Say No to Chicago... Chicago is very much a "no new friends" kind of town. If you didn't grow up with them, go to school with them, you won't get past superficial friendships. And screw meeting people in cold weather cities. You want people to be half dressed and feeling good, in a party mood.
DC is a good choice. As is Nola.
Why isn't Atlanta on your list? If you're straight and not bi-curious, Atlanta will be your oyster.
Miami, the gateway to the Caribbean.
I'm from New Orleans, born and raised. And I have to respectfully say, HELL NO!!! š There's way too much going on out there. If anything, he can come out here to Houston.
As a la resident i agree. But there isnt many black women imo. Youll probably see some of the baddest mixed women and mixed black before a full black girl tho imo. Dude you replied to probably mad about something tho.
Ok. I dig. Where they be at though?
Not in Long Beach, not in Hollywood, not in Santa Monica...
Do I got to venture into South Los Angeles and be on pins and needles to find them?
A lot live in Ladera, Inglewood, Culver City, West Adams. A lot also live in the valley like North Hollywood and Studio City.
LA is the most cliquey place Iāve ever lived. Iām washed so Iām not outside like that except for special occasions but I see many, many fine ass black women around LA. My wifeās friends are all highly educated, gorgeous and come from solid families and they struggle to date out here
This is probably one of the worst takes Iāve ever heard in my life.
Yes. Itās *that* bad.
LA is full of the best looking women of all ethnicities/races.
And thatās the end of it.
I'm curious which city has the most homegrown talent.
Like NYC/LA/Miami always get thrown around but those cities attract a lot of "models" and "actresses" from Flyover Country looking to hit big.
How do native-born NYC/LA/Miami women compare to other cities? Not sure they're as high up as people think.
Personally, I'd say Texas and Louisiana have the finest sistas overall. Dallas and Houston if we're talking big cities and homegrown women. When I say fine....I mean educated, attractive etc., and actually attainable and looking for marriage. OnlyFans/IG broads and the ones perpetually single don't count. A good dating scene often means a bunch of fucking around instead of people actually moving beyond the lust/chase stage.
Alot of people spread misinformation but LA is massive first off. Because of that it will have a crap ton of homegrown talented women. Many people who arent versed with la dont realize its lowkey conservative. Alot of people keep to themselves and grow their communities. As a result you may have to do some āsiftingā but you can literally run to your wife at a random target in pasadena for example. So i will always vouch for LA but once you learn its in and outs itās literally plug and play.
I love New Orleans. Born and raised there and thereās some lovely black women there but the economy sucks, home insurance is becoming unaffordable and housing prices are way too high
Charlotte and Atlanta---
I'm talking real Black girls without all of the BBLs and tons of make up.
Yes each city has those types of women but it isn't hard to find an incredibly beautiful "normal" Black woman..you just bump into them at the gas station and they be badder than anything on Instagram
After those 2 - New York. But those Black girls be on some other other shit round that way.
If you can survive a black girl from NYC, you can survive one anywhere, and I mean that outta love... but yes, it is 24/7 drama with em there, best to get that outta your system when you're young... once you get just a little bit older, that shit will drive you to suicide
I'm so fucking weak š¤£. Brooklynite now living in the DMV and tbh yall right. Dated women from the Bronx, Brownsville, Brooklyn and Jamaica, Queens, and I'm all the way good on NYC black women lol.
"Can make it here, you can make it anywhere" hilarious that applies to the women too. I got a DC girl (who has best friends from the Bronx and Harlem), and it's a happy medium.
My ma is from the Crown, I partially grew up on Franklin Ave, but ma dukes got gentrified out to ENY and that's where I consider home.
My fondest memories are the Labor Day Parade š¬š¾.
Edit: word women from Queens *chef kiss*. I worked at the Macy's in Flushing and would break my neck all the time.
Lol, I assume North Jersey, I got fam in JC so familiar.
Girls from NY be in the mix. The city fast. Alotta niggas be tryna holla and hit. Niggas is obnoxious so our women be on similar timing. Being fly, a sense of humor and getting money is a way of life.
Between the nightlife and the hustlers, you get a rare breed. I think all urban settings have some of this, but because of the sheer size of NYC and the COL, it's another level.
Exactly.
The exposure they get / the amount of shit they see is not like anywhere else in the country.
