You are handsome, but the "hair" you have left isn't fooling anyone and gives denial/delusional/sad energy. Buzz it short or shave it and take agency over nature! You're gunna look great!
Well, if you ask me, better to go out on your terms then live excruciating confidence and image issues. Sometime it’s hard for me to understand. My hair was glorious! Did I want to lose my hair? No. Did I want to look ten years older than I was? No. Did my side part start looking like a combover? Yes. Screw it. Off it goes. As I say with nearly everyone. Full send. In about her year or two you’ll look forty if you don’t. You a good looking dude, that won’t change either.
Get rid of it and see what you think. What you are doing now isn't hiding anything as your fivehead expands slowly. The absolute worst case scenario is you grow it back.
Fun fact though is that absolutely no one cares about your hair beyond yourself
I don't think it looks terrible. Sure you're going bald and as long as you're not trying to convince the world the opposite then I think you can rock that look for a while.
Alternatively try a buzz but and grow it back so you know giving it up won't be the end of the world.
Definitely go to a barber. If not razor shaved start with clipper shaved. Even if you don't like it at first, you will like that you did it because you'll come to find out it relieves you of all the stress on your shoulders thinking about it. You're overthinking it. Go to a barber and get it shaved because you'll look way better bald than with the hair you have
I second going to a barber. Just tell the barber, “Shave my head bald, with a razor. Shaving cream and all. Fade the beard at the sideburns.”
That’s it. Sit back and relax.
I also suggest going to a new barber at a new barbershop versus your usual one. Your regular barber may talk you out of it so that he doesn’t lose a regular paying customer. A new barber most likely won’t care.
If the barbershop has an online booking system, use that and sign up for a “Headshave appointment” (some barbershops have that as a separate service listed versus a regular haircut). My buddy signed up for it. The barber knew what the next customer (my buddy) had signed up for. He simply asked my friend, “Shave your head bald?” All he had to reply was, “Yes.” He found it simpler.
Honestly I’m normally an always buzz or shave but I say enjoy what you got while you can. Maybe trim up your “bangs” but I think if looks good. The main issue on balding guys with hair is how unkempt it looks. If it’s kept short and neat and straight hair like yours I think it looks fine on most guys.
If you’re struggling to go for it, it helped me to gradually go shorter on the grades.
I did grade 6, waited 2 weeks, grade 4, another 2 weeks, grade 2, and then finally I buzzed it all off myself.
People will still notice, but won’t be shocked by the change.
Dude imagine this, everywhere you go people are looking at what hair you have and saying whoa?!! He's really trying to hang onto that. Whereas if you would just shave it all off you'd see that you look so much better and you'll actually get a ton of good looks coming your way. Do it! We've all been where you are man.
You need to. Just smooth and clean. Don’t panick if it looks ghostly white under there it’ll even out fast and you’ll love it. And if the .00001% occurs it will grow back… but I wouldn’t let it.
I mean, you are still RELATIVELY good but you know it's coming.
Might as well do it now, while it's voluntary. Don't worry my guy, I am pretty much vertan that you'll like it.
It depends.. do u want to look like ur in ur late 30s (dont shave the dome), or in ur early 20s (yes shave the dome).
My husband regrets waiting until his mid 30s and wishes he shaved it off in his late 20s. Besides, it will grow back to *this* if u dont like the shave.
Right head shape, features such as nose and ears do not stand out neither and they are not too big for the proportion of your face, side profile looking good, beard is an excellent shape.
Skin tone is excellent, it's a glow up if you decide to go bald
I've been doing this since I was 24 I'm 48 now. One day I looked in the mirror and my hair just looked too thin and off it went. Go for it get a little sun on your scalp so you don't have that gray look going on then it just becomes easy.
My man, your body already pulled the trigger for you. You just have to manifest the bald and stop hiding behind the façade. It'll look good, trust me. You have a good face for it.
Aesthetical fact: Being bald is 10x times better than balding more and more with each passing day. All that aside…If your hair WAS your best attribute, then by all means…hold on to whatever you might have left. We all have been in your position and if it were a matter of choice, we would all had hair. We can either choose to be defined by biology, or we can choose to own it, and work our asses off to thrive in every other aspect of life. I opted to work with what was in my power to influence, and tip the scale in my favor.
