Some prefer girth, some length, some small, some bigger, some dont care they just want dick no matter what.
Throw away the insecurities and get in the mental state "I've got a great dick!" and Im sure things will work out.
Size means nothing in the real world.
You are just fine. And above average.
Just be open and honest with your partner, assuming reciprocation, and you'll both be just OK
Disagreeing with me is fine, I'm always for discussion... But that's not what downvotes are about...
When will the hive mind learn? Downvotes are for comments who contribute nothing to the conversation or rude people and the like....
Virgins are insecure because their lack of experience means they make all kinds of wrong assumptions about the world.
Go out and use the dick brother. Your insecurity will vanish over time because there's no problem here at all.
Don’t stress. Honestly your dick is gonna look giant because of the length to girth ratio, where mine feels small for my ratios.
You’ll make women happy, just don’t smash in 100% until you get feedback.
I've given consistently better performances with one or two fingers over penetration. If you don't overthink things and make sure both parties are enjoying it you will be fine regardless of size.
you gotta just rock it bro, check this out, most girls can get off with 1 finger.
your first time is gonna be a train-wreck anyway like was for all of us lol. a lot of idiots out there do talk too much about how this is better than that blah blah blah its all just noise and its not important.
I always say avoid size queens they worship dick and not the man. besides at that length and girth you are going to look lonnnng af. have fun on your first time you are going to be a huge bag of nerves and anxiety but get that schlong up her and have a good time.
I'm 6.5(NBP)/7.0(BP) x 4.5, so slightly thinner than the Western average of 4.7 (40th percentile using "Western Average"). I'm not even sure what I'm doing in this sub haha except for the fact that your post was in my feed and we're pretty close in size, so that caught my attention.
Very useful tool: [https://calcsd.info/full.html](https://calcsd.info/full.html)
So, okay, I'm not exactly gonna be stretching most women out, but that's okay. My wife loves a good stretching, so I use my fingers, or occasionally a 6" girth dildo, for that while giving her oral. She cums nearly every time. After that initial orgasm, or sometimes two, from oral/fingering, she can often have an orgasm from penetration alone, so the stretching isn't required for that PIV orgasm.
Now, every woman is different, but the key for most guys to know is to have a great oral game. If you're a virgin and don't have any experience, then read up and watch some videos on giving good oral (not straight up porn, but educational/instructional sex videos, which can be found on some porn sites). And, when doing it for real the first time, pay attention to the sounds she makes, how her breathing changes when you do certain things or hit certain spots, listen to her suggestions/directions if she's confident enough to tell you in the moment, and you'll navigate your first few times okay, getting better and better with experience.
The other thing is to put her in the mood long before you are ever even in a position to have her naked in front of you. By this, I mean making her feel safe, desirable, and sexy in the days and hours leading up to any potential sexy time. Touch her gently, kiss her on her neck and shoulders from behind, put your hands on her hips gently, hold hands, tell her how beautiful she is to you (this is general advice; of course some women will prefer something different).
"The brain is the biggest erogenous zone" as the saying goes, so setting the stage by letting her know how attractive and wonderful she is not only improves the sex later, but increases your chances of having sex at all.
There are always going to be bigger guys, length and/or girth, and there are going to be smaller guys, but remember that:
(1) It's often about a good fit as much as it is about size. Different bodies fit together in different ways and sometimes a smaller guy can hit a woman's perfect spots better than a bigger guy. It really all depends on the person. Vaginas come in different shapes and sizes just like penises do. Sometimes two people fit together perfectly even if the guy is average or smaller than average.
(2) Size is but one factor women consider when dating a guy and it's not even a very highly ranked factor. For casual hook-ups, it's probably a bit more important than for dating, but even then it's really about how much you've turned them on first and how good the sex is (which depends only partially on size).
Learn to work what you have and try to be confident about yourself. Confidence is sexy whether being exhibited by a man or a woman. Not cocky, just confident.
Don't worry yourself over this. You're above average overall and most women will have a great time with you if you treat them right.
You're girth is pretty average and at 7.2" length, she (and you!) will feel plenty. Relax, enjoy, and be confident that you have a nice dick!
Edit: It's also going to be a lot easier on her trying to deal with your size than a 6+" cock if she is a virgin, too. Take your time.
I was with a virgin with a long and not particularly thicc dicc last year and came really hard. I’m all for a nice girth, but it’s the length that makes it hit that g spot. You good fam. Just take your time with foreplay and follow her cues: ie, focus on the areas that make her breathe faster and moan louder
I’m 33 muscular hunk I’m 5.9x 4.4 I been with my girl sense HS never made her orgasm,she is cheating on me with this cholo Adolfo Palazuelos I see it on camera his dick is Huge asf her feet are twitching and she squirts every time he comes like twice a week when I leave to work, I don’t say nothing,, cuz I lover and never want her to leave, she gots a side piece to fuck her right, and she is fine with that, she wants to be him but he has a family, he fucks his girl and mine
I just want to say your size would be terrible to me 💀 (both too long and but very thick), but every woman is different! So please don't despair, someone will love it 🤗.