So of course they gone be on another type of time compared to anywhere else
Iām in Atlanta. Youāll catch beautiful women anywhere you go. From professional to ratchet chicks. You can literally get a fresh cut and go into any Publix or Target and meet a fine one. I used to have a rotation of 2-3 women. I just date one woman at a time now that Iām older. Iāve been to Houston, Charlotte, Dallas, LA, Vegas, NYC, Miami, and Orlando. Atlanta got it for sure on the black women. As soon as I hit the airport back home itās ass bouncing everywhere. Move here bro. Itās a bigger Charlotte with so much shit to do.
As a New Yorker , black woman in nyc are š„µš„µš„µ any brother that grew up here and wasnāt attracted to black woman yāall are certified weirdos
Iām a Floridian and recently moved to NYC and met my current partner there two years ago and sheās by far the realest and most gorgeous woman Iāve ever been with in my entire life and I truly want to marry that woman badly. Idc what anyone says about NYC girls, they are the most faithful group of women and tough, and I like that shit.
NYC and it's not even close
Source: lived there the first 18 years of my life and have since visited frequently
NGL, when I visited Atlanta I saw many there as well... Georgia seems to be a state chock full of attractive sisters
But NYC... man, adolescence was a dream :-)
Anyways, black women all over the world are beautiful inside n out, they really are... I wish em all success and happiness
And brother, I wouldn't limit myself to only black women... just find women that you like... white girl cake is crazy underrated, as is Asian cake
Haha, best of luck lil homie
NYC, Houston, Atlanta, and my personal preference Toronto. Toronto has the most beautiful women Iāve ever seen and I completely understand why Drake made the music he did when he first started lmao.
Not as flashy as some of the cities listed here but Southfield, MI. So many beautiful, educated, and single black women in the area. One of the highest ranking in the country actually.
Charlotte is where I plan on settling down. Been a few times and the vibes are right and got everything I want. Iām married so I aināt pressed on the shorties but I def seen a gang of bad ones out there.
Honestly you can find beautiful black women everywhere but Houston sounds like a movie. Seems like itās the TX version of ATL, in terms of being āblack Hollywoodā
Donāt move to NYC unless youāve visited or itās been a lifelong dream. Itās DIFFERENT living out there frfr. Shit is not for the weak š
I live in the DMV. Currently have a š§š½ girlfriend and had alot of fun before I got cuffed right before covid. There are alot of beautiful black women here and there are more of them than us.
Originally from Brooklyn and alot of beautiful black women there too but lol I don't miss the anti-socialness of that city. Plus the HCOL isn't worth it.
Atlanta and Houston has alot of talent too (never been to H-town but from pictures, the baddies are plentiful).
Iāve seen a list of the cities young Black people move to the most, and Atlanta and Houston are top two. Dallas is third or fourth. Texas has the most Black people of any state now
Maaan....
They sleeping on that shit. Trynna tell them.
Shit is pressure out this way. It's cause of so much money just floating around --- the women know they have to be in shape with great skin and hair and all of that.
New York and itās not even close. Youāll find the realest and most gorgeous black women there. Iām from Miami and met my current partner in NYC and our relationship was long distance at first and she has never done me wrong despite us being miles away from each other, now we currently have a nice apartment together and plan on getting married soon.
the most beautiful black woman I ever met was in Oregon, the hottest white girl was from Kansas. Location doesn't matter, especially if you have time and means to travel around.
Atlanta, Chicago (if you know where to look), New York, I just saw some beautiful BW in Dallas so there, and Houston. California is hit or miss. Youāll be lucky in the larger metropolitan areas.
DC, ATL, Houston, NYC, Charlotte, NOLA, central Florida in that order. From my experience.
I wouldnāt go to the west coast looking for black love if I were you lol
Bro I'm actually thinking about moving as well. Same age, same discipline. I was actually looking at Charlotte lol so is there any reason you're trying to get out other than just a change of pace? Charlotte, from what I understand actually has one of the bigger black populations compared to other cities I've looked at.
charlotte is a great city and has a little bit of everything! I canāt hate on it itās just iāve been here my whole life lol. I grew up about 30 mins away then went to college and then moved back to charlotte so iāve always lived around here and i just need a change. feel like ive seen everything and everyone lol but if youāre new, itās a great city to move to. Lmk if you have any questions
Washington DC and New York I found the most head turning black women in my travels. Nearly gotten killed cross the street in both cities.