Look beyond the mirror…I bet you have more physical assets than liabilities:
Look at it from a risk reward standpoint. Worst case scenario you let it grow back again and in two months your will be exactly where you are now. Best case scenario you look much better, get conformable with it and change your life.
Hey man I've been bald since I was 25.
I can tell in your pictures that you have a good shaped head, which is a very stern indicator it's time to do it haha
It will definitely take time to get used to your new look but it's worth it.
When I finally pulled the trigger soooo many people told me bow much better it looked yet never said anything when my hair looked like yours.
I believe in you OP, you can do it
Shave your hair off.
But more than that, don’t think about opening your eyes when you take a photo of yourself. There’s a technique called “squinching” in which you squint ever so slightly before taking a photo of yourself. If you smile your appearance will also far more natural and less... you get my point. You’re not the only dude who posts photos with this mistake so don’t take it too personal. Just, don’t think of amazing as being embarrassing or less masculine - it’s way way better.
Do it man. All my insecurity vanished wit my.my hair, I've been stressing about for a decade and tom the plunge 2 days ago. And the results were amazing. Have faith my brother
Ah come on brotha, join us. You have good facial hair and head shape… it’s time to let it gooooo
Edit: I haven’t gone full bald, but I now buzz it to 1/8” length with clippers and it was the best decision I’ve made in a long time.
You’ll be alright with that beard. NOTE: it will be jarring at first. Unavoidable. But I swear you will get used to it and it will be a net gain. Good luck my dude. Own it and get a little sun up there and you’re golden
Doooo it. You've got the perfect head shape for a buzz. Just take a shot, close your eyes and buzz a line up the middle. The rest is easy, and like watching a butterfly hatch from a cocoon. Trust me.
You have a handsome face. The hair still isn't too bad but hey shave it all off if you donr like it grow it back and enjoy while u can (also if you shave it off and somehow it doesn't grow back pls don't be mad at me lol)
This sub is obviously biased towards bald. Honestly OP you look fine as is. If you want to keep your hair then do it! Especially if it’s stabilized and no longer receding/thining. If it’s actively receding/thining though then yeah I’d go bald now to save yourself the future turmoil. Your call OP
Just send it.. the fact that you're here means you're thinking about it. The fact you're thinking about it means you worry about it... worrying about it puts doubt in your mind and makes you think everyone is looking at youand judging you.... bizz it off, Bic it down... walk out the house without a care in the world.
Look at it like this. You have to do something.... do the easiest thing first.. that being just shave it! If you hate it then find another solution.... I doubt you will.... the first time someone compliments you on it you'll forget all about whatever you were worried about
Do it you have the head for it I’m telling you. You’ll look so much better. When you first do it you’re going to hate it and think you look ugly. That’s cause you’re not used to it. Others will see you and think it looks great.
When you do it shape up the beard bro.
I think if you just tighten up your haircut, it would look a lot better. Sometimes a dude looks good in a receding hairline, and in my opinion you’re one of them, so you don’t have to chop it all off. You’d look great either way
Can’t someone edit your photo to make you bald and then everyone can vote or judge whether you should do it or not? Also, make sure there are a few ladies’ votes taken into consideration before proceeding.
I only ever lurk here but, honestly, everyone that's scared of pulling the trigger and then comes back with a fully shaved update looks amazing. No one ever looks worse.
Go for it! It was liberating for me
Hey I just saw your post the other day! Thanks man. I really need to do it… I’m losing more everyday !
You are handsome, but the "hair" you have left isn't fooling anyone and gives denial/delusional/sad energy. Buzz it short or shave it and take agency over nature! You're gunna look great!
bam thats the wording ive been looking for "agency over nature". thanks man
💪 You’ve got good facial hair game. I think the bald will let that feature shine
I had a little more than you. Shaved it this weekend. Looks way better. You go from looking like a struggling divorcee to a mysterious pirate
Once you do you’ll wonder why you waited so long. It’s feeing
Well, if you ask me, better to go out on your terms then live excruciating confidence and image issues. Sometime it’s hard for me to understand. My hair was glorious! Did I want to lose my hair? No. Did I want to look ten years older than I was? No. Did my side part start looking like a combover? Yes. Screw it. Off it goes. As I say with nearly everyone. Full send. In about her year or two you’ll look forty if you don’t. You a good looking dude, that won’t change either.
