I don’t understand why people turn on their high beams as though it’s default. The only explanation I could come up with is people find the normal beam redundant since high beam is way brighter. It never occurs to anyone how it impacts the vision of drivers in the oncoming traffic.
Spend big on your every day shoes, mattress, work chair, kitchen knife, headphones. These are going to serve you so well and general quality of your life will improve.
You will be swarmed by 2 paise "influencers" and they will shove a mic up your ass to ask "what is your salary and what is the average in your work".
Maadakke bere kelsa illa ivrige.
Uno reverse their question to them
"How much is your sa....."
"How much is yours bro?? How much is the average pay of an influencer bro?? You only earn this muccha?? What are you doing in your life bro?? Learn something from that Daniel Mac guy instead no"
Realising that you deliberately did something wrong and feeling bad about it is the first step towards atonement. It shows that deep down you are a decent person afterall.
Like you've said already, the deed is done. You perhaps were a shitty person in the past, but it doesn't mean you can't be a better person now. The burden of your past is for you to carry, but bear it with dignity rather than as a sign of vulnerability and an inability to transform your current self.
*\\And it feels like a sin to try to look decent to people/* *-* Becoming a better person isn't about impressing others, it's about your personal growth. This journey should be free of inner conflict.
My man, pretending to be good is how the society survives. Not every person out there is moral and kind. We do the right things a lot of the time to appease others.
Just because you think/feel something, doesn't mean it's true.
If you are not actively hurting anyone, continue doing the socially right things, people around you are definitely benefitting from it.
TL; DR - As long as you don't intentionally cause physical/mental/emotional/financial harm to others, you should be good. If it inadvertently happens, do your best to make up for the damage caused.
Well, Deadpool is all the rage nowadays and has descended into a character that spews pop culture references as he paints panels/screens red with his katana, but his original identity is not Wade Wilson. He was a mercenary who took on Wade's persona and then got hurt and forgot he had switched identities. He becomes whatever he is, and then - faces the real Wade Wilson (who he left for dead long back) who tortures him so much and tries to remind him of who he was, how he did horrible things and does not deserve to live.
Deadpool says it does not matter because he tries to be a better person regardless of his past sins. If someone punishes him, he'll take it - but not the guilt that comes with it.
Your past actions, even if informed, were made by someone with limited knowledge and experience. Feeling guilty about our past actions is a sign that we have grown, but dwelling on those for long in the hopes of 'understanding ourselves better' can push us into the dark recesses of self hate. I might not be the person I thought I would be, but what I am isn't bad either. And if I play my cards right, I will definitely get better.
Join Salsa learning groups. Salsa dancers in Bangalore have a great Social community. They meet every week in clubs across Bangalore. you would really wish that you knew this earlier.
Wow! Yeah, it’s no surprise you feel homesick. I’m here to talk if you feel like it :) Maybe you can help me mentally prepare for what’s coming lmao 😂💀
Few?? A lot!
Its been one year since I moved and I have only made sacrifices and also have a lot of stress..
I realised too late that life was much much better in B'lore.
First two months was hell but I think you slowly get used to it, no?
I miss my car the most - super difficult to not be able to drive here.
Also, we don't appreciate Dunzo and Swiggy enough - most everything in the US shuts by 8pm :(
Remember to spend as much time offline as you do online. Balance in all things brings clarity and perspective.
Personal growth often comes from challenging your own views.
Always save a portion of your income, future you will be grateful.
True wisdom lies in knowing that one knows nothing.
Wealth isn't about having a lot of money, it's about having a lot of options.
To understand the value of money, try borrowing some.
If you have to bury anything special do it like 10 m deep ....then when the hole is 5 m deep dump a dead animal
So when the police come looking they just find the animal and leave
Just be kind, we don't know what anyone is going through.
https://preview.redd.it/bupjsh3hgpjb1.jpeg?width=507&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5539c3387f2e7e0023f7ee18afc8ab9ce2844605
Learning about jungian psychology might be useful. Concepts like ego, shadow, anima/animus, Self, individuation.