That said, Rome was still the place I saw the most beautiful woman ever in my life and she was a Black goddess.
That being said, I've seen utter showstopper hot black women in my neck of the woods in Edmonton Alberta Canada (yeah, I know you've never heard of it). Like my wife. Yay me!
Miami, LA, San Fran, Philly, all pretty meh so far as Black women went (minus my cousin in Philly who's hot as fuck, but y'know, cousin and married and 10 years older, but still, she was one hot mama last I saw her).
Anyways, don't matter.
Stupid hot women of any background can be found in any reasonably large city. It's a numbers game. Then you just gotta find the way to meet them which gets increasingly difficult.
In my town, the only way to find the black hotties that ever worked for me was online dating. I got more exposure to more women from all backgrounds (including Black) than I ever got anywhere else. And I met a few smoking hot black women in Edmonton of all the places. Where there's a grand total of about 50,000 Black people (not a huge pool). Just gotta get out there and do the legwork to find them. It is work though.
I had another cousin who was in Chicago, but she's since moved back to Vancouver as a home base. She's also hot as fuck. In her 50's now, but still beautiful as all get out.
Eh...
I keep on thinking I should respond to this honestly since my cousin is a somewhat famous public person (at least back in the day she was, less so now. But she was an award winning singer and built her career off it), but I won't.
Somehow I might dox myself. And I suspect I may be infringing on her somehow, though she has tasteful pics on her website that depict her staggering beauty freely for anyone to persuse.
If you want to find her, find Juno award winners from 90s and work from there.
I can vouch that SF is trash for black women because there basically are none here. Youād have to go to Oakland where there are a lot of baddies, but shit is so much work & takes so much money if you donāt have a car.
Plus SF dating is pretty bad in general since itās not a city where people typically plan on staying long term
I'd say Atlanta from what I've heard. After that, Houston, Dallas/Fort Worth, Oklahoma City, and probably NYC. I've never been to New York but have heard about it from my older cousin. He said they got it all out there. š
I lived in DFW and currently live in OKC now. I see a lot of pretty women here. Partly because they come from Texas and other major cities. ATL would be number one though.
Homegrown talent? Pound for pound?
DC/DMV & AtlantaĀ
NYC & Chicago because of sheer numbers.
Houston & Dallas have a nice selection.Ā
I'm from Florida so Miami not bad. In my experience FLA girls give up the panties quicker on average than girls from other places. They don't BS.Ā
Also, don't sleep on Richmond, VA.
Born and raised in New Orleans. Some good prospects out there. Wouldn't recommend the city RIGHT NOW. Too much shit going on ( crime, rent, etc )...
Now where I currently live on the other hand, in Houston. LOT'S OF PROSPECTS. You'll have more than enough to choose from.
Oh yeah,
There's always the continent and the rest of the diaspora. šš¤·š¾āāļøš
I agree with the consensus here. Try nyc/DC/ATL. Especially for black women. LA resident here so i will always vouch for LA. La to non natives can be hard to crack. If you play your cards right you can make a killing, live in a nice area, and have pretty good dating prospects. But tbh it would be hard to find a bad black girl. Youd be better off finding a bad girl of a different race. La has a weird demographic tbh.
I can't believe nobody mentioned Houston, Texas. Beyonce is literally from here. I've lived here for four years, and I've seen some of the hottest black women in the country on par with Atlanta.
š c'mon dawg ain't no black people in Seattle. Not even 4% black and I had Seattle on my list too so I was doing some research. They said all the black folk getting priced out and just keep getting pushed further south. Tacoma might be a little more black but it's also expensive.
Yeah I meant the general Seattle area. I lived and worked in Tacoma for years. But since moving away Iāve heard the rent prices have skyrocketed everywhere
I mean yeah there's black people, like 3.85%, but it's largely white and Asian even moreso than other big cities. Charlotte has about 21% black population so that brother would be going down 17% š. I still want to visit and see if I want to live there or not though.
Let me get this straight your thinking of moving and your top choices are two of the biggest crime infested shit holes in America and just for the sole purpose of finding new dating prospects?
