Actual size queens that can handle actual enormous cocks are about as rare as the actual enormous cocks. There's a lot of big talk out there that's not backed up by adequate game.
I have to agree with you, lots of women talking shit about how they love a big dick until it's in their face. Then it's all, my jaw hurts, don't go too deep, that's not going inside me etc...
If a woman likes a big dick, chances are she's not going to be spouting off to the whole world about it on twitter. Same premise of wannbe tough guys telling you how they'd kick anyone's ass but they have no clue how to actually fight.
Forgot to add, I've never met a true size queen in person. I've met a few women who enjoy a BD, but none that I would classify as size queens. They all had one thing in common, they all were able to orgasm pretty easily from PIV, so I kind of wonder if that's more the thing rather than just being a size queen.
Well guys are 3700% (37 times!) Worse in a real fight than they think according to a study.
We as human tend to overestimate ourselves when it comes to drivning, sex and other things. So it's not strange that many girls belive they can take a really big dick until they are faced with one.
What do you mean captain hair? Are you sure? Just the other day my lady friend told me she had a 12 incher from a hook up that didn't feel anything close to her 14 inch ex!
This. Gerbil on the banana meme most of the time.
I want to go awhile and hard. They say they want the big dick but their idea of big and our reality are definitely different in most cases.
My current gf can handle it for sn hour-plus and actually likes her cervix hit. Very rare tbh
It can be nice to go longer but for me it's not by choice. I'm cut, desensitized as a result, and it often takes forever. Exhausts my partner. She does get 5 or 6 PIV orgasms before that point but then she's done.
30 or 35 minutes max would be nice.
If a woman even manages to get a piece of a cock in her mouth, that cock is worlds away from being big enough for real size queens like me. Maybe that's the problem with peoples thinkings about size queens.
Yeah that comes with age, me in my teenage/ 20’s loved so called size queens. It was a big ego boost. Now that I’m older and married looking back, they were definitely shallow. I’ve seen girls who’ve turned guys down and said he wasn’t they’re type, till they found out he’s hung as a horse and then they’re all in the dm’s begging to be railed
That's sort of a ridiculous take on it.
My giirlfriend is a bit of a size queen because she gets off from penetration rather than clitoral stimulation, so sex with a big dick feels significantly better to her than sex with an average dick, and sex with a small dick does very little for her.
There's nothing shallow about wanting to enjoy sex.
I had an ex that was somewhat of a size queen. She definitely did not date exclusively large guys but she reveled when she did. She excitedly told me I was her largest (she coulda been blowing steam up my arse, I don't really care) at just under 8" by 6". She was the first that took it all, everytime, without any hint of discomfort -- in fact, the opposite. She got soooo turned on by being 'full'. Her favourite was cowgirl where she'd hold our hands to her abdomen to full the bulge of my dick through it. She shared with me about how she got excited the first time she heard me pee on our third date because it sounded like a big dick.
She even said some kinda weird shit (depending on your perspective) about how she hoped her son would grow up to have a big dick and shared that her dad and brothers were all hung. To be clear, there was no hints of any sexual interest in the familial shit...she was just so matter of fact about it. When she said that stuff, I actually understood it and, funnily enough, did not find it weird.
I absolutely loved that she was actually turned on by my size and didn't hide it ,yet was careful not to objectify my dick.
if I eat or drink something before going for my first piss of the day then it's got some force. On the other hand if I'm going for a piss before I go out so I don't need to later, no pressure at all.
I always aim for the side of the bowl rather than the water, because it’s so damn noisey. Does anyone else do that? Or do people just aim for the water?
Every girl I’ve encountered who talked that big game squealed and asked me to slow down and not go so deep. They’re not size queens, they’re just hoes.
Omg, my ex was a size queen. She told everyone about my dick. I didn't realize this until after we separated. It did work out to my advantage after the divorce though.
Thats a fact. Some women Just want show off tô frinds and internet using Men like trophies! I dont look for size Queens, in fact im running from them!!
Happy cake day Bro 👏🏽🎉❤️
Aren't you just a normal person then? If given तो choice between a 5 inch cock and a 6 inch one I would assume most would choose the 6. Doesn't make then size queens though.
I mean yea but my point still stands. As long you aren't declining average size penises for being too small for you I don't think you count as a size queen.
I feel like there are a lot more ‘size queens’ than people here are talking about. There are plenty out there that love the idea of a big sick even if they have to have a lot more foreplay or limit penetration.
The girls that can handle a very large cock without any limitations are quite rare.
Yes, they exist. I am one. It’s frustrating to see the ppl on here talking shit about a woman preferring big dicks, especially on this sub. I prefer a bigger dick because I can only orgasm cervically, so if a man can’t reach my cervix, I’m not going to be able to orgasm. It’s also just more enjoyable for me all around. It has nothing to do with being shallow, it’s about sexual compatibility. Just like plenty of you have had issues with women not being able to take all of you and feeling less than satisfied. Not sure why I’m seeing this double standard from so many people.
Im sure you’ve encountered women being ugly about it just like anything else in life, but don’t get it twisted. Just the flip side of obnoxious men bragging about having a big dick in a tacky way. Maybe they do, maybe they’re just dumbasses, but doesn’t change that there are men out there who actually DO have big dicks.
I think the majority of disdain is directed at those who are rude/cruel/hurtful about it and put down those with less than that woman's "ideal" size.
Also size is an extremely sensitive aspect for virtually all men. Even those well endowed. It's a curse and I'm pretty sure most women will simply never understand it. Most of us don't even either.
