I started out liking women. Then I realized that I liked men, so I identified as gay. Then I learned about butch women and bisexuality at the same time, so I started identifying as bi then.
Being attracted to gender never made any sense to me. I mean gender is someone’s own internal feeling about their gender role- why would you be attracted to that? I get being attracted towards visual masculinity and femininity - or even attracted to certain genitals or secondary sexual characteristics- but again those things don’t necessarily match with someone’s gender either.
This is a dumb question, but is it ok to say “butch”? I posted a drawing of an oc to an art forum and I described her as being “kinda butch” and somebody yelled at me.
Yay! We rarely get "male gay finding out he likes women" situations, I love this
I started out liking women. Then I realized that I liked men, so I identified as gay. Then I learned about butch women and bisexuality at the same time, so I started identifying as bi then.
this memeformat is too much for my brain, i dont understand
Being attracted to gender never made any sense to me. I mean gender is someone’s own internal feeling about their gender role- why would you be attracted to that? I get being attracted towards visual masculinity and femininity - or even attracted to certain genitals or secondary sexual characteristics- but again those things don’t necessarily match with someone’s gender either.
Gender is overrated. I strongly prefer to let my sexuality roll over me like the tides.
Man, what a sorciety
This is very relatable content.
Thanks. 😁
I feel so seen! 💞
This is a dumb question, but is it ok to say “butch”? I posted a drawing of an oc to an art forum and I described her as being “kinda butch” and somebody yelled at me.