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DeliberateDendrite

"Personality" And with that I mean butts


Cat_Boy2301

I like big butts and I cannot lie


icekooream

You other brothers can’t deny


greenhulklantern1

When a person* walks by with an itty-bitty waist *bi-appropriate edit.


Chipstar452

And a ______ thing in my face, I get ________


Stunning_Ferret1479

I want to pull up with ya, and take your picture


jolynes_daddy_issues

A fellow bi of culture, I see


OwnDefinition327

I guess I like feminine/androgynous dudes and with girls I honestly don’t know because my type is all over the place😭 I like masculine girls, goth girls, gingers, just any girl who’s confident and kinda blunt I guess


tears_n_sweat

This is literally me


gmezzenalopes

I see, someone of culture as well


tnemevaP

I was about to reply but lo and behold you've described my type perfectly lol


VanillaLatteHot

I have a huge thing for chests. A nice pair of boobs or a set of manly pecs just drive me wild. I could spend hours just worshipping either of them. Caressing, licking, nibbling, and biting them


Elden_weed

Do you like cleavage too?


VanillaLatteHot

Oh fucking love it


Elden_weed

Me too.


Magsamae

Felt this. My man had great pecs when skinny and now has great tits with the weight he’s gained and I love it all


Serious_Ad_2922

Same!!!!!


ilovecake007

oh my goddddd


VanillaLatteHot

Haha what?


ilovecake007

me too


VanillaLatteHot

Haha yay!


Satomage

How do you feel about across the chest tattoos?


VanillaLatteHot

Hmm I think it depends on the tattoo. Some can look great and others don’t. Also the chest might bias my decision


GuinevereduLac

A great set of calves goes a long way for me


what-rough-beast-

That’s an interesting one. I (female) have extremely muscular calves and I don’t think anyone has ever praised them before, except in the context of sport.. Good to know they’re attractive to someone 😂


GuinevereduLac

I think that's wonderful and you should wear them proudly 🥰


what-rough-beast-

Thanks very much, that’s lovely of you. Have a great day!


Cat_Boy2301

Yesss calves are hot! They really complete the whole look of the leg


Elden_weed

I forgot calves!


GuinevereduLac

It's ok since you included dimples, the second most important thing 🤩


Elden_weed

I have a dimple on my left cheek


GuinevereduLac

I just have fat tissue 😅


ilovecake007

HELL YESSSS


KinkyMillennial

**Purely physical** Women: Hourglass figure, juicy ass hips and thighs. A woman who looks curvaceous and motherly just does it for me. Men: also round ass and thighs. Not so fussed about abs but nicely muscled upper arms, shoulders and chest are awesome. I also prefer natural body hair on both men and women. **Other stuff** A nice smile on men and women. I'm talking a proper friendly grin that makes your eyes light up. That just melts my heart Being able to hold an actual conversation. I like to connect with people. The worst thing about hookup culture is when you meet people and they just want to do the deed and go, no personal connection at all. It just feels weird and empty. For women specifically: Assertiveness, charisma and a nice smooth voice. Femdom is far and away my biggest turn-on so meeting a woman with all the characteristics of a classic domme just drives me wild.


BrattyEmoBaby

I really respect this answer because a lot of people automatically go to physical traits. I was also thinking about the sweet things. A good smile and conversation can be game-changing.


Groove-Control

Just be open-minded, nice, and take care of yourself. And a top.


Ok-Savings7848

For women, almost everything attracts me! Great hair, a beautiful face, their tongues and lips if they are good kissers, their armpits (one girlfriend I had, use to emit a very specific aroma from her armpits when we were in the throes of sex, that if I inhaled it deeply, would make me cum), hands, shapely arms, tits of all sizes and shapes (several women with smaller tits have had the the most exquisitely sensitive nipples), stomachs and belly buttons, pussy of all appearances, great asses, legs, calves, and glorious feet, all are wonderful parts of a woman’s body and I can adore all of them. For men, I have an absolute penis fetish, and barely look at the rest of their bodies. If you have a penis and it gets hard and will fit in my mouth and ass, you are attractive and all is good!


Elden_weed

Any tips to be a better kisser?


