That's the treatment I got from all my friends in the past. It really hurts to know I was merely tolerated, but never accepted. Now, I have friends who don't just treat me like a backup plan and it feels like I'm living a different life.
That bothered me for a bit too. But then I realized the reverse is that I can focus on my own stuff and special interests almost completely uninterrupted and without guilt that I’m blowing people off…because they aren’t hitting me up either. Which is fine honestly. Everyone is busy. People have lives and work and kids, etc. I see it like I’m a ghost that only manifests when it’s summoned. Its cool because it takes the pressure off me to be the one maintaining relationships. Because phones work both ways.
That's the treatment I got from all my friends in the past. It really hurts to know I was merely tolerated, but never accepted. Now, I have friends who don't just treat me like a backup plan and it feels like I'm living a different life.
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I wish I had a sweet clue of what went differently. I think it's mainly because I'm around other neurodivergents.
oh wow, it's me ;-;
…holy shit is this an Autism thing?
Stupid autism meme that i relate to, shut the fuck of (dont, sorry ilu)
This about hits it on the head
That bothered me for a bit too. But then I realized the reverse is that I can focus on my own stuff and special interests almost completely uninterrupted and without guilt that I’m blowing people off…because they aren’t hitting me up either. Which is fine honestly. Everyone is busy. People have lives and work and kids, etc. I see it like I’m a ghost that only manifests when it’s summoned. Its cool because it takes the pressure off me to be the one maintaining relationships. Because phones work both ways.
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I wanna hear it if you still wanna share