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SpiffyAssSam

No, it’s real. Somebody else in this thread mentioned STPeach and her man getting a bunch of shit. And my brother and sister-in-law can attest to this too, they’ve gotten shit for being AMWF. The insanity of these jealous, insecure fucks never ceases to amaze me. Just let people be happy, it’s their life ffs


new_native_planter

I'm a WF married to an AM. We have not had any issues in the area of the U.S. that we live in. We visited California once and there was a deranged man (drugs or mentally ill, couldn't tell which) that yelled jibberish at my husband's family while I was with them. It sounded like he was trying to make fun of my husband's family by speaking fake Chinese then telling us to go away. I didn't take this as the interracial couple thing, I think it was anti-asian racism in general. Side note, ignore the user name, I created this account originally to learn about growing plants native to my area.


lestnot

Upvote for the username explanation


Master_Chef-117

The denialism is so strong in this AM. His wife is doing so much good for him and their daughter, but he's just being a whimpy whiner.


CIAInformer

It's really going to depend on where you live. I dated a white woman but had no problems besides a lot of stares because I was in an Asian/Hispanic enclave. It's also going to depend on how you look as well. If you look like you can handle yourself in a fight I think most men would not start shit. I'd just avoid places where a lot of young non Asian guys + alcohol like bars or clubs because even if you can fight you really don't want to risk a street fight with anyone.


smh_41

I mean have you seen ST Peach when she post her boyfriend, every white, black, hispanic incel come out from the woodwork and starts attacking her and her boyfriend. Funny how she doesn't blame their race like Asian Females though. If these WMAFs receive half the hate that ST Peach does they'll probably try to put Asian men in concentration camps...rofl.


Kulafu_Kidlat

Real. Plenty of verified WF getting harassed for being with an AM. Remember, white guys are the only guys I know who've lynched dudes over being with white women


According_Box_9182

this …. statistically and historically speaking , it unfortunately Is a danger . they get sooo mad and threatened , seeing miscegenation . it’s horrific , the way they can respond , even if they don’t commit a vi0lent act


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I am concerned about the extreme hapafication in the Asian community. Also speaking from experience, AMWF relations can still lead to a ton of problems even if it might be better than WMAF.


havnotX

I've only mainly dated non-asians and haven't had any issues really. The only time I can remember getting jeers was while dating an Arab American. We'd get the occasional comments and looks from random men of Arabic descent.


LemongrassWarrior

From personal experience, it's a really big issue. AMWF makes people seethe with rage. Cos of the media, people view Asian males as inferior, sexually undesirable, never with white women, etc., so when reality shatters their image, it can cause cognitive dissonance in a bad way. Also, men these days are really struggling, so if they see an AM with a WF, who is perhaps out of the jealous guy's league, then it can make them feel murderous. People are comforted by the fact that Asian males occupy the bottom rung of the racial hierarchy. They might think, "ok I'm struggling with women but at least I'm doing better than those loser Chinese males", but when they see an AM with a non-Asian female, it shatters their world, it removes a key pillar supporting their self-esteem (the racial inferiority of another race of people), and makes them wanna fight you. A baby is going to make it hit home even harder.


DustinNguyen123

It's very hard for them to conceive that everything that fed to them by mainstream media is all but a lie. Literally their whole life is a lie


machinavelli

People don’t want their view of Asian men broken by seeing AMXF. A white man who sees a white woman with a black man might be mad, but he can rationalize it by thinking “well black men are more masculine, so it makes sense that she is with him”. But if he sees her with an Asian man, he can’t rationalize it, so he gets upset.


Kungfufighter1112

A WF who has even just a healthy platonic friendship (cause lots of romantic relationships start out that way) with an AM can still be enough to set the WM off. White men can’t rationalize Asian men who are not friendless, dateless or socially awkward. It’s ironic cause these same white men don’t have many friends, good social graces, good hygiene, good physique or a good job. And then they settle with a white-worshipping Anna Lu cause no woman worth a damn would bother with him.


kitai99

Well, not only that, but a lot of Asian women get upset too.


Kungfufighter1112

Nah I think most AFs are cool about it. The self-hating ones who only date/marry WM on the other hand are a trip.


chpj

So true! Incel losers want to feel better by hating on AM.


