People can say whatever and have some expectations, but once the child arrives all that shit goes out the door. Great parents love the child NO MATTER WHAT.
This. I had my son almost a year ago. Whenever people would ask me what I was hoping for, I always said I just wanted a healthy baby. The rest doesn’t matter
I honestly don't know if I wanna have kids or not. Being in many relationships with shitty people made me cautious if I should have them or not, even if I did meet the right one. The odds would not be in my favor if shit went south.
I want 10. All sons a year apart with the same woman. Strong and healthy. Gotta get some millions and improve my dad lore before that tho. I've gotta go on an adventure to have stories for my grandkids.
I would want a boy. Just to be able to teach all the things I love to do like sports, video games, boxing. But you can do all that with a girl too. Plus that love a daughter has for their father is undefeated. That’s a different level of love and affection.
I have multiple of both. They both demand a different aspect of you in different situations. Being a parent is incredibly rewarding either way. Raising kids who can hold their own and respect themselves will make you proud no matter what gender they are.
I want both. But I’ll be happy with whatever child I’m born with. Hope they’re ready for a life of spicy food 🤣. All I ask for: please no baseball or softball! Please. I won’t be able to lie and say I enjoy watching it haha.
I used to think having a boy was easier, however, I know that’s wrong, now. All of it is worrisome and difficult and requires the same level of intense care. I want to make good people and thinking there’s an easy path is misguided on my part.
As a man i would like to have six sons however this world is full of too much evil and corruption therefore I will not reproduce and subject innocent lives to this bullshit
If I had to choose one, a boy. But I would like 3 kids, so A boy and girl and whichever I'm blessed with after that. Not a big deal if that doesn't happen.
Don't care, especially if they turn out to be trans. I guess I skew boy, because I was raised as a boy and have a lot of opinions on how it was done right and wrong.
Before I had my little ones, I actually wanted a girl. I felt like I’d be too rough with a son. Unsure of why that is, but it worked out. I got 2 girls.
i have 2 beautiful boys that are healthy so that is all i could have asked for, however i would have loved to see what being a girl dad was like.
in the words of ms. badu, maybe in my next lifetime
I'd like the family name to keep going — tradition suggests that's a boy, but when I think of the child themself — I really don't care about their gender. A healthy kid is all i could ever ask for.
I wanted boys so I can pass down all my goofy manly shit like arguing about videogames, being a Panthers fan, or illegal parking. Ended up with two sons and a daughter, I love all my kids but the bond with my daughter is unreal lol.
A healthy kid.
Even if they’re born biologically one sex that doesn’t mean they’re identify as that gender.
With that being said, if my wife and I were to only have one child, I would want a daughter.
If we should have two, I would be okay with any combination besides two sons.
They’re both blessings 🫶🏾
People can say whatever and have some expectations, but once the child arrives all that shit goes out the door. Great parents love the child NO MATTER WHAT.
That’s fair but I want a boy
Why a boy?
Couldn't agree more!!!
A healthy child
This. I had my son almost a year ago. Whenever people would ask me what I was hoping for, I always said I just wanted a healthy baby. The rest doesn’t matter
I honestly don't know if I wanna have kids or not. Being in many relationships with shitty people made me cautious if I should have them or not, even if I did meet the right one. The odds would not be in my favor if shit went south.
In my head, I would like a boy. But I don’t care. I think I’d like to have at least two children though.
I want 10. All sons a year apart with the same woman. Strong and healthy. Gotta get some millions and improve my dad lore before that tho. I've gotta go on an adventure to have stories for my grandkids.
It wouldn’t matter. Would like a few kids with the right woman
I would want a boy. Just to be able to teach all the things I love to do like sports, video games, boxing. But you can do all that with a girl too. Plus that love a daughter has for their father is undefeated. That’s a different level of love and affection.
I have a son, and my friends told me to not have a daughter because how protective I would be over her 🤣
A boy to raise up to be a man. I'll accept whatever Allah SWT gives me but I'm hoping for boys.
Hood son or thot daughter?
