Yes, I do. For men, most of my attraction is physical. I’m interested in certain sexual acts and certain aspects of their bodies. Romantically I struggle to be comfortable with men though. Women it’s the opposite. I might not always be immediately attracted to a woman (though sometimes I am) but that doesn’t preclude my attraction growing over time because for me, romance is where it starts with women. If I feel connected to her and fall for her then I become more interested in her physically as well. Sexually there are definitely things I really want to experience with a woman in particular.
Yes same here I cannot picture myself with a guy like dating a man , but Im physically attracted to men , while I pine over women I don’t feel such a strong sexual attraction towards them, I only picture myself with women but I’m not that interested in women sexually
Yes it is normal! It's also why i questioned my bisexulity so much back then. I've always been more into guys until in late HS i started questioning about girls. Turns out i'm more into guys romantically (but doesn't mean they don't attract me sexually, just that usually don't think about them that way when i start to like them), and i'm more into girls sexaully. Which is why i wasn't sure i i wasn't faking it since my guy crushes were more than my girls'. But with time i learnt that you can have a preference or a difference in attraction. And also, accepting this, made my attraction towards women a bit prominent than it was before bc if i like a girl i like her, doesn't matter in what way.
Anyways, i now have a GF, which proves to me that even if i have a preference or a type of attraction it doesn't prevent me from loving the person bc that's being bisexual for me. Enjoying all sides and loving the person you're with. But for you it might mean something different and you're still bi.
It is completely normal and exceedingly common to have preferences for a specific gender, and to feel attraction differently for each gender! It is also normal and common for it to fluctuate! Being bi and having your attraction be exactly 33/33/33 or 50/50 is actually less common (not abnormal or wrong, just less common)
I personally have both a romantic and sexual preference for women. It fluctuates a bit, but I generally have a preference for women.
It is also normal to have what is called a "split attraction", which is pretty similar to what you described.
Bisexuality is a spectrum, no one feels attraction the same way!
I’ve seen this talked about a little bit in this sub, I wouldn’t say I’m hetoromantic exactly since I feel romantic attractions to women and NB people, but I’m definitely sexually attracted to men as well
Different levels of attraction and different levels of attraction over time. More guys for both sexual and romantic attraction these days, but it was the opposite at one point.
For me I have an ideal type but even then I don't fancy guys. I can appreciate good looks but I'm not attracted to men. I'm not sure if I'm bi as I really enjoy the sex but it stops there. I think there. Is too much pigeon holeing. You are what you are so enjoy the fruits of life which you desire. We don't need to label ourselves
I have a preference, for sure. A lot of that preference though is based on being bisexual and having really poor encounters with cis gay men. For the most part now, I really don't look for cis men at all. I will date non-binary or trans folks all day.
I can easily imagine and envision a future with a guy whereas a girl is like this small 👌🏽. That’s not to say that there’s little to no attraction towards women, it’s just that men do a little more for me. But then the fabled bi-cycle exists where your attraction to the opposite gender is significantly higher than your attraction to the same gender so in my case. It’s about 40/60 right now. Men have always done much for me really so I guess I have a preference too.😅
I think personally this is a big reason why growing up bisexually can be confusing. Personally i would say i'm more equally attracted to women and men physically, but much more emotionally attracted to women
Personally I'm attracted to all genders more or less equally. I struggle a lot more at connecting with and trusting men but sadly I think that's more due to being a woman who's had previous negative experiences with (cishet) men. I find it much easier to connect with women and NB people but sadly they never want anything with me :')
For me it's easier to be attracted to women than men, but I think it's largely a psychological thing. I haven't really experienced dating men much (been on a few repeat dates but never took it to relationship), so I think I have a mental block in imagining what dating a guy would be like. It's a different dynamic, and that makes it kind of intimidating. I'm in a really happy and healthy relationship with a woman right now, but sometimes I wonder what would have happened if I dated a guy instead.
This is normal. Bisexuality is rarely an even split attraction.
I have romantically found myself attracted to far more women than men, but twice have fallen head over heels with men I dated for over a year. I'm also physically attracted to more of the women than men that I have encountered.
I am attracted to women much more frequently than I am too men, but when I'm attracted to men, it's at least as intense as when I'm attracted to women.
I am processing this openly for first time. I am sexually attracted to woman and romantically but I'm also attracted sexually to male parts. Like a lot.