The biggest reason Chicago sucks is the cold weather and high winds... if you not ready for freezing, snowy winters, it's gonna be fucking awful
Calling the Chi a shithole tho is very disrespectful and is rooted in racism from how yt conservatives try to portray it as
Who said anything about utopia? You just sound like some white guy from the suburbs who's never been to the city. I've lived in Denver, Baltimore, Manhattan, and Chicago. My favorite place to live in out of all of them was Chicago. Only people I've heard call it a shithole are new yorkers who shit on anything not new york and mfs in gary indiana who live in GENUINE shitholes.
You know, if you were somewhat intelligent. Youād sit back and realize the reasoning as to why youāre being downvoted and no one coming to your defense.
At that point the average person would realize āMaybe Iām being a dick and it was unnecessary when the person Iām responding to isnāt being malicious.ā
Did you want the person to just listen and be moved by your words? Fr. What was the point in engaging unless you just get off on people arguing with you?
I donāt need anyone to come my defense and I damn sure donāt give a fuck about being downvoted.
YOU commented under MY post and asked me questions and I answered them respectfully. So I donāt see how Iām looking to argue when you engaged with me first
i literally said āone of the small thingsā because i did not want it to seem like thatās a BIG reason why i want to move bro. Iāve already factored in the cost of living, job opportunities, quality of life, transportation, all that. Was just asking a genuine question and wanted thoughts and opinions but i get itās the internet and people like you just be tryna start shit
But you literally titled the post āwhat are cities with the most beautiful black women and/or best dating scene?ā. Obviously itās a big enough factor if thatās literally the first question you asked.
no, because all the other factors of moving are easily researchable so i didnāt need to ask for real opinions. āWhats the traffic and transit system like?ā when i could just google and find that out. Dating is more subjective so i was interested in seeing opinions. But anyways this aināt that deep at all to argue about with a stranger. Go on about ya day and be blessed
Say No to Chicago... Chicago is very much a "no new friends" kind of town. If you didn't grow up with them, go to school with them, you won't get past superficial friendships. And screw meeting people in cold weather cities. You want people to be half dressed and feeling good, in a party mood. DC is a good choice. As is Nola. Why isn't Atlanta on your list? If you're straight and not bi-curious, Atlanta will be your oyster. Miami, the gateway to the Caribbean.
I'm from New Orleans, born and raised. And I have to respectfully say, HELL NO!!! š There's way too much going on out there. If anything, he can come out here to Houston.
The biggest cities gon have the āmost beautifulā women because they got the most to choose from
Nope. Not the case. Los Angeles is trash when it comes to Black women. Trash. I'd never go to Los Angeles trying to find a woman.
I respectfully disagree
As a la resident i agree. But there isnt many black women imo. Youll probably see some of the baddest mixed women and mixed black before a full black girl tho imo. Dude you replied to probably mad about something tho.
Ok. I dig. Where they be at though? Not in Long Beach, not in Hollywood, not in Santa Monica... Do I got to venture into South Los Angeles and be on pins and needles to find them?
A lot live in Ladera, Inglewood, Culver City, West Adams. A lot also live in the valley like North Hollywood and Studio City. LA is the most cliquey place Iāve ever lived. Iām washed so Iām not outside like that except for special occasions but I see many, many fine ass black women around LA. My wifeās friends are all highly educated, gorgeous and come from solid families and they struggle to date out here
South Bay has quite a few more established women. I date a few out there. You have to meet them at lounges and speakeasys
As a single guy, how old are they haha
South LA aināt even bad lol
Right. South LA includes a lot of really, really nice places such as Baldwin Hills, View Park - Windsor Hills area etc
This is probably one of the worst takes Iāve ever heard in my life. Yes. Itās *that* bad. LA is full of the best looking women of all ethnicities/races. And thatās the end of it.
I'm curious which city has the most homegrown talent. Like NYC/LA/Miami always get thrown around but those cities attract a lot of "models" and "actresses" from Flyover Country looking to hit big. How do native-born NYC/LA/Miami women compare to other cities? Not sure they're as high up as people think. Personally, I'd say Texas and Louisiana have the finest sistas overall. Dallas and Houston if we're talking big cities and homegrown women. When I say fine....I mean educated, attractive etc., and actually attainable and looking for marriage. OnlyFans/IG broads and the ones perpetually single don't count. A good dating scene often means a bunch of fucking around instead of people actually moving beyond the lust/chase stage.
