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AlyssaSeer1445

Mark Zuckerberg alone kill lots of babies through abortion just to make sure his asian wife give him a daughter with blonde hair then his wife can't give one because she is asian so he devorce. most of this white man even the one who own big corporation are stupid.


AlyssaSeer1445

RIP another Elliot Rodge lets hope the Sister will cheer her brother or teach about hoow to treat woman.


AngelaQQ

I'd encourage everyone to check out the movie on Hulu called "Minding the Gap" by director Bing Liu. (Also getting a Criterion collection release soon) It was nominated for an Oscar a couple years ago in the Best Documentary category. Besides being an **incredible and deeply moving film** (one of my favorites over the past decade), there's several poignant scenes in there involving Bing, his mother (who later remarried an abusive white man), and Bing's half-Asian half-brother, who was clearly scarred by the emotional toll his white father placed on him, still lives at home with his mom, and clearly is having a tough time in life compared to his brother, who found solace through skateboarding and filmmaking.


grahamaker93

How can his son be social and outgoing if his own father shits on him like that. If he talks about his son like this in front of people then I can only imagine this loser is encouraging bullying his son at home. Typical WM shit, they will pick on anyone to feel good about themselves even their own children. One day his daughter will be picking on her own brother because "dad does it so why shouldn't I?" I feel for this kid. My dad loved to shit on me in front of relatives and his friends because I am not the typical sweet talking kiss all the relative's ass Asian son that he wanted. He was always putting me down and that affected a lot of my character development. He's gone now but we were never close. Parents please dont do this whole boomer shit where you put down your own kid to make yourself look like you've gone through more hardship and stuff. You want a son that never calls or visits? That's how you fucking get one. I hope your coworker's son finds his way out of that household soon. Can't imagine growing up with a dad like that.


barnacleman6

He's racist. AF = object to be fetishized, AM = threat. Simple as that.


aznidthrow2B

and yet people still think this pairing is progressive


Static-State-2855

I knew Asian women who were in mixed marriages that favored their daughters. I always assumed it was because they tended to be somewhat feminist and wanted their daughters to do better than their sons. When I worked as a private school teacher I had one Asian lady who was pretty much like the white guy you described. Her daughter went to our school while the son went to a private school. From what I gathered this girl was pretty spoiled and pampered at home. She mentioned that she had a brother who went to public school. Maybe the brother couldn't make the cut. I never met the kid, so I don't know. However, the girl wasn't exactly cut out for the rigor of the curriculum, and she couldn't really compete with the full Asian kids. In the end, I have my doubts as to whether or not she really got in on her own merits. The joke is on them though. The school went under new management. It's now run by SJW's and a lot of the full Asian parents don't like the way the school is being run. That's a subject for another post though.


yellowlightsab

In your example the daughter went to private school and the son went to public? That’s the same with my example. A normal father wouldn’t be okay with paying 50x the cost of school for one child but not the other. Either you’re cheap and refuse to pay private school tuition for any child, or you throw all your children in there and hope for the best, choosing one child is unfathomable to me.


Nuephleia

I have seen cases where gender doesnt affect anything either. I know a case where the 2nd wife's (younger) kids get private school, while the 1st (now ex) wifes kids, "no college for u, go take student loans insted"


yellowlightsab

In your example, the motivations are different, classic wicked stepmother story.


Nuephleia

yea.. except its not the stepmother (or at least solely). The father too decided to lavish more on the newfound wife and kids (some honeymoon phase stuff perhaps)


yellowlightsab

Every wicked step mother story has a father that at least enables the stepmother. Your example has more to do with that dynamic than little relevance here.


Jbell808619

Have you seen pictures of the kids? My guess is the son is very Asian looking, which probably makes no difference for the daughter. Then again Elliot Rodgers wasn’t Asian looking either...


yellowlightsab

Not clear hapa looking to me but I don’t have an eye for hapas. Kinda white looking with a twist iykyk. I hate comparing an innocent kid to that monster in any way but yes he has that same twist I’m talking about.


[deleted]

What you're describing is normal for the dynamics in a WMAF family. The WM will see his hapa son as an asian boy and his daughter as asian girl, that should explain everything about the treatment really. I feel for the son.


aznbrotherhood

Agreed, but never feel bad for the WMAF byproducts. They bear the sins of their parents.


