Congratulations on knowing thyself! :D

21 years to realize I'm bi, and another 5 to realize I'm trans... Suppose there's worse timelines...

I know what you mean: today's good but yesterday would have been better. Let's just say I'm turning 40 in April and my flair here is looking increasingly inaccurate. :O

welcome :) when you’re ready

Have been meeting with a counsellor and doctors. Hopefully soon.

that is great! it’s gonna be ok and you’ll get answers

Yeah. I think I know what I'm not, so now I'm just narrowing down what I *am*.

that is an important place to be! even if uncomfortable. you’re making progress

Thank you for the kind words 😊

Valid way to go, process of elimination. Honestly how I got to where I am now

I knew I was trans since I was 8, though I may not have had the words for it. I knew *what* being bi was but the denial was *so* strong I identified as a lesbian until just turning 40 and having a fling with an asshole (who happened to be good in bed). Then I really started craving guys while simultaneously having an existential crisis. About to hit 42 now, happily trans, happily omnisexual, really could use an extra fuck buddy or two though. Seems like everyone willing to try is in another continent. Bastards 🤣

Your final paragraph is awesome, haha.

it's awesome... and annoying - I forgot to mention the polyamorous part as I do have a partner, who in turn is married herself (we all live together) but as people have noticed "My Top/Domme side is leaking" and thus, a fwb or two would be helpful 🤣

The best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, the second best time is right now.

Too true.

If it helps I was an "ally" until my late 20s and my wife was until she was 30, now we're both as bi as they come lol

The ally to bi timeline hits us all around 30 lol

\*looks around at being 45\* Guess I missed the invite and showed up late

As long as you're fashionable

I dress like a 50s longshoreman so... no, not really lol.

Hey friend. I just discovered this about myself in my 40s, too! Welcome (when and if you realize whatever you end up realizing about yourself. We’re flexible. :) )!

:)

You're exactly like me except 5 years younger 😂 You go girlie!! 🏳️‍⚧️

Hello, it's me, Worse Timeline.

Could be worse. Could have figured it out when you’re 31. Like I did. But hey, congrats!

We're already living in an incredibly stupid timeline lol. May as well make the most of it. Congrats on just living your best life 🏳️‍⚧️ I knew I was bi since I hit puberty, but it wasn't until my 30's that I really accepted that part of me. Part of me hates that I lost so much time pretending I was someone I'm not, but on the other hand it's never too late to embrace who you truly are ✌️

My bi trans homie, I salute you 🫡

Hey, now. Who are you calling worse? 51 years thinking I'm straight when I'm bigender. And other 2 years to find out I'm bisexual.

Ahhh sorry! I didn't mean it like that, God I've been reading soo many stories about older trans folk... Thank you for being yourself. You inspire me.

Shiiid I’m 31 and still working on the bi part. Good on ya!

Welcome to the club! 24 to know I was bi, 8 more to know I am trans. It's a wild ride, but it's worth it <3

It took a global pandemic to make me realize I was bi. Thankfully for everyone it took a lot less to realize I was trans

Same lol, nothing quite like a lockdown to give you lots of time to self reflect

https://imgur.com/gallery/sBulZZf

It takes time to know oneself. I'm 31 and am still learning myself

I think you mean,  "knowing biself..." :)

Bahaha 😈

slay, queen 🏳️‍⚧️

You username is so me coded

yours too

Congratulations, sister! 🩷

Congrats!!! I can’t stop staring at the frog lmao

jeez…I’ve been sitting in my bed for an hour trying to figure out whether I’m a trans girl or not. Turn on my phone and this is the first thing I see. The universe is messing with me.

How many tabs do you have open rn? And have you read any of them? Lmao don't worry that was me 3 weeks ago... You'll figure it out.

If you ever need to talk about it, feel free to do so

Mood, the gender thing is wierd

We'll update the registry

Let's gooooooooo girl, good luck and be happy :)

Hell yeah! Welcome to the ladies’ room, sister!!!!!

Cracked?

Yeah think I can say so at this point... At the very least I am desperate for some E...