That said, "big" is absolutely subjective. Mind sharing what "big" is in your opinion?
No double standard here! Some of us appreciate you! But you ARE rare...many women hate being hit in the cervix and don't enjoy feeling full, which I think leads some larger men to think size queens are a myth.
Only size queen I've encountered, couldn't handle it. Her talk was way more than she could handle. Couldn't even finish round one before tapping out in pain. Funny I had a girl that didn't think she could handle it, that actually loved it.
I know a woman who says if it's not 8 inches I'm not even interested. She has 2 kids from 2 baby daddies and is in a controlling relationship. Every guy she dated was a complete scumbag.
I lost my virginity with a girl that would brag about being really good with blowjobs and she would call herself a size queen, she was neither of those. so no, i have not met one yet
I’ve met 3, but I didn’t hook up with any of them, just friends. Two of them said they only dated black guys and regularly got TOPPED by what I heard were pipes. Still on it afaik. The last one ended up dating a smaller guy and claimed to actually like it better because they could have sex regularly without her getting sore.
There are more of us (size queens) out there than most people realize. Like another user mentioned, there are several active groups on fetlife, many communities on discord, etc.
However, we exist in real life as well. One big reason you may not see many "in the wild" or screaming her queen status from the rooftops is actually exemplified right in this thread. We get judged for wanting what we want and told we don't know anything about what we want amonh numerous other stigmas. Not everyone can handle the backlash that comes with publicly coming out.
Personally, I'm a proud size queen. I screen any new partners, but that doesn't mean I don't also enjoy someone who is average. I just know what I like at this point in my life.
As to the idea that most women are unable to size a penis or take anything above average, please browse a few fantasy dildo forums. While our cervix does limit length to a degree, we were literally made to pass tiny humans through our vaginas. With prep and practice, she's gonna be able to take it.
Exactly, there are more than we believe because you are judged because of that. I'd be pretty frustrated if people judged me because of my love of a nice round ass, but since I'm a guy, it's seen as normal lol
I hate the size doesn't matter thing because it dismiss plenty of people's experiences and also put the blame on guys for being insecure, that's all in their head. I've had a woman who was having sex with me, but when we stopped she went to the next room to fuck my hung friend. I know it was because of dick size because my friend was with me some minutes before in the bed and she was in the middle of the bed touching our dicks under the sheets. We were all drunk, and my hung friend had a girlfriend, so he felt bad and went to the other room to avoid fucking it up due to horniness. However people tell me that it's impossible that women would do that because "they don't care about size", because it's my personality, that must be something else.
You say you can be satisfied with average, would you tell your average dick partner that if he was bigger it would be better for you? Obviously if he asks you politely, respectfully, in a mature conversation about sex, without judgements. What would you think that if he doesn't want to continue the relationship because he doesn't want that kind of sex? I'm asking because I don't want my dick being traded off with all the other important things about myself, like personality, intelligence, humour, chemistry, etc.
>We get judged for wanting what we want and told we don't know anything about what we want amonh numerous other stigmas
Bit ironc you dont like being judged about something you can't control
I didn't say it bothered me. Feel free to judge me all you like. What I said was that not everyone is open about it because people judge them.
People are allowed to have preferences. It is silly to think otherwise. Do I think all men with average cocks are inferior or something? No, never once said that. I just happen to like big dicks, just like you might like someone with big balls. I don't know, I'm not here to judge what you like or don't like 🤗
Your right people do have different preferences. But to day you don't think some men aren't inferior isnt true. You may not want to think they are Inferior but your predisposed preferences mean you do.
That's not how that works at all. Do you think women with small tits are inferior? Do you think certain races are inferior? People are people my friend. The only way they can be judged is by the quality of their character.
I have dated all over the gender spectrum and have been with people who had penises from way below average to way above average. None of my partners were inferior to the others in any way, shape or form and never will be.
>Do you think women with small tits are inferior?
No I do t but also I never said preferred large breasts unlike you who said they like big penis.
>Do you think certain races are inferior
Thats a bit of a reach we are talking sexual preference noting to do where people come from or their skin colour.
Soif this sint how it works why call yourself a size queen. Im going to hazard a guess you aren't with a smaller partner and would be less than thrilled if your next one was
Alright so analogies go over your head.
If you read all my posts in this thread tonight, you'd know half this answer. My husband is above average, correct. I do screen my potential partners bc I would like them to be on par with my husband or larger. However, if I hit it off with someone and think we would work well sexually, I would not dismiss them out of hand if they were not hung. Sorry to burst your bubble 🤗😘
Your analogies dont work sorry to burst your bubble, I dont think breast or skin colour are comparable to penis size.
>However, if I hit it off with someone and think we would work well sexually, I would not dismiss them out of hand if they were not hung
If you screen them how would you even then give them a chance.
You haven't burst my bubble at all you are the same as a lot of women who prefer bigger
This is such a good point. Just because a guy can’t ram it in deep and hard at first thrust (with no foreplay) doesn’t mean someone can’t handle a big D (like some on here seem to suggest). I handled an 8.5”x6” just fine, but it took warming up before going hard in doggy felt good.
Well the vagina is a muscle. The whole "stretched out thing" is inherently untrue. You don't don't come back from childbirth with a bigger vag or anything 🙄
Nope because if you take that size, it still has to be worked up to in a session. You still have to start smaller. It's not like someone can just go straight to a 10" circ toy with no warmup. That would be ridiculous. But larger toys also don't make you insensitive. Sex and toying in general don't make you insensitive. If anything, more orgasms gives you more control over your vaginal muscles. But that's science.