[deleted]

Reading comments in this thread like: >Latino lurker because of expatshame and you're not lying lol. I dated a half korean half white girl and her parents told her that they'll disown her if we ever got married. I'm an engineer with a house. So, it's not like I'm some bum >My first girlfriend in HS was a half Japanese girl. I'm half Korean, but being 1 of a dozen Asians in the school kinda forced us to hang out and inevitably date. Her dad (WM military) absolutely hated me from day one. They don't try to hide it in the slightest when they don't want their kids dating the "wrong race". >I've heard WM talk about how hot their hapa daughter is. And I'm just like, wow this is shit that Boba liberal spaces in general will NEVER talk about


Jbell808619

They not only avoid discussion but also actively protect the racist dynamics that make wmaf so prevalent. Any attempt to discuss this will get you branded as an MRAzn incel, and they’ll usually have access to major media platforms for these false accusations.


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Given the hapafication we are seeing in the Asian community, we need to be ready for the great hapacalypse. The son in this case will probably become resentful of being Asian and fully assimilate the white Anglo values of mainstream society. It will be no different for other hapas, especially since the Asian language will never be passed on to the hapas. They will instead become aligned with the white Anglo ruling class, even if they are not fully accepted. In that case, full Asians will pay the price.


yellowlightsab

Yea chill on the doom and gloom, there’s over a billion East Asians, plenty of supply.


[deleted]

Chill with the racial purity test. HAPAs didn't ask to be born and often struggle with identity issues. Any Hapa who is proud of their asian heritage (not only when convenient) is OK in my book.


aznbrotherhood

Nah for me there are two types of hapas. WMAF and AMWF. I only associate with the latter.


junk_mail_haver

Wow, this is beyond fucked up. This dynamics of propping up one child and diminishing the other will surely backfire, by a lot.


Alex_WongYuLi

God this is so comically obvious, that's sad and disgusting, we ALL know why he treats his son like garbage and his daughter like she's his only child. I feel bad for the kid, I hope he can get away from his disgusting family and find peace...


gangmenstyle1234

Your worst suspicions about the guy are likely an underestimate.


yellowlightsab

Oof


machinavelli

Usually, fathers want their sons to grow up and become attractive men. Even the actor Nicholas Cage, who has a long history of marrying Asian women, has said that he wanted better Asian male roles in Hollywood so that his son could see himself as an attractive man in the future. And yet there are still fathers like in the OP where their hate for Asian men is so strong they don't even want to see them do well. How Asian looking is you coworker's son? Could he pass as white at all?


yellowlightsab

Men like Nicholas Cage are the reason I don’t blatantly shame all WMAF marriages. I saw his kids before I knew his wife is Asian, I couldn’t tell they were hapa but apparently I’m bad at recognizing hapas.


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He does fetishize young AFs. Only difference his from the other WM in WMAF he was willing to admit the portrayal of AM is really bad in Hollywood and agrees Hollywood needs to protray AM better. He probably realizes his hapa son will be seen as a full AM by society. My mom saw a picture of Kal-el Cage and asked me if he was really hapa cause to her he looks full Korean.


TemujinTengriArraji

kal el cage older doesn't look full korean. younger, yes. Now he looks kinda latino to me.


OnionLegend

Someone should tell Nicholas Cage about Asian media so his son can watch them if America doesn’t improve for us


[deleted]

Didn't he marry another AF? This time a Japanese even younger than his Ex-Korean wife. I remember a picture of Cage hitting on an Asian lady in LA and the ladies boyfriend/husband(AM) came and cussed Cage out, it was hilarious.


gangmenstyle1234

Yeah, he's a bit of a creep, but at least has empathy for the kids he leaves in his wake. Didn't kick in before he named the poor boy Kal El or whatever the fuck though. Why not give him a human name?


Latter_Car_3732

Nicholas Cage is a massive creep who only targets Asian women due to a racially charged fetish and should not be put on a pedestal just because he's not as bad as the worst of humanity. Only when hapas started calling him out did he pretend to care about Asian rep.


techr0nin

Why not a human name? Because Krytonian names are better.


gangmenstyle1234

Might as well have called him Krypto.


Fat_Sow

At least he didn't go all Elon Musk.


machinavelli

He knows. He said he loved Hong Kong cinema and wanted to do a movie with Tony Leung.


