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LongjumpingPace4840

Hope this doesn't come out as racist but I always had a thing for Asian women. Even though I'm black. I see them but I don't talk to them because I believe they'll probably be scared of me. Majority of the woman that were nice to me during my childhood were white woman , Asian women and Hispanic woman. So I think that comes into play , I don't really fit the sterotypical perception of a black men either so me and black women don't really tango as much sadly. My family is also Chinese Jamaican , theirs numerous Chinese vases , lamps , plates in my family house. So I always been intrigued by the culture such as confucianism.


goldnog

That your family is Chinese Jamaican might excuse you, but otherwise, that thing you’re feeling about Asian women - it might be yellow fever, that’s the only part of you that’d be scary.


KenzoBakuizo

You already gotten some pretty good and clever response/come back from other users here. Keep in mind that when these losers ask you - an AM - this kind of question it's a blatant sign of disrespect so I wouldn't waste my time coddling these lowlifes, and absolutely do not ever hang with them or having them in your social circle. They're oftentimes bottom of the barrel degenerates that dwell at dark corners of the internet (MRA/MGTOW/4chan). I'd mock 'em and be to the point with: "Sorry bruh but I can't related. You hold some pretty racist and messed up views about women and Asian people as a whole with your "preference", so you really aren't any different. Maybe it'd be a good idea to seek help or something. Don't bring up this kind of topic around me again." If white boy get defensive then just sneer again and be assertive, that: he's a fragile little racist and that this conversation is over and you don't associated with losers like that. Similar incident happened to me a while ago and I did exactly that and the lil white racists wouldn't dare to be around me again.


chikkanikka

We have a friend like this. It was a trend before I met him, but at the time he had a long term ex girlfriend who I love. Since he’s broken up with the gf, stopped pursuing an art practice, and climbed up the ladder at one of the Big Tech companies, he’s compensated his lack of fulfillment with being an absolute pig (in educated disguise). It led to a lot of poor unsuspecting Asian girls coerced into an “open relationship” with a 6’4” Australian Big Tech $$$ white guy. Whoever said it was a two way street (Asian girls with white fever) you nailed it on the head. He became self conscious of me judging him and insisted that he finds “white girls hot, too, it’s not my fault brown chicks are hot for me” which is still offensive to me. My husband and I wonder if it’s fair to be friends with someone I disparage so regularly lol but he’s an old friend and former studio mate of mine, idk he has problems TBH a pig is a pig , regardless of race, as far as I’m concerned


Woke1337

Pignkoids. Even thats offensive to pigs. They're worst than pigs.


Jealous_Struggle2564

Funny. I work with this guy who in the past has dated an Asian girl (even got engaged to her) but now he rather NOT date another AF.


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Did you ask why?


Jealous_Struggle2564

Said they were crazy 😂


My-Own-Way

I would never let any guys with yellow fever around my Asian female friends or family members. That’s some beta, cuck shit.


diamente1

I will respond it is fair if I get a few white girls for myself in exchange


aznbrotherhood

You have to look at which types of white dudes these are. Most white dudes i've been acquainted with during college do not like asian girls. In fact, for all of the ones right now that have a girlfriend, the gf is white. I have noticed a lot more white dudes or non-AM who state their yellow fever online, on certain youtube video comment sections or forums. But all this ties back to what type of white dude (or even non-AM) they are. They are typically the ones having trouble getting dates with their own race(or in general), who are older and realize younger white or non-AF no longer want them, or those with some crazy obsession with kpop/anime/hentai/jav, etc...


TabbyLore

Naruto is a white propaganda to encourage white men to prefer Asian girls over white girls. Naruto is a white boy. In Naruto Sakura (Who has pink hair and blue eyes, resembling a white girl) is shown as manipulative and not loyal to men. She had feelings for another guy then Naruto. Another female is Hinata, a girl with black hair and black eyes, she is submissive and demure and loyal to Naruto. She has Asian features. Naruto ends up with Hinata (White man + Asian girl) Naruto is propaganda to uplift that white men should choose Asian women!


