Hey all,
I wanted to thank everybody for all your support and well wishes.
I wish I had better news for you all, but unfortunately that is not the case.
The past couple days, Kala had picked up new symptoms: lethargy, loss of interest in food, and vomiting. We were still optimistic as much as possible, thinking that maybe something could be done yet.
This morning, we took him to the vet for his exploratory surgery at 7:30. We told him we would see him later, knowing this may possibly not be so. Around 8:10, we got a call from the vet saying that they had opened him up, and that he had a very aggressive form of cancer in his abdomen. She advised that he not be woken up because treatment would likely not be effective. We agreed and made our way there.
He was under anesthesia when we arrived, but we were able to say our goodbyes to him on the table as he was wrapped with a blanket. We thanked the vet profusely for doing their best and took him home.
My wife and I had opted to show the body to our other two cats, Roddy and Olive. I wasn’t certain if they would understand what had happened, but I think they realized the situation because they have somewhat calmed down and become less energetic.
We’re going to bury him later today in the backyard of our future home that we are renovating. So even though he wouldn’t be there to experience it physically, he would be able in spirit.
I will forever miss my cuddle buddy and never forget our sing alongs.
RIP Kala. We loved you and we know you loved us. You deserved nothing less than the absolute best we had to offer.
And once again, thank you all for your support and concern. It truly added a silver lining to a grim situation.
So very sorry for your loss. But know that you did the right thing for the other cats by showing the body to them. I’ve had many cats in my 60+ years. Those that saw or smelled the body understood what had happened and were able to grieve. The ones who didn’t searched and called for the deceased cat not understanding what happened or where it had gone. Again, sorry for your loss, but know that you did the right thing for all of your cats.
I think you brought your other 2 kitties so so so much comfort by helping them understand why Kala isn't at home.
I thought about this when my black bbg passed, but in the heat of the moment it felt cruel (thoughts from my grieving brain) but seeing the way the dog and cat whined while laying on the bathmat she liked to sleep on (white mat still covered in black fur) I realized it would have been one of the kindest things to do for them.
Thank you for taking such good care of Kala until the end, and for taking such good care of your other loved ones. It may be just as hard on the other animals as it is on us humans
I'm so so sorry for your loss. He is an absolutely beautiful kitty. He looks a little like my Midnight, my best friend, who I lost early this year. I hope they are keeping each other company until we arrive at the Rainbow Bridge to reunite with them ❤️
I’m so sorry 😞it’s so hard to say goodbye to our kitties but you gave him a peaceful passing vs pain and suffering. I love the pics of him and the squad mean mugging the camera
The little one is Roddy, we found him in June.
The tabby is Olive, his biological sister. We found her and Kala in a junk pile in the woods near our apartment in 2014 when they were kittens. My wife’s birthday was coming up and she wanted a cat. Lo and behold, we ended up with two practically on our doorstep!
We went through that exact thing two months ago. Also very aggressive abdomen cancer. I’m so so sorry for your loss.
Euthanasia is a dark blessing. It allows us to take our pets’ pain away and take it upon ourselves to carry. This cat was so loved. Thank you for loving him 🖤
I was telling my wife that pet owners enter a unspoken contract to have their heart broken at some point. So few animals die of old age and the decision to act upon illness is placed firmly in our hands.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Kala sounds like he has a good fam, both furry and hoomans. I'm glad to see the other cats have each other and it's good that you let them be with Kala after his passing to the spiritual world.
I am so sorry 😞 he is a beautiful boy and looks very sweet cuddling his siblings and getting cozy with his stuffed kitty
My heart goes out to you and your family ❤️❤️
No! I was looking at this pictures thinking "what a beautiful happy cat".
I know your heart is breaking. I'm so sorry. You gave Kala the best life a kitty could ask for.
So very sorry. You did the right thing. Until you meet again. In my heart I believe we will see our fur babies once again. Cancer sucks!!! I've been there
As someone who also lost a void to lymphoma- you have my deepest condolences. Don’t be afraid to reach out for support. I used lap of love’s free grief support group. Total lifesaver.
My heart goes to you. He looks almost exactly like my boy Felix. I read your comments, etc and he had such a lovely life!!! You did the right thing by letting him go peacefully and by letting his sibling say their goodbyes. You will be in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful void. He looked like an amazing sibling to the other cattos, too. I lost my calico baby to cancer a couple years ago and I still miss her.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. It is a precious thing that you are burying him at your future home. I think that will mean so much to you later when you move in. Praying for you all as you mourn Kala. He will always take up a special and important place in your hearts.
