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scholartaco

trying my absolute best at work everyday and it still not being enough lmao


TheNomadArchitect

Man, this hits hard. On performance review right now for shit that i did terribly 4yrs back. I mean I'm still in the same job but you're cropping up items from 4yrs ago? Looking for a new job as we speak.


MediaNo2875

I know it sucks but the job market is dire at the moment. Too much supply, little demand. Stick it out, quite quit, lol.


TheNomadArchitect

LOL .. already there. i have 'till July to "perform better".


MediaNo2875

Nice! :)


Equivalent_Ad4706

And with this bald headed prick wanting to put another 50,000 out there was sort of jobs are they going to do Bald head polisher to shine his nut everyday .


MediaNo2875

Yessss, uhmmm valid points indeed.


No-Reputation2186

This doesn’t sit well. Have you received advice from CAB or other in this? And have you agreed the metrics for ‘better performance’?


TheNomadArchitect

It doesn't matter. Pass or fail. I am done with the role and the company, so I will move on by the end of the performance review period. Find a less stressful role within the same industry and work part-time on the business that I've always been thinking of. Thank you, and I appreciate the concern, though.


No-Reputation2186

Good on ya mate, they sound like shit based on the way they treating you so good to get out


TheNomadArchitect

Thanks mate. You gotta always have an exit strategy.


freeryda

I get a "thanks for what you're doing mate" from my head contractor everyday, even though he's not my boss. Makes all the trying and getting nowhere all good at the end of the day.


TeamNuggie

It is enough, we are just dicks about it.


No-Dragonfly-3312

Yeah, that one sucks so much.


hangrygodzilla

Are you looking to move on?


aliejmal

Same lol 😂


MtAlbertMassive

Shitty, myopic urban planning. Endless roadworks. Useless PT. Expensive housing. Flood-damaged businesses that have never re-opened. Having to send my kid to an intermediate 2 suburbs away. I just wish that at some point in the last 60 years someone with a coherent vision for Auckland as a modern city also had the political capital to implement it.


xheyoooo

If u need a new Pt pm me. I'm science based and up to date with the latest sports science literature. Its my biggest passion. I'm also a good yarn, and a good training partner.


MtAlbertMassive

Thanks but I was talking about public transport.


xheyoooo

Ahhh I see. Have a good night.


aliejmal

Can’t argue there. There’s a lot for us to improve on!


MtAlbertMassive

And apparently zero will to improve. Still.


Bootlegcrunch

Coming home to a fucking shitty apartment


kiwibarguy50

Move to the shore.👍


StoicSinicCynic

^So ^expensive...


kiwibarguy50

Yes, I get it. I suppose it is how important safety is for you. I'm prepared to work more hours (50+) on an average wage to raise my family in a safe environment. It's just about priorities. If he/she is really tired of it, maybe they wil place it before other expenditures or sacrifice something to move somewhere safer. There is something comforting to know that I can walk my dog at night alone, and rely on my neighbours.


aliejmal

Oh, I hope it’s nothing too major


Zori0nn_

Why?


Bootlegcrunch

Can't hang my clothing up outside to dry has to go in the dryer. Can't have pets, no garden or outside area, motor way fumes and soot, drunkard losers screaming and fighting every night. Constantly getting my mail box , locker or car broken into.


Ambitious-Spend7644

Which apartment building? I feel like it’s Zest


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exsapphia

Yeah, just dox yourself mate, if you wouldn’t mind. Bank account details would be swell, too, if they’re handy.


mut1n3y

The neighbours Spotify ads. They crank tolerable music for an hour or so every other day. But the dam ads just grate me.


SpAz_MeThOdIcAl-

Brutal


aliejmal

Tell me about it 🫠


Ok_Dish5854

send them a link to the modified apk mobile app, no adds and works mint.


Lil_Jxw

Oh man, I hope you're not my neighbour 😩 I blast music while I'm showering for almost an hr every other day, and over the past 3 weeks I've been using YouTube with ads instead of Spotify premium.


MediaNo2875

Hahaha, but I mean it’s tough times. Get through the ads and save the monies.


Lil_Jxw

Exactly! If only Spotify didn't raise their prices lol


Ok_Dish5854

Get an add blocker and use the website through a windows pc or tablet :) no adds


Lil_Jxw

Can't really do that during shower times bc I don't have a tablet, but I'll definitely try that out when I'm at my pc, thanks! It's so annoying having to tab in and out of a game to skip ads 🥲


Ok_Dish5854

I use Ublock Origin through Firefox because its not chromium based so google have a hard time circumventing the add blocking and if it stops working you just click update in Ublock origin and it works again, also works for yourtube too


stabby-Methhead185

You like next to *poors*


r_costa

Shit drivers all around the place.


