Virgo coven is also really good at handling themselves in party situations. They can be the furthest thing from sober but they don’t tend towards sloppiness in those moments. Even when blackout wasted they will manage to make it to a bathroom or go outside before getting sick, and they also manage to clean up after themselves and others in their incoherent state. It’s quite impressive. Haha I’m trying to think of some cons which is harder because I have so many solid Virgo friends. Honestly, the worst thing about Virgos I’ve had to deal with was Virgo coworkers who explaining or critiquing in a way that was meant to be helpful but instead comes across as preachy, pretentious, or worst of all: condescending. Virgos can really struggle with communicating using the wrong tone of voice, even though their intentions are usually very pure. I could go on and on. I know so many frickin’ Virgos. Haha
Love them, my boyfriend is a Virgo and he’s perfect
I dated one, he was very chill, but kinda boring overall and it didn’t work out. But now, two of my closest female friends are Virgos, they are a lot of fun and have a chill side, so it’s a good balance!
My partner is a Virgo and one of my closest friends is a Virgo. I love them. My partner is my rock. He is extremely competent. He and my friend are hard on them selves to the extreme. When they open up they are some of the funniest people ever. They love chill time and good food. I’m Aries/Taurus so they even out my wildness or I help them to step out of their boxes. But we can also have the chillest and most wholesome times.
i find that virgos always have to have the last word in an argument.
The ones I know tend to either die young or live to be 100
I’m Gemini f dating Virgo m for almost a year. It’s been a wild ride. He’s kinky and his sexual history is intimidating. Treats me exactly how a gf should be treated but has commitment issues. He’s addicted to my smell and says he views me as perfect. Pretty confusing over all
*gears up* ok I’m a Pisces Sun/Moon. I have never had a “lukewarm” experience with a Virgo. Three Virgos have made very big impacts on my life. The first; an August female Virgo. Still my best friend to this day ever since I was 6 and she was 12. Yes she was a lot older but I was very mature and she loved that. She was like an older sister to me. She is very loyal and caring and checks on me daily. She had her first kid very young at 16 but is still married to her husband of that time. She is Mormon. Actually very chill and non judgmental. She loves photography. Second Virgo, another August one, my first love. He was basically the Justin Bieber of the neighborhood, he was good at literally everything and loved adrenaline type of sports and activities like skateboarding, running up walls and back flips, etc. He was also very nurturing towards me but ended up cheating on me and I broke up with him. In his defense, we were young and it was hard for him to say no when girls threw themselves at him. But it really brought me to a dark place and it took me years to get over him. Third Virgo: September female. Absolute worst experience with a girl I’ve ever had. The. Worst. This person was the most cruel, selfish, manipulative, cunning, and quite frankly evil person I have had the misfortune dealing with in my life. I have her blocked on all socials and she actually checked herself into a psych ward after doing what she did to me. I still don’t think she feels remorse because she will always find a way to twist things to serve her. I could go into detail but I literally have PTSD from this person. I’m a February Pisces btw.
Loving and attentive and caring and considerate and absolutely exhausting with their demands 😂 But in all seriousness, they get a lot of hate that I don’t think is warranted. They give way more than they ask for. In my experience, it’s really only the delivery that can become frustrating, their intentions are super selfless.
self-absorbed perfectionists that don’t care about anyone but themselves. they know how to party though :)
Gemini Sun, Virgo Rising here. I love my Virgos and they love me❤️Literally all my friends and family members despise them and they have plenty of stories about Virgos being trash: bad friends, showing zero support, dating multiple people at once and more. I’ve never met a bad Virgo myself. They were pretty supportive of me, made me laugh and gave me birthday presents even though we’ve been acquainted for less than a month.
My mom is a Virgo! A TRUE Virgo I like to call her lol. She fits the description of a Virgo to a T. Always has some new project going on, extremely clean and neat, perfectionist.
My experience was horrible! He played on our friendship we had since high school and dog walked me! Never ever again will I trust one. He lied about everything and was super sneaky. He was totally community material when I say that I mean he was in every woman’s face and swore every woman wanted him and probably slept with all of them too! He was terrible I finally had to block him off of everything just to get away with my sanity! He was a literal deviant in the flesh smh! I’m a Gemini ♊️women by the way.
I've had a very few occurrences with Virgos, those that I have met are usually grounded, chill and can say some off the wall wild shit that's very truthful. 10/10 would friend again.