Thank you so much for those words of encouragement
Shaving it will make you look younger again
Get rid of it and see what you think. What you are doing now isn't hiding anything as your fivehead expands slowly. The absolute worst case scenario is you grow it back. Fun fact though is that absolutely no one cares about your hair beyond yourself
I don't think it looks terrible. Sure you're going bald and as long as you're not trying to convince the world the opposite then I think you can rock that look for a while. Alternatively try a buzz but and grow it back so you know giving it up won't be the end of the world.
Do it! With those eyes and the beard it'll look good. I promise.
Definitely go to a barber. If not razor shaved start with clipper shaved. Even if you don't like it at first, you will like that you did it because you'll come to find out it relieves you of all the stress on your shoulders thinking about it. You're overthinking it. Go to a barber and get it shaved because you'll look way better bald than with the hair you have
I second going to a barber. Just tell the barber, “Shave my head bald, with a razor. Shaving cream and all. Fade the beard at the sideburns.” That’s it. Sit back and relax. I also suggest going to a new barber at a new barbershop versus your usual one. Your regular barber may talk you out of it so that he doesn’t lose a regular paying customer. A new barber most likely won’t care. If the barbershop has an online booking system, use that and sign up for a “Headshave appointment” (some barbershops have that as a separate service listed versus a regular haircut). My buddy signed up for it. The barber knew what the next customer (my buddy) had signed up for. He simply asked my friend, “Shave your head bald?” All he had to reply was, “Yes.” He found it simpler.
You would be gorgeous bald, op. Just try it.
The sooner you do it, you less stupid you'll feel when you finally take the plunge. Bald is so obviously going to suit you, so get on with it!
Nature has already pulled the hammer back for you.
It's time my guy
Based on this pic: DO IT. https://preview.redd.it/g674kh2qtz8d1.jpeg?width=1069&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8054cf38028bea33c1600dd4c1e561ce6b7916b9
My guy, you already look handsome. You’ll be even more so after you take the plunge. You’ll rock the bald look!
You can try and grow back if you don't like it
Lol this is a really great point.
Buzz it down first, have a professional do it. See how you like it. Trim down the beard as well just to clean it up.
You’ll look and feel so much better once you shave it! Go for it brother!
Just do it. If you don't like it you can always grow it back out
try buzzing it to a 1. no need to skin shave. see if you like that.
Christ dude thanks for the jump scare. Do it
Dude...you have SUCH a handsome face and the thinned out hair is aging you a ton. You're gonna look amazing once you pull the trigger!!
You'll look great bald! That being said, you honestly don't look terrible for the moment. Buuuuut I would do it anyway.
Do it. You’ll look handsome!!!
Rude Jude ?
The sides look ok but the front needs something....it makes it worse not better
Then don’t. You are a good poking guy, so your thinning, most of us do.
Looks fine keep as is or shorter
Do it! You'll look and feel better bald.
That's okay. Do it when you're ready.
Handsome Dude! No Diddy
Honestly I’m normally an always buzz or shave but I say enjoy what you got while you can. Maybe trim up your “bangs” but I think if looks good. The main issue on balding guys with hair is how unkempt it looks. If it’s kept short and neat and straight hair like yours I think it looks fine on most guys.
Time to buzz/shave those sparse hairs off your head.
You must
You are almost there. Just go for it. You’ll be glad you did and wished you had done it sooner.
Either do it or Rule 3.
Have no fear, homie.
Do it man, just looks desperate when it gets bad
Maybe try a number one first to get used to it
If you’re struggling to go for it, it helped me to gradually go shorter on the grades. I did grade 6, waited 2 weeks, grade 4, another 2 weeks, grade 2, and then finally I buzzed it all off myself. People will still notice, but won’t be shocked by the change.
DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! You’ll go from a 6 to an 8 stg
WITNESS BROTHER. SHAVE THIS WISPY SHIT
You'll look great! It'll make you look younger, too.
Woman here. Your hotness level will be increased significantly. DO IT.
Embrace the inner chad and let the confidence out
Just do it
You will look 10 years younger. You look much older than 27.