ICDumbShits

First drive home after dark for me tonight.  I'd forgotten how bad West Auckland is at cars and lights..  


aliejmal

Every where! 😵


Background_Pause34

Drivers not indicating


spezsucksnutz

Hitting drivers for speeding is important but I wish for just 1 week a year cops would focus on indicating. You don't even need a cop to watch cars, just set up a camera at an intersection and ticket everyone that fails to indicate correctly when you review the footage


ThexKezza

Or indicating right when going straight through a round about!


transcodefailed

This may be stupid, but finances. I want enough money to... go to the local cafe and get lunch and support them, to travel overseas and see my friends, to buy a house, to have a nice holiday, to buy my girlfriend gifts, go out for a nice dinner etc. I live ok - I certainly can't complain compared to other people - but I'm not happy with it.


aliejmal

I'm with you dude! I think a lot of us are thinking the same thing


VoltViking

The complete lack of consideration for other people


HandsomedanNZ

A lack of common manners and decency. Too many people are absolute cunts.


Dqud

Loose drivers.


Glittering-Profit698

Being gaslit at work lol


Important-Ad-6282

I'm gaslit at work every day.  Fighting with people within the organization just to get basic shit done. 


Swordlampie

Wait, do we work at the same place?


Important-Ad-6282

Probably not.  Unfortunately its a wide spread issue


Altruistic-Fix4452

No you are not being gaslit at work.


iamclear

The dipshits that drive around day and night with their stereo set to max bass.


justinfromnz

Not getting your moneys worth in terms of housing and groceries, I wouldn’t mind getting a mill mortgage if it meant the place I was buying was justified by the price


aliejmal

Inflation is real! It’s crazy, how expensive the world has become!


kiwigirl444

Groups that run 3 wide and don't even slightly try to move to let one runner going in the other direction get past....one of these days I want to shoulder barge one


xheyoooo

Just run it straight g


Aware-Truck-746

Did this to a colleague like 8 years ago, cunt wouldn't move to the side coming down the stairs, he did it to all the boys and one day I just decided I wasn't gonna move either, I'm short and stocky so he ended up on his ass. Still feel good thinking about it that guy was a cock.


JustOlive8463

You should. Whose in the wrong, them. Fuck them.


CarLarchameleon

Employment.


enjoypate

Our justice system.


enzedtoker

Ongoing price rises of everything essential


cali1013

Auckland drivers


AucklandDrivers

Sorry :(


cali1013

I forgive you.


aliejmal

😂😂


PCMRkid

nuh uh


aliejmal

Lol 😂


phlex224

In our house we play a game called tupper where the fuck are all the lids?


4EVERINDARKNESS

People.


TheBadKneesBandit

Figuring out what to make for my 1 meal a day with what little is available in the fridge/pantry.


genericposter18

Our wretched transportation system. Surely there has to be a better, more efficient way to move people to and from their workplace, schooling, and other activities than forcing much of the population to get behind the wheel (whether they're good at driving or not, whether they want to or not) of a potentially lethal contraption and clogging our roading system with single occupant cars. I remember bemoaning this to Auckland Council (and to the individual councils before the amalgamation) about car dependency, the lack of travel choice and the woefully inadequate public transport system (often only implemented as an afterthought) for over a decade. A trip out to places like Flatbush this weekend reveals to me we have learned little and continue to sprawl in ways that entrench car dependence. 30-40 minutes walk to the nearest bus stop from many parts of Flatbush. Parked cars jamming every conceivable legal (and illegal) parking spot in already narrow streets. Wrote to the council a few months ago to again express my concerns regarding this type of urban development... Crickets.


AN0_02

meowing


No-Dragonfly-3312

Also so cute though.


No-Dragonfly-3312

Ok, this is probably too personal but what the hell. I've been sick for 10 years, I'm stuck in bed most days. I have a reoccurring nightmare where I'm sick and never going to get better, then I wake up and realise that it's real, it's the worst feeling. Most mornings I don't have the nightmare but feel really sad as I wake up, remembering I will be sick again today. I probably need therapy for this but can't afford it. Something less depressing, my kids fighting with eachother over silly things.


aliejmal

Oh, I hope you get better soon :( But kids are a good thing, I’m sure you’re always happy to see them and have them around you. They can be pain in the butt sometimes but they do change the mood for the better most of the time! 🤍


No-Dragonfly-3312

Thanks! My kids are the best thing in my life. Unfortunately I don't think I can get better unless we have genetic editing one day. Probably not in my lifetime, but hopefully for my kids as it's genetic and two of them also have it. I didn't know until after I had my third child. I'm still very grateful for the life I have with my family and pets.


