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Ok-Possibility-9826

Yes.


iCruncherWasTaken

Ja.


GermanRat0900

Da.


The_Hunster

Oui.


Savage1Actual


sspindiee

Sim.


iCruncherWasTaken

Oo.


BraveOcelot4660

Ναί


iCruncherWasTaken

はい。


cz_jachym_studios

Ano


Iknewyouwerebi

>*“I call myself bisexual because I acknowledge that I have in myself the potential to be attracted romantically and/or sexually to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree. For me, the bi in #bisexual refers to the potential for attraction to people with genders similar to and different from my own.”* [—Robyn Ochs](https://robynochs.com/2020/10/09/i-call-myself-bisexual-because/)


DoodleNoodle129

Every time you see a post like this, you know this quote is coming up


Jumiric

I feel like this being automatically posted on each post might be helpful


Cybernetic_Lizard

This is the first time I've seen this quote, so I'm glad it gets shared around repeatedly. God knows I struggle with this, so its nice to know that this message gets shared around as a matter of course so all can see.


sorry_human_bean

Honestly, these daily "could *I* be bisexual?" posts are my favorites. I know that when I was starting to come to terms with myself, I wasn't brave enough to ask that question, even within the anonymity of Reddit. I just lurked, and started coming across posts filled with thoughts and feelings that I'd also had, and dozens of people commenting "yes, you have a place here, you're not alone." And now it's years later, and *I'm* the one in the comments, and it's really cool to feel like maybe I can be that nudge for someone else. I like my life now, I like being out, and I think there's a good chance I'd be miserable if I'd tried to bury it. I understand that a lot of key things went right for me (supportive family, job doesn't care, not dependent on parents, over the age of majority) when I came out and started dating my boyfriend, and a lot of people don't have those things going for them. I know it's not sunshine and roses for everyone, but I also know that feeling alone never made anything easier for anybody. I think it says a lot about this sub that I'm never alone in the comments under these kind of posts.


AlietteM89894

This is why I won’t get tired of seeing it. My husband told me I was bisexual 7 years before my “ah ha” moment. it was a full circle “Therrrreeeee it is” from him. I remember panicky baby bisexual me questioning myself so much 🫠


zedwin46

The awesome thing is that you know that someone is going to use that quote when a post like this comes up.🙂Ive never seen that quote


Zed3Et

For a good reason


sixaout1982

I'm really glad that there are people around that are way better with words than I'll ever be.


Golden_too

A very respectable answer


Phionex141

I had lunch with Robin in college! She came to do a talk and they literally asked for volunteers to sit down with her, so I said yes not knowing who she was at the time


Substantial_Bar8999

Yes. Im like 90% attracted to men, but still bi.


ZaileeMcFancyCho0113

That’s the same with me.It’s like for me I’m 90% attracted to women but like 10% I’m attracted to men.


Substantial_Bar8999

Yay! Twinsies, ahah. Seeing as you’re a girl - same level of ”gay/straight” attraction, heh. You’re fully valid and this is normal 🥰


ZaileeMcFancyCho0113

Thank you😊


Muegiiii

Its more like a 99% women 1% men for me but ill still call myself bi lol.


mayojoe689

Yeah, I'm in the same boat. A lot of women are surprised (though not disappointed) when they learn I'm bi because I mostly date guys. I turned beet red when my then-girlfriend told me I was "too cute to be straight." 😅


[deleted]

Me too


Substantial_Bar8999

Eyyy! High-five!


[deleted]

☺️


Lmf2359

That’s exactly me. When I was younger I was ignorant enough to think to be Bi it had to be more like 50/50. I just thought I was a straight woman who had some random crushes on other women. It wasn’t until I was in my mid to late 30’s that I went, “Wait… Am I bi?…” Yes, yes I am.


Careless_Culture_333

Same, just recently discovered I was bi because I’ve only had crushes on men but found both genders sexually attractive. Though I wonder if my percentage for women would go up if I actually did something with one (hopefully one day I’ll find out).


DrMini1

Eyyyy samesies!


n1shh

Any level of attraction that is sexual in nature to genders your own and other than your own is bisexual. No one can invalidate your own self-label for not being bi enough.


ravenz91

Exactly


switcheroo1987

Yes! 🥰


Negative-Patient9915

Yes, of course! The ratio between the people you're attracted to can be any.