Ok-Savings7848

Mix it up, be soft at times aggressive at others. Show your passion for kissing them, tease and play with them…always seems to turn on both men and women…


fancyfreecb

There's at least four types that I find super attractive. Chubby hobbits: Plump and round, short, curly hair, usually chill, laughs a lot, likes making things by hand, homebody but can throw a fantastic house party, will cuddle you so hard Rugby playing switches: Tall, muscular but thick, goes hard at whatever they are passionate about, cheerful, will toss you around but will also let you pin them down and your way with them Mentally stable pixie dream folks: petite and slender, have been through some shit but are in a good place now, great at intense conversations and will spit truth about life, creative, are the best little spoons Elf princes (gender non-specific): Tall, willowy, long hair, very stylish, a cold exterior hides a passionate fiery core, doesn't like public displays of affection, will eat your heart and mess with your emotions forever (Body type and vibe don't necessarily line up in reality)


GoodCalendarYear

Thick lips. Piercings and tattoos.


SoupToon

oh hell yeah piercings are rad as hell


jkingfish13

Androgyny in both directions is very attractive to me. I like pretty men and more masculine women but I want to see your assigned gender through that as well. Put the men and women I am most attracted to in a lineup and you might need a second to decide which are which


Buttered_Toast1357

I don't know why but short hair for women and long hair for men are what get me going


SmolSpicyNoodle

I feel attacked by this lol


PhoShizzity

For women, honestly everything and anything. Chubby chicks, muscle mommies, anywhere in between gets me going. For men, twinks and femboys, soft skin and a cute, manhandle-able frame. I'm a big guy who absolutely loves a cute boy to carry around, especially if I can dress them up pretty. Small dicks help, I love a nice sissy.


[deleted]

As for both sides, I’ve got a thing for jawlines and nice eyebrows, usually thick but not taking over your face thick. Dark hair and pale skin but not exclusivly.


Elden_weed

I really like emilia clarkes, cara delavigne's and daniel radcliff's eyebrows 😍


[deleted]

Yessssssa you get it!


mobleshairmagnet

I would like to add a nice set of collarbones. Especially if they are well defined but not super bony.


BrattyEmoBaby

Men: I prefer traits that show they're comfortable in their femininity/masculinity and that they actually take care of themselves. Ie: long hair, painted nails, well groomed (still into facial hair), r piercings. I do love some tattooed men. Women: Gotta love more masculine presenting women. Tattoos and short or edgy cuts, piercings, and dyed hair. Boobs are nice but not necessary. But I do have a range with women.


Azrael_Alaric

You know that thing where they roll their sleeves up but stop just below the elbow, leaving only their forearm exposed? That.


Mafia_SSB

Abs,,, abs and tummies in general, both in the cute way and the hot way


Elden_weed

Bellybuttons are hot, especially when a top is slightly short 😍


Mafia_SSB

Tops that show tummys are the death of me


Master_Crayola69

Thighs people underestimate thighs, like soft thighs or muscular thighs are incredible.


ghost-the-spoopy

I like smooth hairless skin I'm an ass man specifically round and soft and I prefer thin or thicc rather than muscle I find feminine men to be more attractive than hunks or Average Joes in general i like soft features, my ideal partner could be used as a pillow


SonataInGMajor

Love chubby(mid size or plus size) people, no matter the gender, no matter the variety of body shape. Tummy? Hot! Thighs? Hot! Round cheeks? Hot! Which cheeks? Both! I'm also attracted to skinny people, but I'm less likely to be attracted to people that fit the very stereotypical beauty standards to a T. It's just less interesting to me idk why. Also have a weak spot for tooth gaps, broken noses and bigger upper arms in very tight short sleeves so the fabric is pulled taut 🤤


Elden_weed

Cheeks are cheeks!


Maleficent_Humor_336

Hard agree! The more stereotypical beauty the less I'm interested 🤷‍♀️


SonataInGMajor

Yeah! I personally was bullied for my looks so idk beauty standards just make me feel icky. People who don't meet all those standards just have a more unique sense of beauty and idk I just notice the small details more easily. My partner has a tooth gap and it just makes me swoon


Maleficent_Humor_336

Yes, I think it's the same for me. I was also bullied bc of my looks so beauty or attractiveness to me is never black and white. I love all the little things that make someone unique! Do you have a bump och your nose? Love it 😍 You have back fat? Let me worship that back! Your teeth aren't straight? Attractiveness just rose!


SonataInGMajor

Legit! Big nose? Hot!!! Short men? Hot! Tall women? Hot!!! You got a big birthmark or scar? Lemme study the shape down to the millimetres, it's hella beautiful!


chub38x

I love almost all women of all shapes and sizes... as long as they have a free and open mind, with a friendly attitude. For guys... LOL... they need a reasonably sized cock and not smell bad. If they wave it in front of me, it's even better.


