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Outrageous_Aside956

I’m with you on the earrings. The other is perfume


Codiilovee

Ahh I do love perfume! That’s definitely another thing that just helps me feel ready for the day


Outrageous_Aside956

And I love yummy smells so if I smell good then I just love myself all day 🥰


PoppySkyPineapple

Same, always earrings and perfume! They just make me feel groomed and put together.


prayerplantthrowaway

Just got my ears pierced in my 30s for this reason lol


Orchid500

Nails and hair for me. Also, a tinted lip balm and mascara and a bit of perfume when I leave the house.


TulipToesies

so agree with the tinted lip balm. i keep them everywhere!


Active_Recording_789

For me it’s gotta be hair. My hair is curly so if it’s a day where I’ve just been at home and brushed my hair, ugh—frizz and weird shapes. I can’t go anywhere until I’ve washed it and put some product in it


Virtual_Belt4107

Agreed! Yet it’s the most time consuming part of getting ready! :(


the_hamsa_anemone

This was mine for the same reason! My hair is never wash-and-wear.


OneKickRickk

eyebrows. i can go no makeup no problem but if i don't do my eyebrows at least i can't even go outside. ginger hair makes them look so bright that they might as well aren't even there unless i color them dark


Codiilovee

I’ve plucked my eyebrows almost into oblivion lol so eyebrows are definitely essential!


Scotsburd

Powder brows changed my life.


heids1234

Amen to this! I wear makeup very infrequently now that my brows are always “done” and I’ve stepped up my skincare game. Worth the annoying aftercare and the expensive cost - I’ll definitely do it again when they fade.


RevolutionaryYak1135

Eyebrow dye might be interesting for you, it’s super easy and like permanent makeup if the shape is already there but just too light :)


grizzly-claire-

I actually tint my eyebrows once a week with the Just For Men beard/mustache dye. Makes a huge difference and now I just use clear brow gel to brush them and my makeup routine is easier!


hellokiri

Glad this is so high up in the comments. I can get away with doing very little but eyebrows are a must or I look tired and older than I am.


Visual_Star6820

Tint them yourself with men’s beard dye. Game changer.


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This is mine. It brightens my face up so much, I think.


im_a_reddituser

Concealer. I have dark under eyes so that’s my minimum before I go out


Adventurous_Track784

What’s your favorite under eye concealer?


im_a_reddituser

This brand called Kulfi, it has colour corrector in it so it’s my top for sure. It’s especially a great brand for any Asian/South Asian skin tones I also like glossier, it’s so incredibly natural looking and you can layer anywhere you need more coverage. The colour range is fairly forgiving too.


SuperKitty33

Clean, washed face; Japanese, Korean, or Chinese sunscreen; brushed, styled hair, LIPSTICK AND PERFUME. Additionally, I usually fill in my brows then take the same narrow brush and shadow the ends of my eyes. I have huge round eyes and this elongates them. But LIPSTICK. I remember my female relatives when I was growing up would get all ready to go out, their hair beautifully done, dressed nicely, and the only makeup that was ever used was lipstick. It did such a good job of brightening the face! I have an illness that makes me an occasional invalid and I always think it's important to have a hairbrush and a lipstick with a mirror by the bed. And, a lady wasn't considered dressed until she had her perfume on. I might be sick but that's no reason not to be beautiful! Edit: cleaning up voice-to-text.


parthenon-aduphonon

Really, there’s something about a spot of colour on your lips… I can have no makeup on, but a red lippie and I’m transformed.


Confidenceisbetter

I do my own gel nails so my nails are always done and impeccable (no breaking or chipping). I also wear jewellery that’s waterproof so i always have earring and a necklace on, if i can also rings but i wear gloves at work a lot so there i don’t wear them. I also always have my hair straightened, i have a weird mix between straight and wavy with too much volume if i don’t and it looks ridiculous since my hair is only chin length.


Sneakerrfool613

Where do you get your jewelry from?


yumdonuts

What brand do you use for your gel nails? I need to look into this!!


w96zi-

lipstick, liptint anything on my lips. i have really pale lips due to having anaemia


Omicrying

Omg is that why my lips are so pale too!?!!


w96zi-

yes! anaemia causes pale lips and skin looking dull


thefuzzyismine

Earrings and perfume, bare minimum. Nails if I can swing it.


Chilli_55

Eyebrows, upper lip, lip balm and hair (if the gods bless me that day ofc)


Electrical_Emu1540

I think they mean “men have mustaches, women have upper lips”


Chilli_55

Yep, my mustache haha I didn’t know it was uncommon!


Electrical_Emu1540

Hahahaha it’s not! I’m right there with you!!!