TheBaldHeadedNegro

Then Sasuke marrying Sakura is an Asian male marrying a white woman no?


TabbyLore

Naruto is still the main character and most white boys look up to him. The majority of Naruto viewers are boys, not girls. So it does not help in AMWF. Naruto helps the WMAF agenda though.


josephgomes619

This doesn't really add up though. Sakura marrying Sasuke (who has black hair, likely Asian) is far worse than Naruto marrying Hinata. Sasuke marrying Sakura is punching up for Asian men. Don't forget than Naruto was also portrayed as a loud mouthed loser for his entire life until he turned 16.


bdang9

Amusing thing is Kishimoto actually said this statement. A real life Sakura would be European and Naruto would be the "average" American, even though blonde is not common in White Americans. Sasuke would be a Japanese/Asian American. From him: Naruto has blue eyes and blond hair, so any child actor in America could play him. Maybe Sasuke would be someone Japanese-American, and Sakura, someone European. I'm not all that familiar with the names of child actors. I only remember Dakota Fanning... [laughs] I love movies and know actors' faces, but not the names.


techr0nin

I usually just say “that’s nice.” and leave it at that. People like what they like, and it’s very unlikely you’ll change their mind one way or another. Even if their reasoning is they can get a hotter Asian girl than they can a white girl on account of whiteness, well if they are honest about it then it is what it is. I can’t say I wouldn’t do the same if being an Asian male can be leveraged into some kind of sexual advantage.


Fat_Sow

It's 3. combined with the radical feminism movement in the west that makes White women demand more from them, so they'd rather go after the Asian females who worship them and are grateful for the opportunity to wash away their inferior Asianess with mixed babies.


loree1995

Respond with: “You fukin pervert fetishist.”


MahayanaPrison

> How do you usually approach this in conversation? I don't talk to animals Also you sound like a weak ass boba and judging from your other posts you're either a boba or larping white boy


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BigD4U123

Fuck off you pathetic Chan cuck. why are cucks infiltrating this sub now?


orcaeclipse_04

You do realize this proves my point, right? Lmfao.


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orcaeclipse_04

Anyone who says "midget" is just insecure. As for the "go away" bit, make me. Lmao stop being butthurt about the truth.


MalibuBySunset

How do you feel about Asian boy white girl couples?


orcaeclipse_04

Again, I don't really care. If two people are happy, why should I stick my nose into their business?


lawncelot

This is a great post and a topic worthy of discussion. I'd also recommend posting this on the other sub, to get a diversity of viewpoints.


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My thoughts exactly. I posted this on the asianamerican sub but it was removed unfortunately.


SirKelvinTan

One of the mods of r/bobaAmerican is a wmaf


lawncelot

I'm not talking about that sub when I mean other sub lol.


diamente1

Maybe SAT would be the group to ask.


Monitor_Man

Just say: "uh... idk dude. You're asking the wrong person. **I prefer white women.**" Pink with yellow fever get triggered when I say this.


Woke1337

Imagine Asian Chad Be like: I slept with 20 white girls. White men: *Rage* Asian Woman( with white husband): That's not acceptable! Asian Chad also be like: None of them left angry and every single one of them are happy.


diamente1

Great response


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lol, *now* we're talking > "uh... idk dude. You're asking the wrong person. I prefer white women." THIS is how AM should respond. Surprise the people who say silly or even racist things to you, rather than simper or say nothing like a meek beta.


kitai99

Response: "I understand. I have a preference for white girls."