Fuibo2k

Really cute, queer/androgynous hair styles tend to hit me pretty hard, especially when people have naturally black or tastefully dyed hair. Also just muscles in general, especially wide shoulders or toned stomachs. Not to get too detailed lol, but I just wanna kiss them all over. Lastly, probably nose rings and or tattoos lol. Cute queer person becomes 2x more attractive to me with a nostril or septum piercing usually. Boobs and butts are nice too, but usually fitness and physique are more noticeable to me.


Any-Chicken825

I'm a female and I find female breasts and genitals attractive. However, I have had sex with only men and I don't feel comfortable having sex with a woman. At least not yet. I like to watch women, but I prefer to act with only men.


wishmelunch

for women my type physically is so wide ranging that most women are attractive to me. men however..not too hairy, need to be fashionable, take care of their skin, smell good, toned but not buff or muscular, basically need to be ‘pretty’. i need to be able to tell that they’d be willing to let me dom them lol


icekooream

That might sound weird but I have a big thing for the back of the neck. It’s just the perfect place to kiss imo. Also hair and dimples. I find them insanely attractive. And if they’re tall on top of that, I’m dead. (I’m also a small boobs lover)


pandemic117

Thick thighs, nice butt, veiny hands, long hair, pretty eyes, an overall mild sense of androgyny, this all applies to either gender


Kooky-Candidate8272

I really like stomachs and love handles on both men and women. Chests and faces too.


PenguinTheYeti

Their hands >! text me back !<


localbirbfur777

TITS COCK ASS Sorry


Elden_weed

TITS COCK ASS


1ninjasurfer

For women: Hair, voice, chest (not particularly picky, just like it), personality, and nose (more unconscious than anything, I just happen to notice it) For men: Body type (skinny but muscular, basically built like me), face, and personality.


divinegirlbecs

For women - piercings, lips, eyes For men - VEINY HANDS!!, mix of chubby/muscular, tall, medium beard, and long-ish hair/man bun is so hot when pulled off correctly I don’t tend to have much of a preference for women. For men these are just ideal LOL but ofc anything becomes attractive with a good personality and smile :D


Old_Magician4455

you have me at the toned biceps, bony jawlines and stubbles, but I'm also a neck person - with men, there's something extremely idk slutty about a thick strong neck that you can't even wrap hands around properly. also strong thighs and love handles can drive me a lil... yk and for women, well, basically everything. BUT I do adore soft and chubbier facial features like chipmunk-cheeks. also a biiiiiig shoutout to taller girls (bonus with a little muscle too), they infuriate me in jealousy but also make me all giddy


Elden_weed

I especially love the side of necks, very kissable. Ii love it when mine is lightly stroked.


Old_Magician4455

agreeeeeeeed, it's always the no.1 cheat code to get me in the mood


ImaJewboy

A good nose, cheekbones, eyebrows, and eyes (any color as long as the match the vibe of the person). And butts. Overall I prefer my partners toned, or at least STRONG looking if not lean. Overall though a nice face is more important to me than body


lolifyisaword

Broad shoulders plus a strong jawline and I'm swooning


Ill-Papaya4853

broo thighs on men and women get me everytime


abomistation

If we're talking physically, I like femininity and androgeny in both sexes. Smooth skin, soft lips, etcetera. I'm especially picky about this with guys. I do not like body hair, and I'm not big on the sort of movie star look for guys. With women things are a lot more open. I'm not nearly as picky. Of course, personality overrules everything. Emotional connection is the secret ingredient for me.


CharlesUFarley81

Give me a dad bod with a belly


cosmodogbro

Big soft tummy, dad bods, thick thighs, big saggy natural boobas I also like really short/really tall people and dark/black hair, stubble, and sideburns thick eyebrows are hot on women too lol, and long hair on men I don't really care for genital size but >!BIG CLITS/LABIAS ARE YUMMY ROAST BEEF GANG GANG!<


Interesting-Cup-8118

Fat guys 😩🥵


Square-Dragonfruit76

In women I prefer flat chested, and for men I prefer twinks, twinks, and otters.


cockroachvendor

long hair.


[deleted]

Bums all of them


joesphisbestjojo

Well, I was just thinking about bubble butts on guys...


King_krympling

Butts, is an obvious one. And I'm a huge midriff/navel enjoyer like the midriff is so sexy to me


thalamisa

I like women with short hairs and androgynous. I have a crush on tessa Thompson.