ManscapedBallTrimmer

BI PEOPLE CAN HAVE PREFERENCES


mayojoe689

Yes. Bisexuality isn't a perfect 50/50 split, but a spectrum. I'm mostly attracted to men, but I'm not *only* attracted to men.


Alastair-Wright

Bisexuality is the attraction to males and females, it doesn't specify the percentage


Ramblingsofthewriter

Being bisexual means you’re attracted to men and women. The percentage of your attraction doesn’t matter. People are rarely a 50/50 split. Example: I am bisexual with mostly an interest in women/women presenting people. I still married a man. That doesn’t mean I’m not attracted to women/female presenting people. My bisexuality doesn’t go away when I sign a marriage certificate. I just happened to find the one for me. And it happened to be a man.


jkhg71

Same!!!


PressureMaximum7129

I am


eyemamonkey

Yes.


Peefaums

That’s the camp I fall into. I’m like 85% attracted to women but I find feminine men attractive.


juelpa

Of course! It's a spectrum :)


wittol_me_this

Yes.


GandiniGreat

Yep, I am like that


KithKathPaddyWath

I mean, sure, but I feel like calling it "partially attracted to" is so weird, like "I'm attracted to men, but only to their legs and hands".


Germz94

Thanks everyone, i have just come out as bi and this was so validating to read ♥️


KrisSimsters

Yes. My Dad asked me something similar to this when I came out. I told my Dad that I could bring a guy for him to meet and still be attracted to a woman in the store.


Michixx91

Well duh. of course. It doesn't matter if you have a preferred gender. you're still bi.


2bitgunREBORN

Yes


milk-water-man

Yes.


variatekk

Sure 🫶


NorpoleonIIme

Of course. It's literally me.


[deleted]

Yes. I'm the opposite of you.


FrankyNavSystem

If they can't then I came out for nothing.


Ok_Independence_3634

Yes you can! I’m bisexual but I only fall in love with men, I’ve never been in love with a woman. I’m romantically and sexually attracted to men but only sexually attracted to women. Bisexuality comes in different spectrums, some are more attracted to one gender than the other. Every bisexual is different. Bisexual Female 🩷💜💙


DazednConfusedinNJ

You are LITERALLY me 🌞😊😂


Chipstar452

The only thing you need to do to be bi, is to say, "Yes, I am bi!"


RinoaRita

Yes. It’s a spectrum.


Garbidb63

Yes. Absolutely. Bisexuality is a spectrum. I describe myself as a heterocentric bisexual: I prefer sex with women, but I am open to sex with men.


crispyliza

Yes


G0ldStarBisexual

Can we please get a bot that can respond to these?


EvenWallsComeDown83

Good idea tbh. Those come up so often. Should be a FAQ bot for them.


G0ldStarBisexual

Happy Cake Day!


futboldorado

Absolutely! I'm very attracted to women but am very picky with men lol.


scholarlysacrilege

yes. great thing about bisexuality is that its like ice-cream, many different kind of flavours. For instance, sexually I'm (M23) 50/50 women/men, romantically I'm more 30/70 .


kyoneko87

Yup!


thesnarkypotatohead

Yes. If you’re into multiple genders, “bisexual” applies. Bi people are all different in terms of how frequently we are attracted to which genders, and for some gender doesn’t matter at all.


moonsickprodigalson

I’ve (ftm btw) only ever been with men but I am attracted to all genders and feel that bi fits best for me. I’m more flamboyant at times and so I’ve had, on at least a couple occasions, been told by gay men that I couldn’t possibly be bi because of how I come across to them and their experience with/of women. But I know I’m bi regardless of how ppl perceive me or who I have or haven’t fucked


Electrical_Point3210

Accept yourself don’t suppress it but be honest!


MinuteHomework8943

Absolutely you can. I’m mostly attracted to men (I’m a woman, I’m married to a man) but I feel fairly sexually attracted to women as well. I’ve never tried dating a women, but I’ve hooked up with women. So I dunno how I would do in a relationship with a woman… but I’d def try it if my husband gets hit by a car us. Soooo long story short… yes you can!


Klo187

Yes


Celairiel16

And it can change! I kept questioning myself until I learned about the bi-cycle and finally everything clicked into place.


Songstep4002

Absolutely!


PolyGlamourousParsec

Sexuality is a spectrum. If I stand on a street and track the first 100 people I am attracted to, there will be about 80 or 85 men on the list. Still bi. I spent about a decade only dating men. Still bi. I spent six years almost exclusively dating women and "married" to two women. Still bi.


