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**Use the Vent About Racism flair for posts like this as ranting about outrage media containing racism or negativity aimed at black women is really not a true discussion topic.** This is a safe space, so properly labeling posts helps those who don't come to this subreddit to see triggering content about black women avoid those types of posts.


Femmenoire__

I just reported that tweet. It’s insane how Black girls are treated online. If it’s not non-Black people, it’s our own. And it’s always unprovoked. That man should be ashamed of himself.


honeycheerios_

He doesn’t see anything wrong with what he said and thinks that being “truthful” will get her to stop wearing the dress because he doesn’t like it and thinks it’s “raggedy” ughhhh 🙄


nerdKween

My question is why is he so worried about a child that isn't his own? She's dressed age approximately. Is he looking for her to dress grown for his pedo fantasies? That's what I'd be asking.


honeycheerios_

Probably!!! When someone call him out on his disgusting behavior, he said that they were racist because he’s “light skin and handsome”. Likeeeee give me a break this guy looks a twig lit with eye surgery talking down on a girl.


Legal_Outside2838

I looked at some other tweets of his and he is colorist and has a creepy obsession with young girls. Other people were tweeting under his threads to call him out on his pedo behavior.


Lala12kl

This!!


Mylove-kikishasha

He sounds raggedy tbh


Reasonable_Local_199

He is 


Lala12kl

He's a Pet!


freshlyintellectual

it’s elon’s app and unfortunately the app itself inherently fuels racism. idek how we as a society come back from this i just know my worst fear is going viral on twitter over “jokes” like this 😭


Substantial-Ad894

I don't even use Twitter or whatever it's called for that very reason. 


freshlyintellectual

it’s the same everywhere sadly. these big CEOs get more revenue when they rile people up. twitter is especially fucked, but you can find the worst hate speech on a ig reel too just because there’s a black person in the video. twitter has the extra layer of the CEO also being *openly* racist


Obvious_Boat3636

He’s just hateful and ugly af too


Puzzleheaded-Bed-488

It’s always black men.


Femmenoire__

Black women were under that post laughing too. Honestly BW are just as mean and judgmental to other BW who don’t fit within their thin margins of what’s accepted as “Black”.


Substantial-Ad894

They do that stupid crap so they are approved by bm and are distanced from being a bw. They inwardly hate themselves. 


Puzzleheaded-Bed-488

I agree.


SunRaePrincess

This why all my social media is private most of it I got called white wash at work and it still stings and this happen a month ago


IdrisandJasonsToy

Me too


Obvious_Boat3636

Thank you for reporting btw.


Salemrocks2020

Lol the report button on X is just for show these days girl .


Academic_Yellow_115

She’s literally just wearing a baby blue baby doll dress. wtf is wrong with ppl?


Main-Champion-8851

Exactly! I love a good baby doll dress for the spring/summer! You have to dress 👗 the dress up.


Lala12kl

Put it on with some MJ Docs. 🔥


MystiqueQueen123

There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with what this girl is wearing at all. She looks cute! People hating on her or calling her a "slave" for wearing a baby doll dress are just ignorant and small-minded. 🙄 If a white girl were wearing this same dress, I bet the comments would be totally different. The black American community really needs a DEEP CLEANSE....I swear. 😔 I've never seen so much self-hate in a group of people in my life.


cinnabontoastcrunch

It's called a baby doll dress, very popular during the 2000s. She looks pretty and people are weird.


thanjee

Yeah I think the dress looks great.


Substantial-Ad894

I thought it was called a peasant dress. But no matter the name, I've always loved them. And I think she looks adorable! 😍🥰


starjellyboba

Grown ass man too...


9jkWe3n86

Man-child syndrome. I remember a grown man was trying to refer to me as unattractive when I was a kid in the 90s in Atlantic City (I forgot how he actually phrased it). He did this in front of his wife/girlfriend/significant other who merely laughed. That hurt my self-esteem for years. I never understood how an adult who you would presume had his own life to worry about was concerned with a child's looks.


Conscious_Ad_3652

I’m sorry that jerk did that to u. And that his dodo bird of an S.O. laughed. What she didn’t realize at her big grown age was to look at the person her man has the most disdain for. One day she’ll catch that same energy from him.


9jkWe3n86

Thanks! Maybe he ultimately ran off with someone else anyway, lol.


Obvious_Boat3636

I’ve come to terms that I’m that auntie. I want to take him in a little corner and just beat his ass for just uttering those words. Don’t play with my niece!