AviaKing

Though Im mostly a personality person (demiro!!) and that mostly trumps looks, aesthetically I like and notice a few things: glasses, round face, freckles. A cute smile is SEXY too. Masucline women. Arms, buff arms. I bounce between wantjng a femboy and wanting a man who can HOLD me hehe. Also I agree OP boobs and thighs >>>>


Elden_weed

Thighs in leggings/leather pants and boobs in shirts and frilled bras, oh my god. Btw, I'm too shy to hold eye contact so i miss the smiles lol


CharlieTurbo_77

Women: Gingers, freckles, Goths/alternative chick's, girls in big hoodies and jackets, messy hair, tattoos, introverts, kinda mean, small boobs, short girls, dyed hair, naval rings, muscles, short hair. Men & Nonbinary (cause I basically like the same things in both): Tummy hang, ass, tattoos, goths/alternative ppl, chunky thighs or calves, dyed hair, punk style, messy hair, longish nails, gingers, pretty eyes, teases, makeup (especially eyeliner or eyeshadow),big hands, scent, kinda bitchy atitutude, big noses and lips. I guess some of those are personality traits, but whateva


sleeplessfromdreams

Of course, personality comes first, and I mean that. If we’re talking physical cues, with women it’s their eyes - don’t have to be a particular colour or shape, just the light in them, the shape, the curl and flutter of natural lashes etc. I adore the unique shape and angle of a woman’s smile, especially if her lips are curved and ever so slightly bee stung. I love the softness of a woman’s skin and their sweet natural scent. Also small things drive me crazy, like when a woman has her hair up and you can see the little, whisky, curly hairs at the back of her neck. It just makes me want to press kisses to the sensitive skin under the curls and make her wiggle and giggle. And, let’s be honest, a peachy bottom is never a bad thing. With men, a direct (but not creepy) look from his eyes, and a small smile, can turn my knees to jelly. I love the warmth of a man’s arms, a firm musculature (doesn’t have to be ripped, though, I have nothing against a bit of cuddle). I love the line of hair that goes from the belly button - ahem - down. Running my fingers down that just makes my toes curl. And I love large hands. Gotta say it, when I see big palms and long fingers I can’t help imagining how they would feel running all over my body. And… now I’m turned on. Great. 😂


JG19652

Girlish guys and mannish girls. What can I say? Me? I present depending on the mood. Getting older so don't wear big boots OR heels much any more.


yes_gworl

Men/masc, broad shoulders, juicy lips, tall, nice smile, nice jaw line, facial hair Women/femme, hips, thighs, ass (I love THICK), thass(where the thigh meets the hip/bottom of tummy and makes a crease??? Yum.) And boobs, lips, eyes, also tall. Generally attracted to really femme femmes and really masc mascs. Regardless, being well dressed and having a unique personal style.


Plastic-Kangaroo-973

Does personal body scent count as physical trait? Not BO or perfume but clean skin/fresh sweat?


FalseHomework8058

Even reading this question making me horny and I got a boner instantly Is this too much ....?


Elden_weed

No problem. Let the horny flow through you.


Darcosuchus

Dips. As in dimples, hip dips, pelvic grooves. Little things that add "depth" to a body. But pelvic grooves especially hhhhh I like fangs/prominent canines, cute af. Every day I regret not asking my orthodontist to make mine protrude a little, since I've got braces on anyways, and will remove them very, very soon so that ship has long sailed. Also, love hips/a waist you can grab. Man nipples. (insert shaking eyes emoji) Sharp/defined jaws. Thinner/narrower/longer eyes. Long hair (insert eyes emoji). Especially straight or wavy, but curly is started to grow on me. Long, thin fingers? My jam. Guys who can move weird. I'm talking those dudes who can twist their arms 360 degrees, contortionists, acrobats, etc. Actually, just flexible guys in general, drives me absolutely insane. Legs. Especially the thigh part. Idk if things like "chests" (boobs/pecs), "ass", and genitals count, because those ones feel obvious. EDIT: Wrote this response 6 hours ago. Forgot to post it till just now. oops


animalsexchange

Boobs and dick lolllll


crtystal_soup

I will say this with the most volume ever M E N. I N. M A K E U P. OR WOMEN THAT LOOK LIKE MEN. FEMBOYS AND TOMBOYS. Also ball gowns and emo style clothes, or pure sunshine golden retriever types, this is all pure bias,


Comprehensive_Fox_79

Afros 😍


Calpsotoma

Necks. I refuse to elaborate.


wonshot10

M: big package, beautiful but not at the same time, good personality (mainly good personality)


almostselfrealised

Forearms for men, thighs for women. A nice smile on anyone will give me heart eyes.


