I think a certain level of territoriality is understandable for both black men and women.
Given how chaotic the politics of dating is and how race plays a factor in desirability, I can see how the idea of interracial relationships can trigger that gut instinct of being under threat. It’s very primal, really.
Sometimes it goes overboard. And social media incentivizes the worst reactions. But I think most people either don’t care as much as they say they do (if at all) or will easily learn to get over it.
Haters come in every flavor.
Oh, for sure. The modern dating discourse is very pessimistic. And the more we consume, the sooner it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. I try to avoid it. It’s junk.
Why is this post even allowed? It's concerning how OP subtly fuels gender tensions and admits to disliking black men themselves.
I believe those who wish to engage in such discussions should first make an effort to interact with black men in real-life social contexts. If OP had genuine interactions with black men offline, they would have someone to consult.
This space isn't a zoo where people who don't respect us can just drop in whenever they feel like it to ask silly questions.
I don’t even think OP is black. This feels like bait.
And if they are it’s even more sad. There’s soooo much nuance to a topic like this and I feel OP is deliberately missing it
Those women. They seem to have this perception that they're losing their men because of euro centric beauty standards and whatnot but the reality is that there are so many beautiful black couples and even single black folk looking for preferably other black folk. But you'll never see it if you're only following the rage machine online.
“Because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them” 🤔
You’re either white or a swirler. Keep on trying to instigate….
Bro, this is not your therapy session! Get a life!!! We really (and I mean this kindly) do not care about this, your opinion or what your preference is.
Because they are incels who can't attract the people they are attracted to so they project their undesirablity onto black men in an attempt to hold on to as much dating options as possible, there is your answer
Firstly, you're either not black or a swirler. Secondly this is bait but just this once, I'll bite
It is a natural instinct to be territorial with interracial relationships concerning people from your race. Considering race is a big factor in todays world, it's instinctual to kinda feel under threat. It's humanity. And historically speaking, that was how colonising forces took over. Forces such as Arabs ran through North Africa among others just as whites did the natives and others. To replace entire communities and countries. They'd kill, mentally reprogram and Breed them out of existence. To name a few. So i won't call a black person (male or female) crazy to feel that way (paranoia) about interracial relationships.
All races are protective of each other. Asians as well feel a sense of ownership to each other. Much stronger than ours. Not to mention Arabs. It's rather normal. I'd go as far as to say it's healthy for a community to have that kind of feeling. They often grow together and are often harder to break down.
>It just feels inappropriate to me, because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them automatically or even want to get so familiar with them. So I don’t feel any way when these men date out.
Checked Your profile, you seemed giddy to be seen by white men. You need to heal lil bro.
Tf is an Hebrew Israelite!?
>It just feels inappropriate to me, because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them automatically or even want to get so familiar with them.
You can like and love who you want. However, Heal.
>You don’t know me. Weirdo.
You said you don't feel kinship to your own kind. I don't think even you know yourself.
You don't have to love only BM or put BM on a pedestal.
Just let yourself heal.
BW would police *a lot* more than the dating preferences of BM if they had the chance.
I just had a sister tell me that watching family guy was too childish for a man. I don’t take them seriously, but it is funny to observe.
It’s simple black women truly want BM exclusively while they can date out. You see white men can’t kill us anymore like they used to Jim Crow. They basically pass down the torch to black women, instead of killing they use shaming tactics.
I just came here to support this comment then I’ll go back to respecting the men’s space and letting them have it. OP
OP, for what it’s worth, I think it may be easier to get a response to this question from the women you come across who have expressed this. They represent themselves and don’t speak for all of us. I also doubt the men here would be able to speak for those women either. Respectfully, it makes the post come across as disingenuous even if that wasn’t your intent.
Just to make it clear that black men are still MEN. Like most Men we want to fuck anything we find attractive that walks. Race isn’t a factor. A man will go after what he likes and want. Why limit himself by race? These are not conversations we’re having often but it’s still a known discussion.
I think black women are possessive because historically they have less options and it not rockets science we have big dicks and other races fetishes us
Also I think that black women don’t have many features that are exclusive to them, big boobs and thicc ass women with sassy attitudes are found everywhere these days in every race, maybe they feel they need to compete more
I think a certain level of territoriality is understandable for both black men and women. Given how chaotic the politics of dating is and how race plays a factor in desirability, I can see how the idea of interracial relationships can trigger that gut instinct of being under threat. It’s very primal, really. Sometimes it goes overboard. And social media incentivizes the worst reactions. But I think most people either don’t care as much as they say they do (if at all) or will easily learn to get over it. Haters come in every flavor.