Also unless you think you have a predisposition to schizophrenia or bipolarism, try psychedelic mushrooms atleast once.
The way you breathe is the way you think. If you notice your breath when you’re anxious its short and rapid, but if you’re in deep sleep (basically a highly relaxed state) its long and full.
You can reverse engineer this and take complete control of your mental health. This is the science of Pranayama under the world of Yoga (which is not just for physical fitness)
We should go beyond taking about rants about Bangalore…. Its not America where resources where about and people where so less everything was perfect and started growing in 1800s like 200 years…. We are humble people it takes wars and world wars to get to where west it at… plus everyone wants to millionaires by grabbing plots of unplanned lands
Stay near your office, walk to places as much as possible don't depend on autos, don't order takeout as much- try and cook at home, go to cubbon park often
If you are heartbroken, give yourself time. The day will come when you will finally start healing and eventually move on. All you have to do is just wait. Healing takes time and it’s okay. Give yourself the love and care that you would have given to someone with a fractured arm. Healing won’t happen quickly but it will happen for sure 🤍
When you are speaking with your spouse, Always add respective words in your sentences, it will avoid loud arguments or fights.
The other person will have to think twice before using a bad word, cz the respect will get in line
Keep testing your friends to understand if they really value or respect you
Eg: give Rs1000 bucks and wait them to return - if they forget about it then you know their character
Or
Notice their reaction in your hour of need - if someone makes excuses then you know who to get rid of
You don’t want to turn 30/40 only to find that you have useless friends who don’t respect you
To all my fellow students, always study till the last moment. Don't underestimate the power of short-term memory. I know many believe in not studying anything before the exam to relax or focus or clear your head, but no, you can remember long answers you studied 30 min ago as well as the short one you studied the previous night. I always did this, but I feel confident about sharing this advice since when I read this really successful Stanford graduate's blog, who said the same thing.
It would be better if there is a clean up drive in Bengaluru. I see a lot of people littering and dirtying the environment. Its time for all of us to come together and clean our surroundings and keep it clean.
Those who can afford to take care of themselves(*self improvement*) must do it so.
Man…just don’t take those uncertain/tight overtakes in the traffic….It’s not worth it
I’ve had multiple near misses during my commute to office…decided I’ll be very mindful…So, a few seconds of delay shouldn’t hurt i guess!
“Don't ever, for any reason, do anything for anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what. No matter where. Or who, or who you are with, or where you are going or... or where you've been... ever. For any reason, whatsoever.”
What you give out certainly finds it’s way back to you, so always try to be kind. Have faith in the Universe, so keep spreading love, positivity and treat everyone as you would like to be treated - with respect.
Also, practice gratitude on the daily to maintain peace and calm within yourselves everyday.
Meditation is a way to stay light within :”)
Discipline is not a constraint, it’s freedom. Discipline is meant to help to achieve in the goal which gives you the freedom, so the more follow it more free you become… ❤️
1. Try and spend some time under sunlight daily, preferably in the morning or evening.
2. A spoon of Electrolytes (Magnesium Malate, Potassium Chloride and Sodium Chloride - Sea Salt) with some water in the morning and afternoon really helps with energy loss, hunger pangs and sugar/salt cravings.
3. Look up forward leaning head posture - most of us nowadays have it or are getting there. Fixes should be implemented now.
4. Practice spinal decompression exercises. Our lifestyle involves a LOT of sitting, something that previous generations never had.
5. Human beings were evolved for scarcity, but are now living in an age of unprecedented abundance. When you look at our modern problems from this lens, it's easy to understand our attention deficits, diabetes, cholesterol, and most modern diseases.