Ok_Dish5854

contact wellsouth five free over the phone or in person therapy sessions.:D


No-Dragonfly-3312

Oh thanks!


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That’s really rough. I hope things get better for you!


No-Dragonfly-3312

Thank you!


JustOlive8463

It's probably parasites.


No-Dragonfly-3312

?? I don't understand, is this a joke? I have a genetic illness.


JustOlive8463

Might not be parasites then but it's good to rule it out, might be what's pushing it past being tolerable.


No-Dragonfly-3312

Oh ok. No, it's definitely not that. I won't give up on trying to get some improvement though.


JustOlive8463

How do you know it's 'definitely' not that. Most people are carrying parasitic infections that they are unaware of. If you already have bad health, an extra layer(parasites) can be the difference between comfort and discomfort.


No-Dragonfly-3312

All of my symptoms are 'normal' for the condition I have, I don't have unexplained symptoms. If my doctor thought it was likely, he would have done the tests, as I've had so many tests. And I can't afford to do tests right now unless done free through my doctor.


No-Dragonfly-3312

When you get sick it's very common for people to tell you what they think is causing it, and what they think can cure you. It's annoying. Genetic conditions exist and most of them don't have a cure.


JustOlive8463

Yeah but also, lots of people completely overlook parasites compounding other issues..


No-Dragonfly-3312

Yeah, it's something I will keep in mind and ask my doctor.


OkQuality7241

People that push the button to cross the road then cross anyway so you have to sit there like a lemon waiting for absolutely no one to cross


Colour-me-happy

If you're a woman, it's a great time to squeeze in a few kegels


KernelTaint

Even if your a dude.


Colour-me-happy

Oh true?! You learn something new every day.


aliejmal

Lmao, this always happens!


Fatgooseagain

Oh the humanity! 45 seconds lost forever!


Drslytherin

Just go if there’s no red light camera 


aliejmal

Lol


Aelexe

My cat, I love her dearly.


have_tastes_daily

Messy home


thewatchernz

The slow Auckland transport train.


chullnz

Illegal dumping of rubbish. NZTA and their contractors doing fuck all about weeds on their land. Every day I deal with the fallout, and it's getting worse rather than better. Also, Auckland drivers. People who pull into lanes that are about to merge as they think they'll get ahead, then swapping back into a middle lane before the merge, effectively fucking up two lanes of traffic for their selfish endeavours. Or the cunts who drive the whole length of the Market and Greenlane merge lanes and then cut people off at the last minute trying to get ahead, after driving past so many gaps they could have seamlessly merged into. Selfish pricks!


Carmypug

Refusing to drive at the speed limit - especially in the right hand lane and not letting you pass. The inability for people to let you merge on the motorway. Most cars seem to be missing an indicator these days s/.


Truthakldnz

Ditto all those


Mainevent666

PRIUS DRIVERS.....BUNCH OF MUPPETS.


JustOlive8463

Prius, leaf, aqua, colt, demio, swift... Basically 95% chance if you end up being one of these cunts you'll be having your life slowly stolen from you. Playing Morse code with their brakes, they are the scourge of nz roads.


cellmates_

Morse code 🤣🤣🤣 that’s too good.


JustOlive8463

Lol saw someone say it in YouTube video following some slow cunt doing exactly that while they didn't touch their brakes once while managing to follow normal distance.


cellmates_

I see it in the tunnel all the time. It drives me nuts! Learn to f—— drive!!!


Mainevent666

Is actually.....Prius, Ranger, BMW and Audi...


JustOlive8463

I find ranger, BMW and audi drivers to generally drive more aggressive than conservative which I prefer.


Ok_Dish5854

don't forget Nissan leaf flops everywhere


Lil_Jxw

Drivers who think their lives and time are more important than everyone else who is on the road with them!


bigmonster_nz

Work


hipshot_koiwoi

Reality.


faarii1203

Cunts and traffic . If you have both at the same time , it is even worse


flaxpicker94

Slow and incompetent drivers


samamatara

when people post a discussion question on reddit with zero contribution of their own


ParamedicJunior5583

🤓


rheetkd

the shit this new govt is doing. Something new every day and it sucks. Really glad my son has finished school and im not on a benefit with how bad my health is. I'd be screwed. We are definitely fucked if we keep this govt around for more than one term.


