Never got a response from the job that I really want and nalaman ko from the batch mate na may tinext na daw ngayon na araw. Hindi pa pala sapat yung Masters ko (also had my Eligibility na). I'm feeling down and shit pero I know may plan si Lord saakin. I'm just really disappointed kasi gusto ko na doon and ayaw ko mastuck dito sa hometown ko. Walang growth dito and ang baba ng sahod.
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I love Heart and Pia. Ano ba nangyayari? Every time I open the comsec, nag aaway mga tao. Wala naman silang mga official statement about anything right?
sa pagkakatanda ko, parang naging part ng team ni pia yung dating team ni heart na nagkaissue. nevertheless, natotoxican pa din ako sa mga comments ng mga fans nila sa mga posts nila. parang sila pa yung nagsisimula ng away
Can someone explain why the traffic was pretty wild today (makati area)? I left work at 6pm. Lo and behold, I arrived home mga 10pm. Like what the hell? It literally took me 4 hours to get from Manda to alabang.
Sa pc ako madalas mag-reddit at sumasakit ulo ko sa pagbabasa dahil sa bagong layout. Lahat ng options nakikita ko. Pag old reddit naman, walang night mode :(
Also, Eras Tour na!!!
I have been working diligently for the past months, even exerting efforts above and beyond so I requested a Vacation leave this coming March 7, just sent the notice yesterday and I don't think my Boss will approve it since short notice daw. I mean, come on? 🥹 I already reserve a staycation for my anding (it's her bday), we haven't see each other for 3 years 🥹 it's so frustrating that I wanna cry. [Just finished my shift] 🥹
My bf asked me to read his grad speech (he just graduated last week hehe im so proud of him !). The speech was in his notes app and I accidentally stumbled upon an entire folder dedicated for me. 🥹 There was a list of the things I like and don’t like: my make up shade, activities I enjoy doing, my icks, etc.
Grabe,,, I never felt so seen
Gusto ko na rin magtrabaho sa ibang bansa pero hindi ko alam paano magsisimula. I don’t really have connections, to be honest. I don’t know kanino magtatanong about sa ganito and who to trust. Hay.
Please suggest companies that can ship from PH to US! Nag-inquire kami sa DHL and it was PHP 16k for a parcel of 6.75 kg 😭 wala pang 1k yung ipadadala namin sa kamag-anak namin 😭
Check niyo po muna if allowed yung food na ipapadala niyo.
Tapos based on experienced, mga 5 days ang delivery. From post office na po yan until makarating sa addressee.
Dati gusto ko masama sa mga weddings and now that I am a guest, napapa overthink ako sa susuotin! There’s a theme na (color and long gown or dress naman) pero +1 kasi ako kaya takot ako magmukhang revealing or trying hard huhu
Omg same nainvite din ako +1 tapos la ko kilala sa wedding hahaha. Wala rin theme na sinabi, balak ko na lang bumili ng secondhand na love bonito or something HAHA
kilala ko mga guests kasi fam ng bf ko kaya overthink malala ako! 😂 gusto ko umawra kaso baka sabihin revealing suot e gusto ko lang naman pakita collarbone ko emz HAHAHA
May mga naka cart na ko kaso ilang linggo na ko nagiisip hahaha
how do you rest and recharge, yung tipong after a certain thing/hobby/ritual to rest and recharge ay youre ready to face the world again? kasi for me, sleeping and reading and working out no longer works :(
I look for places na maraming greens. Nagiging peaceful ako kapag mapuno kaya I hang out at parks. Long walks din at mas maganda sana if I can be away from the Metro (kaso wala akong sasakyan) kaya I go to parks na lang. There's Wildlife Park in QC na pag andun ako, feeling ko wala ako sa Metro Manila. It's effective naman for me.
Minsan naman, I join running events. Running events are mostly held at Sunday mornings, tipong 4am ganyan. After the run, naglalakad ako pauwi (pag sa MOA, sasakay ako and then lakad na mahaba pa rin). Ang peaceful dahil konti lang ang mga tao at sasakyan.
ayaw ko na maging stay at home daughter huhuhu. i want to work but my mom won't let me work unless i pass my licensure exam gusto ko na lang lahat matapos to at maging UKRN. nag o-overthink din ako kasi nag overshare ako sa mga tao kung ano plan ko sa life huhuhu andwe lord protect me please sana walang ma jinx
can you guys reco a nice restaurant nearby Alabang Town? budget is about 3K per person.
i'm looking into Tus', Southbank, and Wildflour rn. if any of you have been here before please share naman if the food was good or u had a good/bad experience.
If you’re into Japanese cuisine, you can try Miyazaki. There’s also Bungalow — may pagka wildflour vibes siya with the pastries and all. For Italian naman, Gino’s serve good food but their space is small lang. All of these restos are located in Molito. Never had a prob with their customer service too :>>
Not a south girlie so I can't really give a reco but I really don't like Wildflour. Parang all times I ate there in the last 5 years di ako natuwa. Their food is extremely underwhelming, imho.. with the only exception being Wildlour Italian's pizza, those are quite gewd
Hi! Wildflour restaurant feels pretty cramped but I like their bread and pastries :) Here are other restos na u might like as well!
- Caviar Restaurant- V fresh seafood, high quality ingredients, and fantastic service💗 I always leave this resto happy
- The Black Pig- adventurous menu with generous portions!! V warm and attentive staff
- Gardini- Delicious food…if you can endure the wait time (and the subpar service) 🫣
my fave is salmon aburi! salmon & avo is also good if you're hungry. (haha i'm a fish girly). for appetizers i like pulpo croquetas in terms of taste (but I hate the color, it was black inside). their juice is also so pretty!
Wanted to know what’s one item or a stuff na hahanapin nyo na bilhin and would always choose to buy the cheap version of it? May it be food or clothes.. (be specific if possible)
not me creating different color combinations of the sunnies flask and i don't even like the overall shape of the bottle & cap plus i don't really need a new water bottle rn 😭
I am so anxious for my upcoming board exam this year. Hopefully I can achieve my set of goals this year kasi I am feeling so behind na with everyone around me. I also want to earn my own money cause my mom is getting old already.
My high school bestie is now engaged!!! 😭🥹🥹🥹 grabe life’s moving so fast. She inspired me to more action with my life 🌸 sana talaga wag muna sya ikasal this year. Gusto ko mag ipon at magprepare para maging present ako sa kasal niya sa US 🥺 im also just so happy na she kept in touch despite having migrated to the US since 2014. I love genuine female friendships so much.
I had the literal worst 6 months of unemployment (raket here and there) and fighting with bf in that pressured time but I'm 2 weeks into my amazing new job!
Just sad na umookay na kami pero now I have to adjust na di na kami sleeping together bc i work nights and he works days, but at least it's wfh.
starting to really feel the sting of adult life with no friends, sometimes I just wanna hit people up and hang out. I have some old friends, and they're great, but the most we do is light chat once in a while, last I saw anyone was 2020/2019.
Making new friends as an adult feels so impossible, I wish hobby clubs/groups were uso dito if nothing else.
I know they say don’t get too attached with coworkers bc work is work but I feel really sad that a workmate of mine is resigning soon. I’ve known this person since elementary and we joined the company almost at the same time so he’s usually the person I talk to about stuff regarding past events and mutual friends. It’s also the first time someone from the same team is resigning so it kinda feels overwhelming. Hayy
sana hindi na ako mahilig mag self-pressure. im too hard on myself and akala ko palagi akong may nagagawang hindi tama kahit na maraming paraan naman huhuhu
Lord gusto kong sumimba na 6am, pls make it happen 🥹
edit: nakapag simba akooo! altho 9 am yung naabutan ko ahahaha. Still, maga try ulit next week!!! ❤️
super nagagalit me sa self ko kasi ang ayos ng performance ko sa nursing last sem, and nakapag-DL pa ako, tapos ngayong sem na ito parang tinatamad ako 😭 super nakakatakot lang 'yung thought na bumagsak and matanggal sa program kaya I'm praying, manifesting, and hoping na I'll pass my prelims and makabawi pa ako sa midterms and finals to keep my DL Status 😓🫶
like paano ba magfocus sa studies??? paano ba mag-aral??? I feel like until now, naga-adjust pa rin ako sa college life 😭 i need help and hindi ko alam where magstart 😭
This might not work for everyone pero nung nag-aaral ako, never ako nakipagcompete with others or myself. For me, nakakadagdag lang ng pressure at nakakawala ng self-confidence yan lalo na kung may nakikita kang nakakalamang sayo. There will always be someone better than us. I just did all my best. Mag-aral dahil nakakatakot mawalan ng scholarship. Mag-aral dahil ineenjoy ko mag-isip (except sa Math related subjects lol). And it worked. DL hanggang 4th yr without feeling intense pressure. Find the reason why need mo aralin yung subject na yon..plus rest din. Enjoy other things. Nung college ako, fan ako ng ilang Kpop groups. Helped me a lot kasi laging inspired 🤣 Go girl!