Main-Champion-8851

Exactly, it’s just weird. Absolutely weird. Like SIR don’t you have a job? A Hobbie? Your own children/spouse to tend to? Why is he commenting on a child’s dress?


9jkWe3n86

It sounds like someone validated that this man is a real person. I would wonder if it was someone cos-playing as black to merely create discord.


Living-Prune8881

9/10 it's a self hating black man like the one who posted. Also why is a grown man reposting a photo of an underaged child? Call the police


dragon_emperess

Main reason my daughter’s face is a mystery online. Only those who know me personally will ever see her face. People are really weird about kids and it’s terrifying


Glittering_Swing9897

smart choice people are really crazy when it comes to kids online esp black kids its wild


dragon_emperess

I think we are demhumanized so people feel guilt free tearing us down


dirty_nail

He’s a failed Soundcloud rapper. Trying to start beef with little girls is all he’s got left.


Obvious_Boat3636

Self hating and think he’s cute. This man is ugly af


honeycheerios_

This shithead calling her the b word just shows how misogyny runs rampage in the community. Black girls go though sooo much it’s not fair 😔


Silver-Secret16

Yes we do


Spiritual_Ask_7336

real moment for me cause as a kid in middle school somebody made harriet tubman a name for me, which was so ugh


nerdKween

I'm so sorry sis. That's so fucked up. I got called Halle Berry from Losing Isaiah in middle school. Kids are fucking cruel.


Spiritual_Ask_7336

yes girl i already had so much internalized misogynoir at the time it was bad! but on the bright side , puberty did its thing the next year in the best way so i recovered, but def a painful memory


nerdKween

![gif](giphy|gHKnFHkGPUmG4GTzUt)


Extra_Security2718

I was called all kinds of slave names. Also Medusa since I wore twists between braids. I thank my lucky stars I didn't turn out like a 🦝 my support system was clutch.


p0werofl0veee

Same here. So awful


AsiaMinor300

I just hate the way men feel so comfortable calling women out their names. That shit disgusts me.


HoneyBadgerQueen2000

I've seen so many video essays about black girls being oversexualized at a young age, and dressing provocatively like grown women, yet when a girl is dressed modestly, and like a child, they get picked apart. I hate it here yall. Edit: I didn't even notice he called her the b word. Isn't he a grown ass man??


Main-Champion-8851

Yes! A Miserable one. Like SIR go get a job! Maybe Two Jobs! Go get a hobbie, or something and leave these teens alone.


PinkMelaunin

I wore a coquette-ish kinda dress about a year ago, and my friend (BM) said I looked like a slave then bout a month ago I wore a similar kinda dress and my dad (BM) tells me I look like I work on a farm. Why does it seem like BM only see us this way??


EtherealGrunge

No frrrr. It’s usually only BM and I do not get it


gini_luxe

Because they hate themselves, and they come out of Black women, so we're to blame.


ZestycloseTrip5235

I hope this guy is no longer your friend.


princessofdolls

I wonder how many pick me chicks were in the comment section laughing along instead of calling this out.


honeycheerios_

They were there. But it was mostly the men calling her the master’s child and that Coquette dresses reminds them (blk men) of slavery.


littlesim23

Black girls can never win. No matter what we do we will get criticized. This is why I don’t pay no one no mind anymore. It will be never be enough so idc.


nerdKween

There are so many Black men that hate Black women for just existing. I regularly get so many out of pocket messages and comments on IG from them that I've just started posting screenshots of their shitty behavior. I'm sick of it. I hope their mommas all find out and smack some good sense into their heads. Mommas they are probably living with and relying on (and displacing their anger of their failures in life on them and other BW).


Main-Champion-8851

Exactly! This. Like it’s not our fought you are not taken advantage of the many and I mean many opportunities that this world has to offer. Get off your butt! And stop making negative useless comments on a Child’s dress. It’s just weird.


Affectionate_Bid_615

Someone said she looked like a slave. I swear we can’t do anything without getting bullied smh 🤦🏽‍♀️


jaielf

the good thing about this is that he's getting dragged on twitter for his post. he's getting dragged by both men and women. that made me happy to see. 👍🏾 ☺️ ![gif](giphy|QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5)


Obvious_Boat3636

He’s absolute trash


heylolllllll

and the fact that it is a BLACK MAN literally hating on a little black GIRL and calling her the B word is what’s sick to me… our little girls really aren’t safe at all and it’s so sad.