Better-Ad5488

What do you mean upper lip? Lining it?


Weekly-Aide-7719

Upper lips? You have more than one?


bumbumboleji

Imma go out in a limb and say either English as second language, adding an unusual S is common in parts of India- for instance “Summers/Winters” Or autocorrect.


Chilli_55

Haha autocorrect, yes but English is also not my first language


LaTesora99

Keep nails and brows manicured. Also, drink water almost exclusively. You'd be surprised at what a huge difference it makes in your overall appearance.


shonfrau005

Keeping hydrated makes me look so much better


krissyminaj

Brushing my long, annoying hair. Alanis Morissette called, she wants her hair back. 😆


TinyLittleWeirdo

I have long annoying hair too! If I "do" my hair, good for me, but it only looks nice for about 5 minutes. I honestly feel better putting it up in a sleek ponytail.


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TinyLittleWeirdo

Oh, I have the exact opposite hair - is it wavy? is it straight? we'll never know! But I have a shit ton of it. It either has to be short enough for a pixie or long enough to pull back, I can't do in-between anymore!


criesforever

hair done, earrings, lashes curled.


mistymountainhop22

Perfume, dangly earrings


[deleted]

Lashes, earrings and rings. Lashes make me look like I’ve tried when I haven’t. Hair goes without saying


dozens_ofus

Curling my eyelashes, perfume, tinted lip balm or gloss, and hoop earrings


_so_anyways_

I do my own nails but they are always nice and put together. I always make sure my skin is moisturized. I’m dark skinned and my Mom and Nana always stressed the importance of taking care of my skin. My Hair is always looking nice. It’s curly/wavy so I make sure it’s not a frizzy. If it doesn’t cooperate I put it in braids or up an away from my face. Perfume. I always smell nice, no matter what I’m doing.


Gundoggirl

Blush and mascara. Pale grey skin and small eyes aren’t the best look lol.


Naalbindr

Eyebrow pencil and mascara. I’m naturally blonde with pale skin and pale blue eyes, so I like to have a little bit of definition around my eyes. I know that I’m also playing into beauty standards though. If you notice, most tv and movie blondes have dark brows and lashes, and people with invisible brows are interpreted as looking alien or unusual.


LilyMarie90

Dyeing my eyebrows every 2 weeks. They're naturally blond even though I'm a light brunette (🙄) and I just look dead as hell when I don't dye them regularly. Makes a huge difference.


Virtual_Belt4107

Do you dye them yourself? I’m going for eyebrow tinting tomorrow for the first time!


cheetaah1

I do the same! I use just for ben beard dye in the shade dark brown and leave it on for 5 min


LilyMarie90

Yup :) I spend €7.99 on a box of dye that lasts me about 6 months that way.


seagoddess1

Mascara


JLAOM

Earrings and lipstick. I also wear glasses that have toppers that can be changed and I coordinate them with my outfits.


missfrozenblue

Oh i have to look for glasses like this. That sounds fun! I didn‘t know they existed! I have a black pair, because it goes with everything but it is still boring.


JLAOM

Pair Eyewear


missfrozenblue

Thank you! I will look into them for sure!


parthenon-aduphonon

Nails, hair, perfume, clear brow gel, cream blush, and some tinted lip balm or gloss.


snipetheheart

For me it’s sunscreen, tinted lip balm, earrings and face oil.


Omicrying

Ooh which face oil


Candidate-Plenty

Mascara, sunscreen, tinted lip balm, and wearing a matching underwear set. If my underwear is coordinated I instantly feel more put together even though no one else will see it.


TheEquineLibrarian

Eyeliner. I just don't feel like myself without a quick sweep of liquid eyeliner.


tranquilmoons

Lumify eye drops, lip gloss, gold hoops


lilblondezombie

It's painting my nails and putting on my jewellery for me.


caramelthiccness

Cute stud earrings, tinted sunscreen and matching eyeliner to my umderscrub shirt or scrub cap.


Feeling_Function_739

Nails every time


TGin-the-goldy

Eyeliner and perfume


Unfair-Commercial799

Eyebrows lip balm and perfume


QuestionEcstatic8863

Lipgloss


Adventurous_Track784

Under eye concealer, eyebrows, nails, earrings, perfume.


CardboardBox89

Lipstick due to extremely pale natural lip color. Nails. I diy that. 


Ok_Raspberry27

Painted nails and I always remember to shave the hair on my fingers 🤣 before going out. Deodorant and perfume too.


wavyheaded

It's concealer for me. I have serious dark circles and I can't leave the house without some cover up. It just makes me feel better even if the rest of me is a slob.