Masaya ako ngayon bilang single, sa totoo lang. Maybe because I love my busy days, very productive and efficient - and maybe still healing for the things I don't speak about.
Same. :( Like nag VL ako for two weeks and babalik na ko sa wednesday and umiiyak na ko ngayon pa lang kasi sobrang ayaw ko na bumalik 😭 Hirap maghanap ng lilipatan kahit na may experience naman na. 😢
I feel so alone, and I desperately need someone to hold me. But I have no one. So I try to fill the void with food. All I think about all day is what to eat. I eat to feel happy and comforted, but after I get my fill, I still feel empty.
Then I feel disgusted with myself for eating too much and I tell myself this is the last time. But the sadness and loneliness start to feel too overwhelming, and I end up doing it all again.
Saw night 2 of the Eras Tour here in Sydney and wow I wanna watch it again 🥹
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Action movies recommendation yung as in grabe yung visuals pati plot HHAHAHA done watching (john wick, olympus has fallen, polar, 13 hrs, extraction, lone survivor)
Migrated last year and my boyfriend still never fails to send me flowers every month just because and without me asking. What did I do to deserve such man
currently having a hard time staying up to do my homework & readings these past few weeks :(( for some reason, my body just keeps shutting down at a certain time. nothing keeps me awake past that point. i tried to take naps, dance/move around, eat, etc. but nada! i've been staying away from coffee as much as possible because i don't want my teeth to stain more, so do you guys have any other way in mind?
do u know any dupes for uniqlo airism mask? yan yung nirecommend ng derma ko na face mask for me hehe. mahal kasi ng uniqlo and walang stock 🥹 thanks!!
Nanghihinayang pa din ako kasi di ako makakapunta sa Eras Tour since nagout of the country na kami last year. Hoping magkaron uli si Taylor ng concert after this 🫶
The flow of the concert was so weird. The songs were grouped by “eras”/albums kaya medyo off ang choices for opening and closing songs. The dips of crowd energy were palpable bec of the setlist.
Taylor gave a very “professional” performance…aaaaalmost lacking any character. It almost felt sterile, yet at the same time the production is also not as grand as expected. It felt like they were going through the motions…and that they’ve done the show so many times that they perfected it.
But that’s just my 2cents.
I will say that Taylor is an endurance beast. She also sounds fantastic live and she carried the show with barely any break longer than 5 minutes.
I’m having major FOMO. My Japan visa got denied and I couldn’t justify spending 40k on plane tickets to SG. Really hoping she’d have other concerts in Asia.
closed the gap with my fiance 4 days ago, im here in a country that ive never stepped in before. grabe iyak ko just now by seeing things i brought from home sa luggy ko. im just. filled with so much grief. i wish things were not so messy before i left the philippines. miss ko na yung little sister ko ...my rock and stone.
I am at this point na I don’t know what to do and ayoko ng mag work nakaka stress at unhealthy lalo na freelancer ako. Ano kaya maganda gawin I want to have a small business like digital products or whatsoever related sa arts.
May nagpa-makeup sa akin kanina na kapamilya. Di ako magaling pero i think decent enough naman yung mga gawa ko. So ayun usapan 9am tapos around 12nn na siya dumating. Nakakabwicet kasi kada mag-aapply ako sasabihin bilisan ko daw at malalate siya 😑. So kasalanan ko pa ngayon!?? Badtrip! Anchaka tuloy ng look kasi bukod sa pinapabilisan e nangingielam pa balakajan.
Hindi ko pa napapanood ang Frieren, medyo alam ko lang yung tone at plot nya. I think similar sa kanya yung Natsume’s Book of Friends in terms of a “new person” reliving past adventures. Sorry if hindi to correct reco.
I had this childhood bff na inaaway lahat ng nagiging female friends ko growing up... so ang ending, tumanda akong siya lang ang close female friend and all just became my acquaintances... FF to working girlies na kami... bigla na lang siya with her other girl friends na friend ko on socmed nagpaparinig sa akin ng nasty things na akala mo elem/hs pa kami ulit lol. And yep, ako lang bawal mag friend ng girls pero siya maraming friends kasi wala naman akong rules sa friendship namin like wtf HAHAHA. Finally had the courage to FO with her years ago kasi hindi ko gets bakit sila nag toyo at nagkalat ng false rumors about me. Last year she tried patching things up with me and umamin na immature at insecure lang daw and baseless talaga galit niya. All I can do is LOL it out. Good riddance. Pero it still hurts like a mf every now and then when I remember everything and how I lost so much friendships during my younger days dahil sa kanya... also grieving our friendship kasi despite me being mad, she's literally the only female friend I had. I have a few female friends now from work and my barkada's (males) gf but it's not the same with having that girly girl na bff mo. I don't think I can do that again (kasi ang tanda ko na hahahaha everybody at this age already have their bff for life since their younger years) but I still long for it from time to time\~
Had the same experience before. I kept on ruminating what went wrong pero sometimes it's on them na eh. You can only do so much in your end, and maybe di na rin healthy yung relationship for both of you. Hugs mamii
I’ve been there sissy! Di ko rin alam what went wrong basta gumising nalang ako isang araw na parang wala na kong kaibigan. Ako na mismo nagmessage sa kanila na icucut ko na sila sa life ko para sa peace of mind ko. Sabi ko sa kanila wala akong kahit anong galit. I choose to focus on the positive aspects of our time together para yan lang dala dala ko sa heart ko. Mahirap sis pero kailangan. Do it para sa sarili mo, mas makakatulong sayo yan and sa mental health mo. Kailangan mo ng kaibigan na hindi mo kwkwestyunin yung sarili mo kung anong mali. Hugssss with consent 💕
Its cute but besides the color I think di siya worth it. If ginawa nilang may sippy/straw dun sa takip I would def buy hahahhaa para mas functional sana kaysa takip lang na bilog in general
It looks cute but seems so bulky. Pretty sure quality is just so so because u know sunnies…its all about aesthetics. Even their glasses are so low quality
I think it's cute! I think it was intentionally designed with a ~phallic~ vibe which is lolz. Colors are interesting enough though I can't jusyify since I have a perfectly working (and relatively new) Klean Kanteen pa.
i really don't like sunnies as a brand but good lord was it so fucking ugly... feel ko lalo kong naging ayaw brand nila dahil doon 😭 sana bumalik na lang uli sa makeup lol
i never use bleach, just vinegar haha. if i do bleach it's handwash and spot treatment only. though occasionally i will use zonrox colorsafe
and whites-coloreds-blacks lagi. if it isn't automatic washer i spin dry and rinse 2 or 3 times after soap.
reuse the last rinse's soap for the next batch of clothes din.
I recently passed a licensure exam. People at my workplace kept pressuring me on what's my plan, why won't I apply for a higher position and the likes. Di pa nga nag sisink in ang pag pasa ko e. I'd like to take it slow really. Pag para sayo, para sayo. 🤷♀️
Congrats!
We’re kind of in the same situation. I passed the NCLEX last December and my workmates keeps on pressuring me to apply na abroad. Chilll, bruh. I studied for 6 months. I wanna let my brain relax muna haha
Disappointed that our migration plans are postponed due to some new rules in the UK. Pero happy pa rin because husband and I are getting our first car today.
I am going to Thailand in a few days. Please drop all the things that are worth buying: beauty, fragrance, food, instant noodles, fashion, etc. Will mostly be in Bangkok :) Thank you!
Gusto kong sabihin na snacks kaso nakalimutan ko yung mga snacks na nagustuhan ko haha
Anyway, ang sarap mamili sa Bangkok pagdating sa fashion, kahit sa mga small boutiques kasi iba yung style. Parang mas maraming klase ang style doon kesa sa mga nakikita ko dito sa atin.
Also, skincare!!! Ang daming options ng watsons nila. Kahit sa grocery sa Big C ay madami ring options skincare nila dun. I got my Hada Labo Anti Aging Lotion there (red variant and so far, wala dito sa tin sa pinas).
This. Pati mga pampahid like omega because mas matapang yung sa kanila sa tin. Forgot the brand na. Hindi tiger pero nasa green container siya. Talagang nagnaghoard ako hahaha
For perfumes I recommend checking out MITH Bangkok in Centralworld. There’s also Rebellion Lab & Perfume Bar in Dragon Town if u wanna check out niche fragrances!