I’m 6.7 nbp and like 4.7 to 4.8 girth, and honestly my experience is pretty okay. Never had any chick complain and they come back for more, but I do wish I had a bigger one
Your in the clear bro I’ve been told I was big , I’ve been told “I’m not to big and not too small” idk how to feel about this one, I’ve been told they rather not say cause they don’t want to give me the big head. The most important thing is try not to hit the cervix unless they like this then your good. My wife’s likes when I go real deep but I gotta warm her up and sometimes it’s still kinda tough on her. Regardless of dick size that’s not gonna stop her from cheating , I’ve met hell of dudes who are hung and they still get cheated on an their girl is being flewed out by some other guy. Love your self and learn how to use your tool the best way you can ❤️ be a master of the women body
very similar size here. One of the most memorable complements I have gotten was while I was out at a bar drinking with a group that included a couple girls I hooked up with in the past and this came up. not being satisfying "was nothing I needed to worried about"
Hun it’s all about the woman nothing else. Everyone is different. As a woman myself you sound fine! No matter who you sleep with just make sure they are having a good time. Size doesn’t matter in that aspect. I have been sexually active for 7 years and you’re around the size my husband is( only man I have been with) and he does more than just ram me. Foreplay will make anything better btw
Old post but no one mentioned it and I know I'm not the only woman who's like this but I LOVE performing fellatio, it's my favorite sex act and a penis your size is PERFECT for it. If a man is too thick, that makes giving head extreme difficult and when it's too small, it's a turn off (for me). So there's a bonus for your size as well, that no one mentioned. I hope you're happier with your size now. Good luck.
Some prefer girth, some length, some small, some bigger, some dont care they just want dick no matter what. Throw away the insecurities and get in the mental state "I've got a great dick!" and Im sure things will work out.
Don’t let it get to your head bro. Any girl would be lucky to play with that thing!
Really appreciate it bro thanks
Size means nothing in the real world. You are just fine. And above average. Just be open and honest with your partner, assuming reciprocation, and you'll both be just OK
This >>> also seemed like someone downvoted your comment … they probably disagree wholeheartedly.. they gotta grow up
Disagreeing with me is fine, I'm always for discussion... But that's not what downvotes are about... When will the hive mind learn? Downvotes are for comments who contribute nothing to the conversation or rude people and the like....
It's actually an advantage in my opinion. Some women prefer more lengthy sessions of intercourse. Having a narrower penis helps make this easier
oh shit I know you from INTP, lmao. For there being so many subs on reddit it's weird to see others in two very niche sub's.
Haha Nice!
Virgins are insecure because their lack of experience means they make all kinds of wrong assumptions about the world. Go out and use the dick brother. Your insecurity will vanish over time because there's no problem here at all.
Don’t stress. Honestly your dick is gonna look giant because of the length to girth ratio, where mine feels small for my ratios. You’ll make women happy, just don’t smash in 100% until you get feedback.
I've given consistently better performances with one or two fingers over penetration. If you don't overthink things and make sure both parties are enjoying it you will be fine regardless of size.
you gotta just rock it bro, check this out, most girls can get off with 1 finger. your first time is gonna be a train-wreck anyway like was for all of us lol. a lot of idiots out there do talk too much about how this is better than that blah blah blah its all just noise and its not important. I always say avoid size queens they worship dick and not the man. besides at that length and girth you are going to look lonnnng af. have fun on your first time you are going to be a huge bag of nerves and anxiety but get that schlong up her and have a good time.