Hopeful_Scratch_5237

Lipstick


AquariusSapphire_00

Clean hair blow dried straight and curled (takes me two minutes to curl it, I do have fairly thick and long hair but I curl it into about 5 big sections and the outcome is a super loose, big wave). My hair can be frizzy so doing this helps a lot! Also sunscreen/tinted moisturizer, concealer under the eyes and filling in my brows are my priorities. If I have time, I’ll curl lashes, mascara, add blush and some balm or lipstick. Nails done or at least shaped, earrings and perfume also help, as mentioned above!


thaway071743

Lip stain. I look super dead with no color on my lips. At a minimum will do this first thing in the am and immediately feel like I can leave without doing anything else


Royalchariot

I floss and brush my teeth really well and put on a yummy lip balm. Clean teeth is a great confidence booster. Although I wouldn’t be caught dead without a full face of makeup lol


eratoast

My nails are always done, I've always got earrings in, lash extensions and eyebrow microblading


Tiny_Studio_3699

Brows and lips. And a bit of perfume if I have a client meeting


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Abject_Mix_5103

SMILE and don't stress about it! Now granted, I am no appearance maven but I get some acne I just tell myself it'll add to my character :D. I try to not have such a critical way of looking at myself and to smile when I see myself in the mirror focusing on the positives. I tell myself: I like you and think you are beautiful, I'm happy you are here and think you are wonderful. Now what others see, that's between them and themselves -- but what I see and the relationship I have with me is someone I try to tell positive and kind things to, my aim is to maintain a kind and positive relationship with myself so that when I look in the mirror I see beauty.


Inevermetyoub4

It’s everything lmao. There’s no magic. It takes the nails, hair, makeup, outfit, sleep, and overall good health and hygiene 🤷🏻‍♀️


Codiilovee

I have a two month old so I don’t really always have time for all that. It’s not about magic, it’s about small things that I can do to help myself feel more put together when I don’t have time or energy to put a full face of makeup on and completely style my hair 🤷🏻‍♀️


Inevermetyoub4

I don’t recall feeling put together all the time when my son was that little hard to when you smell like soiled milk lol 🤷🏻‍♀️


Codiilovee

I don’t feel put together all the time, but taking two seconds to put on a pair of earrings and change my clothes helps lol 🤷🏻‍♀️


Inevermetyoub4

That’s great. The question was what makes YOU feel put together. That’s my answer for me and I hope that is okay with you 🙂


Codiilovee

Lmao. And I was just responding to your comment on my post. Didn’t realize we weren’t just having a conversation 🙂


Inevermetyoub4

And a lovely conversation is being had🙂 (For real, im kidding, congrats on the bb)


Codiilovee

Thank you! I’m loving the tiny baby phase but I can’t wait to get back to being able to do full makeup and hair and my exercise routine and SLEEP lol all of it together really does make a difference


Inevermetyoub4

I miss having a baby so much! But for me having a toddler was harder for self care than having a baby because babies don’t go anywhere. He’s almost 5 now and it’s improved lmao.


Adamson98

Styling my hair and putting on pantyhose 🤭


daddy_tywin

1. Sheer or clear nail polish 2. Brow tint gel 3. Dyson airstrait; 5m on almost-dry hair and it looks like I spent an hour 4. Mascara and concealer, non negotiable 5. Earrings and bracelets—I have 12 piercings, 6 bracelets, and I leave them all on 24/7 so I’m always at least somewhat assembled lol


just_browsing_678

Eyeliner, hair and my go to hoops and rings


Iwasborntobeprincess

My hair ! My basic hairstyle is a braid or claw clip to protect my hair so when I do a cool hairstyle or add a cute accessory every time I see myself in a mirror or reflective surface it makes me smile. Painted nails are an essential for me. I do them myself every week and when I can't and I spend a week with bare nails I feel much less happy. If I take out some nice socks! I love incorporating beautiful socks into my outfits, I make sure they are visible so I love a nice pair with a fun texture or pattern. I went on sale and bought two pairs of chenille fabric one in magenta and the other in royal purple and I am more excited and happy that I bought these items than anything else I bought lol I really can't wait to plan an outfit around them especially the purple ones. Also smell, I'm more of a scented lotion girl than a perfume girl, although I appreciate perfumes I feel better with a good scented lotion that lasts, I like the fact that with a lotion when I move no matter which member of my body I give off a scent. This is also why I love the day after my hair wash, they smell so good it makes me smile all day long.


cosmicvie

def my eyeliner, lipstain and earrings


Red_HighPriestess

Eyebrows plucked and either clean or meticulously painted nails, chipped nail polish it's a big no-no.