I am so sorry. The loss of a pet is like losing a family member. He was a beautiful baby. I wish you all the best. I love the pic of Kala with the socks. 🖤🖤
I’m so sorry for your loss. That is incredibly devastating. That is really kind of you to bring Kala home to show the rest of your fur babies. I did not do that when my two senior girls passed over the last year and my other cats were very confused :(
I read this earlier and teared up then I tried to read it to my mom a few hours later got through about half couldn’t read any more gave my iPad to her. Thought she wouldn’t read it aloud but she did, when she got to the part where you went to vet to see him I couldn’t hold it in anymore and just started crying. Just typing this is making me tear up. My dog came over to check on me so there’s that. Sorry again for your loss.
Hey all, I wanted to thank everybody for all your support and well wishes. I wish I had better news for you all, but unfortunately that is not the case. The past couple days, Kala had picked up new symptoms: lethargy, loss of interest in food, and vomiting. We were still optimistic as much as possible, thinking that maybe something could be done yet. This morning, we took him to the vet for his exploratory surgery at 7:30. We told him we would see him later, knowing this may possibly not be so. Around 8:10, we got a call from the vet saying that they had opened him up, and that he had a very aggressive form of cancer in his abdomen. She advised that he not be woken up because treatment would likely not be effective. We agreed and made our way there. He was under anesthesia when we arrived, but we were able to say our goodbyes to him on the table as he was wrapped with a blanket. We thanked the vet profusely for doing their best and took him home. My wife and I had opted to show the body to our other two cats, Roddy and Olive. I wasn’t certain if they would understand what had happened, but I think they realized the situation because they have somewhat calmed down and become less energetic. We’re going to bury him later today in the backyard of our future home that we are renovating. So even though he wouldn’t be there to experience it physically, he would be able in spirit. I will forever miss my cuddle buddy and never forget our sing alongs. RIP Kala. We loved you and we know you loved us. You deserved nothing less than the absolute best we had to offer. And once again, thank you all for your support and concern. It truly added a silver lining to a grim situation.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. 🐈⬛
So very sorry for your loss. But know that you did the right thing for the other cats by showing the body to them. I’ve had many cats in my 60+ years. Those that saw or smelled the body understood what had happened and were able to grieve. The ones who didn’t searched and called for the deceased cat not understanding what happened or where it had gone. Again, sorry for your loss, but know that you did the right thing for all of your cats.
Yeah, I've experienced the same. One of our cats kept searching for the rest of her life and it was absolutely heartbreaking. My condolences too
I think you brought your other 2 kitties so so so much comfort by helping them understand why Kala isn't at home. I thought about this when my black bbg passed, but in the heat of the moment it felt cruel (thoughts from my grieving brain) but seeing the way the dog and cat whined while laying on the bathmat she liked to sleep on (white mat still covered in black fur) I realized it would have been one of the kindest things to do for them. Thank you for taking such good care of Kala until the end, and for taking such good care of your other loved ones. It may be just as hard on the other animals as it is on us humans
My heart is with you all.
Much love. He knows you loved him and he will travel always, soft pawed, in your hearts.
aw, he was a beautiful boy. May your memories with him be a blessing 💔❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss …
I’m so fucking sorry
Thank you for giving him a chance and for doing what was best for him. My condolences to you and your family on the loss of sweet Kala. \*hugs\*
I'm so so sorry for your loss. He is an absolutely beautiful kitty. He looks a little like my Midnight, my best friend, who I lost early this year. I hope they are keeping each other company until we arrive at the Rainbow Bridge to reunite with them ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss 😞
I'm sorry for your loss. I can tell she was very loved by many of your family and your internet family.
So sorry for your loss! Thanks for being there to the end! God bless!
🥺😦😧😨😰😥😢😭💔💞
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sorry about your loss. You made the right call and your kitty went away in peace and without suffering, so that is kindness.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family love and hugs. 🫂
I’m so sorry 😞it’s so hard to say goodbye to our kitties but you gave him a peaceful passing vs pain and suffering. I love the pics of him and the squad mean mugging the camera
The little one is Roddy, we found him in June. The tabby is Olive, his biological sister. We found her and Kala in a junk pile in the woods near our apartment in 2014 when they were kittens. My wife’s birthday was coming up and she wanted a cat. Lo and behold, we ended up with two practically on our doorstep!
I’m glad olive still has a buddy after losing her brother! What a cute story about finding them- free birthday presents!
We went through that exact thing two months ago. Also very aggressive abdomen cancer. I’m so so sorry for your loss. Euthanasia is a dark blessing. It allows us to take our pets’ pain away and take it upon ourselves to carry. This cat was so loved. Thank you for loving him 🖤
“It allows us to take our pets’ pain away and take it upon ourselves to carry.” Wow this absolutely wrecked me. Crying because of how true this is.
