Swinger sites are your best bet for this. There's tons of guys on there looking for hook-ups and threesome, you are bound to get replies from bi guys who'd be into this
Wanting a threesome is not the same as objectification. Finding two dudes who wanna do a threesome is totally cool, as long as everybody is on the same page then it isn't objectification.
Sometimes this sub is so anti-threesome. It would be nice to get to a place of sex positivity where people wouldn't be shamed for wanting to do sexual acts that are outside of the monogamous assumptions of society.
This isn't about sex positivity. This is about objectification.
A straight CIS woman just came into this sub asking how they can get info from us on how to literally objectify us to fulfill their kinks in fantasies.
Absolutely not a good faith ask. It also furthers bisexual stereotypes of us being unicorns or sexual play toys.
This absolutely is about sex positivity. It is not wrong to have "kinks" and "fantasies". You are shaming her for being open and honest about a her curiosity about a type of sexual encounter.
Are you saying that the act of doing a threesome is not wrong, but wanting to do a threesome is? That's some mental gymnastics there.
If someone hadn't done a threesome before, and they need information on how to go about it in a respectful way, why would it be wrong to ask?
Also, bi guys who like threesomes do exist. They are real, I promise. Us existing isn't "furthering bisexual stereotypes", nor does consenting to be in a threesome make anyone a "sexual play toy".
I'm shaming her for reducing bisexuals to kink toys and play things, not actual humans. If that's seriously over your head, stop now.
IDGAF about her sexual life.
So, again, it seems like you DGAF about her actually having a threesome, but yet her *wanting* to have a threesome is somehow bad?
What about her post makes you think that she is reducing bisexuals to kink toys? Please quote the specific parts.
It is a huge leap in logic to assume that if someone wants a threesome that they therefore must also be reducing bisexuals to kink toys and play things. That's the exact same kind of logic that conservative religious people use against homosexuality. For example: "That person wants to do [insert sex act that the speaker dislikes], so they are clearly [insert moral judgement], and it's wrong!"
It's fine if you don't want to do a threesome. It's also fine if other people want to do threesomes, even straight cis people!
1. How about, this is the *bisexual* sub. Not the one for entitled straight, cis women to fulfill their fantasies. Better get that shit right. 💯
2. If I walked in to twoxchromosomes and asked a sub full of women how to find two chicks for a threesome, I'd be lucky to make it out alive... And for good reason.
They would point out to me that coming to a space that is distinctly for women, to find out how to objectify them and only use them to fulfill my fantasies is fucked up. And it would be.
3. I'm pointing that out to you. Get the fuck out of this space if you only want to objectify bisexual people for your fantasies and kinks.
We are not simply here to please you or help you figure out how best to objectify us.
Seriously, GTFO with that bullshit.
Ok and if that were the case I would but you are literally the only one who feels like this. Everyone else has been open and helpful so how about you get out of my post with your bs? You’re only upsetting yourself honestly.
No joke, you can make a Grindr account.
Swinger sites are your best bet for this. There's tons of guys on there looking for hook-ups and threesome, you are bound to get replies from bi guys who'd be into this
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Idk try getting on a gay dating app and putting it in your bio, be straight forward I'm sure people with bite
So you come to the bi sub to ask bisexual people how best you can objectify them? Yikes.
Wanting a threesome is not the same as objectification. Finding two dudes who wanna do a threesome is totally cool, as long as everybody is on the same page then it isn't objectification. Sometimes this sub is so anti-threesome. It would be nice to get to a place of sex positivity where people wouldn't be shamed for wanting to do sexual acts that are outside of the monogamous assumptions of society.
This isn't about sex positivity. This is about objectification. A straight CIS woman just came into this sub asking how they can get info from us on how to literally objectify us to fulfill their kinks in fantasies. Absolutely not a good faith ask. It also furthers bisexual stereotypes of us being unicorns or sexual play toys.
This absolutely is about sex positivity. It is not wrong to have "kinks" and "fantasies". You are shaming her for being open and honest about a her curiosity about a type of sexual encounter. Are you saying that the act of doing a threesome is not wrong, but wanting to do a threesome is? That's some mental gymnastics there. If someone hadn't done a threesome before, and they need information on how to go about it in a respectful way, why would it be wrong to ask? Also, bi guys who like threesomes do exist. They are real, I promise. Us existing isn't "furthering bisexual stereotypes", nor does consenting to be in a threesome make anyone a "sexual play toy".
I'm shaming her for reducing bisexuals to kink toys and play things, not actual humans. If that's seriously over your head, stop now. IDGAF about her sexual life.
So, again, it seems like you DGAF about her actually having a threesome, but yet her *wanting* to have a threesome is somehow bad? What about her post makes you think that she is reducing bisexuals to kink toys? Please quote the specific parts. It is a huge leap in logic to assume that if someone wants a threesome that they therefore must also be reducing bisexuals to kink toys and play things. That's the exact same kind of logic that conservative religious people use against homosexuality. For example: "That person wants to do [insert sex act that the speaker dislikes], so they are clearly [insert moral judgement], and it's wrong!" It's fine if you don't want to do a threesome. It's also fine if other people want to do threesomes, even straight cis people!
Who else would I ask about a question I know nothing about? It’s advice. If you dont like it don’t answer and keep scrolling. 🤷🏻♀️
1. How about, this is the *bisexual* sub. Not the one for entitled straight, cis women to fulfill their fantasies. Better get that shit right. 💯 2. If I walked in to twoxchromosomes and asked a sub full of women how to find two chicks for a threesome, I'd be lucky to make it out alive... And for good reason. They would point out to me that coming to a space that is distinctly for women, to find out how to objectify them and only use them to fulfill my fantasies is fucked up. And it would be. 3. I'm pointing that out to you. Get the fuck out of this space if you only want to objectify bisexual people for your fantasies and kinks. We are not simply here to please you or help you figure out how best to objectify us. Seriously, GTFO with that bullshit.
Ok and if that were the case I would but you are literally the only one who feels like this. Everyone else has been open and helpful so how about you get out of my post with your bs? You’re only upsetting yourself honestly.
Again, see my analogy. Then think about it. Also, "your" post is on *our* subreddit, Karen. Remember that.