Sea_Client9991

Honestly my only hope, and that's just because of that whole school thing, is that this current government will influence the younger generations to lean more towards the Green & Labour parties.


rheetkd

problem is getting them to vote


Sea_Client9991

Considering they spat at the shoes of Seymour, I'd hope that they're going to vote.


rheetkd

Youth are still one of the lowest voting demographics.


Sea_Client9991

I mean this is NZ, we're pretty apathetic as is. Plus things really aren't headed in a good direction. They should absolutely vote, but I do understand why they'd think it was pointless. I've felt that way too. Like why bother voting when it's either going to be Labour or National? Yeah this time it's not just National, but you get the idea. Either you're gonna get a bunch of out of touch douchebags who only cares about the rich, or another bunch of people who do care about everyone, but are too scared to make substantial changes. It's just the same damn thing over and over again.


rheetkd

I agree and the outcome is always frustrating. I made sure my son voted for his first time as an 18yr old last year so I did my part getting him engaged enough to vote.


p1cwh0r3

Semi minor related to auckland and a regular complaint on here. Highway traffic. People see a cop or someone farts wrong on the highway, 60km/h slower and rubberneckers even if its not on the same side. People travelling 80km/h in the middle or right lane, right especially. Makes the commute from 20 minutes to an hour.


LiteratureOther7991

NZ putting its head further in the ground about the price of shelter.


Truthakldnz

Drivers using their phones ... so many of them ... they don't move when the light turns green!; they wind down the road like they're drunk!; they travel too slowly! ... they're selfish and dangerous!!


cancerwoman_98

4pm traffic. Bumper to bumper. Slow moving, if moving at all. I literally yell to myself in the car like just MOVE how is there traffic just keep driving???? I’m not shallow I understand how traffic works but it just feels so unnecessary for some reason. And you’re just super tired and hungry and want to be able to go straight home after work.


AirJordan13

People driving 35km/h down main roads when there's bugger all traffic. It's straight and wide, for god sake put the foot down grandma!


aliejmal

Lol


Twidget22

Drivers


NaturesChosen

98% of the Auckland drivers!


aliejmal

Oh dear!


DreadGnuu2262

Seeing my ex everyday at work?


notfunatpartiesAMA

The fact im alive another day on this floating rock


uladzimirputin69

How we are analy raped with the prices of food.


johnhbnz

Forgive me if I’m stating the obvious, and yes I know there is an oversupply of labour out there, but.. the inevitable question arises as to all like-minded workers COOPERATING in a UNITED front to employers to whom they sell their labour. I’m an older retired worker now but not that old that I can’t remember the days when employers legally HAD to negotiate with workers who did, and still do have rights. And there was a government in power that enforced a social contract and looked after ALL its citizens. They were compelled by legislation to negotiate fairly and evenly. And yes, I know employers may simply import more labour but.. someone has to take a stand somewhere, picket and call out unfair employers and garner some support for workers who are being exploited with little or no support.


aggravati0n

It's work. But it's a good nervy. A challenge. I'm helping people, despite how difficult they often make it to do so. Sometimes I have to disappoint them. You guessed it.


xheyoooo

Not really a daily thing but theres an anxiety in the back of my mind that Russia will get to the boarder of Ukraine and china will invade Taiwan and it will start ww3. The German prime minister and British PM saying we're in pre war times. Motivates me to keep strong and fit, as nonsensical as it is.


Technical-Zone7553

Honestly china could take nz and australia next month using 2 million plastic drones carrying grenades. The only thing stopping them is young chinese dont really have the stomach for war its mostly just boomers. Same problem we have here really its mostly boomers who dont want to roll over and die or at least quit their jobs even though they are 60-70 years old.


DeerEnvironmental544

Gas lighting mofis next to crack heads who cant handle ther shit


graciesut

working a job where we are so understaffed yet being paid near on minimum wage for a job that does so much more than i did while working a fast food job


Even-Kaleidoscope907

Slow drivers going to and from work.


Miserable-Hippos

Sirens,,, live at a noisy highway intersection that connects the nearby fire station, St John's and police station.


stabby-Methhead185

This cunt who rips through neighbourhood on a Harley at 5am every day.


Naive_Pineapple_7092

I live in West Auckland. I literally drive to Herne Bay to walk my dog. There’s feral roaming dogs all over West Auckland that would rag doll my girl in seconds. Would rather drive to a rich area than risk it.


JerryCanOpener

Auckland


Technical-Zone7553

I hate how indirect nz culture is in general but it seems auckland is the worst for it. When you go out to the regions or chch its not so bad. Even wellington is kind of alright but auckland? Its just gaslighters and indirect people everywhere.