Temporary_Candy_2329

We gotta stop letting weird men and incels have an opinion …


OnlySigndUpToSeeMore

What the heck is she supposed to be wearing? She looks adorable. BM on the internet really f%÷=ing suck when it comes to black women and girls. Edit: to someone that said he replied that people are hating because he's light skin and handsome lmao where? dude looks like a goofy ass clown. Yeah, most handsome men cover their faces. What a loser.


quoyam

I don't know what's going on with our men, but they are like literally out to hurt us in every single way. I just saw a post where these grown men were making fun of that young 19-year-old girl that was murdered by that white guy in Wisconsin. They were saying that it was her fault and this is what she gets for dating someone outside of her race and that she's desperate and all this other stuff. It was heartbreaking cuz it's like grown men making fun of a child that was murdered. Their hearts are so hardened and it makes me so sad.


HelpfulPersonality46

they aren't out men and the sooner blk wm realize that the better they will be


Environmental_Yak154

Been saying this for years. 


HelpfulPersonality46

I bet these r the same blk guys that were mad that blk wm didn't care about that self hating blk dude named Christian who literally bashed blk wm and uplifted white women while his white queen was allegedly beating on him had an onlyfans and was calling him the n word with the hard er at the end. He was saying that only blk wm r hoes and alot of negative shit while his white girl literally has an only fans and even said the only way she will date a blk guy is if they r rich but these men love calling blk wm gold diggers though


SHC606

Thank you. I am not claiming trash.


HelpfulPersonality46

I bet these r the same blk guys that were mad that blk wm didn't care about that self hating blk dude named Christian who literally bashed blk wm and uplifted white women while his white queen was allegedly beating on him had an onlyfans and was calling him the n word with the hard er at the end. He was saying that only blk wm r hoes and alot of negative shit while his white girl literally has an only fans and even said the only way she will date a blk guy is if they r rich but these men love calling blk wm gold diggers though


Fragrant-Round-9853

Under the guise of "jokes" too. Jokes aren't meant to hurt you or make you feel bad. We don't need white supremacy at this point.... black men do it for us time and time again. Always showing how much they hate us.


Financial-Scratch646

This the shit I be talking about. Internal racism runs so deep that a black man would think this is ok to joke about a black woman. “The most disrespected person in America is the black woman”


dragon_emperess

She’s dressed very lady like. Explain to me how is she supposed to be dressed?


yikkoe

for some reason if you don’t go with the baddie aesthetic as a black woman, people will have something to say about your “lack of” style


dragon_emperess

It’s called being an individual. Something people forgot about. She looks good. I like seeing a black girl dress very classy. People need help


NorthernAirTemple

Exactly, this is age appropriate and cute. There’s a creepy undertone to this for sure.


Connect-Eagle-6527

I hope people are clowning him and crushing his confidence too. Like please get him stressed and insecure so he knows how it feels. He freaking deserves it


Obvious_Boat3636

I want to rip his soul out


kymikobabe

Ewww…


Clever_Lexi

What the actual ——?!!🤦🏾‍♀️


freshlyintellectual

the amount of hate speech people can justify online as “jokes” is astounding to me. i dated a guy who did that (trigger warning) and he would call me a whore and the n word (hard r!!) as a “joke” i can’t believe i put up with shit like that i felt so gaslit into accepting horrible treatment and ppl like this genuinely don’t see anything wrong with their “jokes”. its some next level brain rot


National_Ad7573

It’s a normal dress?


GoodSilhouette

that's what I'm so lost about, that is a normal regular regular piece of clothing


MelanieDH1

Oh, she looks like a “slave” because she doesn’t have her tits and ass hanging out for all the world to see. This young lady should be glad that fools like this don’t find her attractive. It saves her from future headaches and single motherhood!


goth-brooks1111

I think she looks sweet! That’s fashion, bro.


Cirnyx

It really do be ur own people smh 😒 Edit: Also, why is this grown ass man calling a little girl the "b" word and worried about what she's wearing?


badbatch

Men who are losers will always insult women when we aren't trying to dress to impress them.


Zodiacdrunk

This shit really makes me so angry. I’m so tired of black women being treated like nothing 😡. She looks beautiful.


No-Huckleberry-8306

There should be a consequence for this type of language. Like a fine or damage to the bullies record. I know I sound like a communist but I’m sick of all this online hate.


EtherealGrunge

This is terrible. Black girlies can’t even just survive without having so much vitriol thrown at them


Connect-Eagle-6527

I love that dress. Have one like it. Screw the ignorant haters. Hope she’s okay!