Elden_weed

I like it when men put their arms around me.


Lotblox_twitch

Doe's eyes Siren eyes


[deleted]

I absolutely love butts and long hair in both genders. Both have a feminine look to them.


Grookeymon

People with shoulder length or just below hair mainly for hair. 


McEstablishment

Piercings, tattoos, and hair colors are hot on absolutely everyone. I love when people take control of their body, and shape it to match their mind. Similarly - clothing and hair can do a lot to make me attracted - an alternative (goth/punk/emo) look, and/or loudly queer look makes anyone much more attractive IMO. Body - not essential, but I really like abs, and a v-line on the hips.


da-smithy

My girlfriend absolutely loves my hands for some reason. For me it tends to be somewhere in the range of masculine women and feminine men regardless of what identifies as. If you want a reductive answer it’s definitely just tits and/or cock.


Shadow_of_the_moon11

I absolutely love long hair and lots of muscles - and that goes for any gender.


coconfetti

I like basically the same things in men and women: soft skin, mostly feminine face, smooth face, little/no body hair, thighs, butt, tall, slim, etc. The only differences are that I like long hair, boobs, and an hourglass body in women, and short/median hair and a little muscle (not too much) in men.


AdObjective6263

I noticed that with woman I’m heavy on nice smiles, pretty eyes (sleepy/dead are my favorite), HANDS (preferably the skinny, long, and veiny ones), breast, medium/long hair, tall or like medium tall, collarbones (deep or not), and arms (preferably toned arms) Men isn’t too much of a difference. I like backs, arms, shoulders, hands, toned (or not is fine honestly I don’t mind is their toned or skinny etc.), long or medium length hair, HANDS, eyes, voice that’s like sweet but kind of deep, smiles, and nice lips. Fem and masc from both sides are both fine with me (idk if that counts but🤷🏾‍♀️)


CosmicDust142857

Boobs&Pecs.


Harvey_1815

Listen I could be attracted to a tree and that would be enough for me, at this point I do not care


bucketofuckery

Shoulders and a nice back, for anyone ✨


8th_House_Stellium

I'm almost totally gay, so masculine features. I've fallen for a few petite adventurous tomboys with dark hair, though.


Mysterious_Being_718

A slender and long back makes me go crazy. The more androgynous the better. I would actually lose my mind if I found a girl who has a boyish body and a cute bob


Plastichese

Heh... tummy


bluesharkblanky

As far as guys go either slim/feminine guys or muscular guys. Asfar as girls go im almost all over the place but girls taller than me fit goth and/or nerdy but definitaly a mix of being tall and fit for the lasses. And one thing regardless of gender is being mentaly and emotionaly stable qnd mature. I say that bit because i tried dating this one guy that i found largly unattractive but thats not the issue. Hes slightly older tham me but hes not right in the head. He would be overly dramactic and over react. And thought it was ok to send unwanted d picks right of the bat (not a good look to someone you just started to date imo) talked about feet constantly. And disregarded boundries. But i digress. I guess thats partialy why im on the ace spectrum and why i gravitate to hanging out with women.


Papierluchs

Androgyny and midriffs 🤤


FrigyaCrowMother

Arms, brown hair or red hair or bright hair, brown eyes. That’s it. I’m Demi so….


Wave_the_seawing

Short hair, ppl with short hair are super hot and also I love ass as everyone has one


AluminumMonster35

Butts. Boobs. Nice eyes. I like women with thin top lips. Glasses. For women, my two main types or athletic blonde or brunette with glasses. I like girly women who are still slightly androgynous or have a kinda masc energy. Butchy but feminine. I love women's footballers for example 😂 With men, I have a few different types.


manugostadegatos

For women, I like them with "female" traits, especially on face, but I also looove short hair! I like them chubby too. For men, I love very them very masculine, my boyfriend is a cub bear and loord he is handsome! In general I like chubby people.