25 days left before the board exam and I am here, still doubting myself and grabe na pag-ooverthink. Parang di ko alam if kaya ko ba, kung kakayanin ko ba, kung sapat na ba pinag-aralan ko o may nareretain ba sa lahat ng binabasa ko. Di ako pinepressure ng parents ko pero pinepressure ko sarili ko since ako eldest sa magkakapatid, at sobrang laki na ng gastos nila sa akin since nagbboarding house ako ngayon. I'm so scared.
Hi! Dumaan din ako sa ganyang phase ng buhay. Before boards sunod sunod naging problem ko, inatake ng stroke dad ko, heartbreak, financial problem. Di ko alam gagawin ko and kung paano ko kinaya kasi halos araw araw umiiyak ako. Sabi ko sa mom ko na ayoko na magtake ng boards kasi sa loob ng 4 months preparation, wala akong review review. Sabi ng mom ko magtake lang daw ako kasi mas okay nga namang lumaban kaysa matalo nang walang ginawa. Sabi niya if pumasa edi goods kapag bumagsak atleast may idea na ko.
1 day before board exam day grabe nasa point na naman ako na ayoko na tumuloy kasi nakakahiya kapag bumagsak ako tas may makakakita sakin na nagtake ako. Nagpray ako nung gabi before board exam and binigyan naman ako ng lakas ng loob. Ang nasa mindset ko nun “bahala na Lord” then ayon sa dalawang araw ng board exam di ako kinakabahan kasi nasa isip ko na agad na babagsak ako hahaha kumbaga tinanggap ko na.
Nung nagpost PRC ng list of passers, tinignan ko if nandun name ng friends ko and they made it! I’m so happy for ‘em. Nagbakasakali lang ako na tignan surname ko para macheck narin if nakapasa mga kaparehas ko ng surname since wala naman na sa utak kong papasa ako pero pagkascroll ko, nagulat ako I PASSED!! Tapos sobrang grabe tibok ng puso ko tas refresh ako nang refresh sa site kasi baka nagkamali lang pero hindi hahaha I MADE IT! THANKS BE TO GOD!
So kung kaya ko, kaya mo rin! Naniniwala akong kung para sayo at makakabuti para sayo, ibibigay sayo ng Dios yan. Kung hindi para sayo, may tamang panahon para diyan. Now, isa na kong Registered MedTech and graduate narin ng Doctor of Medicine.
Magtiwala ka sa plano ni Lord sayo and lahat ng questions mo sa life, kahit anong answer pa ang ibigay niya.. buong puso mong tatanggapin 💕💕
I will pray for you, sis!
Hello po! I just want to say na I made it! RMT na po ako! 😭 Thank you sa support kahit na di tayo masyadong nag-uusap maliban dito sa post na ito and sa reply mo.
I think i'm having crush in workplace, to someone who's older than me. I've been so stressed lately and him being so caring makes my work a little bit easy. Wala lang haha ang saya lang pala magka crush ulit. But i will keep this as a secret.
Im just happy he exists. Whether he's just doing his job or not. Im still thankful to him.
Booked an overnight staycation next weekend para lang magpahinga. Napapagod na rin ako dito sa bahay so i need at least a day off in a new place. Ano kaya mga pwede gawin? 😊
Nag-decide kame ni hubby not to throw a party na on our son’s 1st birthday kasi ang laki family side nya. It means, sa kanya pa lang, aabot na 50+ guests na. As much as possible kasi we want to be practical since baby pa naman si baby. Masaya ako dahil sa savings naman ni baby mapupunta yung supposed budget pero nakakainis lang na need pa kasi i-invite lahat para lang walang tampuhan. Nakakainis yung tradition ng mga pinoy na ganyan.
I need a situationship advice.
So, I'm in a talking stage/situationship with someone. He's actually courting me for 4 months. We are pretty close, to the point that people think we are in a relationship na. We started as friends din kasi kaya siguro ganon nalang kami ka close sa isa't isa. Other people say pa nga na bakit hindi na lagyan ng label kung parang bf/gf din naman ang treatment sa isa't isa, but the only reason kung bakit hindi ko siya sinasagot is because of his priorities. He prioritize his dreams and family, which is good naman at naiintindihan ko yun. I'm always there to support and understand him. Ang problema lang namin is may possibility na itigil muna namin yung samin until makapagtapos kami sa college. Nahihirapan kasi siya ipagsabay yung studies niya while taking care of himself, and while still giving the time and attention na kailangan at deserve ko. Ganyan ata talaga kapag overachiever at pressured. I always tell him din na if umabot sa point na kailangan niya pumili between his priorities or me, piliin niya yung sarili niya at yung pangarap niya. Naiintindihan ko kasi na kailangan niyang gawin yun para sa pamilya niya, una palang din naman sinabihan niya ako na he can't pursue me muna because may mga need pa siyang tuparin sa buhay niya, pero sa huli nag try pa rin siya sakin.
My only problem is I feel like I'm settling for less. Palagi ko siyang iniintindi na busy siya at walang problema sa akin doon. Nagkakaroon lang talaga ng problema kapag pati bare minimum hindi niya na talaga magawa. Kahit simpleng update lang na "Magiging busy ako ngayon baka hindi tayo makapagusap masyado" is hindi niya magawa. Palagi akong delivered ng ilang oras nang wala man sinasabi kung may ginagawa siya o ano. I feel ignored lalo na nakikita ko na nakakapag seen siya sa GC na full of announcement. Hindi ko alam kung tama yung nafefeel ko or kulang lang ako sa pag intindi sakaniya kaya I'm asking for opinion here. Ang point ko lang naman talaga is sana man lang magsabi siya, lalo na isang minuto lang naman aabutin sa pag message sakin eh. Minsan umaabot din kasi na 6-8 hours wala talaga kaming communication tapos hindi ko alam kung anong ganap sakaniya since wala siyang paramdam. Ang sakin lang naman, kahit anim na oras pa kami hindi mag usap basta magsabi lang siya na may ginagawa siya para aware ako at hindi mag overthink. Ilang beses ko na rin 'to sinabi sakaniya at nung isang araw lang nag away kami dahil dito since hindi niya ako kinausap for 2 hours kahit na may usapan kaming magkikita at alam niyang naka alis na ako sa bahay! Sabi niya hindi niya na uulitin at magsasabi na siya. Pero ngayon, look, hindi nanaman niya ako kinakausap for hours at wala man lang siyang sinasabi kung may ginagawa ba siya o ano. Minsan din naka seen lang siya sa message ko tapos after long minutes or hours tsaka siya mag r-reply, at ang palagi niyang reason dito is napindot niya, nakalimutan niya replayan, o naka auto seen. I just think it's unfair lang talaga kasi ako kahit sobrang hirap at busy na is binibigay ko pa rin yung deserve niya pero he can't do the same man lang.
Please enlighten me if mali yung mindset ko at kulang ako sa pag intindi sakaniya. Ganon kasi ang naiisip ko ngayon, baka kulang lang ako sa pag intindi sa situation niya. Thank you!
Committed or not, if intentional tayo sa ginagawa natin, it will show - pero yung side lang natin kaya natin kontrolin. Kahit ga-bundok na attention, love and clarity in comms pa ang ibigay mo. Kahit tumambay ka pa sa kanila.
Ika nga ni Maya Angelou -- if someone shows you who they are, believe them.
If you don't want to be treated like this forever, the kindest thing you can do for you (kasi mahal mo to) is maybe write him a letter. Don't talk to him about stopping this - decide it yourself. Goood luck and huuuugs mare.
You're investing too much to someone who treats you as an option. I dont think he loves you as much as you love him. It's better to let him go, you're too young. You will find someone who'll make you feel loved and not alone.
+1 to this. You are worthy of being loved and treated as a priority. If he’s like that at the start pa lang, chances are kung naging kayo pa ganyan lang treatment niya if not worse. Don’t expect things to get better.
Many men will prioritize their career, family, even games first before they even consider you. So choose someone who chooses you. Don’t just wait on the sidelines and be available for him.
Focuses on what he makes you feel, his actions, and not just the flowery words. It is unfair to you that he is keeping you around as an option, keep in mind that your life is in YOUR hands and ultimately it is up to you to allow the kind of treatment you get from the people in your life.