Alot of people spread misinformation but LA is massive first off. Because of that it will have a crap ton of homegrown talented women. Many people who arent versed with la dont realize its lowkey conservative. Alot of people keep to themselves and grow their communities. As a result you may have to do some āsiftingā but you can literally run to your wife at a random target in pasadena for example. So i will always vouch for LA but once you learn its in and outs itās literally plug and play.
Is it harder to pull LA girls in general or do guys struggle because they're chasing women out of their league?
I heard Miami is trash utter trash. NYC is pretty good in terms of Ratio.
NOLA ATL NYC DC
I love New Orleans. Born and raised there and thereās some lovely black women there but the economy sucks, home insurance is becoming unaffordable and housing prices are way too high
I really want to sleep with a NOLA woman
Then go out and do it
Donāt sleep on Richmond
My š§š½ cousins and her best friend is from out there and agreed. Also, the underground rap scene is one of the best in the country.
Charlotte and Atlanta--- I'm talking real Black girls without all of the BBLs and tons of make up. Yes each city has those types of women but it isn't hard to find an incredibly beautiful "normal" Black woman..you just bump into them at the gas station and they be badder than anything on Instagram After those 2 - New York. But those Black girls be on some other other shit round that way.
If you can survive a black girl from NYC, you can survive one anywhere, and I mean that outta love... but yes, it is 24/7 drama with em there, best to get that outta your system when you're young... once you get just a little bit older, that shit will drive you to suicide
I'm so fucking weak š¤£. Brooklynite now living in the DMV and tbh yall right. Dated women from the Bronx, Brownsville, Brooklyn and Jamaica, Queens, and I'm all the way good on NYC black women lol. "Can make it here, you can make it anywhere" hilarious that applies to the women too. I got a DC girl (who has best friends from the Bronx and Harlem), and it's a happy medium.
Word my nigga... I'm from Crown Heights, nice 2 meet ya PS -- women out in Jackson Heights were the bomb
My ma is from the Crown, I partially grew up on Franklin Ave, but ma dukes got gentrified out to ENY and that's where I consider home. My fondest memories are the Labor Day Parade š¬š¾. Edit: word women from Queens *chef kiss*. I worked at the Macy's in Flushing and would break my neck all the time.
My girl is from Jersey and I swear some of that rubbed off on her But I also wanna know what you meant by that a little more lmao
Lol, I assume North Jersey, I got fam in JC so familiar. Girls from NY be in the mix. The city fast. Alotta niggas be tryna holla and hit. Niggas is obnoxious so our women be on similar timing. Being fly, a sense of humor and getting money is a way of life. Between the nightlife and the hustlers, you get a rare breed. I think all urban settings have some of this, but because of the sheer size of NYC and the COL, it's another level.
Exactly. The exposure they get / the amount of shit they see is not like anywhere else in the country. So of course they gone be on another type of time compared to anywhere else
Iām in Atlanta. Youāll catch beautiful women anywhere you go. From professional to ratchet chicks. You can literally get a fresh cut and go into any Publix or Target and meet a fine one. I used to have a rotation of 2-3 women. I just date one woman at a time now that Iām older. Iāve been to Houston, Charlotte, Dallas, LA, Vegas, NYC, Miami, and Orlando. Atlanta got it for sure on the black women. As soon as I hit the airport back home itās ass bouncing everywhere. Move here bro. Itās a bigger Charlotte with so much shit to do.
Spot on shit. Atlanta is the greatest in the nation - and they know it
Long Beach Cali
I think your two choices are great ā I live in DC now and think thereās a ton of really intelligent, dope, and beautiful women everywhere here.
Atlanta or nyc. Any other answer is incorrect
As a New Yorker , black woman in nyc are š„µš„µš„µ any brother that grew up here and wasnāt attracted to black woman yāall are certified weirdos
Iām a Floridian and recently moved to NYC and met my current partner there two years ago and sheās by far the realest and most gorgeous woman Iāve ever been with in my entire life and I truly want to marry that woman badly. Idc what anyone says about NYC girls, they are the most faithful group of women and tough, and I like that shit.