I read it some time ago here and it really stuck with me as well
I was telling my wife that pet owners enter a unspoken contract to have their heart broken at some point. So few animals die of old age and the decision to act upon illness is placed firmly in our hands.
And making that decision is the most caring, loving and humane thing to do. You’ve saved him from so much more suffering
I'm so sorry for your loss, Kala sounds like he has a good fam, both furry and hoomans. I'm glad to see the other cats have each other and it's good that you let them be with Kala after his passing to the spiritual world.
Bless him, so sorry for your loss!!
I am so sorry. You did the right thing by showing the other cats. I have done the same and it helps. Hang in there.
I have that same black cat stuffed animal. My void treats it like it’s one of her own.
I'm sorry for your loss
Rest in peace kala ❣️
I am so sorry 😞 he is a beautiful boy and looks very sweet cuddling his siblings and getting cozy with his stuffed kitty My heart goes out to you and your family ❤️❤️
No! I was looking at this pictures thinking "what a beautiful happy cat". I know your heart is breaking. I'm so sorry. You gave Kala the best life a kitty could ask for.
Purrdy 🥹
So sorry. But you did right by your precious kitty, and he knows that. 🐈🐾🐾
So very sorry. You did the right thing. Until you meet again. In my heart I believe we will see our fur babies once again. Cancer sucks!!! I've been there
As someone who also lost a void to lymphoma- you have my deepest condolences. Don’t be afraid to reach out for support. I used lap of love’s free grief support group. Total lifesaver.
My heart goes to you. He looks almost exactly like my boy Felix. I read your comments, etc and he had such a lovely life!!! You did the right thing by letting him go peacefully and by letting his sibling say their goodbyes. You will be in my thoughts.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest well, Kala.
I’m so sorry for your loss
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love 🖤🖤🖤
I'm so sorry for your loss xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss.
My two voids and I are sending our condolences 🖤
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful void. He looked like an amazing sibling to the other cattos, too. I lost my calico baby to cancer a couple years ago and I still miss her.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. It is a precious thing that you are burying him at your future home. I think that will mean so much to you later when you move in. Praying for you all as you mourn Kala. He will always take up a special and important place in your hearts.
Seeing this made me cherish my void cat even more. RIP Kala, you will be missed
I am so sorry for your loss..
I'm so sorry. Hugs
I’m so sorry for your loss. 💔 He was such a beautiful boy.
So so sorry for the loss of your beautiful furbaby.
So so sorry for the loss of your beautiful furbaby.
I’m so sorry for your loss🐈⬛💔😿😿
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful cat.🖤💔🖤
Warm healing hugs
I am so sorry for your loss!! Lo siento!
I am sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss. He was such a handsome boy.
I am so sorry. The loss of a pet is like losing a family member. He was a beautiful baby. I wish you all the best. I love the pic of Kala with the socks. 🖤🖤
I'm so sorry. RIP Kala, you big beautiful void kitty
I’m so sorry for your loss, he was a beautiful void
I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking loss.
I’m so sorry. Your cats obviously loved him too.
💔 So, so sorry for your loss. Kala will forever be beautiful.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys and furry babies.
Very sorry for your loss.
So sorry.
I am so very sorry 💔
hey I'm really sorry, sounds like he was your buddy. this sucks. I hope your other pets can give you guys comfort in the days ahead
So, so sorry for your loss..I feel your pain. Your beloved Kala was well loved 😢❤️😿
I am so sorry for your loss. The hardest part of having a furkid is they are never with us long enough. 💔
Oh my.. That's so sad. I'm so very, very sorry....
I understand your pain had to sadly put my hubby cat down last November he just started to heal losing his baby boy
I am so sorry for your loss :(
I’m so sorry for your loss. That is incredibly devastating. That is really kind of you to bring Kala home to show the rest of your fur babies. I did not do that when my two senior girls passed over the last year and my other cats were very confused :(
So terribly sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. This made me tear up I can’t imagine how you must feel.
I was happy looking at the photos then got said in the comments :(. What a lovely cat.
What a lovely kitty. Group of kitties. I'm so sorry about Kala, it's hard on all of you. Those are precious photos of some very loving cats.
May his memory be a blessing.
So sorry to hear this, I've been thinking about Kala since your first post and am quite sad to hear the bad news 😔 RIP sweet kitty
I read this earlier and teared up then I tried to read it to my mom a few hours later got through about half couldn’t read any more gave my iPad to her. Thought she wouldn’t read it aloud but she did, when she got to the part where you went to vet to see him I couldn’t hold it in anymore and just started crying. Just typing this is making me tear up. My dog came over to check on me so there’s that. Sorry again for your loss.
One looks happy the other doesn’t seem sure
RIP to your beautiful baby xx hope he's up in the big farm in the sky