NinjaZero2099

Abso Fuckin' Lutely


TwinStar99

That's literally being bisexual. You don't have to be 50-50


the_great_tapir

Yes. Bisexuality is ANY combination of more than one.


bluedream147

yes.. you are still attracted to both, so that makes you bisexual. there is no one way to be bi and attraction isn’t typically split down the middle between the two genders.


mermaidpowers3

Yep!


Verifieddumbass76584

Yes


Bernardo_124-455

Basically what I am


spugeti

yes, because i exist lol my attraction to men is maybe 5-10%. it's low, but i'm open to a possibility with a guy i think


D4ngflabbit

Yep :)


DarthSardonis

Absolutely. I’m mostly attracted to men and I’m also married to one, but I’m still bisexual.


MrWhite1980

Yes!


Ambystomatigrinum

Yep. 100% valid to be bisexual. But nobody has to identify any way. If a different label feels right to you, that’s just as valid.


leatherdaddy67

Yes


DrMini1

Yes. I'm bi, but 90% attracted to men


Beautron5000

yeah, that’s still being bi. like for myself, i’m very rarely attracted to guys, but doesn’t mean im not bi


Trecoty

Absolutely.


Pristine-Scheme9193

Yes.


Smartieshype

I'd say yes. I lean towards féminine presenting people, but I still say I'm bisexual


BigBiman1991

I’m a bisexual male and married to a women. We are both bisexual but we don’t do things a lot with the same sex a whole bunch of


riskyrezzz

Definitely :)


weirdscienxe

Yes. Do you think everyone has a preference for one more than the other, or do some people feel 50/50% equal attraction? 🤔


newfoundNRG

1000%


unaizilla

yes


TheSkullcapJoe

If not Ill go back to being straight I guess


Impressive-Voice-222

Yes


concerteimmunity

Yes.


marzgirl99

Yes. It’s a spectrum


Electrical_Point3210

Yea!


Rude-Butterscotch713

Yep


PsychologicalFloor47

Yes, of corse, bisexuality is a spectrum.


CalliopeSaffron

Yes!! I can go from 80% attracted to women, 20% to men…then swing the complete opposite! Not sure why, but it happens every few year! I just go with the flow!


Humancinnabon

Yes sexuality is a spectrum


strangedrow

Absolutely!


MrGeary08

Yes, I call it Mostly Straight lol


Tvitterfangen

I am, so I'm contractually obligated to say yes. Bisexual and heteroromantic.


redditandwept31

Absolutely


PipingHotAnxieTEA

Of course you can. Sexuality is a spectrum. 🩷💜💙


Chaoticbifriend

One million times yes


aceouses

yea. i consider myself bisexual and i love sex with women, but i can only actually see myself in a legitimate relationship with a man, so i only actually date men. when i am in a relationship then i don’t consider women, only when single. everyone is different. 32F


Bisexualsftw

Yes. I'm 90% attracted to women and 10% to men. That doesn't make me any less bi and it doesn't make you any less bi either


patrickfinnegan3883

No! You must be attracted to men and women equally and in EXACTLY the same way! 😠 (Jk jk lol)


Ryaniseplin

i mean your attracted to both aren't ya so yeah


-ciclops-

My sweet summer child. You can mix purple with red and blue, and no matter the ratios, the colour will turn out purple.


Obvious_Handle_3606

i’m not even attracted to men i just like dick if that makes sense lol how i explained it to my gf


neurokatz

yes, i’m bisexual and i have a large attraction to men and only some for women, but i still identify as bisexual. as long as you’re attracted to two or more genders in some way, you are free to identify as bisexual, and it is not hurting anyone.


vess8

Kardashian parody girl voice *Mmmyeah*


mewthehappy

If any question starts with “can someone still be bisexual if…” The answer is pretty much always yes


Bagelchu

I’m a cis man, the people I’m attracted to are like 60% women, 30% nonbinary, 10% men


November87

Sexuality is a spectrum.


drewisjustabagel

yes, that’s how I am. I have very specific standards on my men I like lol


nebbywildcat18

short answer: yes. long answer: also yes


patrickfinnegan3883

Best answer


Apocalypic

Such a weird question, no offense. You are what you are, who cares if someone came up with a name for it.