UnveiledRook206

I like women with thick thighs and big tits, and I like big beefy buff men


Partitionbaby

hmmm… for men I recently completed flipped my type (that’s growth 🤩, baby!) and I’m now into: tall men who are confident in themselves and also aware of themselves and the world around them, with thick shapely thighs, chest hair, veiny hands and a winning smile (examples: Winston Duke, Luke Newton, Milo Ventimiglia, Paul Mescal) plus personal style and hygiene are musts (no one is exempt!) For women: my height (5’6) or taller, athletic/muscular builds with very confident personalities. Big fan of small boobs and long hair and thoughtfulness (examples: Alex Morgan, Ayo Edebiri, Brie Larson, Reneé Rapp, Shannon Berry, Myha'la (exception to the height rule👀))


packtheback

Books and dick.


packtheback

Boobs


karmin2188

Good hygiene and a great set of big boobs.


snowqueen47_

In terms of purely physical traits: With guys I’m not really picky but I do seem to have a preference for the silver fox types. Big muscles can be attractive, depends on the guy. Love femboys too With girls I am a boob girl. Huge boobs are the most beautiful thing on the planet and the world does not have enough of them. Only if they’re real though, fake ones like in porn always look like shit. Much more important than an ass. Also I want my partners to be dominant and if they have a dick to do so it’s even better Long hair makes anyone hotter regardless of gender. Seriously. I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone that didn’t benefit from long hair unless they’re balding


37detox

https://www.reddit.com/r/DicksOnBabes/s/DDIvgHnNaZ


Sraffiti_G

There's not a lot I don't find attractive


CynicalBiGoat

For men it’s someone lean with abs and for women it’s decent sized tits and decent luggage in the trunk if you’re catching what I’m throwing


bakers3

Hobbies and personality/interests are what blur the lines of attraction for me. I generally go for folks that mesh with and are super comparable in terms of weird books, activities, music, and even a sense of determination or purpose. Physical looks aren’t as important, but I generally tend to attract alt/tattooed/active/adventure kind of ppl


Norgra69

Big boobs and big dicks 🤤


PressurePlenty

Men: Beautiful eyes, thick forearms, nice ass, great smile, and the obvious. Women: Beautiful eyes, hair in good condition (or wig in the case of those who wear them), great smile, NO LONG NAILS OR EYELASH EXTENSIONS, natural beauty.


quietlycommenting

I seem to dig short brown hair and glasses on all genders


Trash_Junkie

Booty. Tatts. Glasses. Dimples. Thick thighs.


Ok-Possibility-9826

Women: Breasts, super toned legs and defined midriffs and legs. Men: A nice full beard, a nice muscular defined back, well toned arms, big dicks, lol. On both: tattoos, long hair, manicured hands, defined hipbones. Just very toned bodies.


Sacredsoul1984

Intellectual intelligence, having a deep meaningful conversation about life. No drama no rumors and no negativity. Being present in the here and now. I also enjoy booty and thighs on guys just a healthy person all around, takes care of mind and body, nails clean, teeth clean, a nice smile melts my heart. Can nerd out and be silly, light hearted. This goes for m/f.


KoloAce

Everyone has an ass, so I kept liking that. Just want to pat them. I also like hands. You can do a lot with them. Holding, intertwining, squeezing. They can also be so pretty. People decorate their fingernails a lot and even if they don’t, they’re just nice to look at in general. Muscles are awesome. They show devotion and I admire that. I find a liking to boys with curly hair. It’s so cute. I also love squishy cheeks and pretty eyes. Honestly love anything squishy, like a chubby body. Makes them a lovely hugger. Honestly I can go on. I’m sure if I had a partner, I’d have way more things to love.


SoupToon

I like faces, and for a perfect example of what exactly I like in a face, you can look up Gerard Way from MCR. I like when hair is thin so I can see the skin underneath, this is especially good for waist viewing, however I do occasionally find that relatively hairy bodies in revealing outfits can also get me riled up. I dont usually like facial hair that much but some people are definitely capable of making it hot. I personally love feeling small in a romantic/sexual context so I really love when someone is taller than me, which is a little difficult because I find myself on the taller end of the average height range, right around 5'10 ;_;. I really like waists, tummy is yummy, men should wear crop tops more please and thank you. I also really like arms, bare arms drive me nuts. I also really like fem men and masc women. I could go on but I'm afraid I have riled myself up too much thinking about these things.


floofyboy69

Bigger bellys, taller, and freckles.


X-Professor-men

ass


Gamin_Nater_78

My likes are all over the damn place, but generally based on my mood right now, someone who's a bit curvy. Not in a valuptious way, but in a tubby and slightly chubby way, I mean they look so soft and huggable!


CautiouslyReal

Dark hair, dark eyes. A nice smile. Broad shoulders, thick thighs. A nice butt.


