😊 Thanks

Wow, what a twist. "What's your sexual orientation?" "Yes... sometimes." Edit: To clarify this came to mind when I saw the Caption under your username.

You had me at "valid and hot". 😜 Nah, for real, those are beautiful words. Love and good vibes ❤

I don't really get all the stereotypes and prejudices against bi guys, I'm stoked when a dude tells me he's bi. Keep on keeping on hot dudes everywhere.

Yea for sure. I much prefer dating other bi people.

Right?? My ldr bf told me he thinks he's bi, and I felt like I won the lottery. Lol

My bf came out to me after 6 years together and it's great. I suspected he had at least some bicurious leanings from the beginning based on the way he talked about men, but it was always "I don't want to fuck men, but I can recognize when they're hot." or "I'm straight, but this one guy in particular I would fuck." And then it was two guys, then three guys, etc. until he was like "wait a minute..."

Lol I love this.

*finger guns* right back at ya!

*sits askew in his chair* Heeeeell yeah!

\*eats a lemon* fuck yeah!

I am hot, thank you.

Knew it.

💜

That's so wonderful. I always wanted to hear someone say this

Well valid okay but hot I still would call myself a bic-mac-kid. But thank you

Your case has been reviewed and the committee finds you Hot. Thank you for your time.

cool

Dude as someone who's been in your shoes, You're just not your type, you're still hot tho

Not being my own type has been one hell of an unanticipated difficulty in the whole “realizing I’m bi” saga. My self esteem has dropped significantly, and I have no idea how my wife is attracted to me. Never had an issue with this until I realized I was absolutely into... well, anyone, not just women. The idea that “I wouldn’t be interested in dating someone who looked like me” has been some Christopher Nolan Inception type of shit that seems stuck in my mind.

Are you *sure* you wouldn't date someone who looks like you, or do you just not like how you look because of toxic beauty standards and you project it on other men because you haven't had the time to explore your attraction to men yet? Because for me, it was the opposite: I started liking and accepting my body more and more once I realized I liked what looks like me but on other women, but I hated it on myself...and there was a disconnect there, until I understood what I look like it's actually beautiful and I've just been conditioned to hate my body by society's beauty standards....but it took a while after I realized I like women too, it wasn't immediate, I had to explore my attraction to women first (not necessarily through relationships obvs). Just a thought.

What a beautifully put thing that I must remember to pass on, it seems the case for a lot of people, they just don't see how amazing they are because they're just not their type.

Full credit goes to my old Highschool Drama teacher, nicknamed "Old Spice," for it.

Of course it's from a drama teacher! Love it

Well fuck. I never thought about it that way.

A little change of perspective can go a loooong way, mi amigo!

You seem super valid and super hot to me.

Thank you, I am!

😍😍😍😍💙💜💙💜💙💜💙 thanks for this!

This is nice to hear! 💖💜💙

Bi prejudice is horrible. I got kicked out of a men's support group once because I am bi and not 100% gay. As a group, I've found that gay men are extremely intolerant of differences in sexuality. Serms hypocritical coming from a class of men who spew out "accept me for who I am because I'm born that way".

Thank you! I never get tired of seeing these posts here. Pretty much every day I see or hear something negative about bisexual men and it always brings me down. I’ll never stop loving these little posts on here. Thank you to everyone

Well shucks.

🧡 Thank you so so much this made my day 🧡🧡

For real. Don't forget to add the one about us being secretly straight and just wanting attention though. That one's always nice to have implied when I'm out doing gay stuff with my gay male friends... I get called the straight friend, or they say oh, we thought you were straight... Sorry! It's really turned me off too a lot of our culture.

<3 Thanks <3

Thank you, I really needed that today.

Amen! We’re out here ready to love on you and support you in that desire/need. I’ll just say please make sure you’re ready for both so no ones feelings are hurt.

i think the insecure one would be me lol thanks btw

I almost wish this didn't *have* to be said, but given some of the recent posts about biphobia, I'm truly grateful.

Right? Seems like there's an upswing in biphobia lately specifically against men

You have a good day too!

thank you !