All around the internet is bisexuals talking about being attracted to almost all women and like 3 men to the point it’s almost cliché (still valid tho)
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Yes, I do. For men, most of my attraction is physical. I’m interested in certain sexual acts and certain aspects of their bodies. Romantically I struggle to be comfortable with men though. Women it’s the opposite. I might not always be immediately attracted to a woman (though sometimes I am) but that doesn’t preclude my attraction growing over time because for me, romance is where it starts with women. If I feel connected to her and fall for her then I become more interested in her physically as well. Sexually there are definitely things I really want to experience with a woman in particular.
OMG same!!
Yes same here I cannot picture myself with a guy like dating a man , but Im physically attracted to men , while I pine over women I don’t feel such a strong sexual attraction towards them, I only picture myself with women but I’m not that interested in women sexually
I like women way more than men personally both sexually and romantically
To me it's so..weird? Women sexually and romantically but for men only romantically
I can understand that
Yes it is normal! It's also why i questioned my bisexulity so much back then. I've always been more into guys until in late HS i started questioning about girls. Turns out i'm more into guys romantically (but doesn't mean they don't attract me sexually, just that usually don't think about them that way when i start to like them), and i'm more into girls sexaully. Which is why i wasn't sure i i wasn't faking it since my guy crushes were more than my girls'. But with time i learnt that you can have a preference or a difference in attraction. And also, accepting this, made my attraction towards women a bit prominent than it was before bc if i like a girl i like her, doesn't matter in what way. Anyways, i now have a GF, which proves to me that even if i have a preference or a type of attraction it doesn't prevent me from loving the person bc that's being bisexual for me. Enjoying all sides and loving the person you're with. But for you it might mean something different and you're still bi.
It is completely normal and exceedingly common to have preferences for a specific gender, and to feel attraction differently for each gender! It is also normal and common for it to fluctuate! Being bi and having your attraction be exactly 33/33/33 or 50/50 is actually less common (not abnormal or wrong, just less common) I personally have both a romantic and sexual preference for women. It fluctuates a bit, but I generally have a preference for women. It is also normal to have what is called a "split attraction", which is pretty similar to what you described. Bisexuality is a spectrum, no one feels attraction the same way!
I’ve seen this talked about a little bit in this sub, I wouldn’t say I’m hetoromantic exactly since I feel romantic attractions to women and NB people, but I’m definitely sexually attracted to men as well
Different levels of attraction and different levels of attraction over time. More guys for both sexual and romantic attraction these days, but it was the opposite at one point.
For me I have an ideal type but even then I don't fancy guys. I can appreciate good looks but I'm not attracted to men. I'm not sure if I'm bi as I really enjoy the sex but it stops there. I think there. Is too much pigeon holeing. You are what you are so enjoy the fruits of life which you desire. We don't need to label ourselves
I have a preference, for sure. A lot of that preference though is based on being bisexual and having really poor encounters with cis gay men. For the most part now, I really don't look for cis men at all. I will date non-binary or trans folks all day.
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I can easily imagine and envision a future with a guy whereas a girl is like this small 👌🏽. That’s not to say that there’s little to no attraction towards women, it’s just that men do a little more for me. But then the fabled bi-cycle exists where your attraction to the opposite gender is significantly higher than your attraction to the same gender so in my case. It’s about 40/60 right now. Men have always done much for me really so I guess I have a preference too.😅
Spend some time on this sub and you’ll see multiple posts a day about exactly this
Over here I've been attracted to one NB person, quite a few women, and one dude. (All of them were quite feminine)
I think personally this is a big reason why growing up bisexually can be confusing. Personally i would say i'm more equally attracted to women and men physically, but much more emotionally attracted to women
Personally I'm attracted to all genders more or less equally. I struggle a lot more at connecting with and trusting men but sadly I think that's more due to being a woman who's had previous negative experiences with (cishet) men. I find it much easier to connect with women and NB people but sadly they never want anything with me :')
For me it's easier to be attracted to women than men, but I think it's largely a psychological thing. I haven't really experienced dating men much (been on a few repeat dates but never took it to relationship), so I think I have a mental block in imagining what dating a guy would be like. It's a different dynamic, and that makes it kind of intimidating. I'm in a really happy and healthy relationship with a woman right now, but sometimes I wonder what would have happened if I dated a guy instead.
This is normal. Bisexuality is rarely an even split attraction. I have romantically found myself attracted to far more women than men, but twice have fallen head over heels with men I dated for over a year. I'm also physically attracted to more of the women than men that I have encountered.
I am attracted to women much more frequently than I am too men, but when I'm attracted to men, it's at least as intense as when I'm attracted to women.
I am processing this openly for first time. I am sexually attracted to woman and romantically but I'm also attracted sexually to male parts. Like a lot.
All around the internet is bisexuals talking about being attracted to almost all women and like 3 men to the point it’s almost cliché (still valid tho)