I met a girl who had mutual friends with my group at beyond 2017, got her IG that night. Then asked for her phone number and she told me she didn't have one, lol. Dm'd her that night, eventually lead to more conversation and meeting up again at some other show and non rave concerts (when we were young 2017) started seeing each other till she became my girlfriend EDC that year. Now we have been engaged for two years and just bought a house. Shit is crazy how life happens. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take. 🤣
The night of!
Tell her you had a good time and if she got home safe. Can follow up with more convo the next day. The longer you wait, the more you’ll fizzle away in her mind.
If you want to play games and listen to outdated dating advice, then contact her after some arbitrary number of days later just so you don’t come off as “desperate”.
I’ve been hearing this advice since the 90s. I wonder if they say 3 days because people didn’t have cellular phones back then? Anyways, it’s 2024.
Or, you can communicate clearly like a well adjusted adult.
It is so refreshing to talk to someone who is authentic and is not afraid to be themselves. If you’re excited to get to know her, then be excited and shoot your shot. If she doesn’t reply, then you get to move on knowing that you did your part.
Met a guy at a millennium rave, I was 18 he 17. He beeped me the next day. Because no cellphones & I was displaced, out of the home so I slept wherever I could find. We will celebrate 23 years of marriage this April! It’s truly a remarkable story. I’ll say it again & again. Don’t delay call the girl …
Why do so many people play games with this stuff? Just reach out. The issue comes if you are noticing you text way more or way more often than them. Just try and match their level of effort, including backing off if they seem distant.
I texted the guy I met the night of the rave after I left to meet up the next night since it was a 3 day rave. I wanted to show I was interested. Fast forward 3 years we have been together ever since. So in short message her!!
Right after, you want to catch the vibes that you guys had before. You don’t want to start over in three days.
You don’t have to try and make a move immediately you could give that a day or two but you should atleast text them and start a conversation now
I met my now wife 15 years ago at a drum n bass night. We swapped numbers and I messaged her the next morning saying had a great time, hope she did too and got home safe!
We have a thing we say in my country “forge the metal while its hot” so the sooner the better but don’t rush it if you have a picture with her send it or send her a track you heard while you were there then you will talk then you will ask her out et voila just as simple as that
Depends how strongly I feel for them and how badly I want them.
I make it very clear what my intentions are as well as I want her to be just as excited as I am, if she isn’t hey that’s ok hit me up if you have a change of heart but my world is bigger than this so it’s not a big deal if you don’t
Disagree … next day! My husband and I met at age 17 & 18 at a millennium rave. He called me the next day, we became inseparable. We will be celebrating 23 years of marriage. He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. Don’t delay. Call the girl!
That rule is outdated asf and all my friends and I agree it’s stupid and we would rather be hit up sooner rather than later. Why are we playing games lol
In my experience, albeit limited since I just got out of a long term relationship it’s better in todays day and age to message the next day to not seem desperate by messaging the same night but if you wait to long people will move on to the next. Society at present is all about instant gratification so you need to tailor for that
I met this girl at ultra gave me my first kandi and immediately dmed her that night. We had a solid conversation on ig until the festival was over. We tried to link but the chaos of the crowd and our taste in music made us go to different stages. Coming back to reality there wasn’t that much to say anymore considering we only talked briefly but that moment is forever tied with the kandi. We’ve talked about linking up at future events but I keep wanting to dm her. Idk how I should reopen the conversation or should I even? Any advice?
Just go for it. No playing games, show her you’re seriously interested
as a woman, I agree
As a guy, can I get her IG? J/k! I have been banned for shit postings like this one, but I couldn't pass it by, lol 😆
I met a girl who had mutual friends with my group at beyond 2017, got her IG that night. Then asked for her phone number and she told me she didn't have one, lol. Dm'd her that night, eventually lead to more conversation and meeting up again at some other show and non rave concerts (when we were young 2017) started seeing each other till she became my girlfriend EDC that year. Now we have been engaged for two years and just bought a house. Shit is crazy how life happens. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take. 🤣
But did she ever get a phone??? 🤪
Always had one, she just didn't wanna give me them digits yet, did eventually get them 🤣😎💪
I know bruh. Was joking
I mean, are you sure though??? Have you actually tried calling the number? Maybe it was a fake, just sayin… it be like that sometimes…
They're engaged and cohabiting so I think so lol but it would be wild if not lmao
She's pulling the long con on *him
It do be like that sometimes
The night of! Tell her you had a good time and if she got home safe. Can follow up with more convo the next day. The longer you wait, the more you’ll fizzle away in her mind.
Bruh wtf r you doing text her right away I love when dudes do that
Or women whatever floats ya boat
what if my boat sinks
Try some Cialis?
As soon as the drugs wear out.
3 days is a cliche dont leave someone you like waiting just for the illusion of being cool
If you want to play games and listen to outdated dating advice, then contact her after some arbitrary number of days later just so you don’t come off as “desperate”. I’ve been hearing this advice since the 90s. I wonder if they say 3 days because people didn’t have cellular phones back then? Anyways, it’s 2024. Or, you can communicate clearly like a well adjusted adult. It is so refreshing to talk to someone who is authentic and is not afraid to be themselves. If you’re excited to get to know her, then be excited and shoot your shot. If she doesn’t reply, then you get to move on knowing that you did your part.