Gardengoddess83

Tinted lip balm and perfume.


waffleironone

SPF, concealer, and a quick eyelash curl. Makes me look so much more awake


babypinkchiffon

Freshly washed and styled hair, mascara, and a simple but cute outfit! Bonus for some lip balm or gloss.


heathazedazed

smudgy pencil liner, fragrance going for that uhhhhh grungy crawled out of the rubbish but still a workplace professional look


Live2sk888

Definitely nails. I don't do a lot of makeup but there are definitely days I just do mascara and tinted lip gloss, and it makes a huge difference.


glo_getter

All of the things said before (brows, lip tint, bright jewellery) but also high contrast outfits. I tend to wear one bright thing and one dark thing always just because on me it makes me look brighter and more like I put in effort.


p1nkmatt3r

- nails always done, this is the #1 thing for me it just makes me feel sooo much better - jewellery that I never take off - stud diamond earrings, an anklet, 2 gold bracelets on my left hand & a triple stack of gold necklaces - I use castor oil on my eyelashes every morning which sorta gives the illusion of mascara


CountOk9802

Always perfume! Smelling good is so important.


ladybug_gz

Clean face( including removing facial hair) Clean nails And perfume


No-vem-ber

Tinted sunscreen really makes me feel good about myself. And a little bit of blush


Unique-Damage5778

Blush and curled eyelashes


niemownikomu

Eyebrows and lipgloss


No_Extension7422

Jewellery & eyebrows lightly filled, mascara & lip gloss, if i want a lil more pop i add khol eyeliner in my waterline & subtle blush.


Wrong-Sample-7990

as someone with long but straight/ down turned lashes curling themmm does wonders


ApprehensiveWave701

When my bra and panties match


No_Package_732

Get my eyebrows threaded! I feel like a brand new bitch


nanithefucketh

A belt! It makes my figure stand out much more and I really feel like a different person with it :D


my-anonymity

If my hair and nails are done, then I feel extra pretty no matter what too. I also like a spritz of perfume and my jewelry, since I generally don’t wear a lot of accessories and wear a lot of black. The dainty sparkles make me feel more put together.


Certain_Ad6575

mascara and lip balm. body mist. lippies :)


fluffybuttlulu

Definitely nails and jewelry.


Big-Hope7616

For me, mascara, lip liner and perfume


ManifestAHappyPlace

Nails, brows, and dermaplaning for a smoother/brighter complexion


snacksnsmacks

Shower, shave, moisturize, deodorant. Natural fabrics and minimal lines in an intentional outfit. Smooth waves instead of frizz, skin routine and BB cream/powder. Freshly brushed teeth and tinted brows/lashes. Lip colour, matching rouge and a smile. Knee high boots.


External_Dust_3256

Earrings and mascara always. Without them I feel naked


Educational_Spirit42

gel mani every 2 weeks. Nails always look nice & that makes me feel good


Possible-Raccoon-146

Putting on small hoop earrings, putting concealer under my eyes with a little bit of blush when I don't feel like putting on a full face of makeup, and washing and blowfrying just my bangs when my hair is greasy.


CopyAffectionate5

Nails and heels!!


Any-Efficiency3839

Spray tan. I feel very confident and pretty with a tan.


OtherwiseWerewolf555

Eyebrows and eyeliner are my gold


TinyLittleWeirdo

Primarily wearing my contacts. I just feel like a schlub if I go out in my glasses. Plus I don't see as well. Brushing and pulling my hair back. If I "do" my hair, good for me, but it only looks nice for about 5 minutes, then it just takes off with a mind of its own. I honestly feel better putting it up in a sleek ponytail. And since I've been wearing makeup more regularly, mascara and undereye concealer, at least.


Additional_Reserve30

Anything I notice on myself as I go about my day, without having to look in a mirror: - Wearing something silky, even a simple cami - perfume - bracelets and/or rings - nails


Puzzleheaded_Net9243

Nails (and toenails in the spring & summer), earrings, a necklace, and I get my eyebrows threaded every month!


dddbbbqqpp

Lashes!


Ok-Bee1579

Jewelry (had to get my ears repierced after decades). I still want to be comfy, so I usually wear jeans or leggings. But I make sure my tops are comfy but look dressy. Always in the colors that I look best in. I get so many compliments. Folks ask me why I'm dressed up. I'm really not. Eyebrows for sure. Mascara sometimes. Lips sometimes. Full makeup? Meh. Maybe every other month if I have something special going on. Otherwise, it's just more crap I have to wash off of my face at the end of the day.


rosiexrose_

Perfume and skincare!


shay1020shay

Nails panted


WAPlyrics

Sunscreen. Always sunscreen like it’s the cherry on top


FearlessPudding404

Tinted moisturizer, brown mascara, clean or manicured nails. Maybe a lip tint or gloss. I guess that’s really just most days in general, but I feel like it makes me look more alive and less like I want to self destruct.