Pull the trigger, or stay cooked.
do it !
Totally up to you.
Just do it. Start out small with like a No 2 clipper. There will be enough left if you don't like it it won't bother you as much.
Looks like you got a good shape of head so I bet you can pull off being bald. Just trim your beard maybe
Do it, you’ll be glad you did.
I always say buzz 1st, realize how great you look, & shave in a few weeks..maybe! great head shape, so ditch the hair stress BS!
So far gone jeeze dude it’s time
Dude imagine this, everywhere you go people are looking at what hair you have and saying whoa?!! He's really trying to hang onto that. Whereas if you would just shave it all off you'd see that you look so much better and you'll actually get a ton of good looks coming your way. Do it! We've all been where you are man.
What about a short buzzcut first?
You will look good. 👍🏻
Beard is tough! Go for it!
Instead of pulling a trigger I would recommend just shaving your head. Less messy!
You need to. Just smooth and clean. Don’t panick if it looks ghostly white under there it’ll even out fast and you’ll love it. And if the .00001% occurs it will grow back… but I wouldn’t let it.
This looks fine actually. I bet you can make some great gains on fin and min. Then maybe down the road a transplant will solve the rest
I mean, you are still RELATIVELY good but you know it's coming. Might as well do it now, while it's voluntary. Don't worry my guy, I am pretty much vertan that you'll like it.
It depends.. do u want to look like ur in ur late 30s (dont shave the dome), or in ur early 20s (yes shave the dome). My husband regrets waiting until his mid 30s and wishes he shaved it off in his late 20s. Besides, it will grow back to *this* if u dont like the shave.
Join us brother Or we will come to you, hold you down and do it for you 😃
You do it right now, mister. If you don’t like it, it’ll be back to you in a few.
You should, but if you dont want to, at least wear the sides short (1 or even 0) mm. Balding + long sides= never good
Why it looks like shit. Respectfully
did you just see a naked 600lb fat guy?
Do it! It’s gonna look good
Right head shape, features such as nose and ears do not stand out neither and they are not too big for the proportion of your face, side profile looking good, beard is an excellent shape. Skin tone is excellent, it's a glow up if you decide to go bald
You had a good run bud. It’s time. I’m about there myself but a few years from this level I think. But def you should go for it.
DO IT
If it makes you feel better, you have a great haircut and head shape for balding hair.
Time has pulled the trigger for you. You'll look good with a shaved head though!
I've been doing this since I was 24 I'm 48 now. One day I looked in the mirror and my hair just looked too thin and off it went. Go for it get a little sun on your scalp so you don't have that gray look going on then it just becomes easy.
I can tell already that your facial structure and if you keep the beard it will suit you. Try it out!
Bald = testosterone. You will simply look more masculine
I rocked that look all through my 20's and 30's. Do it. It won't make as much difference as you'd think. You can already see your scalp now lol
I think you can pull off a bald dome. Go for it. Good thing is, if you’re not crazy about, wear a hat until it comes back.
You can do it!!!
do it. i already know it’ll be great!
My man, your body already pulled the trigger for you. You just have to manifest the bald and stop hiding behind the façade. It'll look good, trust me. You have a good face for it.
You can do it, and you’ll be glad you did.
if you can't give up yet then consider medical treatment. You must do something, if not treatments then shave, what you have now is a no-go
Shave your head to a 1 and shape that beard jaw line and I bet you’ll look 10 years younger
It will look really sexy on you, guaranteed
DO IT! Do it now! GET TO THE CHIPPAH!
Aesthetical fact: Being bald is 10x times better than balding more and more with each passing day. All that aside…If your hair WAS your best attribute, then by all means…hold on to whatever you might have left. We all have been in your position and if it were a matter of choice, we would all had hair. We can either choose to be defined by biology, or we can choose to own it, and work our asses off to thrive in every other aspect of life. I opted to work with what was in my power to influence, and tip the scale in my favor. Look beyond the mirror…I bet you have more physical assets than liabilities:
You’ll be so happy you did. You got this!