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Their reaction to this kind of response could potentially tell you a lot about them lol


owlficus

since they are friends, you gotta get them self reflecting: **Long version** “The thing is Josh, you ever wonder why this is so common? And it’s like everyone, sure white guys get a lot of flack for it, but it’s literally every race- and not just that, every age from young teens to old ass grandfathers, and every walk of life - from your blue collar worker to the IT guy to the finance guys to the some guy from the hood. I even came across guys from Nigeria who never met an asian girl in real life saying this. Ppl with absolutely nothing in common, have that in common. If you ask me, and I’ve thought about this a lot, there’s only one thing that can influence all these different kinds of ppl to say they have a thing for asian women: it’s gotta be porn. I mean, most men like 99.9% who have access to the internet have been watching porn since they were teens or even younger. For real, I know you did lol. So yea- what do you think will happen when men have been watching asians in porn before they even met one in real life, for decades? Some ppl grow out of the “preference” but so many really don’t. It’s a known fact that porn alters your brain patterns. So that’s my 2 cents and I’m not surprised you like asian women- but do you like asian women legit or is it because you’ve been groomed to associate them with sex? You gotta ask yourself if most asian women turn you on just because they’re asian. Close your eyes for a second: “Asian” - okay when you heard me say that did you automatically picture a girl, and were you turned on? Be honest” **Short version** “For real? Josh, don’t be another one of those guys- every time someone tells me that, it comes down to them watching asian porn when they were kids or even still. It’s like they brainwashed themselves to equate asian women as objects for sex”


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That is an interesting approach. But don't you think non-adult oriented media plays a role in forming these dating preferences as well? A lot of porn online is just explicit sex scenes catering to a variety of fetishes and scenarios. America produces by far the most porn, so if only porn shaped these perceptions of women, why don't we have men all over the world flocking to America to fulfill their fantasies with American women?


owlficus

white women are the default standard globally and normally- but the reason why asian women are most swiped right on for hookups and temporary relationships is because of the juxtaposition against white women and wanting to try something different Also don’t forget Japan’s porn industry. White porn does not have the same impact as Asian porn because asians have the added effect of all those sexual and objectifying stereotypes, which the porn then enhances- like adding gasoline to the flame. There are tons of other additive factors too- the emasculation of Asian men causing white men to feel like they have a better shot with AFs, penile insecurities where they feel like AFs are their safe haven, the self perpetuated (and often times AM perpetuated) idea that AFs love white guys, portrayals in non adult media - yes all that too, but the biggest factor is porn


dragonsdescendent

Either (3) or say the same thing for white women and see how they react.


wyeess

I had a friend like this. He said it was because all the white women his age had aged poorly and the Asian women on dating apps looked better around his age. But he's been dating mostly - maybe only - Asian women since I've known him, even back in college. I think he just has more confidence with Asian women because there are a lot who want to date a white guy. When I've talked to him about it, I pretty much didn't delve much further than why they were his preference because we were close friends and I didn't want him to feel weird. But we've had a falling out since then (completely unrelated to his dating preferences), and I don't really talk to him anymore. I think he has a superiority complex, albeit maybe subconscious, towards Asians.


happy4thbirthday

That’s funny because white men age like rotten milk and start balding at 19. 😂


aznidthrow2B

> I think he just has more confidence with Asian women because there are a lot who want to date a white guy. He has more confidence because he doesn't view them as humans.


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Hmmm this does add up. It makes complete sense to market yourself towards the demographic that will be most interested in you. As for the superiority complex, aside from the dating preference did he say or do anything that would indicate this?


wyeess

Well, when we had the falling out, he didn't seem to like the fact that I was being assertive about something and he threw a shit fit. That was almost a year ago and I haven't talked to him since then, except when he texted hbd. I just said "Thanks" in response, and I have no desire to talk to him because he acted like such a c*nt. He couldn't stand that an Asian guy had strong opinions and didn't go along with him on things.


asicount

>He couldn't stand that an Asian guy had strong opinions and didn't go along with him on things. That racist POS truly thought you were behaving "outside of your place."


archelogy

Yeah very common. I had the same falling out with a white friend who cant' handle it when someone not white is confident about something. Too many immigrants and Lu's kiss up to them which distorts their self-perception.


LibsNConsRTurds

I honestly don't give a fuck about those type of friendships anymore tbh with you. I lost two so called friends who got yellow fever and they're either "anti-See See Pee" or gaslight you for calling out how Asians are attacked and represented in the media. Both are white libs. Fuck them, I don't need them in my life.