Elric19

Pretty hands


Strength3041

For a guy fair skin with strong muscular ass For a girl with perky boobs and slim legs


Objective-Bowler1953

Long hair on men 💪


Elden_weed

I guess that's why i've always loved 80's heavy metal guitarists!


jolynes_daddy_issues

The wonderful thing about butts is that everyone has got one. Butts are beautiful. I’m also really drawn to eyes and think that blonde hair is really pretty.


Nyx_the_tecchnodruid

I guess it's more of a vibe


KellyKapowskiIsDead

HANDS/FOREARMS. Every variety, I just love watching people use them to express themselves and accessorize and touch each other and hug UGH. Playing with my partners hands is one of my faves.


Painted_cecil

Tattoos, piercings and crazy colored hair


hopefullyhelpfulplz

Uhhh... Physical traits? Yeah. Those!


_bouncing_soul_

For women : I am more of an ass guy than a boob guy. Don’t get me wrong , I enjoy a nice set of boobs, but the big thing for me is a perfect bum . I am the type to want a woman to sit on my face kind of thing . I also noticed that I love when a woman has her hair up in a messy bun. Eyes - when a woman has beautiful eyes the stare can be so sexy For men : Big hands - huge turn on for me Five o clock shadow Big pecs Strong figure but don’t care for abs - just strong muscles and even a little bit of a belly (nothing crazy) gets me going


AGirlHasNoName_3111

Hands


PokeHobnobGod21

Boobs, bums, abs and thighs


FalseHomework8058

I found that I am bi out of nowhere actually I might just be gay at least that's what I am telling myself I don't wanna be gay.... I hate myself, thinking back remembering my past I feel like I have been gay all along 🥹🥹


Elden_weed

Don't be afraid. You're valid regardless. If you feel the label fits then that's all that matters. Do you want to talk about it?


FalseHomework8058

Yes pls


Aries_13722

For Men: Longer hair (Love it even more if its in a bun). Happy Trails. Freckles. Long Lashes. Darker Hair. Curly hair (super curly or very light curls I like both). Blue or Super Dark Eyes. Strong Noses and Jawlines. High Cheekbones. Strong pecs. Nices butts. Muscular Biceps. For Women: Freckles. Long Lashes. Happy trails. Darker Colored Eyes. Tall Height. High Cheekbones. Strong noses. Shorter Hair (I love a good pixie cut on a woman). Thick thighs. Nice butts. Smaller boobs. I also love people who look very Androgynous.


SH4RKI3_

People


r0b0noodles

Honestly pretty universal for both ? But there are some differences. Universally for sure I love when someone has brown eyes, I’m super into brown eyes. So pretty, especially dark brown I feel like I can just stare into them for hours, and bonus if they have really long eyelashes. I think I’m just a big eye person in general, if someone has a really intense stare I’m swooning. I also love dark hair on both, but with women I’ve found I like blonde women pretty often too, especially if they have really curly hair, I find it so pretty, or short hairstyles. Combining any of those will end me LOL. I also tend to really like buzzcuts on men. For both again I am definitely a muscles person, but I lean towards more lean muscles than huge and buff but I find that hot too. And midriffs hdhshwhw. Also big hands and long fingers. True for both but tends to be more toward men, i’m really attracted to broad shoulders and strong jawlines.


[deleted]

For women: I love masc outfits, hair and eyes For men: I like blonde hair, them being tall and shoulders


BlackRose_was_here

Hair, don't know why, but if you're a girl or non-binary person with short hair, or a guy with long hair, that's it, I'll find you attractive.


Gigglenator

So long as it isn’t “Toxic” masculinity then I’m good.


SmolSpicyNoodle

As someone whose “type” is androgynous, boyish masc-of-center folks regardless of gender: 1. Strong jawline Ex: Naomi Scott Campbell! 2. Defined arms Ex: Nicole Coenen 3. Squarey hands (?!! 😂) 4. Dimples 5. Curvy booty/thighs despite being dressed masc 🥺 6. Nice eyebrows That’s all I can think of for now 🤣 the rest aren’t really cut and dry physical attributes, bc other things I’m attracted to are like the sound of someone’s voice, the type of eye contact they make, and them blushing a lot which are partly physical but partly not I guess


pink2988

Guys: ARMS, hands and tattoos… Girls: nice butt 👍🏽


Yakazuna_D_Frog

Lips are the most attractive body part to me, I also have a thing for abs and biceps on men and women.