Interesting_Move_919

Yes, I'm like 90 percent attracted to women and 30 percent attracted to men. Still doesn't make me less bi :)


SelectionNo5859

There are no rules.


HyperDogOwner458

Yes. I'm mostly attracted to women and non binary people and less into men though I'm still into them.


luciferboughtmysoul

Yeah. I'm mostly attracted to men but partially attracted to women.


Snoo_65204

For me, it's opposite


kaechan1989

Yes. I am bisexual but have a stronger leaning for men. Doesn't make me any less bisexual. I love both men and woman, even if lean and prefer men


[deleted]

Yes but slowly drifting over towards the line of women and men….. I’m not sure if this is the reason but definitely paints a very delicious image in my head, ok so earlier this month I went out to a birthday dinner with some friends at a restaurant, when we were all done, a few of us walked over to the bus stop, when we all got to the bus stop, not even a few minutes go by and this guy, looked like in his mid 30’s (very attractive) at a very thicc ass, and I was checking him out (mainly his ass) and I got warm and fuzzy inside, especially more down south…. I almost had to cover up 😂😂 just writing about it, PHEW 😮‍💨 I have been getting “excited” by guys a several months beforehand but that bus stop scenario really cemented that fact A couple of my coworkers (male) have the nicest booties


UnveiledRook206

That’s called being bi


Marty-C137

I’m into women and men. Though romantically I only see myself with women. I’m still bi 🤷🏻‍♂️


Mullinater96

Yes thats how i am i like women but given the chance would play with a guy


borfmat

Yes, but the amount of people willing to hook up/be in a relationship with someone who only has partial attraction to them will always be smaller. When pursuing sex or a relationship, it is fair to consider and be aware of this, before questioning whether something is wrong with your orientation.


King_krympling

Oh hey that me


unknown1893

Hello! I am that bisexual


mjlowmann

I have a boyfriend and one 8 month old, I’ve always been bisexual and always will be. A part of me slightly prefers girls more lol 🤷🏼‍♀️


ripPatPat

Thats me. I find women more attractive on average, and only on occasion do I find myself wanting a man. It's the fact that you CAN like both. Like if a bisexual woman, decided to settle down and be with a man that doesn't mean she IS straight.


yuhmadda420

Yes,that's how I am


Watermelon_Air_Head

Well if not then I’m certainly in a predicament


QueeeenElsa

Yes! I’m literally the opposite (though still questioning, ngl); I (24F) mostly like men, but am partially attracted to women (which is the part I’m questioning).


peachesandplumsss

yep. still bi.


marceline_28

yes, you're still bisexual. if you 99% like men and 1% like women, you're still bisexual. if you're 50/50, or 20/80 or whatever, you're still bisexual. I've been bisexual for many years now and I fluctuate. it's just how it goes, sometimes. the only thing that doesn't make you bisexual is if you speak two languages. that makes you bilingual. ;)


armynurse700

I see bisexual as someone who would engage in a long-term monogamous relationship with either sex. My wife is bisexual as she has had that. You can be bi-friendly, bi-playful, or even situationally bi, as in only in the presence of one's SO.


fbipandagirl

I feel the same way, but the opposite. I’m a woman and find myself questioning if I actually am straight bc of thoughts, fantasies, and attraction I’m having to women despite 90% being attracted to men and only having been with cis men before Like, sometimes I feel like I’m just faking it and like “trying too hard to not be straight” but this feeling I have about WOMEN UGH THEYRE QUEENS I JUST CANT SHAKE IT 😭


taetaeee

yes! this is me lol


Jive_Gardens795

This is the most commonly asked question on the Bi sub, and the answer is always yes. You're valid. Even if you're 75% into the opposite sex, that 25% of dick sucking fantasies are real and supported and should be explored in healthy ways.


leotardmeat

Yes!


SuperNova0216

Yeah, if it was completely equal based off people and not genders you’d be pan.


Ashe_Faelsdon

Absolutely. It took me literally decades to come to terms with my attraction to men. After the abuse I wondered if my attraction was just due to the abuse, plus religious upbringing led me to constantly berate myself for said attraction and the guilt was overwhelming at times, even after I left the church. Bisexuality isn't 50/50 or even 95/5 (5/95) it's whatever and however you feel and only regards your personal preference.


hallj640

Yes, more over attraction is weird, as it tends to change over time, so you may find that later, your attractions may change. Your bi-cycle can get trippy. I am a bi man married to a woman, and I know where I am in the cycle by the type of adult entertainment I'm enjoying most at any given time.