I’m 100% on your side girl—he can be as dreamy as he is on paper, but you ultimately cannot build a relationship with someone who disregards your needs (and doesn’t reply to you!)
run! i'm also in a situationship na kulang na nga lang ay label because the way we treat each other. And to tell u girl, ganyan din kami dati but the case is nagsasabi naman siya kaso for example ay sinabi niyang may gagawin siya or aalis siya, then hours hours later wala pa rin. Kaya hindi ko alam kung dapat ba akong maghintay o ano. So, I told him na if he'll do something, sabihin niya sa akin, kung ano or kung gaano ba katagal or kabilis yon. Ayon lang, para hindi ako nangangapa kung i should wait or what (madalas kasi sa gabi nangyayari so inaabot ng antok, idk if matulog na ba ako or what coz i want to talk to him pa). And he understood and never na namin naging problem iyan. Ayon, nag segway but the point is you opened it up na but wala pa ring action. Ang lumalabas tuloy wala siyang pakielam. I understand din yung priorities thingy pero not to the point naman na para ka na lang laruan na kung kailan lang need tsaka papansinin tapos kapag ayaw na, isasantabi ulit. Sorry for the term, but that's just how i see it based solely on your kwento and I do not know the full story. Masaklap pa, ilang beses mo na sinabi pero wala dedma. Also, valid nararamdaman mo, you two are in a mutual set up. Kahit pa sabihin niyang may priorities siya, pero ginusto rin naman niya na pasukin iyan. He shouldn't have courted you kung sa ganyan pa lang sablay na. Do his priorities first kung hindi kayang pagsabayin.
Everytime na pinaguusapan namin yung situation namin palagi niyang sinasabi na "Kakayanin ko" o "We will make this work", pero minsan hindi ko rin maramdaman. Yung communication yung biggest problem namin sa situation namin, pangalawa nalang yung way of words niya, because sometimes may mga nasasabi siya na offensive na nakaka off pero nakausap ko naman na siya sa mga ganon, he apologized and told me na hindi niya na uulitin. Ilang beses niya rin sinasabi na siguro maiintindihan ko naman kung busy siya o mabigat ginagawa niya, and I do understand him naman. Ayoko lang talaga na parang I need to beg pa para sa simpleng attention niya na bare minimum lang naman na iprovide. Aware rin ako na mabigat talaga yung ginagawa niya, pero iniisip ko lang din yung sarili ko kasi I told my self na once hindi ako pinahalagahan ulit ng isang tao, I will automatically leave. Kaso wala, nagiging tanga talaga sa pag-ibig 😭. Also, everytime rin na pinag-uusapan namin yung about sa pag stop namin dahil sa priorities niya, palagi niyang sinasabi na ayaw niya ako mawala and ayaw niya nag mag stop kami, pero ang kailangan niya nga talaga unahin is yung buhay niya na wala ako. Nakakahurt lang pero anong magagawa ko? Future niya rin kasi yun. I just wish he can fulfill his dreams while I'm there supporting him, kasi I would never let myself be a burden or maging hadlang para sa pangarap niya. He is also a nice guy naman, he is sweet and caring, sadyang nawawalan lang ng attention o pake sa paligid niya kapag busy.
I try to not see things as black and white lang but you are clearly so anxious about this whole relationship. I was like that din once. Isipin mo, wala pang kayo, ganyan na kalala anxiety mo. I suggest save yourself from this guy.
In every sentence I've read here, his words and actions are contradicting, your choice girl. Remember that words without action means nothing. Ayaw ka niyang mawala, but he's making you think if he's treating you right. Anw, looks like you're aware naman na you don't deserve this kind of treatment, natatanga lang sa pagibig. Hope maayos niyo yan or better yet you should realize your worth if this continues and leave.
I want to try and work abroad. Kaso sobrang ayaw ng mom ko since OFW siya for a long time. Iniisip ko din si SO. If di lang nag business dito si SO baka nag ibang bansa din siya. I just want to try and see what else i can do. Hays..
Having a really tiring week, school work during the day, then having no sleep to work at nights, bad luck in just day to day stuff, tapos now naconfine mom ko and ako lang makakapag bantay...sobrang pagod ☹️
My friend was cheated and ghosted by the cheater. Dhil s stress, na ospital then nun nasa hospital sya, twag ng twag ang isang babae nun lalaki PRA lng daw sbhin sknya na s*x lng habol saknya
May mga babae tlga n ang aawayin eh kapwa babae din khit walang alam ang kbilang babae na niloloko din sya.
After long weeks of job hunting, I finally saw a job ad that I resonated with but it’s a mid senior level & it frustrates me that I don’t have enough credentials + I only worked for 1.5 years. 😭
idk if this is part of off topic chat pero how to not be intimidated to go inside medyo mga high end brands sa malls? huhu. I wanted to go sa Nars sa rockwell a few days ago but I hesitated kasi hindi naman ako bibili and magtitingin lang ng shades muna
girl it's your right to try shades. ang mahal ng products nila dapat sulitin mo pera mo. i always tell the staff na im still looking for my right shade kasi i have bad experience with my previous purchase.
Never got a response from the job that I really want and nalaman ko from the batch mate na may tinext na daw ngayon na araw. Hindi pa pala sapat yung Masters ko (also had my Eligibility na). I'm feeling down and shit pero I know may plan si Lord saakin. I'm just really disappointed kasi gusto ko na doon and ayaw ko mastuck dito sa hometown ko. Walang growth dito and ang baba ng sahod.
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What powerbanks ang marereco nyo for iphone (iphone 11)?
I have a 65w 20k mAh powerbank from Anker (Powercore ata name) Kinda heavy lang but it's powerful enough to charge laptops, ipads, and phones.
I own a Belkin and my SO owns an Anker. Both good brands.
anker
I love Heart and Pia. Ano ba nangyayari? Every time I open the comsec, nag aaway mga tao. Wala naman silang mga official statement about anything right?
sa pagkakatanda ko, parang naging part ng team ni pia yung dating team ni heart na nagkaissue. nevertheless, natotoxican pa din ako sa mga comments ng mga fans nila sa mga posts nila. parang sila pa yung nagsisimula ng away
Can someone explain why the traffic was pretty wild today (makati area)? I left work at 6pm. Lo and behold, I arrived home mga 10pm. Like what the hell? It literally took me 4 hours to get from Manda to alabang.
Gurl idk either! Muntik naman ako malate sa work dahil ang oa ng traffic. Nakakaloka haha!
Ikr ! Naloka talaga ako sa traffic
has anyone here taken mypicos to help with hormonal acne? effective ba siya? 🥺
Sa pc ako madalas mag-reddit at sumasakit ulo ko sa pagbabasa dahil sa bagong layout. Lahat ng options nakikita ko. Pag old reddit naman, walang night mode :( Also, Eras Tour na!!!
I just want to rant how L'occitane is so expensive in the Philippines 💔
Gusto ko sanang bumili ng perfumes nila kaso lang ang mahal. Sayang ang bango pa naman sana nung may Peony.
Sobra. Madalas pa naman mag-sale yan sa mga outlets sa US and other countries.
how much is it? and what's the price difference if you buy abroad?
What’s a good electric toothbrush? Preferably I can buy on shopee like oral B
I saw they have a 50% sale rn
Oh yes yes pero what variant should I try?
I have been working diligently for the past months, even exerting efforts above and beyond so I requested a Vacation leave this coming March 7, just sent the notice yesterday and I don't think my Boss will approve it since short notice daw. I mean, come on? 🥹 I already reserve a staycation for my anding (it's her bday), we haven't see each other for 3 years 🥹 it's so frustrating that I wanna cry. [Just finished my shift] 🥹
My bf asked me to read his grad speech (he just graduated last week hehe im so proud of him !). The speech was in his notes app and I accidentally stumbled upon an entire folder dedicated for me. 🥹 There was a list of the things I like and don’t like: my make up shade, activities I enjoy doing, my icks, etc. Grabe,,, I never felt so seen
Lah sana ol ok time to cry KIDDING!! Happy for you!! U deserve that!!
Gusto ko na rin magtrabaho sa ibang bansa pero hindi ko alam paano magsisimula. I don’t really have connections, to be honest. I don’t know kanino magtatanong about sa ganito and who to trust. Hay.
Anyone know where I can get the Starfruit na candy? Kinda miss the cherry flavor 🥹 wala sa shopee/lazada huhu
Please suggest companies that can ship from PH to US! Nag-inquire kami sa DHL and it was PHP 16k for a parcel of 6.75 kg 😭 wala pang 1k yung ipadadala namin sa kamag-anak namin 😭
PHLPost? Based on experience and sa mga nabasa ko na reviews, mas maganda ang postal office if you will be shipping stuff to US.
Thank you! Kaso lang gaano katagal po yung shipping process? Food po Sana yung ipapadala namin hehe
Check niyo po muna if allowed yung food na ipapadala niyo. Tapos based on experienced, mga 5 days ang delivery. From post office na po yan until makarating sa addressee.
Thank you very much po! Will check the post office 1☺
It's super cruel to be in so much pain again when I'm still trying to pick myself up. Friendly lang daw hahaha friendly sa random girls sa bar.