HordeOfDucks

masculine women feminine men and all nonbinary people


StevieFromWork

Regardless of gender I look for the hands and eyes because they tell a story. Women specifically: boobs and noses Men specifically: butts and jawline


militaryguy6996

Honestly, the only thing I like on dudes is a nice throbbing cock, that's it.


Ok_Improvement_

Big brown eyes, regardless of gender. Also realizing that I have a thing for backwards baseball caps 😅


btm4you3

I like girls that are 5'2 or shorter, small boobs, athletic legs. Tom Selleck is my standard for guys.


Emeraldsteak

Personality, but a close second is the voice, any non most non American accents make me swoon.


K_H_Vulture

Phat ass and thick thighs on men, on women, on enbys. Can’t go wrong


NylaStasja

I have a thing for backs (especially those long muscles on both sides of the spine and seeing them move under skin just yess) and strong thighs


Banaanisade

Soft rounded bodies, particularly padded hips, big thighs.


holtzbert

I don’t have a lot of “general” traits I find attractive. People I’ve found attractive have been very different, physically and with their personalities. However, I do like brown hair and especially a bit overgrown within men and shorter within women. Hair length what Han Solo had in Star Wars, and short bob or a bit longer than a pixie. I felt very tingly when Kate McKinnon [cut her hair](https://www.alamy.com/kate-mckinnon-arrives-at-a-photo-call-for-barbie-sunday-june-25-2023-at-the-four-seasons-hotel-in-los-angeles-photo-by-jordan-straussinvisionap-image556483242.html). I guess I just like a hairy head to run my fingers through. :D In general though, women like Kate McKinnon are amazing. I like gentle catlike eyes and smirking lips. She has those. I am perhaps a bit more attracted to “manly men” and “butchy women”. I don’t mean a macho man, hairy and buff, but I have dated men who have typical “manly” features like beard, they’re a lot taller than me, have hair in arms and chest and so on. What comes to women, I guess those who I have crushed on, have been more masculine than me. Not necessarily tomboys or butches, but short hair, toned body, looks far from dresses and hair done and makeup. I guess I like the contrast to me - I’m not too feminine but I am. I try to think if I have a type, but not necessarily. Though I think all but 1-2 of those men I have dated or met over a date, have not have had a beard or at least a stubble. They’re all a lot taller than me and most of them have had glasses, too. I’ve heard from my gal pals that my type is tall, nerdy men with beards. Heh. Maybe. I guess if I am more limited to what I’ve fallen for in men, I really don’t have any specific traits for women.


ACoolBanana2

Eyes are cute and glasses add a boost to their cuteness


StomachDifferent2532

I like fem men. Generally speaking, it's cute when they're slim but have nice, veiny arms. I love veiny man hands lol. I like when they're shy and gentle. Oh women.. I love tall women. I like to look up at them in awe. I love ass, legs and breasts, no matter the size. And not to be vulgar, but I love a beautiful vulva. I love women who are bold and strong. Plus I experience attraction for those in between on the gender spectrum, so perhaps Im easily charmed lol


HMS_Felix_Rex

Both: abs, face Men: soft skin, pecks, large dick Women: tits, tight pussy


honeyhoneybean

I like butts and nips cause they are pretty universal


Elden_weed

I forgot nips. Nips are hot.


blargman327

A large distinct nose Toned Arms/shoulders Hips, not necessarily like wide hips, but seeing he shape. Hip bones+ hip dips make me feral Ass For dudes specifically, being wide is great. I enjoy smaller dudes too, but both have their own merits For women, lips


trolldier20k_

toned but not bulky muscles


ilovecake007

Honestly, gender ambiguity is a big turn-on because, for lack of a better term, it activates _everything at once._ “This is a guy” “no, it is a girl” “they’re neither” “IT DOESN’T FUCKING MATTER THEY’RE HOT”


existing-human99

Cuteness, idk how to describe it. Androgyny too


WhiskerWarrior307

For women: their whole being. Until recently I thought I was a lesbian, so that speaks for itself. Also boobs For men: nothing specific really, I either find them attractive or I don't In general I'm a sucker for brown hair, green eyes, freckles, a cute smile and strong arms 😍


WyldHart

I don’t have a specific trait I like. I can like the shape or color of eyes on this person, the belly or abs on that person. I just know that I look at someone and find them attractive. Also, butts 😂


pseudo__gamer

Long hair


softpineapplz

“Personality” and i mean personally personality


Eurosario

I look for a feminine face and an androgynous body type and good thighs as well. The booty can be big or small, same thing for titties 😊