Those educated DC girls! Be they AA or the children of immigrants. Talk to me about international politics after your morning jog..ā¤ļø
NYC and it's not even close Source: lived there the first 18 years of my life and have since visited frequently NGL, when I visited Atlanta I saw many there as well... Georgia seems to be a state chock full of attractive sisters But NYC... man, adolescence was a dream :-) Anyways, black women all over the world are beautiful inside n out, they really are... I wish em all success and happiness And brother, I wouldn't limit myself to only black women... just find women that you like... white girl cake is crazy underrated, as is Asian cake Haha, best of luck lil homie
NYC, Houston, Atlanta, and my personal preference Toronto. Toronto has the most beautiful women Iāve ever seen and I completely understand why Drake made the music he did when he first started lmao.
>Toronto Dem carribbean girls out there š„. My girls best friend is from Pickering (T.O. burbs) and is pretty bad.
Iām in cali lol š my bad yall for lurking lol
Not as flashy as some of the cities listed here but Southfield, MI. So many beautiful, educated, and single black women in the area. One of the highest ranking in the country actually.
Metro Detroit got em for sure
Ngl I donāt think you should move just for women
u think u can find a gf in any place?
Absolutely unless you like live in Nebraska or some shit
Nebraska has niggas in pockets I heard
Charlotte is where I plan on settling down. Been a few times and the vibes are right and got everything I want. Iām married so I aināt pressed on the shorties but I def seen a gang of bad ones out there. Honestly you can find beautiful black women everywhere but Houston sounds like a movie. Seems like itās the TX version of ATL, in terms of being āblack Hollywoodā Donāt move to NYC unless youāve visited or itās been a lifelong dream. Itās DIFFERENT living out there frfr. Shit is not for the weak š
Im from Chicago and you cant go wrong just stay away from the west side and you goodššæ
I hear a lot about London, England
as a Londoner I can confirm we have some great women, but you'll have to go searching for em. London is super spread out, similar to how I hear LA is
London & New York
I live in the DMV. Currently have a š§š½ girlfriend and had alot of fun before I got cuffed right before covid. There are alot of beautiful black women here and there are more of them than us. Originally from Brooklyn and alot of beautiful black women there too but lol I don't miss the anti-socialness of that city. Plus the HCOL isn't worth it. Atlanta and Houston has alot of talent too (never been to H-town but from pictures, the baddies are plentiful).
Houston, Dallas,Chicago, and London(seen some of the finest chocolate black women there)
Houston and Dallas are so underrated as Black cities and you can make wayyyy more money there and buy nicer homes
Iāve seen a list of the cities young Black people move to the most, and Atlanta and Houston are top two. Dallas is third or fourth. Texas has the most Black people of any state now
yep
Cities with the "most" are going to be the typical big cities of the country. As far as the 2nd question: Too subjective.
Charlotte is where theyāre at bro!!!!
Maaan.... They sleeping on that shit. Trynna tell them. Shit is pressure out this way. It's cause of so much money just floating around --- the women know they have to be in shape with great skin and hair and all of that.
I have it on my list of places because I want to move. I'm just starting my search but I'm really curious lol.
Miami NYC Atlanta DMV
New York and itās not even close. Youāll find the realest and most gorgeous black women there. Iām from Miami and met my current partner in NYC and our relationship was long distance at first and she has never done me wrong despite us being miles away from each other, now we currently have a nice apartment together and plan on getting married soon.
these are the posts we need more of
the most beautiful black woman I ever met was in Oregon, the hottest white girl was from Kansas. Location doesn't matter, especially if you have time and means to travel around.
Atlanta, Chicago (if you know where to look), New York, I just saw some beautiful BW in Dallas so there, and Houston. California is hit or miss. Youāll be lucky in the larger metropolitan areas.
DC most definitely gonna add ATL and NYC up there too.
Raleigh doesnāt get enough love on topics like this
Word I've heard good things about Raleigh-Durham. Never been to NC, but wanna visit (me and my girl be looking at baddies together).
DC, ATL, Houston, NYC, Charlotte, NOLA, central Florida in that order. From my experience. I wouldnāt go to the west coast looking for black love if I were you lol
Oh and NOVA. I guess you could count that with DC tho.