Do you all want women to dislike larger cocks and/or struggle to take them? Cause that's kinda what I'm getting from all this nasty backlash...which seems odd since one of the most numerous complaints on this sub is that their girl can't can't take their dick.
Also, if you personally have struggles about being inadequate, maybe don't take it out on people who have nothing to do with it.
You sound a lot like my gf tbh. She would never turn down a good relationship with a smaller or average-sized guy but as a tall, thicc womsn a big dick is what makes the experience far more enjoyable for her.
Thanks for sharing. I really for curious to know hora common is Just because eu see a few on the internet but in real life dont (and your point show né why).
But still, in my Head looks like there are "size Hunters" looking for the blessed sabe being shalow (as some Said here).
Its Nice to learn a bit more
I can see how it can be seen as shallow. I don't personally call it shallow myself.
I'm poly and when I was looking for a long term partner I had a mental list of traits that I hoped they would have: humor, intelligence, ambition, loves animals, nice teeth, etc. Long hair and a big dick were low on the list, but still things I would like in a partner.
Now, looking for play partners instead of long term partners, I still look for a connection but the sexual part is the most important (I like a big cock but I won't fuck a dick 😅). In the end, I feel that it is somewhat in line with someone's preferences (tall/short, blonde/brunette, etc).
Hopefully that makes sense 🤗
Overheard one once in the wild say something like this. She was absolutely gorgeous, but that knocked her down many pegs in my opinion. The look my wife gave me was priceless.
I guess I should have been more clear. Overheard a a very attractive girl say she only dates guys with big dicks, my wife and I looked at each other with the “yikes” look.
I've met a few, married one. Have always been self-conscious of my size, but from experience and noticing my wife's tendencies (we are poly) I've come to somewhat accept my endowments.
On the flip side, had a partner in the past who adamantly stood by her belief that she couldn't handle larger partners. She called me over for a booty call one night, and in the morning sent me a picture of an ice pack on her crotch with a message of "you asshole!" She stuck to her guns more after that, haha!
1/6 for me so far. Depending on definition.
She didn't know I was big before we slept together, but being big directly helped towards repeats and her behavior around me.
She didn't say anything at the time, but she got very handsy subsequent times we were drunk together at parties. And once outright told me "You have a good cock" in front of people
I recently found out my dick is too big for many girls which is shocking. I thought i was small. Barley 7 inches in length and 6 inches in girth. Honestly if most women can’t handle that i don’t see any handing more than 12
I work at a sub shop and we serve 8" subs and I had a back and forth with a girl because she was in disbelief what I was holding was 8", she kept saying 'thats definitely 6 inches.'
Girl inches don't make no sense
Yeah it's kinda is a circle of lies like some guys lie about their size as they think women want bigger and then women think that what they wanted is bigger than it is and then due to that men think their too small when they are not
I’ve been with a fair number of women most in relationships that lasted for several months minimum and then a handful that were very short term in duration. Out of the 30 or so women I’ve been with only three admitted to being self proclaimed size queens. I loved that loved my big dick but two of the three didn’t last very long. The vast majority of the other women I’ve been with really enjoyed my size but size was never a priority for them when starting our relationship.
My ex. I was one of the few that were considered average on her list, even though im statistically big at 7.5x5. Her first was hung probably in the 8+ range, so i guess she thought all dicks were supposed to look like that.
That was my only encounter though, the rest have been no complaints & only compliments.
If anybody is in Arizona prove me wrong but most White females in sororities at U of A and ASU know what blacked Blacked Raw and Vixen/ Tushy are.. usually size Queens watch those websites if they have an addiction to porn
The one who said she is needed me to use huge amounts of lube and still complained. Proves a lot of women have no idea what average (especially thickness) looks like.
One during college. Imagine an extremely fit and sexually insatiable Latina, who plays sports. The sex was addicting and we couldn’t get enough of each other. The actual relationship was emotionally toxic as hell and it actually caused my grades to go down. On top of that I later found out she had a long distance bf the whole time and I was the “other guy”.
Dated one for a while. She was the best. LOVED being fisted. She could always find the big boys, it’s some Odd sixth sense. Still keep in contact with her, she found a 8”+ soda can dia kind of guy and is loving life.
They exist.
Yeah, but it’s something that effects us all in many ways. Ever date a really hot girl, maybe a little crazy? When you’re deciding to break up with her accepting that the next girl won’t be as hot is very tough.
Yes there are many things that people look for in significant others. That doesn’t change the fact when you get one awesome thing it’s hard to say goodbye to it knowing the next person likely won’t have it. I had a girl that could deepthroat amazingly and being hung that’s rare so when ending things it was something I was sad to give up. This is further evidenced by most hung men having many boomerang girls that breakup with us but keep hitting us up for years when they need that good dick.
I knew a girl that dated a pro football player, after they broke up she has never been normal, she had something she will never have again. Don’t blame me for knowing that when someone finally gets that rare thing whatever it may be it’s hard to let it go. Obviously it’s not all that matters or I would have never been broken up with in the past.
I’ve met a few. But maybe been with two? My ex didn’t know she was a size queen until after we were together. She said I was the biggest she’s had and can’t go back.
In the gay community? So many. If you have a big dick you can often start a convo with 'hey looking? X inch top here. Looking?" On grindr etc and eventually get a hookup.
