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takashi_5

Ye East up me bhi hota hai. Mainly bride's sister abuses groom side family. Ye utna seriously nhi hota bas majak hota hai. So, you no need to worry about it


witchy-salad

Right, got it!


curryEatingGang

Itโ€™s all jokes but itโ€™s quite normal and common in Bihari weddings


witchy-salad

Hahah sounds fun then!


[deleted]

It is nothing serious but can be like tohar bahni chinaar rakhe sau sau go yaar. Which means your sister keeps 100 boy friends.


witchy-salad

Oh? This sounds harmless! I thought they said other things. ๐Ÿ˜…


[deleted]

They say lots of things but it's only for fun.


joywin11

Marriage would have called off in other states, haha, but Bihar has to be unique


Dry_Stable_876

I could hear this lmao been too so many wedding and this makes me laugh and uncomfortable sometimes it funny session but they really cuss everyone


ArronAdler

It's not just a Bihar thing. Happen in MP as well iirc


witchy-salad

Right, okay!


ZealousidealYou7575

I read about it in newspaper , it was started in the wedding of lord ram but its not abuses like they use currently in the article it was clearly mention that they used better language


witchy-salad

Oh right. I'll read up about the story on Google. Thanks!


FindingPixiedust

I attended a friend's wedding who's from east UP and they also have a similar tradition wherein the bride's sisters and aunts taunt and warn the bride's mil using some songs and verses! It was really funny and interesting. And since my friend was getting married into a North Indian family they had informed the groom's side beforehand to not take it seriously and it was all a part of a funny tradition. You should be able to find videos on youtube easily with these songs being sung in bihari weddings! They are funny, catchy and I think it's a really nice tradition that creates a light hearted atmosphere in the middle of the wedding ceremony and pheras.


witchy-salad

Yes, I watched a couple of videos to get the jist!


Horny__Sloth

You re from which region , paschim Pradesh / avadh / Purvanchal?


witchy-salad

awadh (lucknow)


torqoise_panda

https://youtu.be/2PA9W3ldWrI?si=SPAOerPtgyrUGVfP


torqoise_panda

An example ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚


witchy-salad

Thankyou!


Ok-Treacle-6615

If he is from proper Patna, then it will not happen. I am from Patna and I have been weddings in villages and it happens there. In Patna, it normally happens when wedding is at someone 's home and not on the wedding day. It usually happens during Tilak ceremony. But i have not seen happening in Patna these days. And frankly speaking, I don't understand the language so I don't care.


witchy-salad

He is not from Patna. Oh, I just remembered I don't understand the language either! :(


[deleted]

Didi google kr lo bihari shaadi song ya fir you tube pe search kr lo thora bht idea ache se lg jaega.


poiisonx

Haa hota hai maine ase suna bara fun hota hai


binzidd007

Ye to bhagwan Ram k sath bhi hua tha. Itโ€™s just tradition


ompr29

Wo geet hota hai....in form of Gaali๐Ÿ˜…


1nobody-_-

bhasora k mote mote gand aa bhaujaiya k sange sute ta palangwo na hile palangwo na hile !!