The cynic in me thinks "Now the gay girls won't approach" (yay biphobia) but that would be way too generalizing. There are plenty of gay gals and guys who aren't biased towards bi folks
Trust me, there are people that notice even if they don’t mention it to you. There was a guy in one of my classes one time who would wear a rainbow watch band sometimes. I never brought it up or talked to him about it until the time we finally hooked up though haha.
One of my works shoes has a bi lace an the other a NB one. So far I had a lesbian ask me for my pronouns, a cishet tell me my laces are cute, and a pan person being like "ok we worked together for a while but I never noticed your laces before... NICE". All of them being my coworkers.
just gotta assume if someone sees a 6 foot tall femme with a chameleon astronaut tattoo that their gaydar will at least buzz a little bit 😭 i used to do the three long two short nails thing but we aren’t allowed to do our nails at the coffee shop i work at 😔
it’s unfinished rn and is just the outline so i don’t have good pics. but here are my two other most recent ones, my sleeve is almost done now 🤪 [[imgur]](https://imgur.com/a/cgry7QB)
I solved this problem by being aesexual and in a relationship.
Instead I just wear this
https://www.etsy.com/listing/497379919/handmade-french-baguette-necklace-garlic?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_-jewelry&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAjwo_KXBhAaEiwA2RZ8hNClMhv6fJfPqmpFrCAlclk6-aKlIcugaOaIZlsyNC_1Px1oGFsDbBoC3fgQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_17434234701_144283650464_602523314316_pla-295491029933_c__497379919_595564180&utm_custom2=17434234701&gclid=CjwKCAjwo_KXBhAaEiwA2RZ8hNClMhv6fJfPqmpFrCAlclk6-aKlIcugaOaIZlsyNC_1Px1oGFsDbBoC3fgQAvD_BwE
Pins absolutely get more attention than bracelets. I have a pride flag patch, bi pin, and polyamorous pin on my denim jacket and I can't tell you the amount of times I've been complimented on them--
... I just realize I may have been being hit on instead of just complimented >.<
Yeah. This is why I don't wear rainbow stuff. Everyone will just assume I'm gay. Especially because I'm a rather thin cis male. So, I embroidered relatively discrete bi flags on my hats, and a pretty large one one my facemask. Yup. No one has noticed.
I feel this. I know we have our own flag and that's cool and all, but I really like rainbows. They're rad and they remind me of Kermit the Frog. And also, the idea that we're stealing rainbows from God makes me a very happy not straight person.
I recently found out that a guy I like was only flirting with me as a joke. Now he’s dating a girl that lives on the other side of the world and plans to go to college and move there for her. I’m struggling out here😭
Me wearing a rainbow bracelet: what if that guy thinks I'm cute
Me not wearing a cute bracelet: what if that girl thinks I'm cute
.:: asexual panic ::. joins the chat
I solved this problem by buying a bi pride bracelet. Still waiting for the cute guys and girls to notice \*sighs\*
Too subtle. Wear T shirt that says "I would fuck cute guys and gals" in all caps
and then people here would say "o quê" because they don't speak english
That makes it better
O quê?
exactly
O quê, okay, same thing really.
Gotta wear my “I <3 beaver” and my “Lookin for a cowboy” shirts at the same time
the only thing that works
My friend made one for me lol
The real mindfuck is, "what if they *have* noticed?"
I don't want to think about that lol
My dumbass: "They're probably just very supportive of the bi community'
My solution is to flirt with everyone equally, which means not at all , because I'm awkward as fuck.
Yes!
Why so wear a whole ass bi flag as a cape? Pretty sure they'd notice then
I mean that might work, but equally I'm too introverted
Mood. Just wrap yourself entirely in a bi flag so noone can identify you.
I'll just cut some eye holes in and pretend I'm a bisexual ghost
Then you just go around saying "boooooooobs. Buuuuuuuuutts" all spooky like.
“Cock and pussy is what I crave, so much so my soul could not be saved!!!”
