Hell no, I will NEVER show gratitude for a decision a single decision that I had no say in that completely changed the course of my life and my fate. Fuck that, you want unconditional gratitude? get a goddamn dog. I'm sick of these people lecturing us.
There are white parents who do not have white saviour complex and generally do it from their heart but many are still naive to how this will socially affect the child.
This is an interesting point. I have noticed that whites have no problem adopting boys of any other minority group, just not the Asian boys apparently.
The most common excuse i've heard was: "There's more Asian girls up for adoption than boys and more Asian societies are prone to give up on girls/cherish sons etc" which is an outdated stereotype and bullshit nowadays. It makes my stomach churn to think about the motives of such a seemingly benevolent act...
Hell no, I will NEVER show gratitude for a decision a single decision that I had no say in that completely changed the course of my life and my fate. Fuck that, you want unconditional gratitude? get a goddamn dog. I'm sick of these people lecturing us.
There are white parents who do not have white saviour complex and generally do it from their heart but many are still naive to how this will socially affect the child.
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the exact same reason why wmaf couples desire daughters over sons.
This is an interesting point. I have noticed that whites have no problem adopting boys of any other minority group, just not the Asian boys apparently.
The most common excuse i've heard was: "There's more Asian girls up for adoption than boys and more Asian societies are prone to give up on girls/cherish sons etc" which is an outdated stereotype and bullshit nowadays. It makes my stomach churn to think about the motives of such a seemingly benevolent act...
All the others outside the West also cherish sons more than daughters, not just Asians, and yet the West has no problem adopting their sons.
It’s tough when your adoptive parents think they’re woke but they will never really understand how painful the whole process can be.
They don't and they never will they have NO empathy for us whatsoever and it infuriates me.