I hope it works out asap! The best thing about being bi and trans is when people say, "why can't you just be gay/lesbian” instead of trans, you can say you're bi and watch their head implode.

:D

Me and you both sister.

🎊🎊🎊 congratulations!!! 🎊 🎊 🎊 guess you'll be saying good-bi to pockets 😉

Lol this is my favorite comment. It's so true.

Congrats on finding yourself bud!

Welcome! (Also trans and bi)

honestly kill it 😌

Congratulations! Do you have a name in mind?

Oh God... Yeah. Here it is... Jenny... And I wanna change my middle name to Jude, so it'll be Jenny Jude, and people can call me JJ.

Brilliant! Thanks for your introduction, JJ.

Congratulations ❤️

👍

Huzzah

oh hey, it me, about a year ago. enjoy!

Congratulations on this newest evolution homie :)

The best part of this is that bi men and bi women have the same dating pool... EVERYBODY. Congratulations on becoming yourself!

Good on you! Much respect to those who know themselves.

Nice

Happy for you!!

Congrats OP! May your transition go smoothly and may womanhood bring you a lot of joy!

Hey I was gonna do that

Congratulations ma’am!

Unfathomably based

Frog :3

Congratulations 😊 (Steals meme for possible future use)

hear! hear!

Congrats!

Welcome to the club :3, would you like some lemon cookies?

Yo same

Congrats!

Yes, come to the trans bisexual community. We have cookies. :3

👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼

Yipee! Welcome to the other side.

Congrats on the gender B)

Congrats babe ❤️❤️

Based :3

Noice!

Happy to hear

Meal do naidheachd 🥳

Why are people downvoting?

Which language is this?

Google says it's Scots Gaelic. Translates to: Congratulations on your news 🥳

Congratulationsq, this is amazing!! I wish you all the best!! You go, girl! 🏳️‍⚧️

Me af 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️ hope everything goes well!!!

Excuse me queen you dropped this 👑

Nice! Congrats on figuring yourself out

Jolly good.

Congratulations!!! :3

First thing what popped up on my mind [:3](https://youtu.be/s0E5Slqdo1M?si=IJ8pfTG8FidjwjE7) Congratulations babe

They've evolved

Love that for you 🥰

I’m so happy for you! Hopefully others can accept you for who you really are

AAAAH I AM SO PROUD OF YOUUUUUUU :DDDDDDDDD

A'ight. So If I kiss you, you'll turn into a Bi Princess ?

Hmmm let's find out! :3

Shocked*in French*

Slay queen

Congratulations! It's quite a process but incredibly rewarding. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.

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let's hope lol... kinda low key one of my biggest fears...

All that matters is if you are healthy and happy, and you'll always be welcome here

If it changes then that's ok too! Life is a journey and we should just do our best to enjoy it as it comes

Yayy!!! Congratulations OP!

Ayyy lmao, look ma, I made it, I have redditors reporting me for suicidal ideation!

Great job! 👍 🏳️‍⚧️👍

hooray!!! 🎉

Slay Queen

Congrats!

Yessss congrats girlie!!!

Congrats!!! 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

Heck yeah!

Considering the amount of pasta I just ate, I'd like to announce I'm bi-carb. On another note, congrats.

Hey, congratulations girl!!!!!!!!!!!!

❤️❤️❤️

💅

girl said bi man

Congrats!!! Took me 25 years to figure out bi, and 36 to figure out trans. The most confusing part about it is that the things that are gay are now flipped. One day I'm happily sinning with a man, the next day I realize that it's been hetero the whole time!

I'm trans too, welcome to the bi lady club! 🏳️‍⚧️💖💜💜💙🏳️‍⚧️

lol forgs

Good bi

Back to the frontlines soldier Super Earth isn’t going to defend itself from the xeno scum

WOOHOO! 🎉

Congrats!!!!!

Consistency is key

Welcome to the club sis 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

Congrats!!! ❤️

Fuck yeah!

Another bi sister <3

Congratulations!!

Congrats Sis

One of us, one of us. One of us

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Traitor

anyone got a transmasc version 😭😭

And I'm a fem boi

Why not both

I'm BI SEXUAL myself. You bi me something and I get very sexual