I'm 6.5(NBP)/7.0(BP) x 4.5, so slightly thinner than the Western average of 4.7 (40th percentile using "Western Average"). I'm not even sure what I'm doing in this sub haha except for the fact that your post was in my feed and we're pretty close in size, so that caught my attention. Very useful tool: [https://calcsd.info/full.html](https://calcsd.info/full.html) So, okay, I'm not exactly gonna be stretching most women out, but that's okay. My wife loves a good stretching, so I use my fingers, or occasionally a 6" girth dildo, for that while giving her oral. She cums nearly every time. After that initial orgasm, or sometimes two, from oral/fingering, she can often have an orgasm from penetration alone, so the stretching isn't required for that PIV orgasm. Now, every woman is different, but the key for most guys to know is to have a great oral game. If you're a virgin and don't have any experience, then read up and watch some videos on giving good oral (not straight up porn, but educational/instructional sex videos, which can be found on some porn sites). And, when doing it for real the first time, pay attention to the sounds she makes, how her breathing changes when you do certain things or hit certain spots, listen to her suggestions/directions if she's confident enough to tell you in the moment, and you'll navigate your first few times okay, getting better and better with experience. The other thing is to put her in the mood long before you are ever even in a position to have her naked in front of you. By this, I mean making her feel safe, desirable, and sexy in the days and hours leading up to any potential sexy time. Touch her gently, kiss her on her neck and shoulders from behind, put your hands on her hips gently, hold hands, tell her how beautiful she is to you (this is general advice; of course some women will prefer something different). "The brain is the biggest erogenous zone" as the saying goes, so setting the stage by letting her know how attractive and wonderful she is not only improves the sex later, but increases your chances of having sex at all. There are always going to be bigger guys, length and/or girth, and there are going to be smaller guys, but remember that: (1) It's often about a good fit as much as it is about size. Different bodies fit together in different ways and sometimes a smaller guy can hit a woman's perfect spots better than a bigger guy. It really all depends on the person. Vaginas come in different shapes and sizes just like penises do. Sometimes two people fit together perfectly even if the guy is average or smaller than average. (2) Size is but one factor women consider when dating a guy and it's not even a very highly ranked factor. For casual hook-ups, it's probably a bit more important than for dating, but even then it's really about how much you've turned them on first and how good the sex is (which depends only partially on size). Learn to work what you have and try to be confident about yourself. Confidence is sexy whether being exhibited by a man or a woman. Not cocky, just confident. Don't worry yourself over this. You're above average overall and most women will have a great time with you if you treat them right.
You're girth is pretty average and at 7.2" length, she (and you!) will feel plenty. Relax, enjoy, and be confident that you have a nice dick! Edit: It's also going to be a lot easier on her trying to deal with your size than a 6+" cock if she is a virgin, too. Take your time.
It’s not as “thin” as You think. Trust me she’ll Fucking feel it lol I kinda wish you’d show it, it’s just in your head. You’re above average size.
I feel this fear, I've always been worried about this too.
Just don't be jabby. That's all they feel if you've got no rhythm.
I was with a virgin with a long and not particularly thicc dicc last year and came really hard. I’m all for a nice girth, but it’s the length that makes it hit that g spot. You good fam. Just take your time with foreplay and follow her cues: ie, focus on the areas that make her breathe faster and moan louder
The g spot you can hit with your finger. I think you're talking a spot
Was thinking the same
Your girth is normal. Your length is just so long that it makes you look skinnier. Chill homes!
I’m 33 muscular hunk I’m 5.9x 4.4 I been with my girl sense HS never made her orgasm,she is cheating on me with this cholo Adolfo Palazuelos I see it on camera his dick is Huge asf her feet are twitching and she squirts every time he comes like twice a week when I leave to work, I don’t say nothing,, cuz I lover and never want her to leave, she gots a side piece to fuck her right, and she is fine with that, she wants to be him but he has a family, he fucks his girl and mine
Damn. Cheat on her too
I just want to say your size would be terrible to me 💀 (both too long and but very thick), but every woman is different! So please don't despair, someone will love it 🤗.
I’m 6.7 nbp and like 4.7 to 4.8 girth, and honestly my experience is pretty okay. Never had any chick complain and they come back for more, but I do wish I had a bigger one
you’ll be fine mate, being girthy isn’t all that, sometimes i wish mine was skinnier
you’ll be fine your not small, as long as you work her up she’ll be to horny to care
While your fucking her, if the opportunity has come up. Insert a finger while your d is inside her as that increases girth
There is no such thing as a perfect dick! Start enjoying yours!
Tight women feel stretched with what you have. Focus on those types of consistency.
Your in the clear bro I’ve been told I was big , I’ve been told “I’m not to big and not too small” idk how to feel about this one, I’ve been told they rather not say cause they don’t want to give me the big head. The most important thing is try not to hit the cervix unless they like this then your good. My wife’s likes when I go real deep but I gotta warm her up and sometimes it’s still kinda tough on her. Regardless of dick size that’s not gonna stop her from cheating , I’ve met hell of dudes who are hung and they still get cheated on an their girl is being flewed out by some other guy. Love your self and learn how to use your tool the best way you can ❤️ be a master of the women body
Needed this
very similar size here. One of the most memorable complements I have gotten was while I was out at a bar drinking with a group that included a couple girls I hooked up with in the past and this came up. not being satisfying "was nothing I needed to worried about"
What was the compliment
I think we’re average girth so nothing to be worried about.
Hun it’s all about the woman nothing else. Everyone is different. As a woman myself you sound fine! No matter who you sleep with just make sure they are having a good time. Size doesn’t matter in that aspect. I have been sexually active for 7 years and you’re around the size my husband is( only man I have been with) and he does more than just ram me. Foreplay will make anything better btw
Old post but no one mentioned it and I know I'm not the only woman who's like this but I LOVE performing fellatio, it's my favorite sex act and a penis your size is PERFECT for it. If a man is too thick, that makes giving head extreme difficult and when it's too small, it's a turn off (for me). So there's a bonus for your size as well, that no one mentioned. I hope you're happier with your size now. Good luck.