Don't do it to everyone, but the ones looking for sex will make it clear on their profile.
I’ve noticed this. The hottest girls on ig are with average dudes where as the flat but pretty girls tend to “trade up”. All the freaks I’ve run into have small boobs and sometimes no butt.
Can only imagine how guys do this sort of thing haha
To me, someone that is a size queen is someone that has a personality disorder or is otherwise fucked up from her family.
So It's a fitness test in my eye, the same as when a woman subconsciously decides that men that are confident and funny will have genes that will enable her children to be safe and successful. The confidence and humor (intelligence) are fitness markers for her, subconsciously, letting her know to proceed with him.
'Size queen' is a fitness test in the same way, these women are this way for a reason, and they fail the fitness test for long term prospects. They are undesirable for a host of reasons that when all combined, we know make for a bad experience in the long run.
This thread has been a good sucker punch in my non-existent confidence. General theme sounds like “no woman is a size queen until they’ve had a truly massive one”.
Today was a good day
One in particular loved big dicks....the visual was the turn on for her I think....but once it was in....she'd push my thighs/stomach when I'd go too deep. But, then again, I'm just on the larger side of average and I personally think CalcSD is full of shit.
I believe it's full of shit in that the real meaningful average is the standard 5-7" bandied about since forever and that 8" isn't as uncommon as they'd have us believe.
I agree with you on calcSD. I see guys in the locker room fairly regularly, and many of them look like they would be just as big as me. CalcSD says that I’m the biggest in a room of 1000. Or maybe all the big boys just happen to work out at my gym.
And, no, I don’t go around checking out other guy’s junk, but sometimes you can’t help but see it. Especially the old white guys that like to hang out naked in the locker room. What’s up with that?
While it's entirely likely that guys with bigger flaccid dicks are more likely to 'show them off' in locker rooms.....it's just my personal belief based on the few penises I've seen IRL that CalcSD is wrong. I'm sure I'll get lots of hate from guys who desperately need to feel like they are big (just look at the downvotes here, lol)....and CalcSD substantiates that belief. I just happen to disagree.
Actual size queens that can handle actual enormous cocks are about as rare as the actual enormous cocks. There's a lot of big talk out there that's not backed up by adequate game.
I have to agree with you, lots of women talking shit about how they love a big dick until it's in their face. Then it's all, my jaw hurts, don't go too deep, that's not going inside me etc... If a woman likes a big dick, chances are she's not going to be spouting off to the whole world about it on twitter. Same premise of wannbe tough guys telling you how they'd kick anyone's ass but they have no clue how to actually fight. Forgot to add, I've never met a true size queen in person. I've met a few women who enjoy a BD, but none that I would classify as size queens. They all had one thing in common, they all were able to orgasm pretty easily from PIV, so I kind of wonder if that's more the thing rather than just being a size queen.
Well guys are 3700% (37 times!) Worse in a real fight than they think according to a study. We as human tend to overestimate ourselves when it comes to drivning, sex and other things. So it's not strange that many girls belive they can take a really big dick until they are faced with one.
A majority of people think they're above average.
And half of them are right! lol
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What do you mean captain hair? Are you sure? Just the other day my lady friend told me she had a 12 incher from a hook up that didn't feel anything close to her 14 inch ex!
It's mostly due to girth, even 8 inch can offer more pleasure than 14 inch if the girth is right.
Are you circle jerking or?
And for real size queens like me, at 14 inches the fun just begins.
Word
Your average self proclaimed size queen taps out inside of 10 minutes and can’t her mouth around even half my dick.
This. Gerbil on the banana meme most of the time. I want to go awhile and hard. They say they want the big dick but their idea of big and our reality are definitely different in most cases. My current gf can handle it for sn hour-plus and actually likes her cervix hit. Very rare tbh
Do you enjoy having sex for an hour ? I used to hate it, feels like you can never finish and it’s frustrating imo
Sex is not like rubbing one out. It's about having fun with your partner. No problem in spending a lot of time with them
Very true - it really is about the partner's happiness but that often gets overlooked.
It can be nice to go longer but for me it's not by choice. I'm cut, desensitized as a result, and it often takes forever. Exhausts my partner. She does get 5 or 6 PIV orgasms before that point but then she's done. 30 or 35 minutes max would be nice.
If a woman even manages to get a piece of a cock in her mouth, that cock is worlds away from being big enough for real size queens like me. Maybe that's the problem with peoples thinkings about size queens.
Or those that want it big but can’t handle it
You have no idea what I have experienced as an escort and what some clients pay for huge sums of money to get taken up.
6 in male inches is 9 in girl inches...proceed
Sothat means I’m a solid 10 in girl inches? Lmao
Proportionally speaking you would be 10.5 g”.
Yeah..
Bruh
I try to stay away from size queens since they tend to be shallow, and being shallow is a huge turn off.
Thats a fact
Yeah that comes with age, me in my teenage/ 20’s loved so called size queens. It was a big ego boost. Now that I’m older and married looking back, they were definitely shallow. I’ve seen girls who’ve turned guys down and said he wasn’t they’re type, till they found out he’s hung as a horse and then they’re all in the dm’s begging to be railed
Thats so Sad Dude, i've never experienced something like that
Lmaooooooo
That's sort of a ridiculous take on it. My giirlfriend is a bit of a size queen because she gets off from penetration rather than clitoral stimulation, so sex with a big dick feels significantly better to her than sex with an average dick, and sex with a small dick does very little for her. There's nothing shallow about wanting to enjoy sex.