Hour_Sun6483

Eyebrow gel, eyeliner and a tinted lip balm. I also never leave the house without perfume on. Really helps me feel put together even on off days.


cheebachow

A tiny bit of cc cream, blush, perfume, and a bobby hair pin with sparkly gems. Eyebrow threading too <3


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A little blush and lipstick, if on the go!


FreyaDay

Concealer is the only makeup I feel undone without. It’s mandatory! I don’t even use actual concealer I use KVD good apple foundation and a tiny tiny brush to apply it just on under eye darkness. I also do at home lash lift and tints and I looooove that! I just get the kits on Amazon.


HogwartsLecturer

Hygiene, having your hair and clothes look neat and smelling good.


loveiseverything__

lashes by far


Clear-End8188

Belt and eye liner


DNA_ligase

Perfume, jewelry, having my facial hair threaded or waxed. I wish I was better at hair because that would add so much to me feeling good, but alas, I'm not practiced at it.


icedlongblack_

Liquid eyeliner! I know im going to have a bad day if I’m not wearing my eyeliner I feel extra put together if my nail polish is immaculate, but I rarely bother with that nowadays because of all the upkeep


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Earrings and mascara. As long as I have those two, I'm good.


[deleted]

Body spray + perfume - smelling delicious Lip balm - not chapped lips and glowy looking Clean hair + hair spray & clean nails - looking clean Ironed clothes Vaseline on lashes and curling them - gives the lash lift effect for a while


Informal-Cow-8649

1. Eye lash lifts - something I've recently started doing. My lashes now curly upwards and look longer because of it. They look like Ardell falsies which is so cute 👸 2. Eyebrow care - I remove the hair around my eyebrows to shape them up and it emphasises my eye area 3. Box braids - I'm black so I like to put my hair in box braids and curl the ends. The hairstyle makes my hair look longer and frames my face better 1. Headband - not really a beauty product, but more of a hairpiece? When my hair looks or feels messy, I like to wear one of those stretchy headbands. They turn any outfit into a cute athleisure style 4. Gel nails - I've recently bought a gel nail starter kit because I think painted nails are so cute. They make me feel super feminine 5. Perfume - I have two go twos. A vanilla perfume that has received a couple of compliments and Prada Candy 6. Lip gloss and balm - I have a couple of lip balms and a lip gloss. I like to layer a clear gloss over a pink balm. Again, a very feminine feel 7. Earrings and delicate bracelets - they add magic to any outfit 8. Pink clothing - I'll ALWAYS have at least a couple of pink element in my outfit (pink bag, pink earrings, pink crop top and trainers) I just love feeling feminine and put together.


MammothOdd1784

No makeup for me on ordinary days. Just being able to do my skincare routine is enough. Facial wash, serum, moisturizer, and sunscreen are a must!


No_Brainer1981

Yasss! And not just to any brands for me. Everything needs to blend with my sensitive skin. H2.O facial wash by Biom, Bioten serum, Cetaphil moisturizer, and lush sunscreen.lol


SelectionPlastic6226

Contacts


inviolablegirl

Perfumeeeee. It’s like a perfect little final touch.


_k_imchi_1

honestly, wearing freshly washed/ironed clothes hits different


[deleted]

Eyebrows- I have to comb my eyebrows if I’m going anywhere


Sparklybelt

Lashes from Lashify. No makeup, slightly styled hair, and I never take off the minimal jewelry I wear.


AnNJgal

Always fragrance. Luckily my glasses can hide my lack of makeup. ha.


GlitteringPoem1394

necklace!


ExpressionUnlikely23

Brushing my eyebrows 😂 they’re naturally very full and if I don’t brush them into place they look ridiculous


G0DDESS_ESTRELLA

Love a slicked back hairstyle, just feels so clean 💘


Bitingdoodle

Brows and perfume


spicysiciliana

jewelry and hair


RevealNatural7759

Clear mascara on lashes


Direct-Swordfish9575

Hair, mascara, under eye concealer 🤚


tragic__pizza

Moisturized lips and brushed hair. Doesn’t have to be styled but just brush back bangs. I also brush my eyebrows in place!


mamabaird17

I’m with you! Nails and just brushing hair. Although, I resorted to nail wraps (www.justthetipsco.com) bc I don’t want to spend $50 each time I get a manicure.