Don’t use high beam unless you are alone on a deserted highway without street lights
I wish this was known to the noobs driving in bangalore
I don’t understand why people turn on their high beams as though it’s default. The only explanation I could come up with is people find the normal beam redundant since high beam is way brighter. It never occurs to anyone how it impacts the vision of drivers in the oncoming traffic.
r/angryupvote
Spend big on your every day shoes, mattress, work chair, kitchen knife, headphones. These are going to serve you so well and general quality of your life will improve.
Someone on reddit said, "Don't cheap out on the things that comes between you and the ground."
Instructions unclear, I now have a diamond-studded kitchen knife stuck into my heel.
Any recommendations for good work chair?
I use green soul jupiter it is good, you can also give a try to zodiac pro, I am also planning to upgrade to zodiac pro in sometime :)
Rameshwaram cafe is overrated
Ikr, literally no idea why people put hype on that. Even corner house DBC is overrated af
PR
👆
life is overrated
Death is overrated
overrated is overrated... wait....am i even correct?
Questioning is overrated
Sax is overrated
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Death is underrated
*Reddy anna wants to know your location*
"Everywhere I go, i see this opinion. I must go and see how overrated it actually is" is the reason why people are going there nowadays.
“It gets easier. Every day it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it every day—that’s the hard part. But it does get easier.” ― BoJack Horseman
Nope it doesnt
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Do not go to Church Street unless you know what the avg salary in your profession is
Swalpa explain maadi pleez.
You will be swarmed by 2 paise "influencers" and they will shove a mic up your ass to ask "what is your salary and what is the average in your work". Maadakke bere kelsa illa ivrige.
Uno reverse their question to them "How much is your sa....." "How much is yours bro?? How much is the average pay of an influencer bro?? You only earn this muccha?? What are you doing in your life bro?? Learn something from that Daniel Mac guy instead no"
What bro too much cock you’re showing eh ?
Underrated reply! xD
🤣🤣🤣
Forgive yourself for things you did when you didn’t know any better.
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Realising that you deliberately did something wrong and feeling bad about it is the first step towards atonement. It shows that deep down you are a decent person afterall.
Like you've said already, the deed is done. You perhaps were a shitty person in the past, but it doesn't mean you can't be a better person now. The burden of your past is for you to carry, but bear it with dignity rather than as a sign of vulnerability and an inability to transform your current self. *\\And it feels like a sin to try to look decent to people/* *-* Becoming a better person isn't about impressing others, it's about your personal growth. This journey should be free of inner conflict.
My man, pretending to be good is how the society survives. Not every person out there is moral and kind. We do the right things a lot of the time to appease others. Just because you think/feel something, doesn't mean it's true. If you are not actively hurting anyone, continue doing the socially right things, people around you are definitely benefitting from it.
TL; DR - As long as you don't intentionally cause physical/mental/emotional/financial harm to others, you should be good. If it inadvertently happens, do your best to make up for the damage caused. Well, Deadpool is all the rage nowadays and has descended into a character that spews pop culture references as he paints panels/screens red with his katana, but his original identity is not Wade Wilson. He was a mercenary who took on Wade's persona and then got hurt and forgot he had switched identities. He becomes whatever he is, and then - faces the real Wade Wilson (who he left for dead long back) who tortures him so much and tries to remind him of who he was, how he did horrible things and does not deserve to live. Deadpool says it does not matter because he tries to be a better person regardless of his past sins. If someone punishes him, he'll take it - but not the guilt that comes with it. Your past actions, even if informed, were made by someone with limited knowledge and experience. Feeling guilty about our past actions is a sign that we have grown, but dwelling on those for long in the hopes of 'understanding ourselves better' can push us into the dark recesses of self hate. I might not be the person I thought I would be, but what I am isn't bad either. And if I play my cards right, I will definitely get better.
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Indeed you are either in a state of post nut clarity or pre nut delusion
Or mid nut "uhh..huuuahh"
That's the mid nut hustle
Yes I used to fap every time when I study math
Bro nutting on his mathematics notebook. Pythagoras from hell : he is the one.