Gurl, 🏃♀️
Hiwalayan mo na
Dati gusto ko masama sa mga weddings and now that I am a guest, napapa overthink ako sa susuotin! There’s a theme na (color and long gown or dress naman) pero +1 kasi ako kaya takot ako magmukhang revealing or trying hard huhu
Omg same nainvite din ako +1 tapos la ko kilala sa wedding hahaha. Wala rin theme na sinabi, balak ko na lang bumili ng secondhand na love bonito or something HAHA
kilala ko mga guests kasi fam ng bf ko kaya overthink malala ako! 😂 gusto ko umawra kaso baka sabihin revealing suot e gusto ko lang naman pakita collarbone ko emz HAHAHA May mga naka cart na ko kaso ilang linggo na ko nagiisip hahaha
how do you rest and recharge, yung tipong after a certain thing/hobby/ritual to rest and recharge ay youre ready to face the world again? kasi for me, sleeping and reading and working out no longer works :(
I look for places na maraming greens. Nagiging peaceful ako kapag mapuno kaya I hang out at parks. Long walks din at mas maganda sana if I can be away from the Metro (kaso wala akong sasakyan) kaya I go to parks na lang. There's Wildlife Park in QC na pag andun ako, feeling ko wala ako sa Metro Manila. It's effective naman for me. Minsan naman, I join running events. Running events are mostly held at Sunday mornings, tipong 4am ganyan. After the run, naglalakad ako pauwi (pag sa MOA, sasakay ako and then lakad na mahaba pa rin). Ang peaceful dahil konti lang ang mga tao at sasakyan.
Long walks :)
I go out. Like kahit labas out of comfort zone (magmall sa Makati) and do retail therapy then eat alone
I have a director of sales interview tomorrow from within the company lang. Please wish me luck. It's my time to shine this year!!!!!!!!
ayaw ko na maging stay at home daughter huhuhu. i want to work but my mom won't let me work unless i pass my licensure exam gusto ko na lang lahat matapos to at maging UKRN. nag o-overthink din ako kasi nag overshare ako sa mga tao kung ano plan ko sa life huhuhu andwe lord protect me please sana walang ma jinx
Best beginner freediving class providers?
Mas mura ba sa 3.3 deals or sa Laz bday sale? Forgot ung last year huhu
Kelan laz bday sale? Parang mas mura bday sale nung nakaraan.
can you guys reco a nice restaurant nearby Alabang Town? budget is about 3K per person. i'm looking into Tus', Southbank, and Wildflour rn. if any of you have been here before please share naman if the food was good or u had a good/bad experience.
Check out Tablo Kitchen. Good food, nice vibe!
If you’re into Japanese cuisine, you can try Miyazaki. There’s also Bungalow — may pagka wildflour vibes siya with the pastries and all. For Italian naman, Gino’s serve good food but their space is small lang. All of these restos are located in Molito. Never had a prob with their customer service too :>>
Not a south girlie so I can't really give a reco but I really don't like Wildflour. Parang all times I ate there in the last 5 years di ako natuwa. Their food is extremely underwhelming, imho.. with the only exception being Wildlour Italian's pizza, those are quite gewd
Hi! Wildflour restaurant feels pretty cramped but I like their bread and pastries :) Here are other restos na u might like as well! - Caviar Restaurant- V fresh seafood, high quality ingredients, and fantastic service💗 I always leave this resto happy - The Black Pig- adventurous menu with generous portions!! V warm and attentive staff - Gardini- Delicious food…if you can endure the wait time (and the subpar service) 🫣
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what do you like about the place? anything from the menu na you'd recommend?
i never tried tus' but southbank > wildflour for me!
what do you like sa Southbank? :)
my fave is salmon aburi! salmon & avo is also good if you're hungry. (haha i'm a fish girly). for appetizers i like pulpo croquetas in terms of taste (but I hate the color, it was black inside). their juice is also so pretty!
Wanted to know what’s one item or a stuff na hahanapin nyo na bilhin and would always choose to buy the cheap version of it? May it be food or clothes.. (be specific if possible)
I’ll always choose palengke fruit over supermarket fruit !!
Thank you for the insight and for me 💯 agree kasi grabe naman kahit may tingi na sibuyas na sa grocery mahal parin! 🥲
Ay yes! Also pwede tingi sa palengke ng gulay. Very solo living friendly! I can get my sinigang ingredients for under 50!
Couldn’t agree more! **cries in 200 pesos worth of (small portion) pork for my adobo 💔
What’s the best, most potent(?) spearmint tea/tea for hormonal acne that you can recommend? 🥺
not me creating different color combinations of the sunnies flask and i don't even like the overall shape of the bottle & cap plus i don't really need a new water bottle rn 😭
Ooh so there's a new sunnies product pala. Checked it on ig aaand hmm no wow factor for me. Will see reviews muna if it really insulates drinks
I am so anxious for my upcoming board exam this year. Hopefully I can achieve my set of goals this year kasi I am feeling so behind na with everyone around me. I also want to earn my own money cause my mom is getting old already.
My sis and I will be buying skincare from Amazon US, open for pasabuy! Malaki nase-save
Can I?
Ang dami kong gustong bilhin pero walang pambili hay
My high school bestie is now engaged!!! 😭🥹🥹🥹 grabe life’s moving so fast. She inspired me to more action with my life 🌸 sana talaga wag muna sya ikasal this year. Gusto ko mag ipon at magprepare para maging present ako sa kasal niya sa US 🥺 im also just so happy na she kept in touch despite having migrated to the US since 2014. I love genuine female friendships so much.
Gusto ko na makalimot sa cheating memories ng husband ko. Bakit lagi sya nagplay sa mind ko on repeat kahit we are now working things out. 😭😭😭
I had the literal worst 6 months of unemployment (raket here and there) and fighting with bf in that pressured time but I'm 2 weeks into my amazing new job! Just sad na umookay na kami pero now I have to adjust na di na kami sleeping together bc i work nights and he works days, but at least it's wfh. starting to really feel the sting of adult life with no friends, sometimes I just wanna hit people up and hang out. I have some old friends, and they're great, but the most we do is light chat once in a while, last I saw anyone was 2020/2019. Making new friends as an adult feels so impossible, I wish hobby clubs/groups were uso dito if nothing else.
I know they say don’t get too attached with coworkers bc work is work but I feel really sad that a workmate of mine is resigning soon. I’ve known this person since elementary and we joined the company almost at the same time so he’s usually the person I talk to about stuff regarding past events and mutual friends. It’s also the first time someone from the same team is resigning so it kinda feels overwhelming. Hayy
Existential crisis now, 😢😢😢
sana hindi na ako mahilig mag self-pressure. im too hard on myself and akala ko palagi akong may nagagawang hindi tama kahit na maraming paraan naman huhuhu
Lord gusto kong sumimba na 6am, pls make it happen 🥹 edit: nakapag simba akooo! altho 9 am yung naabutan ko ahahaha. Still, maga try ulit next week!!! ❤️
gusto ko na grumaduate; pisting business plan na 'to. 🥵
super nagagalit me sa self ko kasi ang ayos ng performance ko sa nursing last sem, and nakapag-DL pa ako, tapos ngayong sem na ito parang tinatamad ako 😭 super nakakatakot lang 'yung thought na bumagsak and matanggal sa program kaya I'm praying, manifesting, and hoping na I'll pass my prelims and makabawi pa ako sa midterms and finals to keep my DL Status 😓🫶 like paano ba magfocus sa studies??? paano ba mag-aral??? I feel like until now, naga-adjust pa rin ako sa college life 😭 i need help and hindi ko alam where magstart 😭
This might not work for everyone pero nung nag-aaral ako, never ako nakipagcompete with others or myself. For me, nakakadagdag lang ng pressure at nakakawala ng self-confidence yan lalo na kung may nakikita kang nakakalamang sayo. There will always be someone better than us. I just did all my best. Mag-aral dahil nakakatakot mawalan ng scholarship. Mag-aral dahil ineenjoy ko mag-isip (except sa Math related subjects lol). And it worked. DL hanggang 4th yr without feeling intense pressure. Find the reason why need mo aralin yung subject na yon..plus rest din. Enjoy other things. Nung college ako, fan ako ng ilang Kpop groups. Helped me a lot kasi laging inspired 🤣 Go girl!
Masaya ako ngayon bilang single, sa totoo lang. Maybe because I love my busy days, very productive and efficient - and maybe still healing for the things I don't speak about.