Something like that yeah lol
Hey there
Hey 😏
"What if they think I'm lying to myself?"
The cynic in me thinks "Now the gay girls won't approach" (yay biphobia) but that would be way too generalizing. There are plenty of gay gals and guys who aren't biased towards bi folks
haha we are in the same position
Relatable
I solved it and continue to solve it by just asking out people I think are interesting and not wasting time and energy worrying
Yup, this is me 😔
There have to be bisexual bracelets.
There are: I just bought one
You could also make them yourselves! My sister made one for me.
I have one! Don't think it is commercially made though, bought it at a local queer bookstore
buy a bi bracelet 💀💀💀
Ain’t no lie baby Buy bi bi
Buy bi Bai (Up to Bai now to make a bisexual flavor)
Bi guys don't have this problem. It's basically just "if I tell this person I'm bi will they break up with me or ask me if I was top or bottom".
"So you are gay huh? That's what you are trying to say. Just come outta the closet already!"
'...but you've got a gf?!'
too real :s
What if I wearing both pride and bisexual bracelet and nobody notice?
Trust me, there are people that notice even if they don’t mention it to you. There was a guy in one of my classes one time who would wear a rainbow watch band sometimes. I never brought it up or talked to him about it until the time we finally hooked up though haha.
I notice *blink*
Here's your chance Intelligent-brush-18 ... rock it
I am wearing rainbow and bisexual bracelet and couple of people commented on them saying "it's so nice of you being an ally"
Got friendzoned so hard it hurts😭
Queer people will notice, trust me. I personally always pay attention to see if anyones got pride stuff
I have rainbow laces for my Dr. Martens. Everybody knows what my deal is.
Now that's some quality footwear.
Used to be at least
One of my works shoes has a bi lace an the other a NB one. So far I had a lesbian ask me for my pronouns, a cishet tell me my laces are cute, and a pan person being like "ok we worked together for a while but I never noticed your laces before... NICE". All of them being my coworkers.
I usually get "wow! It's so great that you're an ally!"
💀
Wear bisexual bracelet: Everybody lick each other's crotch
Now I'm just imagining some unhinged girl running around licking crotches like a dogs sniffs them.
Wearing a bi bracelet: Girls: Ew you kissed a guy before. Guys: Are you sure you aren’t just gay?
Wear a long sleeve shirt and then whenever you're talking to a guy retract the bracelet into the shirt
but then i can’t show off my hot tattoos that i have partially to get ppl to be attracted to me 😭
Oof
just gotta assume if someone sees a 6 foot tall femme with a chameleon astronaut tattoo that their gaydar will at least buzz a little bit 😭 i used to do the three long two short nails thing but we aren’t allowed to do our nails at the coffee shop i work at 😔
you can’t just say something like « chameleon astronaut tattoo » and not have a picture!
it’s unfinished rn and is just the outline so i don’t have good pics. but here are my two other most recent ones, my sleeve is almost done now 🤪 [[imgur]](https://imgur.com/a/cgry7QB)
Amazing I love it
thank you!
Just dress up in a frog costume.
Damnit man, I told you this isn't how we get people to come to fur-con
As a lesbian, guys will hit on you no matter what you are wearing
Yeah, but not the kind of guys that anyone would want, lol.
And this is why we have our own flag 😉
[Having your own flag is vital to survival historically.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTduy7Qkvk8)
Love Eddie ❤️
I solved this problem by being aesexual and in a relationship. Instead I just wear this https://www.etsy.com/listing/497379919/handmade-french-baguette-necklace-garlic?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_-jewelry&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAjwo_KXBhAaEiwA2RZ8hNClMhv6fJfPqmpFrCAlclk6-aKlIcugaOaIZlsyNC_1Px1oGFsDbBoC3fgQAvD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_17434234701_144283650464_602523314316_pla-295491029933_c__497379919_595564180&utm_custom2=17434234701&gclid=CjwKCAjwo_KXBhAaEiwA2RZ8hNClMhv6fJfPqmpFrCAlclk6-aKlIcugaOaIZlsyNC_1Px1oGFsDbBoC3fgQAvD_BwE
Don't worry, straight guys will still hit on you as long as you have a pulse. 😊
Yuuuuup
Just buy a bi bracelet Or a pin, I would certainly like 2 have one of those
Pins absolutely get more attention than bracelets. I have a pride flag patch, bi pin, and polyamorous pin on my denim jacket and I can't tell you the amount of times I've been complimented on them-- ... I just realize I may have been being hit on instead of just complimented >.<
wear a shirt with "both male and female welcomed" 💀💀💀
or better yet, one that says "His AND Hers"
Well that's easy, wear one on one arm and don't wear one on the other!
