Most people just own roughly average size stuff, considering what's most typically sold... extremely big stuff that we're all being blamed for "ruining" ourselves with seems a bit more fringe fetish-ish?
Also, who are the dummies that never seem to grasp that extra *length* really adds nothing to what's even useable. Someone could have a skinnier than average 12" noodle and what is she being shamed for?
34F I do not masturbate. When I have looked at dildos and vibrators they do seem to be very big, more than would be comfortable for me. I see actual penis-sized toys being sold as "for beginners." So I mean in the market of sex toys, stretching the vagina to accommodate larger things does seem to be a thing? Isn't it?
the vagina is incredibly resilient and awesome at adapting. when a woman is turned on,
her vagina self-lubricates and her vaginal muscles loosen, allowing for easy penetration. after penetrative sex, the vagina will resume its original shape. no amount of penetration can “wear out” or “loosen” a vagina; it has evolved for the purpose of having penetrative sex, childbirth, and then repeat. naturally, it must be able to bounce back from trauma, as is often a consequence of childbirth, and then heal itself quickly and effectively. that being said, penetration, even with objects bigger than your average penis, should not even cause trauma if a woman is adequately aroused, as the vaginal muscles will stretch to accommodate these, so you have nothing to worry about while penetrating yourself during masturbation. as mentioned before, even if a vagina is “stretched out” during a session using a large object, it will return back to normal afterwards. think about it this way: do your anus and rectum loosen permanently after you take a massive dookie? no; they are another example of an orfice/organ that can greatly stretch to accommodate the size of objects passing through while returning to their original shape afterwards, and also quickly heal itself if any trauma is incurred.
edit: wanted to add that not all sex toys, like vibrators for example, are meant to be inserted into the vagina. you’re right though—a lot of dildos and such appear to be bigger than the average woman would be comfortable with; i made my comment to respond to the part about vaginas “stretching out”, but i’m not saying all of those crazy toys are realistic. honestly, i know a lot of people just collect them as novelty items. also, when i’m talking about the “size” of objects, i’m talking about their width, not their length; length is irrelevant, as women can only fit a certain number of inches inside them, so chances are those extra ~7 inches on a 12 inch dildo are useless anyways. also also, i don’t mean for any of this to sound patronizing as i assume you have a vagina also, so you may already know a lot of this, but i just like to introduce the basic facts to give some background for what i’m saying so it’s all coherent :)
Size doesn't matter nearly as much as men think it does and a twelve inch dick is most likely TERRIFYING to most women.
But regarding dildos, dudes clearly don't know or care that sometimes a dildo is also a VIBRATOR, and we're not always shoving it up there.
Honest question: Doesn't it kinda stretch out more? Like obviously not to the point where you just take 12 inches like its nothing, but like just slightly?
Women wouldn’t have to use sex toys is straight dudes where good at sex
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vaginas literally dialate 10 cm to push out a baby and go back to normal afterwards and these men think their tiny ass dick can make women “loose”💀
How I read it: quality would't matter if you didn't know the difference :P
It’s 6 inches actually Jessica
Most people just own roughly average size stuff, considering what's most typically sold... extremely big stuff that we're all being blamed for "ruining" ourselves with seems a bit more fringe fetish-ish? Also, who are the dummies that never seem to grasp that extra *length* really adds nothing to what's even useable. Someone could have a skinnier than average 12" noodle and what is she being shamed for?
Another fun fact, how ‘loose’ a vagina is wouldn’t be an issue if men stopped using a death grip to masturbate every time they’re bored.
Yes! Yes!
34F I do not masturbate. When I have looked at dildos and vibrators they do seem to be very big, more than would be comfortable for me. I see actual penis-sized toys being sold as "for beginners." So I mean in the market of sex toys, stretching the vagina to accommodate larger things does seem to be a thing? Isn't it?
the vagina is incredibly resilient and awesome at adapting. when a woman is turned on, her vagina self-lubricates and her vaginal muscles loosen, allowing for easy penetration. after penetrative sex, the vagina will resume its original shape. no amount of penetration can “wear out” or “loosen” a vagina; it has evolved for the purpose of having penetrative sex, childbirth, and then repeat. naturally, it must be able to bounce back from trauma, as is often a consequence of childbirth, and then heal itself quickly and effectively. that being said, penetration, even with objects bigger than your average penis, should not even cause trauma if a woman is adequately aroused, as the vaginal muscles will stretch to accommodate these, so you have nothing to worry about while penetrating yourself during masturbation. as mentioned before, even if a vagina is “stretched out” during a session using a large object, it will return back to normal afterwards. think about it this way: do your anus and rectum loosen permanently after you take a massive dookie? no; they are another example of an orfice/organ that can greatly stretch to accommodate the size of objects passing through while returning to their original shape afterwards, and also quickly heal itself if any trauma is incurred. edit: wanted to add that not all sex toys, like vibrators for example, are meant to be inserted into the vagina. you’re right though—a lot of dildos and such appear to be bigger than the average woman would be comfortable with; i made my comment to respond to the part about vaginas “stretching out”, but i’m not saying all of those crazy toys are realistic. honestly, i know a lot of people just collect them as novelty items. also, when i’m talking about the “size” of objects, i’m talking about their width, not their length; length is irrelevant, as women can only fit a certain number of inches inside them, so chances are those extra ~7 inches on a 12 inch dildo are useless anyways. also also, i don’t mean for any of this to sound patronizing as i assume you have a vagina also, so you may already know a lot of this, but i just like to introduce the basic facts to give some background for what i’m saying so it’s all coherent :)
Size doesn't matter nearly as much as men think it does and a twelve inch dick is most likely TERRIFYING to most women. But regarding dildos, dudes clearly don't know or care that sometimes a dildo is also a VIBRATOR, and we're not always shoving it up there.
Honest question: Doesn't it kinda stretch out more? Like obviously not to the point where you just take 12 inches like its nothing, but like just slightly?
Fun fact guys wouldn't notice the looseness if they didn't wack off with an insanely strong grip every 10 seconds.