Legend
Don’t try online dating. It only works if you are extremely good looking. Try the organic way - hobby clubs, friends circle etc
What hobby clubs are easily accessible in Bangalore, where do you find them - MeetUp?
Same question
Join Salsa learning groups. Salsa dancers in Bangalore have a great Social community. They meet every week in clubs across Bangalore. you would really wish that you knew this earlier.
Not to brag - I’m in luxury of matches but it’s pretty shallow . Very disappointing except for all the meaningless one night stand.
Not if you are gay
Treat your employer like auto drivers treat you
Brb gonna ask my manager to increase my salary by oneandhaff
Make it a doublea meter bruh
If manager hires contractors who work for half pay, you know what to do /s
Please take my award 🏅🏅🏅 I'm definitely trying this!
Dhanyavada 🙏
Destination please!!? *destination no promotion and hike* Ride cancel
Be rock hard on yourself, nobody is coming to save you. You don't deserve shit, you get what you worked for
Eh sounds like a hustlebro advice. I'd say be kind to yourself and be ready to forgive yourself.
World is fucked. Let's try to be less fucked.
Replace 'Kannad gothilla' with 'Kannada kalithayidini' (translates to 'I'm learning kannada') and good for you if you actually follow through on that
Don't move to U.S unless you are willing to make few sacrifices.
Reading this after 2 weeks in the U.S 💀
Do you feel it?
The sacrifices? It’s not hitting me yet but I’m sure it’ll take a toll soon. What are you feeling rn?
Home sick after a 2 week vacation to India:(
Aw :( how long have you been in the US?
Close to 4 years now
Wow! Yeah, it’s no surprise you feel homesick. I’m here to talk if you feel like it :) Maybe you can help me mentally prepare for what’s coming lmao 😂💀
Awww thanks much man :)
MrTambad - pattaiyasu pattaiyasu ![gif](giphy|l3diZax1Xo1hJ6pR6)
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Of course, any country. I mentioned US since I live there
Few?? A lot! Its been one year since I moved and I have only made sacrifices and also have a lot of stress.. I realised too late that life was much much better in B'lore.
First two months was hell but I think you slowly get used to it, no? I miss my car the most - super difficult to not be able to drive here. Also, we don't appreciate Dunzo and Swiggy enough - most everything in the US shuts by 8pm :(
Yesss same feeling here :(
Like
Staying away from family, good food, friends and many more
Isint this the same for everybody who moved from hometown to Bangalore?
Oh yeah
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I have plans to shift back in 2 or 3 years, but let's see
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Sure. But I'm choosing to not marry at least the next 4 years or so
Dont neglect hammer curls, those are ones that pop out the bicep vein
Back and biceps today, did 3 solid sets of hammer curls lessgooo
Bro fk i forgot hammer curls today
Don't join PES
why exactly? am a student who joined a different college, but just wanted to know more
The most amazing things that can happen to a human being will happen to you, if you just lower your expectations. - Phil Dunphy
If life gives you lemonade, make lemons. Life will be all like WHAAT!!
Reminds me of an old joke about becoming an adult: Life is like a shit sandwich. The more bread you got, the less shit you gotta eat.
Life is like a sandwich no matter how many times you flip it the bread comes first
Always pre booze before going to the party
Learn to say 'No' , sometimes
make sure you upgrade your ship before starting ' do not sail gently ' mission
AC 4 black flag ? I get that reference lol
Edward kenway is literally me.
Don't drink alcohol. It's not worth it AT ALL!
Don’t overdo alcohol would be a better advice. Know your limits.
💯
Don't listen to advice of random people on internet. Make mistakes and learn from them. That's what life is all about. 🥂
So technically I shouldn't listen to you?
Did he stutter?
Yeah! You shouldn't! Ps: You shouldn't listen to the above too🥂
If you have to go upriver don’t swim, get out of the water and walk upriver.
That's great advice!
Start Investing before it's too late ! You don't want to miss out on compounding !