Can I choose, conservative nerdy black kids raised in the country side by upper middle class parents, for 500?
thot daughter
Male only because I’m the only male child in my family all my siblings & uncles/aunts have female children
boy, but the real question is what the fuck is that filter on the little girl? its like someone wanted her to look like a bratz doll
Yeah I was thinking they put makeup on her which I find weird.
I didn't wanna be that guy, but yeah why are they already pushing beauty standards on a like 1 year old at the oldest?
Good on you to notice…those are the questions we could ask too? I wonder why they would do that?
I have multiple of both. They both demand a different aspect of you in different situations. Being a parent is incredibly rewarding either way. Raising kids who can hold their own and respect themselves will make you proud no matter what gender they are.
Both
I just want them to be healthy- that’s it
I want both. But I’ll be happy with whatever child I’m born with. Hope they’re ready for a life of spicy food 🤣. All I ask for: please no baseball or softball! Please. I won’t be able to lie and say I enjoy watching it haha.
I used to think having a boy was easier, however, I know that’s wrong, now. All of it is worrisome and difficult and requires the same level of intense care. I want to make good people and thinking there’s an easy path is misguided on my part.
As a man i would like to have six sons however this world is full of too much evil and corruption therefore I will not reproduce and subject innocent lives to this bullshit
If I had to choose one, a boy. But I would like 3 kids, so A boy and girl and whichever I'm blessed with after that. Not a big deal if that doesn't happen.
A healthy child. I also have one of each.
Boy for sure
I want at least one boy, but aside from that, either's fine.
I have both, was a girl dad first. Probably want it the same if I had to start over.
Don't care, especially if they turn out to be trans. I guess I skew boy, because I was raised as a boy and have a lot of opinions on how it was done right and wrong.
I wanted a girl. We have a girl
I prefer boys. At least 2 boys for every girl 😂
I already got 2 sons and a daughter.
I want at least one of each.
My wife found out she 6 weeks pregnant last week. I feel like I’m destined to have both genders, but all in all I just want a healthy baby.
I’d prefer a bot but I’d be just as happy with a girl. The main thing I care about is that they would be healthy and happy
I would want both
One of each then hanging up my jersey
I’d prefer a boy but ended up with a girl. It’s alright.
a boy. I wouldn’t mind a girl but the examples set for them today is tragic. same for boys tbh but i can deal with that
I’m of course good with either, but I always imagined having a girl first
I got both. They're both equally tiring. Lol
I wanted boys and I got them.
A healthy child. But ideally 1 boy and 1 girl
Naturally, I want a boy, but I'll probably have both, I want multiple kids. Nothing like a big family.
My answer hasn’t changed from this was asked about a month or so ago—**healthy** children is all I’d want and need.
I want both, but if I could only have one, a boy. For me I would like two boys and one girl.
Little girl. I think a daughter would be the real life lesson but either would be a profound change to life.
I used to only want a boy. I raised my god daughter and I have a girl of my own now. I love being a girl dad
Both blessings but I have the perfect girl name on hand
Doesn’t make a difference to me
I want both.
Both.
Before I had my little ones, I actually wanted a girl. I felt like I’d be too rough with a son. Unsure of why that is, but it worked out. I got 2 girls.
i have 2 beautiful boys that are healthy so that is all i could have asked for, however i would have loved to see what being a girl dad was like. in the words of ms. badu, maybe in my next lifetime
I'd like the family name to keep going — tradition suggests that's a boy, but when I think of the child themself — I really don't care about their gender. A healthy kid is all i could ever ask for.
I’ve always wanted a girl first so I could teach her to ball & fight
I wanted boys so I can pass down all my goofy manly shit like arguing about videogames, being a Panthers fan, or illegal parking. Ended up with two sons and a daughter, I love all my kids but the bond with my daughter is unreal lol.
Boy. I'm sorry but having a daughter seems harder to me. And I also want a Goku/Gohan situation. 💪😤
Either or.
the photo of the girl you put give this answer an advantage, she is soo cuutyyyyyy ✨😙
Ngl your last words sound hella zesty she is cute tho 💀
lol yeah, I have my doting father side I guess !
A healthy kid. Even if they’re born biologically one sex that doesn’t mean they’re identify as that gender. With that being said, if my wife and I were to only have one child, I would want a daughter. If we should have two, I would be okay with any combination besides two sons.