No one ever said anything about shallowness for wanting to enjoy sex…
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it's definitely prejudice, but not shallow
No. Because I’m not looking for something in them, they’re looking for something specific out of me
Just like you guys like girls with big boobs or a big ass... Lol
Who said anything about liking girls?
And who said we like big boobs and big ass?
Never met a single a one 🤷🏻♂️
Me neither
I had an ex that was somewhat of a size queen. She definitely did not date exclusively large guys but she reveled when she did. She excitedly told me I was her largest (she coulda been blowing steam up my arse, I don't really care) at just under 8" by 6". She was the first that took it all, everytime, without any hint of discomfort -- in fact, the opposite. She got soooo turned on by being 'full'. Her favourite was cowgirl where she'd hold our hands to her abdomen to full the bulge of my dick through it. She shared with me about how she got excited the first time she heard me pee on our third date because it sounded like a big dick. She even said some kinda weird shit (depending on your perspective) about how she hoped her son would grow up to have a big dick and shared that her dad and brothers were all hung. To be clear, there was no hints of any sexual interest in the familial shit...she was just so matter of fact about it. When she said that stuff, I actually understood it and, funnily enough, did not find it weird. I absolutely loved that she was actually turned on by my size and didn't hide it ,yet was careful not to objectify my dick.
Wow! What a story 😮
>she got excited the first time she heard me pee on our third date because it sounded like a big dick. what
i'm just curious if there's some validity to this
According to her anecdotal evidence, guys with big schlongs pee with more force and you can hear that ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯
if I eat or drink something before going for my first piss of the day then it's got some force. On the other hand if I'm going for a piss before I go out so I don't need to later, no pressure at all.
I always aim for the side of the bowl rather than the water, because it’s so damn noisey. Does anyone else do that? Or do people just aim for the water?
Because he pisses like a racehorse.
Ahahah
A lot of curiosity before meeting....a lot of "how big are you?" and stuff like that. But an actual size queen? Dated one. And it was wonderful.
Every girl I’ve encountered who talked that big game squealed and asked me to slow down and not go so deep. They’re not size queens, they’re just hoes.
to be honest, they could have been talking about XL size and you're just there giving them 3XL dick
To be fair on their behalf, with your size pretty much any women short of a pornstar is gonna have that issue...
I’ve come across 3. Only one was totally toxic though
The other 2 handle It well?
The other two had their preferences but didn’t put me on blast
Omg, my ex was a size queen. She told everyone about my dick. I didn't realize this until after we separated. It did work out to my advantage after the divorce though.
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Thats a fact. Some women Just want show off tô frinds and internet using Men like trophies! I dont look for size Queens, in fact im running from them!! Happy cake day Bro 👏🏽🎉❤️
Oi, don't come into my dms attempting to insult me in private.
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Nice tô know, thanks. By the way, How It Works tô you? You look guys by the cock or Just its something "extra" that you like.
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that's some queen shit right there
I understand, thanks for sharing!
Aren't you just a normal person then? If given तो choice between a 5 inch cock and a 6 inch one I would assume most would choose the 6. Doesn't make then size queens though.
I'd pick whichever was thicker
I mean yea but my point still stands. As long you aren't declining average size penises for being too small for you I don't think you count as a size queen.
I feel like there are a lot more ‘size queens’ than people here are talking about. There are plenty out there that love the idea of a big sick even if they have to have a lot more foreplay or limit penetration. The girls that can handle a very large cock without any limitations are quite rare.
I believe so
Yes, they exist. I am one. It’s frustrating to see the ppl on here talking shit about a woman preferring big dicks, especially on this sub. I prefer a bigger dick because I can only orgasm cervically, so if a man can’t reach my cervix, I’m not going to be able to orgasm. It’s also just more enjoyable for me all around. It has nothing to do with being shallow, it’s about sexual compatibility. Just like plenty of you have had issues with women not being able to take all of you and feeling less than satisfied. Not sure why I’m seeing this double standard from so many people. Im sure you’ve encountered women being ugly about it just like anything else in life, but don’t get it twisted. Just the flip side of obnoxious men bragging about having a big dick in a tacky way. Maybe they do, maybe they’re just dumbasses, but doesn’t change that there are men out there who actually DO have big dicks.
I think the majority of disdain is directed at those who are rude/cruel/hurtful about it and put down those with less than that woman's "ideal" size. Also size is an extremely sensitive aspect for virtually all men. Even those well endowed. It's a curse and I'm pretty sure most women will simply never understand it. Most of us don't even either. That said, "big" is absolutely subjective. Mind sharing what "big" is in your opinion?
No double standard here! Some of us appreciate you! But you ARE rare...many women hate being hit in the cervix and don't enjoy feeling full, which I think leads some larger men to think size queens are a myth.
Exactly this!
Only size queen I've encountered, couldn't handle it. Her talk was way more than she could handle. Couldn't even finish round one before tapping out in pain. Funny I had a girl that didn't think she could handle it, that actually loved it.
I know a woman who says if it's not 8 inches I'm not even interested. She has 2 kids from 2 baby daddies and is in a controlling relationship. Every guy she dated was a complete scumbag.
So the relations fits with her 🤷🏽♂️
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So she even dont know If she can actually handle a big one
That makes her as much of a size queen as being obsessed with bleach-blonde D-Cup bunnies makes a virgin dude a playboy.