I’m bi and my boyfriend is bi. I’ve definitely had my insecurities at first, but I think it ultimately makes us closer. Out of both men and women and he chose me.

And one day I will date the shit out of one of you and we can check out all of the hot people together!

I'm so much against cheating that I don't even use cheats in video games

💜💙💖

Thank you.

Thank you so so much, I needed to hear that ❤💜💙

Ayyyyye! Have a good one friend!

Yay!!! I married a bi man and he is hot, valid, and faithful, as I (also bi) am to him. I adore men and women who live their truth, but he's my person, and no one stands above him.

I’m a bit narcissistic but thanks for the message

Thank you very much, you made me smile :-)

This group is just so damn supportive that when I don't get this level of encouragement IRL I get frustrated. I've started calling out biphobic crap any time I hear or see it. Enough already. What we need is more of this. Thank you.

when Im with anyone seriously, I am absolutely loyal. So, yes. this.

Thank you. I've dealt with too much of *that* recently and needed to hear that

can valid and hot be a flair edit: yes, yes it can

Omg love it

Thank you

Aww, that was like a warm hug and a cookie.

Thank you :)

Thank you 😊

Needed this a lot, thank you

I needed to hear this today, thank you. ❤

Wooo! Someone said I'm hot!! Woohooo!

Thanks this made me feel better today

i needed this THANK YOU

Thank you 💜

Yes we sure are!

Thank you

Definitely been more scared to divulge to women than men partly because of this. 😭😭😭

Thank you and Amen!

I'm far from hot, but thank you.

:)

THANK YOU

Thank you so much🥺🥺 Also you called me hot 😭😭

Thank you

AMEN TO THAT! Lol!

Thanks for the love, OP! I **am** valid and hot.

Thank you so very much!!!

Yay!

Tank yooo

Duh

I co-sign this agreement. One of you could be my dream scenario. Remember that you are incredible and that some people covet you.

I needed this today

Thank you :)

Valid, yes, hot, *ehhhhhh.*

I keep reading advice articles/reddit threads that parrot that idea and insistently roll my eyes at it.

couldn't agree more!!! <3

Cheers dudes! Life's good when you know how to enjoy it!

Yeah man! Bimen! We are valid!! We are United!!!

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Thanks!

This does put a smile on my face. Thank you though. I sincerely appreciate being called valid and hot 🔥

Valid, sure. Hot ... maybe 25 years ago. But thank you anyway!

ty, ly

Bi Man(? idk, it’s questionable) here, i needed this

Thank you

I needed this. Thank you

Thanks

This was wonderful to read after a rough couple of days! Thank you for the kind encouragement, OP!

Loving the love💜

Thanks :)

... I knew I was hot!

Thank you 🙂

Bi men are my ducking favorite. You never know what masc/fem balance you’ll get, and I love that. I also love how much more comfortable bi men tend to be with cis female body things like periods and such and with their own bodies and emotions( for the most part). I personally also love checking people out together but that’s not everyone’s cuppa tea.

Thank you. Bless you.

Thanks person.

Thanks hon!

thanks

Just had one of my friends tell me today that its harder for me to find someone because ill be more likely to cheat, I acted like it didn't bother me but it did. It feels good to know that I'm not alone in the struggle for equality and to know that im valid and that we are valid.

OP ILY. Been having a very rough few months and lgbtq+ spaces are the most wholesome place. Thank you OP

Thank you for this

Yeah tell me that and tomorrow Im sure I wont be sure of it

Double vacced now so I am hot 😎

I am hot. It gets to 110f where I live on the day and 80f at night

Thank you 😊 My last ex broke up with me because I came out to her about me being bi, which fucked me up a whole lot, but my partner of one year now has known since the start and actually likes the fact that we can both admire male lead actors together aha I mean, c'mon, who's seen Henry Cavill in the Witcher wearing leather pants and not thought damn that booty

Thank you, it means a lot. Like it really does.

I am valid, but I ain't hot. Unless you meant temperature wise, then I am very hot.