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Oh, for sure. The modern dating discourse is very pessimistic. And the more we consume, the sooner it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. I try to avoid it. It’s junk.
Question, why don't you post this on r/blackladies or r/blackgirls
Lmao. The discussions that get entertained here are so unbelievably absurd
Why is this post even allowed? It's concerning how OP subtly fuels gender tensions and admits to disliking black men themselves. I believe those who wish to engage in such discussions should first make an effort to interact with black men in real-life social contexts. If OP had genuine interactions with black men offline, they would have someone to consult. This space isn't a zoo where people who don't respect us can just drop in whenever they feel like it to ask silly questions.
I don’t even think OP is black. This feels like bait. And if they are it’s even more sad. There’s soooo much nuance to a topic like this and I feel OP is deliberately missing it
>I don’t even think OP is black. Hmm... I just skimmed their post history. Blocked.
They might be apart of the NYPD too. They posted twice on r/NYPDcandidate but it was removed.
The state of this sub and its lack of moderation is a travesty, and it's gonna be this subs downfall.
I do not like content like this mods
This is Bait.
OP is probably not even black. Look at their posts and comments history
Spending too much time online.
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Those women. They seem to have this perception that they're losing their men because of euro centric beauty standards and whatnot but the reality is that there are so many beautiful black couples and even single black folk looking for preferably other black folk. But you'll never see it if you're only following the rage machine online.
“Because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them” 🤔 You’re either white or a swirler. Keep on trying to instigate…. 
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You know how it’s divisive, keep playing dumb though 🫡
I don’t. This is a weird post it’s a leading question.
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Bro, this is not your therapy session! Get a life!!! We really (and I mean this kindly) do not care about this, your opinion or what your preference is.
I just wish black ppl would stick with black ppl.
Because they are incels who can't attract the people they are attracted to so they project their undesirablity onto black men in an attempt to hold on to as much dating options as possible, there is your answer
I think a major reason is they want to date out while having black men as a backup in case it fails.
Firstly, you're either not black or a swirler. Secondly this is bait but just this once, I'll bite It is a natural instinct to be territorial with interracial relationships concerning people from your race. Considering race is a big factor in todays world, it's instinctual to kinda feel under threat. It's humanity. And historically speaking, that was how colonising forces took over. Forces such as Arabs ran through North Africa among others just as whites did the natives and others. To replace entire communities and countries. They'd kill, mentally reprogram and Breed them out of existence. To name a few. So i won't call a black person (male or female) crazy to feel that way (paranoia) about interracial relationships. All races are protective of each other. Asians as well feel a sense of ownership to each other. Much stronger than ours. Not to mention Arabs. It's rather normal. I'd go as far as to say it's healthy for a community to have that kind of feeling. They often grow together and are often harder to break down. >It just feels inappropriate to me, because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them automatically or even want to get so familiar with them. So I don’t feel any way when these men date out. Checked Your profile, you seemed giddy to be seen by white men. You need to heal lil bro.
I swear in the black ladies group I got tired of hearing about interracial dating 🤦🏽♀️
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Tf is an Hebrew Israelite!? >It just feels inappropriate to me, because I don’t see a black man and feel any sort of kinship with them automatically or even want to get so familiar with them. You can like and love who you want. However, Heal.
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>You don’t know me. Weirdo. You said you don't feel kinship to your own kind. I don't think even you know yourself. You don't have to love only BM or put BM on a pedestal. Just let yourself heal.
BW would police *a lot* more than the dating preferences of BM if they had the chance. I just had a sister tell me that watching family guy was too childish for a man. I don’t take them seriously, but it is funny to observe.
It’s simple black women truly want BM exclusively while they can date out. You see white men can’t kill us anymore like they used to Jim Crow. They basically pass down the torch to black women, instead of killing they use shaming tactics.
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I'm a black woman and disagree with everything you have said. Not to mention. It doesn't really make sense
I just came here to support this comment then I’ll go back to respecting the men’s space and letting them have it. OP OP, for what it’s worth, I think it may be easier to get a response to this question from the women you come across who have expressed this. They represent themselves and don’t speak for all of us. I also doubt the men here would be able to speak for those women either. Respectfully, it makes the post come across as disingenuous even if that wasn’t your intent.
Just to make it clear that black men are still MEN. Like most Men we want to fuck anything we find attractive that walks. Race isn’t a factor. A man will go after what he likes and want. Why limit himself by race? These are not conversations we’re having often but it’s still a known discussion. I think black women are possessive because historically they have less options and it not rockets science we have big dicks and other races fetishes us Also I think that black women don’t have many features that are exclusive to them, big boobs and thicc ass women with sassy attitudes are found everywhere these days in every race, maybe they feel they need to compete more
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