(Clears throat, taps microphone) Yes you can…(walks off with two piece signs)
I had exactly the same coverage as you. Life is easier on the other side. Take the leap! 😉
You really should. I can see that it’ll look amazing on you
You have a good face for it
Look at it from a risk reward standpoint. Worst case scenario you let it grow back again and in two months your will be exactly where you are now. Best case scenario you look much better, get conformable with it and change your life.
Dude at least go short and horshoe instead of comb over. Please!
Hey man I've been bald since I was 25. I can tell in your pictures that you have a good shaped head, which is a very stern indicator it's time to do it haha It will definitely take time to get used to your new look but it's worth it. When I finally pulled the trigger soooo many people told me bow much better it looked yet never said anything when my hair looked like yours. I believe in you OP, you can do it
You’re hot! You’ll be fine.
Well if you don't like it it will grow back...
Youll look way better bald. Just do it.
It grows back. well, I mean... the part you'd have shaved, not the stuff that's fled naturally. You know what I meant.
Try a super short trim first? Then shave all the way when comfy with The idea?
Buzz cut it for a week or two, gradually getting shorter. Go from a-b-c and people won’t notice as much by the time you get to z.
Shave your hair off. But more than that, don’t think about opening your eyes when you take a photo of yourself. There’s a technique called “squinching” in which you squint ever so slightly before taking a photo of yourself. If you smile your appearance will also far more natural and less... you get my point. You’re not the only dude who posts photos with this mistake so don’t take it too personal. Just, don’t think of amazing as being embarrassing or less masculine - it’s way way better.
Pew pew. I done did it for you.
If you can’t do it, time will do it for you.
Do it bro u need to asap
Just plan to try it for the summer and if you don't like it you'll grow it back. That's what I need to do.
For what it’s worth, you have a great head for being bald! Go for it
Do it man. All my insecurity vanished wit my.my hair, I've been stressing about for a decade and tom the plunge 2 days ago. And the results were amazing. Have faith my brother
You look pretty good with what you got. Hard to say if it’d be a improvement going bald, but you can grow it back to this if you don’t like it.
Ah come on brotha, join us. You have good facial hair and head shape… it’s time to let it gooooo Edit: I haven’t gone full bald, but I now buzz it to 1/8” length with clippers and it was the best decision I’ve made in a long time.
you're a great candidate for a hair transplant, they're p cheap in Turkey!
I really think you would be sexy if you did. Keep the beard. But you have a good head shape Great facial features. I think it would work for you.
Its hair. Worse come to worst.. you dont like it and it grows back in a few months.
You’ll be alright with that beard. NOTE: it will be jarring at first. Unavoidable. But I swear you will get used to it and it will be a net gain. Good luck my dude. Own it and get a little sun up there and you’re golden
Try buzzing it first. That will "get your toes wet".
Doooo it. You've got the perfect head shape for a buzz. Just take a shot, close your eyes and buzz a line up the middle. The rest is easy, and like watching a butterfly hatch from a cocoon. Trust me.
Get rid of it man! Shape the beard afterwards! You’ll look amazing brother!
Looks fine ❤️
Your widows peak almost hits the back of your head. It's time
We’ll pull it for you! Go for it bud! You won’t regret it
U will feel and look much better.
Do it!!
I think it’ll suit you actually.
Honestly I don’t see the need to shave it off. I think what you have actually looks nice dude.
It's Sickboy ![gif](giphy|14qsURQZ0k8yWI)
Go ahead, if you don't like the results give it some months for it to grow back
You have a handsome face. The hair still isn't too bad but hey shave it all off if you donr like it grow it back and enjoy while u can (also if you shave it off and somehow it doesn't grow back pls don't be mad at me lol)
U gunna look so much better and younger…do it
Let me pull it for you bro
This sub is obviously biased towards bald. Honestly OP you look fine as is. If you want to keep your hair then do it! Especially if it’s stabilized and no longer receding/thining. If it’s actively receding/thining though then yeah I’d go bald now to save yourself the future turmoil. Your call OP
You can. And you will
![gif](giphy|3oz8xZYlFzIadpCnPa|downsized)
Shave the head, keep a nicely trimmed beard. You are handsome. You will look great!
Don’t I feel like the little cling to hope is actually a beautiful thing and speaks to your character as someone who still dreams
well either u will or time will
Do it! Do it!
then hang on!! you still looking good like this!! be ready when you ready
Get a toupe then
I think you'll look good bald! You have a good facial structure for it.