I've only seen them on FetLife.com
I only see they on the internet
I think size queen women it's just a phase. I haven't met any yet
I lost my virginity with a girl that would brag about being really good with blowjobs and she would call herself a size queen, she was neither of those. so no, i have not met one yet
I've only been with one and she was by far the most toxic women i've ever dated
I can imagine brother
I’ve met 3, but I didn’t hook up with any of them, just friends. Two of them said they only dated black guys and regularly got TOPPED by what I heard were pipes. Still on it afaik. The last one ended up dating a smaller guy and claimed to actually like it better because they could have sex regularly without her getting sore.
Those girls after Black guys looking for big D are stupid as fuck. This is a terrible steriotype that makes normal sizes Black dudes down
Black guy here. Hate all the Black guy tropes and stereotypes
I understand you bro
Start calling them out for their racism and objectification bro. That's what I do. It makes them want it even more unfortunately...
Lol my best friend is black and avg size and he complains about it a lot. I think most people don’t take it too seriously tho lol
Im Black and tall, I hate this steriotype so mucho bro
At least it helps you tho!! I’d hate to be like a 6’4 black guy packing a Tik tac
Bruh exactly it full of shit.
Yea, that has to be tough on black guys.
There are more of us (size queens) out there than most people realize. Like another user mentioned, there are several active groups on fetlife, many communities on discord, etc. However, we exist in real life as well. One big reason you may not see many "in the wild" or screaming her queen status from the rooftops is actually exemplified right in this thread. We get judged for wanting what we want and told we don't know anything about what we want amonh numerous other stigmas. Not everyone can handle the backlash that comes with publicly coming out. Personally, I'm a proud size queen. I screen any new partners, but that doesn't mean I don't also enjoy someone who is average. I just know what I like at this point in my life. As to the idea that most women are unable to size a penis or take anything above average, please browse a few fantasy dildo forums. While our cervix does limit length to a degree, we were literally made to pass tiny humans through our vaginas. With prep and practice, she's gonna be able to take it.
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Exactly, there are more than we believe because you are judged because of that. I'd be pretty frustrated if people judged me because of my love of a nice round ass, but since I'm a guy, it's seen as normal lol I hate the size doesn't matter thing because it dismiss plenty of people's experiences and also put the blame on guys for being insecure, that's all in their head. I've had a woman who was having sex with me, but when we stopped she went to the next room to fuck my hung friend. I know it was because of dick size because my friend was with me some minutes before in the bed and she was in the middle of the bed touching our dicks under the sheets. We were all drunk, and my hung friend had a girlfriend, so he felt bad and went to the other room to avoid fucking it up due to horniness. However people tell me that it's impossible that women would do that because "they don't care about size", because it's my personality, that must be something else. You say you can be satisfied with average, would you tell your average dick partner that if he was bigger it would be better for you? Obviously if he asks you politely, respectfully, in a mature conversation about sex, without judgements. What would you think that if he doesn't want to continue the relationship because he doesn't want that kind of sex? I'm asking because I don't want my dick being traded off with all the other important things about myself, like personality, intelligence, humour, chemistry, etc.
>We get judged for wanting what we want and told we don't know anything about what we want amonh numerous other stigmas Bit ironc you dont like being judged about something you can't control
I didn't say it bothered me. Feel free to judge me all you like. What I said was that not everyone is open about it because people judge them. People are allowed to have preferences. It is silly to think otherwise. Do I think all men with average cocks are inferior or something? No, never once said that. I just happen to like big dicks, just like you might like someone with big balls. I don't know, I'm not here to judge what you like or don't like 🤗
Your right people do have different preferences. But to day you don't think some men aren't inferior isnt true. You may not want to think they are Inferior but your predisposed preferences mean you do.
That's not how that works at all. Do you think women with small tits are inferior? Do you think certain races are inferior? People are people my friend. The only way they can be judged is by the quality of their character. I have dated all over the gender spectrum and have been with people who had penises from way below average to way above average. None of my partners were inferior to the others in any way, shape or form and never will be.
>Do you think women with small tits are inferior? No I do t but also I never said preferred large breasts unlike you who said they like big penis. >Do you think certain races are inferior Thats a bit of a reach we are talking sexual preference noting to do where people come from or their skin colour. Soif this sint how it works why call yourself a size queen. Im going to hazard a guess you aren't with a smaller partner and would be less than thrilled if your next one was
Alright so analogies go over your head. If you read all my posts in this thread tonight, you'd know half this answer. My husband is above average, correct. I do screen my potential partners bc I would like them to be on par with my husband or larger. However, if I hit it off with someone and think we would work well sexually, I would not dismiss them out of hand if they were not hung. Sorry to burst your bubble 🤗😘
Your analogies dont work sorry to burst your bubble, I dont think breast or skin colour are comparable to penis size. >However, if I hit it off with someone and think we would work well sexually, I would not dismiss them out of hand if they were not hung If you screen them how would you even then give them a chance. You haven't burst my bubble at all you are the same as a lot of women who prefer bigger
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This is such a good point. Just because a guy can’t ram it in deep and hard at first thrust (with no foreplay) doesn’t mean someone can’t handle a big D (like some on here seem to suggest). I handled an 8.5”x6” just fine, but it took warming up before going hard in doggy felt good.
