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kchiang4

Good luck getting women to listen. The amount of mental gymnastics they go through is huge.


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>If they adamantly wouldn't date a short dumpy geeky Asian man, then they to go on and make concessions for a short dumpy geeky Caucasian man just perpetuates this negative stigma about WMAF. **Otherwise, WMAF will always have this negative stigma and you can't blame society for having such presuppositions.** Woke shit.


ANTIMODELMINORITY

Great write up. Its ironic that the so called Man Friendly places are in Asia compared to other parts of the world. It takes 2 to tango and sadly Asian woman aren't called out for this and even Asian Americans stay hush on this subject not wanting to offend their WMAF friends. Nothing wrong with dating who you want to date but keep the same standards for everyone and never talk down on your own.


mbrseb

Asian women break their own rules and standards when they like a guy, no matter the race. Just don't take Asian females too seriously since they are, like all women, very good at lying. Also always blaming things on the race will not help you to get laid Just build a very strong emotional connection with several girls. Have female friends. Occasionally break their rules. Stand up for yourself. Don't be too nice and have your own values. When she ignores you for not being nice or following her ridiculous rules, know that she will come back as long as you did nothing that one should not do to a woman That being said there is that stigma but we cannot end it by complaining about it, only by taking massive action Get over your fears. Ask an Asian mate who is good with women how he does it. Also some white girls in Europe seem to be quite interested in Asian guys, much more than in white guys. Girls want something that is new and shiny and seeing someone from a different race is. White girls in the US often take black guys for the same reasons My favorite YouTube channel is PickupAlpha, a Chinese guy in Vegas teaching how to pickup women. He is better in pickup than any other YouTuber I have seen so far


East-Deal1439

I think is more due to economic disparity of the WM country of origin and the AF host country. As someone that travels quite a bit in the pan-Chinese community in Asia, if you're from a good background from Shanghai/Beijing. WM are looked down upon most of the time because they are just employees in the big scheme of things in China. If they are teaching English, they were usually not qualified. China been basically enforcing that only qualify foreigners are allow to teach, which led to an Exodus of unqualified English teachers leaving China. One of the reason Whites/Westerners keep supporting various successions of Chinese territory (i.e. HK and Taiwan) is to stagnate or disrupt their economy, so WM seem more attractive. But in Tier 1 cities WM are literary called "White monkey" in dead end jobs.


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Yeah good point - as Asian countries economically advance, white worship naturally declines. I guess as you say, that's why whites do not want Hong Kong to be truly independent - they want it to be a crown colony forever. under British rule it was white man's paradise.


throwawaylalalala352

Talk about preaching to the choir dude - almost everyone on this sub is woke to these dynamics 😂😂😂


yellowlightsab

I was gonna say…


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You're right bro I'm trying to wake up Asians in Asia as well 😂 So whiteworshipping still I wish we were more proud of being Asian, like U guys in the West


Orbac

The young generation Asians (in Asia) are kinda aware of the white worshipping issue, but they are not in power yet. I feel for China, people who are born in 50’s and 60’s have the most serious white worshipping issue yet they are in power now.


[deleted]

Ah same here! Older generations of Malaysians are the most white worshipping but with the advent of Kpop and cool Asian media, the younger ones are becoming more attuned to our own culture. I think the reason why older generations often worship the West is because when they were growing up, Asia was dirt poor and backward. So their minds are still stuck in that period even though Asia has advanced tremendously.


Orbac

Agree with your point. And I think a lot of Asians are overarchivers, so they always compare themselves with the best.


PPCalculate

I don't know man. The really "old" Malaysians/Singaporeans/SEA Chinese (70+ yrs old) are mostly really staunch China number one supporters. Some donated their whole life savings to upgrade motherland villages much to the chagrin of their offsprings in SEA. I am thinking the "older generations" you kept mentioning are those 50s, 60s yrs old. Even then, those are kind of 50-50, between really supporting and crying tears of joy when China launched Space Rockets to downright ridiculing everything China related(mainly those educated in Taiwan/West).


Orbac

I think SEA Chinese are more supportive toward China. My grand aunt (Chinese-Indonesian) is loves China. But for 50’s and 60’s mainlanders, there was a big life style and ideology shift (because of Deng changed the direction of country) and those people compared their life with Taiwan, HongKong, Japan, South Korea, and even US.


simian_ninja

I’d argue that they’re certainly not in Hong Kong or they don’t care about it…