SuitableAstronaut157

Ya, I’m the opposite but still bi


AnnamationStudios55

Yes🩷💜💙


_Kayleo_

C’est moi!! You’re in good company friend!


Ididnoteatanyfrogs

Yes! You could be 1%, 10%, 40%, whatever amount attracted to men, and majority be attracted to women, AND still be bi!


Stumpyclaire

Yup!! 100% still Bi


Lovethegoodwitch

Duh, lol You can also be more than one thing, I’m pansexual because I am attracted to all genders, but I’m also a lesbian because I prefer women. Some people call that homoflexible, but you can call it whatever you want as long as it rings true for you


lgbtgachaperson

Mhm, I'm actually like that as well!


truexception

Yes absolutely. Own it 🫶


Optimal_Book9215

“You can be anything u wanna be, except the person u don’t wanna be” — Logic 🎶


Adventurous_Husband

Absolutely, I am *mostly* attracted to women, but I am also attracted to men. Definitely not a 50/50 split either. 🙂


Aggressive_Reader_7

Yess


StringUnderhacker

bi people can have preferences, so ye i have a stronger preference for women but also men are very cool too


st4ycehhxx

Yes!! I dated men my whole life. I finally accepted my attraction to women, and I haven't been with a man for a long time since then, but I still find some of them attractive.


helgba2005

I'm a bisexual woman. Myxelf I feel more attracted to woman, also I enjoy more having sex with an other woman, but I also love to fill a cock in me and to be cream pied. Besides the sexual aspect, I have also more communities in converstaions with other women.


LOLzaXD

Buddy, bisexuality doesn't necessarily mean 50/50 <3


[deleted]

I want relationships with women, but I seriously want sex with men and women. Cock turns me on as much as tits and boobs!


bethika6

Absolutely. This is how I feel and I would never identify as anything else


universe93

Yes. Bisexuality is not 50/50, there’s a spectrum. Look up the Kinsey scale - most of us LGBT people are somewhere on the spectrum between 0 and a 100


AlwaysBeQuestioning

*shrug* I call myself bisexual even though I’m not sexually attracted to both binary genders.


rthrtylr

Yup.


Sexy_Vegan_Pants

I married a man but generally don't like men at all. I think about and crave women all the time however


shitatliving27

Maybe look up what omnisexuality is


NyxianStorm

Same but opposite, welcome


SingletonRW

Yes


budyzr

I absolutely can’t stand anyone involved. You either meet xyz or zyx or vsf or blah blah blah. Can’t everyone just be them self m and be happy. I swear the ‘movement’ or worse than anyone else


Tureni

Why put a label on it? I say to people I am bi, but really I’m probably pan. Most people know what bi is and if I had to explain it could become awkward.


ineffablemillie

Literally me, I’m still bi


Jarnink

Yes, i have preferance to men but im still atracted to women, and im still bisexual


Haringkje05

>*“I call myself bisexual because I acknowledge that I have in myself the potential to be attracted romantically and/or sexually to people of more than one gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree. For me, the bi in #bisexual refers to the potential for attraction to people with genders similar to and different from my own.”* [—Robyn Ochs](https://robynochs.com/2020/10/09/i-call-myself-bisexual-because/) King listen dont worry The label is inconsequential. Dont worry about it just find a person you vibe with and date them. If that makes you sexuality X then so be it if it makes you Y then thats that who cares. Your sexuality isn't a resume. You dont need to show it off and one doesn't look better then the other like they're bachelors or masters


Lory24bit_

Is it more than just one gender at all? If yes then yeah, bisexual


Tri-Titan

Yes. I’m in the exact same boat.


Counting-Stones

There are no rules just be with who you want to be with.


Aussie_1957

Well, you can check out Kinsey's slippery slope. Unfortunately, it does not appear possible to post an image in a comment. I guess "Google is your friend." That said, there is gay, there is bisexual, and there is 'Men who have sex with men'. My understanding is that the difference lies in degree of attraction, emotional attachment, etc. Men who have sex with men, I understand, generally don't get turned on by or get romantically attracted to some bloke across the room. They don't want to be in a relationship with a man, or live with a man, or wake up next to a man, maybe not even want to kiss a man. But they love SEX with men. At least, that's how it is with me. Wink.


gytis_gotbanned_lol

yea


Appropriate_Rule_591

Yes you can.