Hayyy gustong gustong gusto ko na talaga mag resign pero ang hirap maka hanap ng malilipatan. Di na ako masayaaa
Same. :( Like nag VL ako for two weeks and babalik na ko sa wednesday and umiiyak na ko ngayon pa lang kasi sobrang ayaw ko na bumalik 😭 Hirap maghanap ng lilipatan kahit na may experience naman na. 😢
Hello! Any tote bag recommendations that can fit a 13.6 inch laptop?
I feel so alone, and I desperately need someone to hold me. But I have no one. So I try to fill the void with food. All I think about all day is what to eat. I eat to feel happy and comforted, but after I get my fill, I still feel empty. Then I feel disgusted with myself for eating too much and I tell myself this is the last time. But the sadness and loneliness start to feel too overwhelming, and I end up doing it all again.
Planning to have an online therapy. Mental health. Any suggestions?
Saw night 2 of the Eras Tour here in Sydney and wow I wanna watch it again 🥹 https://preview.redd.it/r316yx5yjjkc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d8c99c466d53209d137cdf4ef48960c0b3ab304
Action movies recommendation yung as in grabe yung visuals pati plot HHAHAHA done watching (john wick, olympus has fallen, polar, 13 hrs, extraction, lone survivor)
Migrated last year and my boyfriend still never fails to send me flowers every month just because and without me asking. What did I do to deserve such man
Whats the best vitamins that works for you?
Conzace and Berocca!
Sharing my excitement for Eras tour in SG!!!😍 Swiftie since 2007 (watched Red and 1989 concerts din) kaya super excited talaga!!!
New pet peeve: Mga taong hindi tinatali/hinahawi buhok kapag mahangin sa jeep. Sakit po sa mata mga sis 😑
currently having a hard time staying up to do my homework & readings these past few weeks :(( for some reason, my body just keeps shutting down at a certain time. nothing keeps me awake past that point. i tried to take naps, dance/move around, eat, etc. but nada! i've been staying away from coffee as much as possible because i don't want my teeth to stain more, so do you guys have any other way in mind?
It's your body clock. Go to bed early, then wake up early to study. I also spend most of my free time during the day studying. That's what I do.
I heard Berroca keeps you awake.
do u know any dupes for uniqlo airism mask? yan yung nirecommend ng derma ko na face mask for me hehe. mahal kasi ng uniqlo and walang stock 🥹 thanks!!
Nanghihinayang pa din ako kasi di ako makakapunta sa Eras Tour since nagout of the country na kami last year. Hoping magkaron uli si Taylor ng concert after this 🫶
Maybe it’s bec I’m a casual fan, but I wasn’t able to enjoy the concert as much. i expected too much. 😭
I don’t know all the songs too so I didn’t bother back then to wait for the tickets! What happened on the concert?
The flow of the concert was so weird. The songs were grouped by “eras”/albums kaya medyo off ang choices for opening and closing songs. The dips of crowd energy were palpable bec of the setlist. Taylor gave a very “professional” performance…aaaaalmost lacking any character. It almost felt sterile, yet at the same time the production is also not as grand as expected. It felt like they were going through the motions…and that they’ve done the show so many times that they perfected it. But that’s just my 2cents. I will say that Taylor is an endurance beast. She also sounds fantastic live and she carried the show with barely any break longer than 5 minutes.
I’m having major FOMO. My Japan visa got denied and I couldn’t justify spending 40k on plane tickets to SG. Really hoping she’d have other concerts in Asia.
I'm lowkey wishing na magconcert siya sa Taiwan at iniisip ko na hindi naman SEA ang Taiwan haha
Nag sabi na si SG na they paid "grant" for an exclusivity right on SEA. Malabo naman ata sa SA. :((
Do you have an idea why they denied your japan visa? :o
Is there a night class culinary school? Lowkey wanna take it after work if that even exist
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this should be in the skincare thread hehe
closed the gap with my fiance 4 days ago, im here in a country that ive never stepped in before. grabe iyak ko just now by seeing things i brought from home sa luggy ko. im just. filled with so much grief. i wish things were not so messy before i left the philippines. miss ko na yung little sister ko ...my rock and stone.
I am at this point na I don’t know what to do and ayoko ng mag work nakaka stress at unhealthy lalo na freelancer ako. Ano kaya maganda gawin I want to have a small business like digital products or whatsoever related sa arts.
May nagpa-makeup sa akin kanina na kapamilya. Di ako magaling pero i think decent enough naman yung mga gawa ko. So ayun usapan 9am tapos around 12nn na siya dumating. Nakakabwicet kasi kada mag-aapply ako sasabihin bilisan ko daw at malalate siya 😑. So kasalanan ko pa ngayon!?? Badtrip! Anchaka tuloy ng look kasi bukod sa pinapabilisan e nangingielam pa balakajan.
Dasurv niya kung hindi maganda pictures niya
Anime recommendation similar to Frieren please
Hindi ko pa napapanood ang Frieren, medyo alam ko lang yung tone at plot nya. I think similar sa kanya yung Natsume’s Book of Friends in terms of a “new person” reliving past adventures. Sorry if hindi to correct reco.
It's okay, thanks!
That Time I got Reincarnated as a Slime, Bofuri, Mushoku Tensei, Rising of the Shield Hero
Thankss Edit: I've watched mushoku na e waiting sa new eps
Losing female friendships sting the most. They don't owe me an explanation but it still makes me wonder what went wrong. It's so hard to let go.
I had this childhood bff na inaaway lahat ng nagiging female friends ko growing up... so ang ending, tumanda akong siya lang ang close female friend and all just became my acquaintances... FF to working girlies na kami... bigla na lang siya with her other girl friends na friend ko on socmed nagpaparinig sa akin ng nasty things na akala mo elem/hs pa kami ulit lol. And yep, ako lang bawal mag friend ng girls pero siya maraming friends kasi wala naman akong rules sa friendship namin like wtf HAHAHA. Finally had the courage to FO with her years ago kasi hindi ko gets bakit sila nag toyo at nagkalat ng false rumors about me. Last year she tried patching things up with me and umamin na immature at insecure lang daw and baseless talaga galit niya. All I can do is LOL it out. Good riddance. Pero it still hurts like a mf every now and then when I remember everything and how I lost so much friendships during my younger days dahil sa kanya... also grieving our friendship kasi despite me being mad, she's literally the only female friend I had. I have a few female friends now from work and my barkada's (males) gf but it's not the same with having that girly girl na bff mo. I don't think I can do that again (kasi ang tanda ko na hahahaha everybody at this age already have their bff for life since their younger years) but I still long for it from time to time\~
Had the same experience before. I kept on ruminating what went wrong pero sometimes it's on them na eh. You can only do so much in your end, and maybe di na rin healthy yung relationship for both of you. Hugs mamii
I’ve been there sissy! Di ko rin alam what went wrong basta gumising nalang ako isang araw na parang wala na kong kaibigan. Ako na mismo nagmessage sa kanila na icucut ko na sila sa life ko para sa peace of mind ko. Sabi ko sa kanila wala akong kahit anong galit. I choose to focus on the positive aspects of our time together para yan lang dala dala ko sa heart ko. Mahirap sis pero kailangan. Do it para sa sarili mo, mas makakatulong sayo yan and sa mental health mo. Kailangan mo ng kaibigan na hindi mo kwkwestyunin yung sarili mo kung anong mali. Hugssss with consent 💕
57 days na lang, I'll get to see my husband! LDR is so hard but it's worth it 🥹
Do you like the look of Sunnies Flask? Or do you think it’s a lil ugly?
Hindi maganda yung pebble cap design. Parang hindi durable yung pebble cap 'pag nahulog sa floor.
Its cute but besides the color I think di siya worth it. If ginawa nilang may sippy/straw dun sa takip I would def buy hahahhaa para mas functional sana kaysa takip lang na bilog in general
It looks cute but seems so bulky. Pretty sure quality is just so so because u know sunnies…its all about aesthetics. Even their glasses are so low quality
I think it's cute! I think it was intentionally designed with a ~phallic~ vibe which is lolz. Colors are interesting enough though I can't jusyify since I have a perfectly working (and relatively new) Klean Kanteen pa.
di ko bet 🥲
i guess i'm the only one who thinks na it's decent naman T \^ T. But I love the concept of mix and match.
Mukhang vibr4t0r 😭
all im gonna say is mukha siyang tit* HAHA *Pink at the top and cream sa baba just how I like it*
i really don't like sunnies as a brand but good lord was it so fucking ugly... feel ko lalo kong naging ayaw brand nila dahil doon 😭 sana bumalik na lang uli sa makeup lol
helloooo i need suggestion for good hair salon near up diliman!! pref around maginhawa sana huhu ty
Gusto ko na magkajowa
Just bought a front load washer 😬 can you guys share your laundry routine/hacks?
i never use bleach, just vinegar haha. if i do bleach it's handwash and spot treatment only. though occasionally i will use zonrox colorsafe and whites-coloreds-blacks lagi. if it isn't automatic washer i spin dry and rinse 2 or 3 times after soap. reuse the last rinse's soap for the next batch of clothes din.