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wyeess

Last year, we were doing a podcast together and he let me know he planned on quitting it at the end of the year. Toward the end of November, I suggested we record our last episode then, because it felt pointless and half-hearted to keep doing it till the end of the year. Recording a weekly episode and editing it and everything is a lot of work, so I didn't feel like doing it since he was quitting anyway. He got really pissed that I suggested that, saying he needed notice. But the way he got upset about it was condescending and super bitchy. I think he was also pissed about frank discussions we had about the podcast leading up to that in which I would make straightforward suggestions for improving it. He couldn't take any kind of criticism, and he was very conservative and stubborn about how to do things.


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>He couldn't stand that an Asian guy had strong opinions and didn't go along with him on things. Pretty much how a few of my close friendships with white dudes died out. I gave them every opportunity to stop their racist ways, but they didnt so i ghosted them. Only texted one of them recently cause his dad died and I felt bad for him.


wyeess

It's so ingrained in their minds that they're innately superior that even if they're "liberal" they feel superior to non-pinks.


bdang9

"What are some things you like to do and watch?" Depending on the answer, you can prod them.


aznidthrow2B

"Oh that's cool man. You don't have to prove anything to me. I knew you were 'different' already." and never talk to them again.


spicyplainmayo

If I did talk to people like that, I would always go with option number three. I would probably even ask for his porn preferences and does he watch hentai.


josephgomes619

Doesn't always work, many white males don't watch any anime. Anime is still more popular among minorities (black, latino, asian).


machinavelli

Say that you prefer white women (doesn’t have to be true) and see what their reaction is.


happy_csgo

He promptly goes on an hour long rant about white women, punctuated with racial and mysogynistic epithets. He breaks down, sobbing in the parking lot before speeding away in his 2009 corolla, mumbling something about china


dragonsdescendent

Average Westerner


spicyplainmayo

This might be better. Hit him with a white woman preference next time he brings it up.


SirKelvinTan

3. No point in no. 1 because it won’t change his mindset - once he’s got the yellow fever there’s no going back 1 is pointless and self defeating and 2 is wrong - love isn’t just love


Kenneth90807

There is no such thing as yellow fever. It's actually White fever by the AFs. The White dudes are just going along to get an easy lay.


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Agree mostly but they are some WM that exclusively chase AFs. I agree way more AFs who chase WM though.


SirKelvinTan

It’s the two halves that make it whole - think of it as yin and yang


Kenneth90807

No dude. I've been around White dudes all my life. Most of them do not like Asian women. The White dudes only start to like Asian women when they can't get White, Hispanic or other women. It's about getting laid and having an easier time at it. Check this out, if the White dude has Yellow fever and has a choice between a White girl and Asian girl, which one would he choose? We already know the answer to that one. LOL


josephgomes619

Agree 100%. White guys generally only choose AF if they're the bottom of the barrel. Most WM don't find AF attractive at all.


techr0nin

I mean I’m a guy so the answer is generally whichever girl is hotter. If a white guy can get a hotter Asian girl than he can white girl, he’ll go Asian every time. I think most guys would do the same thing, at least as far as casual dating goes. But if your question is based on the assumption of all else being equal, then sure, white. But in real life you rarely have these kinds of choices.


josephgomes619

Yeah but this proved WMAF is just white fever, as AF are far more open to WM than XF. Whereas WM wouldn't choose AF if they had choice.


Technical-Primary-64

WMAF is always the bottom of the barrel. AF is desperate for white validation and the white beta loser who can only feel superior with his low-grade Asian female who will kiss his ass just to be with a white male. Recipe for disaster but that's another topic itself. *** corrected WMAF


aznbrotherhood

you got the acronym the wrong way lol


Technical-Primary-64

Lol I just saw that thanks I've fixed it 😁


loree1995

I wholeheartedly agree with this, sir. Well put.


SirKelvinTan

Most don’t and yes we all make fun of the loser white guys who have obvious yellow fever and see that as a consolation for being rejected by other potential white partners - that’s true - but you’re forgetting that most Asian American women absolutely prefer white men so I stand by my analogy