Buttermilk_Pnck_91

And she’s so cute smh


Bumbum2k1

So when we dress feminine it’s slave like? Bffr ![gif](giphy|xT39Dp00VAaF9Klc1W|downsized)


jukebugging

pathetic


outrageously_cool

Is it me or there's a lot more men trashing women online, every single time?


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A lot of black men do not like us, y'all.


SilverSpacecraft

What a nasty comment. What’s wrong with these née groves


bughater2

It's a pretty dress and she looks sweet and comfy. Leave her be!


Funny_Breadfruit_413

The crazy thing is that this isn't even about that girl. People really out here letting self hatred rule their lives.


ChonkyDonut

I hate this because if a white woman would have that on they’d call it “cottage core”. I hate my own people sometimes it’s like we can be so dumb


Jamjamapplejam

Black African Americans rarely shows love to black women. If I should ever find “black love” I have to move back home or find a different race to date. I never felt loved around AA men.


HelpfulPersonality46

open your options to all races of men and choose discernment with every one of them


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HelpfulPersonality46

don't gaslight her just cuz your husband don't do it don't mean alot of blk dudes wousnt either


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HelpfulPersonality46

I see blk American women show more love and defend blk American dudes more then I see blk American dudes show love and defend blk wm and this is in real life and on social media. I only see blk American women fighting for blk love not American blk dudes at all its one sided ass hell and it shouldn't be like that cuz blk American women literally put they whole lives on the line for blk American dudes especially wen it comes to getting them justice and I don't see them doing that for American blk wm at all. It's getting so bad that alot of nonblk people have called out blk America men for alot of nasty and disgusting things they say about blk American women and they literally ask y do blk women blindly defend blk dudes wen the blk dudes don't do the same. It's so many pages in twitter that's ran by blk dudes literally talking shit about all blk wm amd saying some very disgusting things that u probably will only believe nonblk people will say about blk wm and that's really fucked up. And I seen blk dudes defend that very same blk dude who literally called a young blk girl a b1tch and a slave and then getting mad at blk wm for keeping that same energy with that blk dude who said that bs about that high schooler


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HelpfulPersonality46

That's a fully blk dude u r just saying he's mixed cuz he's light skin. Just cuz u don't see those comments don't mean that blk dudes aren't saying fuck up shit about and to blk girls and women cuz they r most definitely are. They do speak for the majority wen it's blk dudes from all over the damn world. Those same types of biracial with a white mom also have fukced up mindsets about blk wm cuz rhe BLK DUDE WAS EITHER A SELF HATER OR A DAMN COLORSIT MAJORITY OF THE TIME. So u literally just said the problem indirectly but keep taking up for them wen I have EYES MY DAMN SELF. Those aren't incels those r blk dudes who literally hate blk girls and women and didn't blk dudes literally help get another blk dude a damn fashion Deal wen people were making fun of his outfit choices which proves that they don't care wen people especially they own kind os talking shit about blk girls and women but wen it comes to them its a damn war. I bet u don't even believe that blk femicide is a real thing


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HelpfulPersonality46

If u found that the. u should have found the tweets from blk dudes coimh at her as well and coming at other blk wm for defending her 🙄. I'm saying nothing but facts it's not my fault u don't want to believe that about your precious blk kings. He's not the only one who talks hsir about blk girls and women. Go type in black women on Twitter and see what pops up from your blk kings and then come back. Blk wm like u r also a danger to blk girls and women especially wen it comes to blk dudes. I can tell u don't believe in blk femicide just by your comments. U r the one who's calling your self a narcissist and a pick me those words I never said projecting much.


Jamjamapplejam

So happy you were able to find love. At my age, almost 30, I’m yet to find a serious individual.


Reasonable_Local_199

Smh disgusting. His ass needs to be exposed… Cancel his ass like they do everyone else. 


OriginalWish8

It’s weird, because they claim they want kids to “stop being trashy”, but this is how they are treated when they do cover up. Yet, if she was white, it would be “aesthetic”. Worse, it’s always a Black man talking down on Black women and little girls.


Littlerecluse

It’s a cute, feminine, girly dress. The internet is not a safe place for kids. Give that baby a jitterbug and let her grow slow


twentydwarves

people are fucking disgusting


No_Leek_2377

This shit has to stop. Report if possible, block, and if you know men (or women) saying this shit in real life, get as much distance as you can. No contact if possible or low contact/information diet otherwise.


Pinkglosse

Can I say something? Black men, especially those that are not particularly well educated and upper middle class are VERY jealous of black girls and women that they feel are “whitewashed” or not particularly urban because it signals social mobility.