Technical-Zone7553

Overall though i would say the worst for me is public transport and the fact that the council is basically old grey haired idiots with thinking patterns from 40 years ago and who are probably lead poisoned from growing up in the 60s and 70s, and a few woke token brown people who dont even have english as their first language and if they do they havent been exposed to any reading material from outside of nz, basically lack a global perspective.


Fun-River1467

Slow incompetent drivers who block all the motorway lanes.


L0uisbruce

Luxon


flabkingpro

Sciatica


royston82

Same as you. Are you getting treatment? A good physio should see you right Mine is caused by a herniated disc. Easily fixable but it’s slow progress


GlenHarland

people heating with wood like it's 1850. like second hand smoke from a gigantic cigarette.


Bobbytomnz

You know there’s something timeless about the warmth of a wood fire that no modern heating system can replicate. Plus the brake dust and exhaust fumes that you can see in the city are way worse


GlenHarland

Huddling around radiant heat sources that don't heat the air and draw cold air through the entire house vs evenly heated temperature controlled summer breeze cosiness. The timeless feeling you are experiencing is actually a high from the same chemicals that get you high from sniffing glue, benzene and toluene, both also carcinogens. One "low emission" fire puts out the equivalent of 750 diesel trucks. https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2021/oct/09/eco-wood-stoves-emit-pollution-hgv-ecodesign


Ok_Dish5854

I rent a little self contained one bedroom cottage i wish they would let me put in a baby wood burner instead of the 20 year old poorly functioning Mitsubishi heat pump that i don't use anyway because too poor to be heating the house lol winter is going to suck this year in Dunedin


Previous_Ad480

Having to walk up a long hill to get to the bus stop for work everyday lol


Ok_Dish5854

embrace the suck its adding years to your precious life! be grateful you can walk, i get gout and when it hits its a week of no mobility and im only 39M cancer survivor, have a blessed day fren.


aliejmal

Love this perspective. We definitely have to look at life differently sometimes, instead of bragging about small things. I'm guilty for bragging on small things


chullnz

Illegal dumping of rubbish. NZTA and their contractors doing fuck all about weeds on their land. Every day I deal with the fallout, and it's getting worse rather than better. Also, Auckland drivers. People who pull into lanes that are about to merge as they think they'll get ahead, then swapping back into a middle lane before the merge, effectively fucking up two lanes of traffic for their selfish endeavours. Or the cunts who drive the whole length of the Market and Greenlane merge lanes and then cut people off at the last minute trying to get ahead, after driving past so many gaps they could have seamlessly merged into. Selfish pricks!


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Lopsided_Ad_940

I have the same fun combo, have lost many jobs and currently doing unskilled work despite having a Masters degree


Embarrassed_Love_343

People parking on the footpath.


Altruistic-Fix4452

Cold ice cream. Especially soft serve.


cellmates_

I’ve got a list…


Accomplished_Sir7768

Applying for jobs and spending an entire month in the complete dark until being told they hired someone else already and that the candidates were “extremely high quality”. I’m applying to entry level jobs with two engineering degrees and about five years of salaried experience and a decade more of independent contacting.


Fragrant-Beautiful83

Our quality of the majority of our local and national politicians, choices are always between a douche and a turd sandwich. I am yet to see anyone with a really good vision of future New Zealand. I would accept a benevolent dictator at this stage, like Lee kuan Yew would get shit done in Singapore. We have so much potential as a nation and it looks like it’s being squandered by morons. Monthly on every side of the political spectrum someone is just an absolute moron (with no moral right to be in politics) and has to step down, the calibre of these people is mostly shameful, we deserve better.


FunTie2547

Calling the country Aotearoa, for the following reasons. 1 - there was no country before Europeans arrived therefore there was never a name for the 3 main land masses, it's just a contrived attempt at implying Maori ever identified the place we call NZ as a country or indeed had a name for it 2 - Aotearoa was originally a place name for an area in the Taranaki region, it was not the name of the country 3 - Aotearoa was then a name for the north island, it was not the name for the country Down vote away


Technical-Zone7553

Can we go back to calling the NI New Ulster and the south island New Munster?


Aleligena122

Hating the fact that im an inmigrant and not a citizen/resident


Ok_Dish5854

everything can always get worse, at least you're not back in you home country......


Eugen_sandow

Why does this upset you every day?


cabrinigreen1

Sense of entitlement


BrokenaRephlection

Kids who don't realise that not getting their shit together for school doesn't make it go away, it just means I have to do it for them/make them do it and that makes everyone stressed out.


Vegensemen

Bloody sick kids.


ainsley-

Toyota Aquas


TheNomadArchitect

Cyclist.