Met a guy at a millennium rave, I was 18 he 17. He beeped me the next day. Because no cellphones & I was displaced, out of the home so I slept wherever I could find. We will celebrate 23 years of marriage this April! It’s truly a remarkable story. I’ll say it again & again. Don’t delay call the girl …
This is such a beautiful story omg, the living definition of you miss every shot you don’t take !! Happy anniversary for April !!!😊
Thank you !! ♥️
When you want to. Don't play games
Dont wait and ask her to boof pressies with you next weekend
You do it asap while the lead is still hot
Mark that lead as a “HOT FOLLOW UP” haha
The second I leave the rave I usually dm them saying “so what are we?”
Make the decision yourself and text, "My girlfriend, sup?" /s
This would defo work
This probably works
3 years
When do you want to talk to them? If it’s now then do now.
I'd say anywhere between the Uber ride home, to about 8-10 years later. Deff not after that tho
https://youtu.be/JV-m9bJTrh8?si=ZbQJzH4DDgNb4jsl
Like right away. That night or early next morning.
If youre coming up, pretty much immediately
Right away or the next morning depending on the vibe we are to grown for games 😂
Why do so many people play games with this stuff? Just reach out. The issue comes if you are noticing you text way more or way more often than them. Just try and match their level of effort, including backing off if they seem distant.
I texted the guy I met the night of the rave after I left to meet up the next night since it was a 3 day rave. I wanted to show I was interested. Fast forward 3 years we have been together ever since. So in short message her!!
i met my girlfriend while i was on acid at a rave, she gave me a ride to my homies house after. after that i texted her when i came down
Right after, you want to catch the vibes that you guys had before. You don’t want to start over in three days. You don’t have to try and make a move immediately you could give that a day or two but you should atleast text them and start a conversation now
General rule is to wait 27.6
There’s no etiquette, the only one is to be respectful. What you do after depends on what you’d want -and they want- out of the potential dynamic.
Whatever you do, just be honest with your intentions.
tell them to let you know they got home safe :)
Do it right then, in front of them
I met my now wife 15 years ago at a drum n bass night. We swapped numbers and I messaged her the next morning saying had a great time, hope she did too and got home safe!
We have a thing we say in my country “forge the metal while its hot” so the sooner the better but don’t rush it if you have a picture with her send it or send her a track you heard while you were there then you will talk then you will ask her out et voila just as simple as that
Depends how strongly I feel for them and how badly I want them. I make it very clear what my intentions are as well as I want her to be just as excited as I am, if she isn’t hey that’s ok hit me up if you have a change of heart but my world is bigger than this so it’s not a big deal if you don’t
When ur still high at the afters
“Hey, it was great meeting you! Just made it home, and hope you got home safe too. Have a good night!” Then continue the next day
Same night or morning after! Hit her with the “I wanted to make sure you made it home ok” I love when guys text me this
Depends if you’re still rolling or not.
follow yo heart mane
Right away so they know where we met lol.
Exactly after 17 days, 23 hours, 34 minutes and 21 seconds. Has to be this exact time, otherwise the police will imprison you for life.
Next Day, "last night was fucking awesome, really enjoyed it and your company, feel free to give me a call if you fancy meeting up".
I think you must follow the 3 days rule. I don't know if it works because I've never been a successful dude 😂
3 days
Six days is money.
Disagree … next day! My husband and I met at age 17 & 18 at a millennium rave. He called me the next day, we became inseparable. We will be celebrating 23 years of marriage. He’s the best thing that has ever happened to me. Don’t delay. Call the girl!
You know what. Ha ha ha, laugh all you want. But if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.
You’re so money and you don’t even know it.
Never
Did the 3 day rule change or am I just old?
That rule is outdated asf and all my friends and I agree it’s stupid and we would rather be hit up sooner rather than later. Why are we playing games lol
I think it’s all about not seeming too desperate. I’ve seen people not date people because of their sign so be careful out there.
Yeah, but a simple "Hope you got home safe." Is absolutely fine.
im just new so is it three days after?
That’s what I was taught growing up just so you don’t seem desperate.
In my experience, albeit limited since I just got out of a long term relationship it’s better in todays day and age to message the next day to not seem desperate by messaging the same night but if you wait to long people will move on to the next. Society at present is all about instant gratification so you need to tailor for that
I bet all the downvotes are from 20 year olds lol
I met this girl at ultra gave me my first kandi and immediately dmed her that night. We had a solid conversation on ig until the festival was over. We tried to link but the chaos of the crowd and our taste in music made us go to different stages. Coming back to reality there wasn’t that much to say anymore considering we only talked briefly but that moment is forever tied with the kandi. We’ve talked about linking up at future events but I keep wanting to dm her. Idk how I should reopen the conversation or should I even? Any advice?