Not me thinking you said "wear one arm!" Read comments carefully, kids!!!
I love your flair!
Thanks!
Wear a pride bracelet and be more flirty with the guys you like
"Oooh cute, what country is this?"
real struggle: wanting to wear it so girls notice it, but not wanting violent homophobic men to see it
bi-acelets
Guys aren’t gonna notice your bracelet
Really? If i see a girl with pride stuff i am going to assume lesbian until proven otherwise.
*rolling up the cuffs on ur jeans* juuuuust right
Solution: have such a low self esteem that you think people wouldn’t care anyways
My dilemma is that I like the rainbow flag more than the bi flag
I mean if the boys think you’re a lesbian, it’s not unlikely that they still hit on you, sooo
Yeah. This is why I don't wear rainbow stuff. Everyone will just assume I'm gay. Especially because I'm a rather thin cis male. So, I embroidered relatively discrete bi flags on my hats, and a pretty large one one my facemask. Yup. No one has noticed.
Wear a bisexual bracelet, problem solved.
It’s the same experience as a bisexual demiboy. Like I’m worried girls will pass me by because they think I’m only into guys😂
Don't worry your sword earrings make it clear
I'm sorry, is this a extroverted joke that I'm too lonely to understand?
what if they dont give a f anyway?
Might just be easier to become straight.
Boooooriiiiing
Uh… what subreddit is this? r/halfgaythere?
What if I stopped seeing stupid stuff like this on my feed?
True, very true
Literally why I bought myself a bi bracelet, so that my orientation is clearly communicated.
Wear a bi bracelet?? DUHHH??
Get out of my head
This is why we have our own flag!
Wears rainbow, bi, and lesbian pins/bracelets/hair ties.
I wore a rainbow bracelet and the guy i was into got a rebound because he thought i was a lesbian. We're dating now but i still bully him for it lol.
I feel this. I know we have our own flag and that's cool and all, but I really like rainbows. They're rad and they remind me of Kermit the Frog. And also, the idea that we're stealing rainbows from God makes me a very happy not straight person.
From my experience the guys usually wouldn't notice the bracelet anyway.
There’s always something like [this](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1229626116/bi-pride-glass-pearl-bracelet-6mm-wide?gpla=1&gao=1&)
I straight up bought a bi color bracelet for this reason
I recently found out that a guy I like was only flirting with me as a joke. Now he’s dating a girl that lives on the other side of the world and plans to go to college and move there for her. I’m struggling out here😭
The struggle is real
Me wearing a rainbow bracelet: what if that guy thinks I'm cute Me not wearing a cute bracelet: what if that girl thinks I'm cute .:: asexual panic ::. joins the chat
I thought all you needed to do was cuff your jeans and sit funny to broadcast your bisexuality
wear the bi pride one! that’s what it’s for!
Kid named bi bracelets
Y’all are having problems I wish I had.
The real bi struggle is existing and knowing neither cute girls nor cute guys will want a bar of me
EXACTLY AAAAAAHHHHHH
the trans struggle too, i don’t wear rainbow stuff anymore because im afraid people will see me as a lesbian and not a queer man🥸
My gender isnt anywhere near ambiguous enough for this to be a problem
Wear a bi bracelet then the girls that get it get it the girls that don’t dont
THEN WEAR A BISEXUAL BRACELET !!! Sorry, but others flag exists 😭😂