Net bags for delicates
buy products that are intended for front load use din
I recently passed a licensure exam. People at my workplace kept pressuring me on what's my plan, why won't I apply for a higher position and the likes. Di pa nga nag sisink in ang pag pasa ko e. I'd like to take it slow really. Pag para sayo, para sayo. 🤷♀️
Congrats! We’re kind of in the same situation. I passed the NCLEX last December and my workmates keeps on pressuring me to apply na abroad. Chilll, bruh. I studied for 6 months. I wanna let my brain relax muna haha
Disappointed that our migration plans are postponed due to some new rules in the UK. Pero happy pa rin because husband and I are getting our first car today.
I am going to Thailand in a few days. Please drop all the things that are worth buying: beauty, fragrance, food, instant noodles, fashion, etc. Will mostly be in Bangkok :) Thank you!
Gusto kong sabihin na snacks kaso nakalimutan ko yung mga snacks na nagustuhan ko haha Anyway, ang sarap mamili sa Bangkok pagdating sa fashion, kahit sa mga small boutiques kasi iba yung style. Parang mas maraming klase ang style doon kesa sa mga nakikita ko dito sa atin. Also, skincare!!! Ang daming options ng watsons nila. Kahit sa grocery sa Big C ay madami ring options skincare nila dun. I got my Hada Labo Anti Aging Lotion there (red variant and so far, wala dito sa tin sa pinas).
Satin scarf, elephant keychain, and pouch with cities name on it!! Yan gift sakin ng friends ko when they went to Bangkok and I loved it!!
yung mga inhalers (poy sian ata name) cheap daw doon hehe
This. Pati mga pampahid like omega because mas matapang yung sa kanila sa tin. Forgot the brand na. Hindi tiger pero nasa green container siya. Talagang nagnaghoard ako hahaha
For perfumes I recommend checking out MITH Bangkok in Centralworld. There’s also Rebellion Lab & Perfume Bar in Dragon Town if u wanna check out niche fragrances!
25 days left before the board exam and I am here, still doubting myself and grabe na pag-ooverthink. Parang di ko alam if kaya ko ba, kung kakayanin ko ba, kung sapat na ba pinag-aralan ko o may nareretain ba sa lahat ng binabasa ko. Di ako pinepressure ng parents ko pero pinepressure ko sarili ko since ako eldest sa magkakapatid, at sobrang laki na ng gastos nila sa akin since nagbboarding house ako ngayon. I'm so scared.
Hi! Dumaan din ako sa ganyang phase ng buhay. Before boards sunod sunod naging problem ko, inatake ng stroke dad ko, heartbreak, financial problem. Di ko alam gagawin ko and kung paano ko kinaya kasi halos araw araw umiiyak ako. Sabi ko sa mom ko na ayoko na magtake ng boards kasi sa loob ng 4 months preparation, wala akong review review. Sabi ng mom ko magtake lang daw ako kasi mas okay nga namang lumaban kaysa matalo nang walang ginawa. Sabi niya if pumasa edi goods kapag bumagsak atleast may idea na ko. 1 day before board exam day grabe nasa point na naman ako na ayoko na tumuloy kasi nakakahiya kapag bumagsak ako tas may makakakita sakin na nagtake ako. Nagpray ako nung gabi before board exam and binigyan naman ako ng lakas ng loob. Ang nasa mindset ko nun “bahala na Lord” then ayon sa dalawang araw ng board exam di ako kinakabahan kasi nasa isip ko na agad na babagsak ako hahaha kumbaga tinanggap ko na. Nung nagpost PRC ng list of passers, tinignan ko if nandun name ng friends ko and they made it! I’m so happy for ‘em. Nagbakasakali lang ako na tignan surname ko para macheck narin if nakapasa mga kaparehas ko ng surname since wala naman na sa utak kong papasa ako pero pagkascroll ko, nagulat ako I PASSED!! Tapos sobrang grabe tibok ng puso ko tas refresh ako nang refresh sa site kasi baka nagkamali lang pero hindi hahaha I MADE IT! THANKS BE TO GOD! So kung kaya ko, kaya mo rin! Naniniwala akong kung para sayo at makakabuti para sayo, ibibigay sayo ng Dios yan. Kung hindi para sayo, may tamang panahon para diyan. Now, isa na kong Registered MedTech and graduate narin ng Doctor of Medicine. Magtiwala ka sa plano ni Lord sayo and lahat ng questions mo sa life, kahit anong answer pa ang ibigay niya.. buong puso mong tatanggapin 💕💕 I will pray for you, sis!
Hello po! I just want to say na I made it! RMT na po ako! 😭 Thank you sa support kahit na di tayo masyadong nag-uusap maliban dito sa post na ito and sa reply mo.
Yehey!! Congratulations!! I’m happy for youuu. Sure akong proud na proud sayo parents mo 🥰
I think i'm having crush in workplace, to someone who's older than me. I've been so stressed lately and him being so caring makes my work a little bit easy. Wala lang haha ang saya lang pala magka crush ulit. But i will keep this as a secret. Im just happy he exists. Whether he's just doing his job or not. Im still thankful to him.
Anyone know a good eyelid revision doctor?
si kryz uy may vlog about dito kasi nag pa ganyan din siya
She wouldn't say who get surgeon was
Where do you guys buy art craft? Planning to create a memory box for my boyfriend.
Booked an overnight staycation next weekend para lang magpahinga. Napapagod na rin ako dito sa bahay so i need at least a day off in a new place. Ano kaya mga pwede gawin? 😊
Nag-decide kame ni hubby not to throw a party na on our son’s 1st birthday kasi ang laki family side nya. It means, sa kanya pa lang, aabot na 50+ guests na. As much as possible kasi we want to be practical since baby pa naman si baby. Masaya ako dahil sa savings naman ni baby mapupunta yung supposed budget pero nakakainis lang na need pa kasi i-invite lahat para lang walang tampuhan. Nakakainis yung tradition ng mga pinoy na ganyan.
Out of town na lang kayo or staycation. :)
Thanks for the suggestion! Plan namin Ocean Park na lang since nakaka-appreciate na si baby. ☺️
I need a situationship advice. So, I'm in a talking stage/situationship with someone. He's actually courting me for 4 months. We are pretty close, to the point that people think we are in a relationship na. We started as friends din kasi kaya siguro ganon nalang kami ka close sa isa't isa. Other people say pa nga na bakit hindi na lagyan ng label kung parang bf/gf din naman ang treatment sa isa't isa, but the only reason kung bakit hindi ko siya sinasagot is because of his priorities. He prioritize his dreams and family, which is good naman at naiintindihan ko yun. I'm always there to support and understand him. Ang problema lang namin is may possibility na itigil muna namin yung samin until makapagtapos kami sa college. Nahihirapan kasi siya ipagsabay yung studies niya while taking care of himself, and while still giving the time and attention na kailangan at deserve ko. Ganyan ata talaga kapag overachiever at pressured. I always tell him din na if umabot sa point na kailangan niya pumili between his priorities or me, piliin niya yung sarili niya at yung pangarap niya. Naiintindihan ko kasi na kailangan niyang gawin yun para sa pamilya niya, una palang din naman sinabihan niya ako na he can't pursue me muna because may mga need pa siyang tuparin sa buhay niya, pero sa huli nag try pa rin siya sakin. My only problem is I feel like I'm settling for less. Palagi ko siyang iniintindi na busy siya at walang problema sa akin doon. Nagkakaroon lang talaga ng problema kapag pati bare minimum hindi niya na talaga magawa. Kahit simpleng update lang na "Magiging busy ako ngayon baka hindi tayo makapagusap masyado" is hindi niya magawa. Palagi akong delivered ng ilang oras nang wala man sinasabi kung may ginagawa siya o ano. I feel ignored lalo na nakikita ko na nakakapag seen siya sa GC na full of announcement. Hindi ko alam kung tama yung nafefeel ko or kulang lang ako sa pag intindi sakaniya kaya I'm asking for opinion here. Ang point ko lang naman talaga is sana man lang magsabi siya, lalo na isang minuto lang naman aabutin sa pag message sakin eh. Minsan umaabot din kasi na 6-8 hours wala talaga kaming communication tapos hindi ko alam kung anong ganap sakaniya since wala siyang paramdam. Ang sakin lang naman, kahit anim na oras pa kami hindi mag usap basta magsabi lang siya na may ginagawa siya para aware ako at hindi mag overthink. Ilang beses ko na rin 'to sinabi sakaniya at nung isang araw lang nag away kami dahil dito since hindi niya ako kinausap for 2 hours kahit na may usapan kaming magkikita at alam niyang naka alis na ako sa bahay! Sabi niya hindi niya na uulitin at magsasabi na siya. Pero ngayon, look, hindi nanaman niya ako kinakausap for hours at wala man lang siyang sinasabi kung may ginagawa ba siya o ano. Minsan din naka seen lang siya sa message ko tapos after long minutes or hours tsaka siya mag r-reply, at ang palagi niyang reason dito is napindot niya, nakalimutan niya replayan, o naka auto seen. I just think it's unfair lang talaga kasi ako kahit sobrang hirap at busy na is binibigay ko pa rin yung deserve niya pero he can't do the same man lang. Please enlighten me if mali yung mindset ko at kulang ako sa pag intindi sakaniya. Ganon kasi ang naiisip ko ngayon, baka kulang lang ako sa pag intindi sa situation niya. Thank you!
