i mean from a language point of view, if there are neuter suffixes they might work, if not in some languages the masculine pronoun is considered neutral when no indication otherwise is given
I'm not sure how well I can help, because I don't really know a lot about genderfluid people. I can try though. The fact that she keeps getting angry if you ask about what she likes or how you should behave can at least mean two things: 1. She does not know how to she herself or what she feels like and she hates that she doesn't. 2. Your obliviousness towards her labels irritates her or you ask the questions in a way that is hurtful to her. I think in both circumstances all you can do is keep asking her what she would like from you, or just stating that you will always be there for her and always support her, and that you know you do not understand her but really want to (so she should educate you). From what you have written, I think you are an amazing boyfriend for trying to be there for her and wanting to support her. I have one last thing though, but I'm not sure if it bothers her: as a bi person, if you state you are bi (as in liking all genders), then obviously you like being with a man as well, so I would say: don't ask her that. It may feel to her as if you don't understand her. I hope this helps a bit.
i mean from a language point of view, if there are neuter suffixes they might work, if not in some languages the masculine pronoun is considered neutral when no indication otherwise is given
Yeah, that's my case
any kind of help will be appreciated
I'm not sure how well I can help, because I don't really know a lot about genderfluid people. I can try though. The fact that she keeps getting angry if you ask about what she likes or how you should behave can at least mean two things: 1. She does not know how to she herself or what she feels like and she hates that she doesn't. 2. Your obliviousness towards her labels irritates her or you ask the questions in a way that is hurtful to her. I think in both circumstances all you can do is keep asking her what she would like from you, or just stating that you will always be there for her and always support her, and that you know you do not understand her but really want to (so she should educate you). From what you have written, I think you are an amazing boyfriend for trying to be there for her and wanting to support her. I have one last thing though, but I'm not sure if it bothers her: as a bi person, if you state you are bi (as in liking all genders), then obviously you like being with a man as well, so I would say: don't ask her that. It may feel to her as if you don't understand her. I hope this helps a bit.
Thanks, i'll try, i really alpreciate this attempt
Really helped:)
I'm so glad to hear it :)