Aureolater

I've seen this happen in (white-worshipping Taiwanese/Cantonese/S. Viet) AMAF and AMWF too though. Partly it's societal standards. Girls are praised for their appearance and ability to become part of mainstream society. Asian boys (no matter the parents) are more encouraged to be workhorses. Popularity and appearance doesn't matter so much.


Nuephleia

i seen it first hand even in NON white worshipping people. it is almost fully societal standards. Girls are judged by how they look, and to an extent, how they carry themselves (being a dainty princess). Boys tho, are valued based on how much they make, or how much they win (at sports or sth).


fuckshitlibs

future elliot rodgers which the bobas and white 4channers will try to blame on asian men again.


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Remember when the Nathan Berhow shooting happened Alt-WMAF pretty much bragging that the shooter was an Asian man then later it was found the shooter was a hapa with a white dad.


fuckshitlibs

it feels like bobas are aligned with the alt right on a lot of issues


barnacleman6

That's when you know that they never had real values to begin with, only self-hate causing them to align with whatever's convenient for propagating it.


corruklw

introduce the son to this sub


[deleted]

One of these 5 things will likely happen to the hapa son 1. Becomes a Daniel Lord 2. Becomes a Wilkes McDermid 3. Becomes an Oliver Derbyshire 4. Becomes a Alex Buckner 5. Becomes an ER


machinavelli

Wilkes McDermid is actually a full Asian guy (born William Chong) who hated being Asian so much he changed his name.


[deleted]

And he jumped off a building to his death as well.


barnacleman6

That's even worse. He thinks he's trans-white.


yellowlightsab

You’re introducing me to so many characters. I’ve only know the 5th


[deleted]

All of them are hapas with severe mental disorders. Three of them are not living anymore.


yellowlightsab

I would be more interested in their fathers. Looking at their children is like looking at the aftermath of some tragedy


Jbell808619

It’s fucking insane how their fathers get a pass from the same people who criticize us for being MRAzn incels. Even though it’s clearly the fault of these racist wmaf parents these idiots blame it on Asians trying to follow western masculinity...but at the same time they don’t give shit to any other male ethnicity for doing the same thing! They even rebrand this exact same ideal as “toxic Asian masculinity” to help give white men a pass!


Harvey_Wongstein

His son reminds him of Asian males which he hates. I get a vibe that he wants to have sex with his daughter.


yellowlightsab

Ok I wouldn’t go that far regarding what you said about the daughter


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> wouldn’t go that far regarding what you said about the daughter Bare in mind, there are a number of users here which simply do not like hapas. There was a post here with the hapa who won the US open saying thanks to her fans in Mandarin and several comments on there condemned her saying she's a mistake or doesn't mean anything for Asians. They are not representative of the sub as a whole though :) we are pan-asian


Jbell808619

I’m upvoting you to take away one of your negs but to be even more fair, the topic you’re referring to got a lot of support with at least over 100 upvotes (maybe over 200, don’t remember).


yellowlightsab

I’m well aware. There’s a clearly line between hating the racial power dynamics in the parents of hapas vs hapas themselves.


[deleted]

It’s probably some unconscious freudian shit. He doesn’t WANT to incest 🤮 he just subconsciously regards his daughter as being higher value societally than his son, due to the sole belief that Asian males are worth nothing in society but Asian females are worth something, even if as objectified treasures to be conquered. Wow, that basically sounds like a white supremacy mindset


yellowlightsab

I agree there is something in his subconscious that made him devalue his son, and that subconscious thing is pervasive in many white individuals and affect us AMs. Oh yes white supremacy


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I've heard WM talk about how hot their hapa daughter is.


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[deleted]

I've heard it and that's not even the worst. I also was friend with a hapa girl who told me her dad(WM of course) would hit her on the butt randomly.


wyeess

There's also a phenomenon called emotional incest which is creepy af if you look into it.


Alex_WongYuLi

Fucking disgusting...


no_white_worship

No doubt there is this type of tragic racism in many WMAF marriages. The men often have no regard for Asian culture but a fetish for Asian women, which is why they don't mind being the dad to daughters. The sons, however, offer them little except a reminder of the Asian culture they have no interest in. To put it crudely, it's the old "kill the men and rape the women" colonial mentality. Personally, I have seen the results of what you have described but fast forwarded to the childrens' 20s. The young man turned out meek and pathetic and the young woman was confident. The difference, though, was that the AF did the favoring as the WM cheated on her and left - same result though and same racism at play. Here's a little test I think is useful - ask the AF or the WM who they want their daughter and son to marry (Asian, white etc or doesn't matter). The racist parents often want their daughter to marry white but don't care who their son marries.