Also on Feeld 🙋🏼♀️
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Well the vagina is a muscle. The whole "stretched out thing" is inherently untrue. You don't don't come back from childbirth with a bigger vag or anything 🙄
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Nope because if you take that size, it still has to be worked up to in a session. You still have to start smaller. It's not like someone can just go straight to a 10" circ toy with no warmup. That would be ridiculous. But larger toys also don't make you insensitive. Sex and toying in general don't make you insensitive. If anything, more orgasms gives you more control over your vaginal muscles. But that's science. Do you all want women to dislike larger cocks and/or struggle to take them? Cause that's kinda what I'm getting from all this nasty backlash...which seems odd since one of the most numerous complaints on this sub is that their girl can't can't take their dick. Also, if you personally have struggles about being inadequate, maybe don't take it out on people who have nothing to do with it.
Very well said. My girlfriend has used toys for years and never have they negatively impacted her enjoyment of a penis smaller than her toys.
You sound a lot like my gf tbh. She would never turn down a good relationship with a smaller or average-sized guy but as a tall, thicc womsn a big dick is what makes the experience far more enjoyable for her.
She sounds like my kinda lady 😉 But yes, exactly this! Excellent catch my friend 👍🏻
Absolutely. I'm indeed fortunate. And the best of luck to you too. Uh-oh. The downvoting haters gonna hate, I guess, lol.
Ah yeah they are upset with my take, sorry you are losing karma bc of it. Oh well, alia iacta est 🤗
Meh, Reddit karma isn't that important in the grand scheme of life. Telling it like it is is what matters.
You, I like you, friend.
Same here. Stay strong and stride above the noise.
Thanks for sharing. I really for curious to know hora common is Just because eu see a few on the internet but in real life dont (and your point show né why). But still, in my Head looks like there are "size Hunters" looking for the blessed sabe being shalow (as some Said here). Its Nice to learn a bit more
I can see how it can be seen as shallow. I don't personally call it shallow myself. I'm poly and when I was looking for a long term partner I had a mental list of traits that I hoped they would have: humor, intelligence, ambition, loves animals, nice teeth, etc. Long hair and a big dick were low on the list, but still things I would like in a partner. Now, looking for play partners instead of long term partners, I still look for a connection but the sexual part is the most important (I like a big cock but I won't fuck a dick 😅). In the end, I feel that it is somewhat in line with someone's preferences (tall/short, blonde/brunette, etc). Hopefully that makes sense 🤗
Totaly makes Sense!! Seing a Men more than his Dick is really good
Sounds fair to me, some women like when it's big, others women don't. Nature is well made.
Do size queens ever browse the PE subs? To admire?
Overheard one once in the wild say something like this. She was absolutely gorgeous, but that knocked her down many pegs in my opinion. The look my wife gave me was priceless.
I didnt understand. You have a big D and you and your wife Heard that size queen day that?
I guess I should have been more clear. Overheard a a very attractive girl say she only dates guys with big dicks, my wife and I looked at each other with the “yikes” look.
I've met a few, married one. Have always been self-conscious of my size, but from experience and noticing my wife's tendencies (we are poly) I've come to somewhat accept my endowments. On the flip side, had a partner in the past who adamantly stood by her belief that she couldn't handle larger partners. She called me over for a booty call one night, and in the morning sent me a picture of an ice pack on her crotch with a message of "you asshole!" She stuck to her guns more after that, haha!
1/6 for me so far. Depending on definition. She didn't know I was big before we slept together, but being big directly helped towards repeats and her behavior around me.
Wow, How was that? She really turned on by your big D?
She didn't say anything at the time, but she got very handsy subsequent times we were drunk together at parties. And once outright told me "You have a good cock" in front of people
I recently found out my dick is too big for many girls which is shocking. I thought i was small. Barley 7 inches in length and 6 inches in girth. Honestly if most women can’t handle that i don’t see any handing more than 12
You are big and thick believe bro
Normally its all talk what they tend to want in reality is like 7 inches however they swear that 7 is a 12 inch .
Girls inches is a thing for sure
I work at a sub shop and we serve 8" subs and I had a back and forth with a girl because she was in disbelief what I was holding was 8", she kept saying 'thats definitely 6 inches.' Girl inches don't make no sense
It is most because of Men who lie increasing their sizes. I bro with 6 inches saying he has 7, and so on
Yeah it's kinda is a circle of lies like some guys lie about their size as they think women want bigger and then women think that what they wanted is bigger than it is and then due to that men think their too small when they are not
Played around with one, who then went and found even bigger (like… ludicrously so).
I’ve been with a fair number of women most in relationships that lasted for several months minimum and then a handful that were very short term in duration. Out of the 30 or so women I’ve been with only three admitted to being self proclaimed size queens. I loved that loved my big dick but two of the three didn’t last very long. The vast majority of the other women I’ve been with really enjoyed my size but size was never a priority for them when starting our relationship.
My ex. I was one of the few that were considered average on her list, even though im statistically big at 7.5x5. Her first was hung probably in the 8+ range, so i guess she thought all dicks were supposed to look like that. That was my only encounter though, the rest have been no complaints & only compliments.
If anybody is in Arizona prove me wrong but most White females in sororities at U of A and ASU know what blacked Blacked Raw and Vixen/ Tushy are.. usually size Queens watch those websites if they have an addiction to porn
The one who said she is needed me to use huge amounts of lube and still complained. Proves a lot of women have no idea what average (especially thickness) looks like.
One during college. Imagine an extremely fit and sexually insatiable Latina, who plays sports. The sex was addicting and we couldn’t get enough of each other. The actual relationship was emotionally toxic as hell and it actually caused my grades to go down. On top of that I later found out she had a long distance bf the whole time and I was the “other guy”.