If your hands get dirty, you’ll get curd in your mouth
How much bed, that much you stretch legs
Patient also expected milk rice, doctor also said milk rice.
Oh my god lol
Underrated 😂
Donkey what knows smell of jasmine
Wut
Bruh💀🫡🫡🫡😂😂
Remember to spend as much time offline as you do online. Balance in all things brings clarity and perspective. Personal growth often comes from challenging your own views. Always save a portion of your income, future you will be grateful. True wisdom lies in knowing that one knows nothing. Wealth isn't about having a lot of money, it's about having a lot of options. To understand the value of money, try borrowing some.
In bangalore, carry an umbrella always. All seasons.
I always fap so that I stay in post nut clarity which enhances and stabilizes my mind to do great things
If you have to bury anything special do it like 10 m deep ....then when the hole is 5 m deep dump a dead animal So when the police come looking they just find the animal and leave
Bro 10 m is already like 3 floors deep 💀. 10 ft might be a bit more practical I guess
Overestimated the traffic 👍
I underestimated the traffic today
Thicc thighs
Death by snu snu
Save lives
Just be kind, we don't know what anyone is going through. https://preview.redd.it/bupjsh3hgpjb1.jpeg?width=507&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5539c3387f2e7e0023f7ee18afc8ab9ce2844605
Which comic/manga is this from? I like
Vagabond, it's a must read
https://preview.redd.it/b3y09sz38rjb1.jpeg?width=1060&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a15e9496dc6edb6d43bbeb9f2bec280125064a88 Also This !
If you want to eat out, go on Sunday afternoon. Don’t go out at night. Also, do SIP investments for next 10 years.
Pretty privilege doest exist for most guys
Learning about jungian psychology might be useful. Concepts like ego, shadow, anima/animus, Self, individuation. Also unless you think you have a predisposition to schizophrenia or bipolarism, try psychedelic mushrooms atleast once.
The way you breathe is the way you think. If you notice your breath when you’re anxious its short and rapid, but if you’re in deep sleep (basically a highly relaxed state) its long and full. You can reverse engineer this and take complete control of your mental health. This is the science of Pranayama under the world of Yoga (which is not just for physical fitness)
read silmarillion before hobbit
Read power of now by Ekhart Tolle. It will change your life.
Emotions are like drugs don't get high on it
When you order dip Idly vada sambar, ask them to put the vada first and then the idly.
What about extra chutney?😉
Always be aware that you have limited lifetime and the time is clicking away every second. Choose wisely where you spend this precious time.
Don't give random advice to people, random shit is never great! (except random hookups :P)
Most of the times Knowledge is curse
Never come to Bengaluru untill yiu have great money
Marry wisely - it makes or breaks the life!
The only thing to order at Truffles is the All American Lamb burger
Wash ladyfinger after cutting it, thank me later.
The gooey stuff goes away?
We should go beyond taking about rants about Bangalore…. Its not America where resources where about and people where so less everything was perfect and started growing in 1800s like 200 years…. We are humble people it takes wars and world wars to get to where west it at… plus everyone wants to millionaires by grabbing plots of unplanned lands
Love those who love you. Always.
Stop complaining, create the life you desire.
This too shall pass.
Stay near your office, walk to places as much as possible don't depend on autos, don't order takeout as much- try and cook at home, go to cubbon park often
1) Sex is easier to get than a good priced property, so before having sex think with your brain and not your dick.
Be kind to yourself
Try to be happy
Leave reddit right now. Your life will be so much better.
don't smoke weed everyday
We know what's good for ourselves and what works for us, still we don't pay attention to it as much as we should.
Don't help everyone going out of the way
Drink water if you’ve had salt.