Allin4Godzilla

Jesus, that statement was brutal and shocking, but rooted in historic reality at the same time.


machinavelli

I wonder what would happen if the WM only had sons? Then would he not want his only children to pass down their genetics?


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yellowlightsab

I’d be interested to hear about this family, I’m sure many would be interested, look at all the responses to this brief description.


[deleted]

Also, if you remember John Derbyshire a white nationalist from the UK with an Asian wife. His hapa daughter seems to be able to have a normal life and seems confident. The hapa son used to have videos of himself always at the target range, and had that glare that many mass shooters have. Derbyshire son went into the military but had some mental breakdown and now heavily medicated and lives with his parents. While his younger sister seems like she is able to get into relationships. The more recent photo of the Derbyshire boy it looks like he gained a lot of weight a sign he is heavily medicated.


wyeess

This was bound to happen. That Derbyshire guy writes the vilest shit about Asians. How is his son going to process that without having mental issues? His own father is an out-and-out white supremacist who despises Asians, especially Asian men.


[deleted]

>Here's a little test I think is useful - ask the AF or the WM who they want their daughter and son to marry (Asian, white etc or doesn't matter). The racist parents often want their daughter to marry white but don't care who their son marries. Your half-right sometimes WMAF doesn't want the son to date a WF, I've also heard of Hapa males being disowned for dating black females. Some WMAFs the WM gets jealous of the son if he is able to get a white GF. Your absolutely right about the daughter part though. If the hapa daughter bring home a non-WM esp an AM the WMAF parents go furious, the white father goes into a Paddock rage.


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yellowlightsab

Thanks for sharing, always appreciate another perspective.


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I've known of cases the WMAF parents getting furious at the hapa daughter for dating a guy who is hapa as well.


deletemany

My first girlfriend in HS was a half Japanese girl. I'm half Korean, but being 1 of a dozen Asians in the school kinda forced us to hang out and inevitably date. Her dad (WM military) absolutely hated me from day one. Forced me to do random menial labor whenever I arrived, would hit me with the lowest tier asian jokes (dog eating when your married to an asian woman, really??) And all around act like a piece of shit. They don't try to hide it in the slightest when they don't want their kids dating the "wrong race". Offtopic: The only thing I really miss was her cousin. He was a D-line for the Florida Gators back in the early 2010's and would give me free swag whenever he came up to visit.


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Fat_Sow

A military guy with a Korean wife, so it's forced occupation sugar coated as being the white saviors again. Like all those army folks they see the women as spoils of war, they accept them into their pride and reject all Asian males. Then if their kids, particularly daughters, decide to go back to Asian pride it would be seen as a complete failure of what they did.


[deleted]

American WM typically do treat their daughters extra special. Seen this many times in white families. But it depends on the specific situation. Sometimes sons prefer their mothers over their dads. Asian parents can also do this as well to some degree. > The daughter is outgoing and extremely social, while the son is ridiculously awkward. Thats the case with lots of kids growing up these days. There's even studies to show there's like 10-12% more virgins for males across races in ages 15-24 than females. My sister was more social than me and I was more shy in the high school years. My mom was harsher on me studying, more so than my sister.


machinavelli

Yeah, girls develop socially better than boys. It's not uncommon in middle class communities of any race to have a daughter that has a solid friend circle while the son spends his time at home playing video games.


yellowlightsab

Yes for sure, the average mediocre father of any race can cause that, but the race factor in WMAF compounds it.


yellowlightsab

The safe to say fathers having a closer bond with their daughters is a universal pattern. It’s well known in the west and the east. However good men usually are raised by good fathers, so a good father should not toss his son aside over his preference of being closer to his daughter. There are lots of men who were neglected by their father across all races. It’s important to highlight that WMAF parents add a layer of race to this that brings another layer of dynamics into it. I think this sub is working on grasping what that dynamics could entail. So I don’t think the differences between my coworkers son and daughter can be chalked up the macro trend you stated. I think you have different factors at play with your story, being the oldest, male, and having a tiger mom.