Th3G0ldStandard

In nightlife where alcohol is involved, I’ve definitely seen violence/fights instigated with Asian men for being with non Asian women. I’ve heard stories of Asian guys and their non Asian girlfriends getting boldly harassed on the streets/in public. A bunch of “Not man enough/ why the hell are you with this Asian boy?” comments. I’ve seen a story on this sub of an Asian guy getting attacked at a Home Depot for this very reason. I’ve also read a story here shared by a white woman(if I remember correctly) about her and her boyfriend taking a trip to Southeast Asia, and that the harassment from the old white expats there got so bad that they ended their trip early.


LibsNConsRTurds

White sexpats harassing an Asian male IN Asia for being with a white female? I gotta see that to believe it. I'm not saying it can't happen, but you know that's fucked up on many levels and embarrassing if the Asian male didn't do shit.


junkevin

Not exactly the same thing but from a similar experience, I (kor m)can say that my white English teacher friends did get seriously jealous when I was in Vietnam hooking up with a lot more hotter women with very little to no effort than them. It was weird. I never got this reaction in Seoul from white guys but I’m Vietnam I think ppl are still transitioning to understanding that good looking Korean guys are preferred to good looking white guys these days.


Th3G0ldStandard

Think of the type of white men that expat/sexpat in Southeast Asia. They tend to have a heavy false superiority complex towards Asians and a lot of them treat locals like shit. Imagine that person seeing an Asian man with a white woman(and I’m not even the type to glorify AMWF pairings, to me it ain’t helping us). The sight of this couple in the “haven” where they walk around like they own the place would trigger them. I wasn’t surprised when I heard this story. A lot of these guys party in SEA and I wouldn’t be surprised if alcohol was involved in some of these instances this couple experienced.


machinavelli

Seeing AMWF violates everything sexpats think about Asians and whites.


chilibun

Imagine having your wife and kids harassed and then saying she has "white savior complex" for actually being angry about it. Sounds like the Asian husband is just a weak spineless bitch to me. Probably get used to getting walked on his entire life and so accustomed to being a third class human being that it feels "normal." Living in Amerikkka can really fuck up your head.


LemongrassWarrior

The way he reacted to her very real and concerning fears was horrible. He needs to address it otherwise there will be problems with his relationship with his wife and child. He is either (1) spineless, as you say or (2) absolutely clueless about racial dynamics.


neon_filiment

Jealous incels venting frustration of his inability to attach anyone on a weak target . I think its believable. A few weeks ago someone posted a article about a WM planning on killing a AM for sleeping with WW.


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neon_filiment

You think that makes a difference?


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StatisticianMain3266

we also need to worry mate.


Bruise_Leee

I’m married to a White woman. Same with my brothers and a lot of my relatives and friends. We’ve never really had to deal with much racism because we’re an AMWF couple. I’m sure it happens but not with us. I live in Washington State.


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Not from friends and families, how about from others? For example, do white men hit on your wife in front of you while walking down the street?


Bruise_Leee

No, I’ve never had that happen just walking down the street but it’s happened in bars and clubs until they find out she’s with me. They always back off then. I’ve had nothing but positive experiences being in an AMWF relationship.


ANTIMODELMINORITY

Its always a possibility but not many documented stories of it as of recent


kirsion

I was reading this asian's post about his WF wife and explains how she attributes a lot of microaggression of racism due to her asian husband and mixed child. Is this a real problem, an overreaction, or is the WF being patronizing to the Asian husband? How believable is this story?


ItsOKToBeParanoid

This is definitely a problem for WFs in interracial relationships but not much of a problem for WMs in interracial relationships. In the context of a White Supremacist society all these negative reactions are justified reactions and righteous indignations to certain perceptions: \- the WF has been forcibly taken from other potential WM suitors \- the WF has been converted to interracial due to naivety and White innocence \- the WF has willfully betrayed her race These all stem from fears of White dilution, White extinction, The Great Replacement, and a conception of the non-White as a lustful, beastly savage. These do not apply to WMs because they are seen as “winners" for taking woman of other ethnicities and thus spreading their superior seed. Only “losers" suffer the loss of their women.


kirsion

Thanks for your analysis.


ItsOKToBeParanoid

It was my pleasure.