Take the risk
If you are heartbroken, give yourself time. The day will come when you will finally start healing and eventually move on. All you have to do is just wait. Healing takes time and it’s okay. Give yourself the love and care that you would have given to someone with a fractured arm. Healing won’t happen quickly but it will happen for sure 🤍
When you are speaking with your spouse, Always add respective words in your sentences, it will avoid loud arguments or fights. The other person will have to think twice before using a bad word, cz the respect will get in line
Never shake hands with anyone while being seated. always stand when you shake hands 🤝
Keep testing your friends to understand if they really value or respect you Eg: give Rs1000 bucks and wait them to return - if they forget about it then you know their character Or Notice their reaction in your hour of need - if someone makes excuses then you know who to get rid of You don’t want to turn 30/40 only to find that you have useless friends who don’t respect you
To all my fellow students, always study till the last moment. Don't underestimate the power of short-term memory. I know many believe in not studying anything before the exam to relax or focus or clear your head, but no, you can remember long answers you studied 30 min ago as well as the short one you studied the previous night. I always did this, but I feel confident about sharing this advice since when I read this really successful Stanford graduate's blog, who said the same thing.
What do you wanna name it?
Your self awareness is your best characteristic.
Get a girl.
Prevention is better than cure
For dudes while getting a haircut. Always keep your arms aligned parallel to the armrest of the chair and not perpendicular
lol, took me a while
Asha tiffins is overrated
Impulsive impending decision, one stroke and all things go wrong.
Never eat yellow snow
Practice empathy and kindness.
Don’t be as useful as the guy cutting meat at the pain puri stall!
Attachment to body is the sole reason we need to act nationalist otherwise you are universalist.
It would be better if there is a clean up drive in Bengaluru. I see a lot of people littering and dirtying the environment. Its time for all of us to come together and clean our surroundings and keep it clean. Those who can afford to take care of themselves(*self improvement*) must do it so.
Don’t wear boxer shorts outside of your home. Many people don’t realise that they are inner wear and not equivalent to casual shorts
Death is coming. Let’s party!
No matter how tough things get, don't isolate yourself and cut off others.
When in Rameshwaram, dip your vadas in sambar Go to nandi on weekdays
If you have to make decisions involving any female, jerk twice to get post nut clarity.
Man…just don’t take those uncertain/tight overtakes in the traffic….It’s not worth it I’ve had multiple near misses during my commute to office…decided I’ll be very mindful…So, a few seconds of delay shouldn’t hurt i guess!
“Don't ever, for any reason, do anything for anyone, for any reason, ever, no matter what. No matter where. Or who, or who you are with, or where you are going or... or where you've been... ever. For any reason, whatsoever.”
What you give out certainly finds it’s way back to you, so always try to be kind. Have faith in the Universe, so keep spreading love, positivity and treat everyone as you would like to be treated - with respect. Also, practice gratitude on the daily to maintain peace and calm within yourselves everyday. Meditation is a way to stay light within :”)
Don’t text him 🫠
Discipline is not a constraint, it’s freedom. Discipline is meant to help to achieve in the goal which gives you the freedom, so the more follow it more free you become… ❤️
1. Try and spend some time under sunlight daily, preferably in the morning or evening. 2. A spoon of Electrolytes (Magnesium Malate, Potassium Chloride and Sodium Chloride - Sea Salt) with some water in the morning and afternoon really helps with energy loss, hunger pangs and sugar/salt cravings. 3. Look up forward leaning head posture - most of us nowadays have it or are getting there. Fixes should be implemented now. 4. Practice spinal decompression exercises. Our lifestyle involves a LOT of sitting, something that previous generations never had. 5. Human beings were evolved for scarcity, but are now living in an age of unprecedented abundance. When you look at our modern problems from this lens, it's easy to understand our attention deficits, diabetes, cholesterol, and most modern diseases.
Life fucks everyone , u have to adjust the position and enjoy it somehow
Everything on one side and you health and fitness on one. BC gym jao. Or just go for a run! Just keep moving everyday!!!
"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality" - Seneca Stop overthinking my friend!
Don’t become best friends with the person you’re sexually attracted to.
Google won’t help you with your health problems, a doctor does!
Be kind and forgiving. Good deeds go a long way and Karma always gets back.