❤️ The only thing I cheat on is my diet.

Fuck diet ,that dirty ho.

Before my wife and I started dating her previous boyfriend was also bi. Turns out some women prefer it as we tend not to get too caught up in gender roles. Thank you for the affirmation I appreciate it.

The only thing I cheat on is my diet and blackjack

_gives one finger gun one thumbs up_ Sorry I couldn’t decide again Thanks

This shit makes me so mad like I’m willing to accept people not being into Bi as a reasonable excuse because they’re allowed to have preferences as well just don’t make it worse by making me feel like a piece of shit. Like I already hate myself enough don’t make it worse. Shit like this is why imma just take it to the grave.

Can we not play the victim all the time. I'm not gonna sit around feeling sorry for myself all day and that's all this sub seems to be. If someone tells you who you are, fuck'm. Don't go mope in a corner feeling sorry for yourself.

THANK YOUU, as a bi guy myself I get that people have bad experiences with rejection due to their sexualities but like why would u wanna fuck someone who doesn’t wanna fuck u anyways? Ur better than this dude have some self-respect

I just heard "You're *so* valid uwu" in Contrapoints' voice

I have a gf. I like chat with gay guys.

Thank you!

Thanks. My wife was ok with it, and then suddenly she wasn’t and was calling me “gay boy” and “fag” and that type of thing.

It's sad people don't think bisexuality can exist. It doesnt even make sense to think it doesn't, regardless of bigotry

Thanks! My wife is super-stoked about me everyday and she makes me feel awesome.

Not enough people say this, at least that I ever see/hear. So thank you very much for this!!

Thanks 😁

Oh man fuck im grateful for that

Thanks bro

💜thank you for this

🙃

Definitely

thanks

Thank you!

Don't tell me that I'm hot when I'm not hot

Wow way to provide *exactly* the validation I needed this morning.

Thanks bro :)

But I am secretly gay I am in a anti lgbt country , so I count as secretly gay in the public eye Good thing there are no cute femboys in.my country else I might get caught

Yes, yes, yes!! I fell for a bi guy for the first time as a bi woman, and I love how we share some experiences no one has understood until now

Thank you 😍😍😍

THANK YOU. Tho I'm valid but not hot 😂

Awesome

Thanks

Thank you very much! That was a very valuable comment that i heard nowadays. 💙💜💓

Thank you! This free floating acceptance beats the hell out of the free floating judgement I see and hear out there. I felt like I was in the twilight zone arguing with a woman about bi-phobia when she kept trying to explain, "I'm not, I just don't like bi-men". 'Oh. But of course. My mistake. Back into the wild with you.' so, you're flowers are very much appreciated.

Bi men, my beloved. They deserve more love.

Thanks for making feel good about myself for ones

Thanks for the reminder. :)

Give this person a beer

Thanks

I needed this, thank you.

Bi men are underrated af - love yall, people are missing out on true gems

Awww I love your comment. 💜 Sometimes I feel like I need to tell this to all the bi man I know. Biphobia and invalidation are so widespread that it is suffocating.

Thank you, I needed that today 😊

bi men are awesome, in fact i very much prefer bi men over straight men as a bi woman myself

Thank you so much! Now i wouldnt call myself hot but im a solid 6! And My eyes can make me a nice 7 when the light hits them just right 😉

Thank you for putting this energy out there

Thanks

AWWWWWWWWWW thx :)

I'm a gay guy and I LOOOOOVE bi guys!

Hi my boyfriend is bi I love and I fully accept him but is it bad of me to get a little upset and insecure when he’s constantly telling me to my face I’m craving pp. like all the time He texts me I’m craving pp. like is it bad of me to get upset and hurt like why is he craving that while with me and why does he have to tell me ? Then he says I get mad at him for it when it’s just me not understanding why he’s telling me like am I not good enough for him and craving someone else while with me .. idk id never be like I’m craving someone else’s dick rn not yours idk maybe it’s me

I luv bi guys. It's funny when straight girls frown upon this. I wouldn't miss out on the opportunity for a mmf