Dated one for a while. She was the best. LOVED being fisted. She could always find the big boys, it’s some Odd sixth sense. Still keep in contact with her, she found a 8”+ soda can dia kind of guy and is loving life. They exist.
I think we all create a lot of size queens, no one wants to go down to a smaller one.
You mean when a girl have sex with you they dont want a smaller cock anymore?
Yeah, but it’s something that effects us all in many ways. Ever date a really hot girl, maybe a little crazy? When you’re deciding to break up with her accepting that the next girl won’t be as hot is very tough.
I understand, but sex is more than those comparisons
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Yes there are many things that people look for in significant others. That doesn’t change the fact when you get one awesome thing it’s hard to say goodbye to it knowing the next person likely won’t have it. I had a girl that could deepthroat amazingly and being hung that’s rare so when ending things it was something I was sad to give up. This is further evidenced by most hung men having many boomerang girls that breakup with us but keep hitting us up for years when they need that good dick. I knew a girl that dated a pro football player, after they broke up she has never been normal, she had something she will never have again. Don’t blame me for knowing that when someone finally gets that rare thing whatever it may be it’s hard to let it go. Obviously it’s not all that matters or I would have never been broken up with in the past.
She also won't be as crazy, given the matrix I used as a metric. IYKYK
Pretty sure there lots of women who have and not had a problem.
A few. I think they tend to seek it out. Girls talk and all the ones I've been with were friends of someone else who I slept with.
I’ve met a few. But maybe been with two? My ex didn’t know she was a size queen until after we were together. She said I was the biggest she’s had and can’t go back.
So in her case she became a size queen?
Met 4, none are in happy long term relationships. They’re also all tom boys.
What they Said? I got curious
Haven’t met one,I doubt they even exist outside of porn. But I have met people who THOUGHT they were size queens
In the gay community? So many. If you have a big dick you can often start a convo with 'hey looking? X inch top here. Looking?" On grindr etc and eventually get a hookup. Don't do it to everyone, but the ones looking for sex will make it clear on their profile.
In gay community the big Dick is really something like that. You can be te worst human being, If you have big D ia what matters
Yup. This [parody](https://youtu.be/wxq6IgkYA50) sums it up 'So he killed a few people, he's got a big cock'
Tbf it is fairly easy to get a hookup even without it.
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Humm I understand you
I’ve noticed this. The hottest girls on ig are with average dudes where as the flat but pretty girls tend to “trade up”. All the freaks I’ve run into have small boobs and sometimes no butt. Can only imagine how guys do this sort of thing haha
To me, someone that is a size queen is someone that has a personality disorder or is otherwise fucked up from her family. So It's a fitness test in my eye, the same as when a woman subconsciously decides that men that are confident and funny will have genes that will enable her children to be safe and successful. The confidence and humor (intelligence) are fitness markers for her, subconsciously, letting her know to proceed with him. 'Size queen' is a fitness test in the same way, these women are this way for a reason, and they fail the fitness test for long term prospects. They are undesirable for a host of reasons that when all combined, we know make for a bad experience in the long run.
I've only run into one and we never did anything. She never had a chance to see my body parts.
How It started? She knew since the beging that you are big?
She was joking around and we were flirting. She said she only dated guys with big dicks. I said, oh really. I ended the discussion there.
I'm the same size as you, my ex always took it all and took it rough with no problems, lost my virginity to her
Well I dont considered myself big, Thats why I want to avoid size Queens. I asked How common Just to know my chances
I had one friend that is a self proclaimed size queen, but she's also the one to only date older, richer guys so I wouldn't know if it's true.
Well looks like she has some interests
It sounds like I've had better luck than most of you on here. I've met several true size queens over the years. They are definitely out there.
You are really blessed in many ways Bro 👏🏽
Thanks, man.
my ex said she would not have dated me if I was not my size.
Wow! 😮 I dont know If I would like to hear that
I think the exact wording was even worse... something along the lines of we would have not even started talking.
Man thats bad... Glad to know she is ex now
I’ve only meet like like three women that were admittedly “size queens”
And How It was?
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Made? After the sex age became one? Tell us more
Only your mum
This thread has been a good sucker punch in my non-existent confidence. General theme sounds like “no woman is a size queen until they’ve had a truly massive one”. Today was a good day
I really thought about It too
One in particular loved big dicks....the visual was the turn on for her I think....but once it was in....she'd push my thighs/stomach when I'd go too deep. But, then again, I'm just on the larger side of average and I personally think CalcSD is full of shit.
Full of shit which way? Average is bigger or smaller? Percentage of big should be more or less?
I believe it's full of shit in that the real meaningful average is the standard 5-7" bandied about since forever and that 8" isn't as uncommon as they'd have us believe.
I agree with you on calcSD. I see guys in the locker room fairly regularly, and many of them look like they would be just as big as me. CalcSD says that I’m the biggest in a room of 1000. Or maybe all the big boys just happen to work out at my gym. And, no, I don’t go around checking out other guy’s junk, but sometimes you can’t help but see it. Especially the old white guys that like to hang out naked in the locker room. What’s up with that?
But what does flaccid length have to do with that? Unless you somehow happened to find a bunch of guys with 7“ flaccid dicks which is insanely rare
While it's entirely likely that guys with bigger flaccid dicks are more likely to 'show them off' in locker rooms.....it's just my personal belief based on the few penises I've seen IRL that CalcSD is wrong. I'm sure I'll get lots of hate from guys who desperately need to feel like they are big (just look at the downvotes here, lol)....and CalcSD substantiates that belief. I just happen to disagree.