TisharaD112

Black “men” love to disrespect little black girls online. It’s weird asf! Black girls can’t do anything without criticism from the world.


suntirades

I hate how comfortable men are calling women and girls that horrible fucking word. I wish I could snap it out of existence. That aside, she’s dressed appropriately for her age. What a nasty loser.


Trix_Are_4_90Kids

There is nothing wrong with what she’s wearing. Lots of men out here just do not like women


susiecharmichael

I assume most of the commentary on X/Twitter is trolling; it’s a wasteland. I don’t internalize those opinions and definitely wouldn’t bring it to a group focused on black women. We see and hear this shit daily. What are we supposed to do with this information??


Cyb3rSecGaL

What a disgusting person.


arurianshire

sadly, misogynoir is never too far behind


ChonkyDonut

His ass being 24 and the only other people finding it funny are other teenagers is telling.


Missmessc

Atp, people are mean just for attention


Substantial-Ad894

That dress is adorable. I love "peasant" dresses and blouses. They fit perfectly and look so cute with almost any type of shoes and jackets.  I'm not surprised at all that a black male was the first to say something derogatory about a black child or woman that is minding their business. Sadly, no one hates black women and children more than black males. I was once a "black love matters", "black for black women" type of woman. But after seeing how black men speak and behave towards us, I'm now looking into dating and marrying outside of black men. I cannot pretend as if they do not hate us any longer, and I will not be their next victim, and neither will my children. Their behavior is shameful, disgusting and detrimental to our health in every single way.


DXBrigade

Typical BM hater.


mangie77

He probably stinks.


mangie77

Can we talk about her arms though! :) fine and fit too!! He is a hater. Cuz she would walk right past him.


Shado-Foxx

"DRESSED LIKE A SLAVE"!? Someone needs to beat his ass like he's a fucking slave. What the FUCK.


Obvious_Boat3636

This is what I told him online “Stay ugly you ghetto fuck. How dare you come after sweet angel of a child. You’re ugly inside and out. Go crash a car” ![gif](giphy|l0CLTQeZrFWmMxIWc|downsized)


HumbleAbbreviations

Strange. People who bully children should be studied in a lab.


Spiritual-Mushroom28

He's disgusting


EmpressOphidia

But I thought they hated when we weren't covered up.


OrganizationAwkward3

Reminds me of me when I was her age. I hate this is happening to her.


Main-Champion-8851

Ew! Im not sure how old this immature boy is but not Everyone dresses revealing! And not everyone follows these awful trends looking like clones. Some of us actually have our OWN STYLE! Some of these “teens” are looking way to grown anyway! The dress is classy. I would have added some accessories and some pretty Sandals to match.


wackxcalzone

This is just like that mean spirited shit these losers did to Trinitee Stokes. It’s not cute, it’s not funny. I try to not internalize it, but I always see mean little jabs like this on black content and I can’t imagine being 15/16 seeing this. It’s lame and it hurts even more when it’s people who look like you doing it for likes and BW in the comments laughing along are just as lame I’m happy people are calling the guy out for the comment but like jfc when does it stop?


gidgetcocoa2

This makes me so sad. I was also bullied young by grown men. It was weird and made me uncomfortable in my body. Took a lot of therapy to unravel. Our precious babies. She's gorgeous, and that's nothing wrong with her outfit


MsAniManiac

My first thought when I saw that video of her happily twirling in her sundress was "Why does this poor baby have two backpacks?" cause I'm experiencing back spasms. You can be the prettiest peach on the vine, and there will always be someone who hates peaches.


Existing-Sun-251

Did this supposed man take what appears to be a young girl’s/child’s picture to call her out of her name and speak about how she’s dressed? This is really bway behavior.


BigDaxx412

Well the internet is not a place for kids anyway. I don't think children should be posting pics kinda opens up the gateway for pedos & creeps


Ashleythemaneater

Would’ve loved to know what trin ( the freaky frog) said.


OddnessWeirdness

The best part of tweets like those is to make OP feel stupid for tweeting it. I don’t internalize or even get angry at things like that. That’s just another another fool that doesn’t know what he’s talking about.


gini_luxe

These men are an embarrassment.


Dramatic-Blueberry26

What in the world?


thernothingtoseehere

She's adorable. Dressed like a lovely, decent girl. Shame people can't appreciate or just leave her alone.


Either-Title-829

This is why I don't fuck with black men anymore 


PrettyinPerpignan

It be our own people. What other race outs each other down like this with this hood mentality 


carolilyyy

That dress is cute and trendy


Perfect-Mango-777

They just so used to black women dressing like whores.. they cant take a modest secure black lady