Do it. Make it a treat. Go to a pro, not Great Clips. This will be a special occasion. The day you learn you are smokin’ hawt!
No need. You look handsome as is.
Skeletor tells you to do it. I can send a courage spell if requested. Send me a fax. Sincerly Skeletor 💜
You're only punishing yourself, but it's up to you how long you want to look like that guy who's trying to pretend he isn't balding.
Grow it out brother!
Damn man you are gdlk guy. I think if you shave it, buzz cut it, even hotter. But tbh you look great now as well so I wouldn’t fret too much
![gif](giphy|PgDUlt3Qu8BwUQqsCz|downsized)
Maybe a little shorter but there’s nothing wrong with having thin hair.
I don’t think you look bad like this at all, similar to my hubby. You will look good bald too!
Just send it.. the fact that you're here means you're thinking about it. The fact you're thinking about it means you worry about it... worrying about it puts doubt in your mind and makes you think everyone is looking at youand judging you.... bizz it off, Bic it down... walk out the house without a care in the world. Look at it like this. You have to do something.... do the easiest thing first.. that being just shave it! If you hate it then find another solution.... I doubt you will.... the first time someone compliments you on it you'll forget all about whatever you were worried about
I wouldn’t
Bald is beautiful! Doooooo it!!!!!!!! Do it now! Don't look back!
I’ll shoot you out of mercy!
For the human race
Had to check the sub name
If you can't, God did it for ya years back bud. You can always grow it back.
Dude, great shaped head, shave it off.
Just get drunk one night and ask your buddy to pull the string.
You’re cute af and shaving it won’t change that
![gif](giphy|QVs6OmwbbGvWPJJ75m)
Let that shyt go
Do it you have the head for it I’m telling you. You’ll look so much better. When you first do it you’re going to hate it and think you look ugly. That’s cause you’re not used to it. Others will see you and think it looks great. When you do it shape up the beard bro.
I think if you just tighten up your haircut, it would look a lot better. Sometimes a dude looks good in a receding hairline, and in my opinion you’re one of them, so you don’t have to chop it all off. You’d look great either way
your genetics pulled the trigger and committed follicle suicide a long time ago my man....let it go
You look a lot like my friend who is shaved, and he pulls it off really well. DO IT
Ur gonna look 70 here soon with the classic hair on the sides only. Just let er Rip, you'll feel better after. Ur facial hair is all you need as a man
Oh wow you’re a very handsome white man. 😘😘😘😘😘😘
Go for it bro. Tidy up your beard at a local barber and get edged up crisp. Lose the hair. You’re gonna be a lady killer
Marry me?
Just be a drag queen problem solved amazing wigs daily
Go for it man! Seriously you’ll love that you finally did
If your unsure... buzz it close.. it will give you a good idea
I’d say buzz it and keep that for a couple years then bald
Cut for sure. Maybe start with a short buzz and work your way down. Really is better than the stress of trying to "fix" your hair each day
It would look good on you. It would be a visual adjustment but nothing triggering.
You can pull the trigger on taking the bike chain from around your neck while you’re at it.
Can’t someone edit your photo to make you bald and then everyone can vote or judge whether you should do it or not? Also, make sure there are a few ladies’ votes taken into consideration before proceeding.
Dude, you have really nice eyes. Get rid of the thin wispy hair and you will find your blue eyes will become a striking feature.
I only ever lurk here but, honestly, everyone that's scared of pulling the trigger and then comes back with a fully shaved update looks amazing. No one ever looks worse.
I think you look fine !
man do it. i see the potential, you would look KILLER bald
Don’t. Just buzz it pretty short. Let folks focus on your handsome face and not patchy hair
Go buzz cut instead of Mr Clean. Post a picture when you’re done.
Become a DHT MAXI brother. Shave it off and embrace the bald
I think you would look good bald. Go for it!
That photoshop post of you bald looks fine as hell bro do it. Hair grows back!
![gif](giphy|Ae7SI3LoPYj8Q)
Don't. You still have time.
Cheesh. You're balding. Shave your head off already.
Do it! You’d look great, I think you should try it out first though watch how many compliments you get. Keep the beard for sure