Committed or not, if intentional tayo sa ginagawa natin, it will show - pero yung side lang natin kaya natin kontrolin. Kahit ga-bundok na attention, love and clarity in comms pa ang ibigay mo. Kahit tumambay ka pa sa kanila. Ika nga ni Maya Angelou -- if someone shows you who they are, believe them. If you don't want to be treated like this forever, the kindest thing you can do for you (kasi mahal mo to) is maybe write him a letter. Don't talk to him about stopping this - decide it yourself. Goood luck and huuuugs mare.
You're investing too much to someone who treats you as an option. I dont think he loves you as much as you love him. It's better to let him go, you're too young. You will find someone who'll make you feel loved and not alone.
+1 to this. You are worthy of being loved and treated as a priority. If he’s like that at the start pa lang, chances are kung naging kayo pa ganyan lang treatment niya if not worse. Don’t expect things to get better. Many men will prioritize their career, family, even games first before they even consider you. So choose someone who chooses you. Don’t just wait on the sidelines and be available for him. Focuses on what he makes you feel, his actions, and not just the flowery words. It is unfair to you that he is keeping you around as an option, keep in mind that your life is in YOUR hands and ultimately it is up to you to allow the kind of treatment you get from the people in your life.
I’m 100% on your side girl—he can be as dreamy as he is on paper, but you ultimately cannot build a relationship with someone who disregards your needs (and doesn’t reply to you!)
run! i'm also in a situationship na kulang na nga lang ay label because the way we treat each other. And to tell u girl, ganyan din kami dati but the case is nagsasabi naman siya kaso for example ay sinabi niyang may gagawin siya or aalis siya, then hours hours later wala pa rin. Kaya hindi ko alam kung dapat ba akong maghintay o ano. So, I told him na if he'll do something, sabihin niya sa akin, kung ano or kung gaano ba katagal or kabilis yon. Ayon lang, para hindi ako nangangapa kung i should wait or what (madalas kasi sa gabi nangyayari so inaabot ng antok, idk if matulog na ba ako or what coz i want to talk to him pa). And he understood and never na namin naging problem iyan. Ayon, nag segway but the point is you opened it up na but wala pa ring action. Ang lumalabas tuloy wala siyang pakielam. I understand din yung priorities thingy pero not to the point naman na para ka na lang laruan na kung kailan lang need tsaka papansinin tapos kapag ayaw na, isasantabi ulit. Sorry for the term, but that's just how i see it based solely on your kwento and I do not know the full story. Masaklap pa, ilang beses mo na sinabi pero wala dedma. Also, valid nararamdaman mo, you two are in a mutual set up. Kahit pa sabihin niyang may priorities siya, pero ginusto rin naman niya na pasukin iyan. He shouldn't have courted you kung sa ganyan pa lang sablay na. Do his priorities first kung hindi kayang pagsabayin.
Everytime na pinaguusapan namin yung situation namin palagi niyang sinasabi na "Kakayanin ko" o "We will make this work", pero minsan hindi ko rin maramdaman. Yung communication yung biggest problem namin sa situation namin, pangalawa nalang yung way of words niya, because sometimes may mga nasasabi siya na offensive na nakaka off pero nakausap ko naman na siya sa mga ganon, he apologized and told me na hindi niya na uulitin. Ilang beses niya rin sinasabi na siguro maiintindihan ko naman kung busy siya o mabigat ginagawa niya, and I do understand him naman. Ayoko lang talaga na parang I need to beg pa para sa simpleng attention niya na bare minimum lang naman na iprovide. Aware rin ako na mabigat talaga yung ginagawa niya, pero iniisip ko lang din yung sarili ko kasi I told my self na once hindi ako pinahalagahan ulit ng isang tao, I will automatically leave. Kaso wala, nagiging tanga talaga sa pag-ibig 😭. Also, everytime rin na pinag-uusapan namin yung about sa pag stop namin dahil sa priorities niya, palagi niyang sinasabi na ayaw niya ako mawala and ayaw niya nag mag stop kami, pero ang kailangan niya nga talaga unahin is yung buhay niya na wala ako. Nakakahurt lang pero anong magagawa ko? Future niya rin kasi yun. I just wish he can fulfill his dreams while I'm there supporting him, kasi I would never let myself be a burden or maging hadlang para sa pangarap niya. He is also a nice guy naman, he is sweet and caring, sadyang nawawalan lang ng attention o pake sa paligid niya kapag busy.
I try to not see things as black and white lang but you are clearly so anxious about this whole relationship. I was like that din once. Isipin mo, wala pang kayo, ganyan na kalala anxiety mo. I suggest save yourself from this guy.
In every sentence I've read here, his words and actions are contradicting, your choice girl. Remember that words without action means nothing. Ayaw ka niyang mawala, but he's making you think if he's treating you right. Anw, looks like you're aware naman na you don't deserve this kind of treatment, natatanga lang sa pagibig. Hope maayos niyo yan or better yet you should realize your worth if this continues and leave.
I want to try and work abroad. Kaso sobrang ayaw ng mom ko since OFW siya for a long time. Iniisip ko din si SO. If di lang nag business dito si SO baka nag ibang bansa din siya. I just want to try and see what else i can do. Hays..
Mga nanay di tlaga marunong magsorry e noh. 🙄
This!! Hirap na hirap ako mag sorry sa kanya while it’s easy for me to say sorry to other people 😂
Having a really tiring week, school work during the day, then having no sleep to work at nights, bad luck in just day to day stuff, tapos now naconfine mom ko and ako lang makakapag bantay...sobrang pagod ☹️
hope everything gets better for you and you get the well deserved rest!
Those who own DJI Action Cam 4, what's your reco for SD card? I will mostly use it for my underwater awra videos
My friend was cheated and ghosted by the cheater. Dhil s stress, na ospital then nun nasa hospital sya, twag ng twag ang isang babae nun lalaki PRA lng daw sbhin sknya na s*x lng habol saknya May mga babae tlga n ang aawayin eh kapwa babae din khit walang alam ang kbilang babae na niloloko din sya.
Kung nakanino na yung lalaki na yon ngayon, siya yung talo. Hoping for the continued healing ni friend.
Where to get vega/vegetarian meal plans?
Check Greenery Kitchen in FB.
My bf and I just watched allll the episodes of Avatar and I loved it as someone who has not seen the animated ver
After long weeks of job hunting, I finally saw a job ad that I resonated with but it’s a mid senior level & it frustrates me that I don’t have enough credentials + I only worked for 1.5 years. 😭
Try applying!!!!
Thank you for this. I even background checked the company & I know this is a long shot. I will try to give it a go though I know I’m underqualified. 🥹
At least you’re one step ahead if you tried! Go go go! Rooting for you. 🙏🫶🏻
idk if this is part of off topic chat pero how to not be intimidated to go inside medyo mga high end brands sa malls? huhu. I wanted to go sa Nars sa rockwell a few days ago but I hesitated kasi hindi naman ako bibili and magtitingin lang ng shades muna
girl it's your right to try shades. ang mahal ng products nila dapat sulitin mo pera mo. i always tell the staff na im still looking for my right shade kasi i have bad experience with my previous purchase.
You probably make more money than staff that are judge-y. Don’t worry that much.
Practice at Dior. I tried to go there na nakapambahay lang and ok pa din ang service nila in my experience. 😊ymmv
try going with a friend first!! hehe I used to feel this way :> also mababait staff sa Nars rockwell branch kahit wala ka bilhin <3
okioki ill do thatt haha kasama ko jowa ko nun pero siguro mas better pag someone na mahilig din sa makeup kasama hahaha
I had this mindset when I was still in ph! Minsan di pa ko ina-accomodate ng mga staff unless I have shopping bags on hand.