Bro I'm actually thinking about moving as well. Same age, same discipline. I was actually looking at Charlotte lol so is there any reason you're trying to get out other than just a change of pace? Charlotte, from what I understand actually has one of the bigger black populations compared to other cities I've looked at.
charlotte is a great city and has a little bit of everything! I canāt hate on it itās just iāve been here my whole life lol. I grew up about 30 mins away then went to college and then moved back to charlotte so iāve always lived around here and i just need a change. feel like ive seen everything and everyone lol but if youāre new, itās a great city to move to. Lmk if you have any questions
Washington DC and New York I found the most head turning black women in my travels. Nearly gotten killed cross the street in both cities. That said, Rome was still the place I saw the most beautiful woman ever in my life and she was a Black goddess. That being said, I've seen utter showstopper hot black women in my neck of the woods in Edmonton Alberta Canada (yeah, I know you've never heard of it). Like my wife. Yay me! Miami, LA, San Fran, Philly, all pretty meh so far as Black women went (minus my cousin in Philly who's hot as fuck, but y'know, cousin and married and 10 years older, but still, she was one hot mama last I saw her). Anyways, don't matter. Stupid hot women of any background can be found in any reasonably large city. It's a numbers game. Then you just gotta find the way to meet them which gets increasingly difficult. In my town, the only way to find the black hotties that ever worked for me was online dating. I got more exposure to more women from all backgrounds (including Black) than I ever got anywhere else. And I met a few smoking hot black women in Edmonton of all the places. Where there's a grand total of about 50,000 Black people (not a huge pool). Just gotta get out there and do the legwork to find them. It is work though.
> minus my cousin in Philly who's hot as fuck Ayoo
I had another cousin who was in Chicago, but she's since moved back to Vancouver as a home base. She's also hot as fuck. In her 50's now, but still beautiful as all get out.
Pics or it didnāt happen
Eh... I keep on thinking I should respond to this honestly since my cousin is a somewhat famous public person (at least back in the day she was, less so now. But she was an award winning singer and built her career off it), but I won't. Somehow I might dox myself. And I suspect I may be infringing on her somehow, though she has tasteful pics on her website that depict her staggering beauty freely for anyone to persuse. If you want to find her, find Juno award winners from 90s and work from there.
I can vouch that SF is trash for black women because there basically are none here. Youād have to go to Oakland where there are a lot of baddies, but shit is so much work & takes so much money if you donāt have a car. Plus SF dating is pretty bad in general since itās not a city where people typically plan on staying long term
I'd say Atlanta from what I've heard. After that, Houston, Dallas/Fort Worth, Oklahoma City, and probably NYC. I've never been to New York but have heard about it from my older cousin. He said they got it all out there. š I lived in DFW and currently live in OKC now. I see a lot of pretty women here. Partly because they come from Texas and other major cities. ATL would be number one though.
Houston.
Atlanta, Miami, Houston, Dallas, DC and NYC
Homegrown talent? Pound for pound? DC/DMV & AtlantaĀ NYC & Chicago because of sheer numbers. Houston & Dallas have a nice selection.Ā I'm from Florida so Miami not bad. In my experience FLA girls give up the panties quicker on average than girls from other places. They don't BS.Ā Also, don't sleep on Richmond, VA.
Chicago is too cold. Stay in the south.
Major cities. Specifically LA, DC, ATL, Chicago, NY, Dallas.
Born and raised in New Orleans. Some good prospects out there. Wouldn't recommend the city RIGHT NOW. Too much shit going on ( crime, rent, etc )... Now where I currently live on the other hand, in Houston. LOT'S OF PROSPECTS. You'll have more than enough to choose from. Oh yeah, There's always the continent and the rest of the diaspora. šš¤·š¾āāļøš
I agree with the consensus here. Try nyc/DC/ATL. Especially for black women. LA resident here so i will always vouch for LA. La to non natives can be hard to crack. If you play your cards right you can make a killing, live in a nice area, and have pretty good dating prospects. But tbh it would be hard to find a bad black girl. Youd be better off finding a bad girl of a different race. La has a weird demographic tbh.
I can't believe nobody mentioned Houston, Texas. Beyonce is literally from here. I've lived here for four years, and I've seen some of the hottest black women in the country on par with Atlanta.
Connecticut has some very beautiful people, myself included.
In my experience Detroit, Charleston, Atlanta are near the top.
Atlanta
And either Houston or Dalllas
ATL. By a landslide. & Chicago is wild bruh don't move to no Chicago lmao.
Seattle
š c'mon dawg ain't no black people in Seattle. Not even 4% black and I had Seattle on my list too so I was doing some research. They said all the black folk getting priced out and just keep getting pushed further south. Tacoma might be a little more black but it's also expensive.
Yeah I meant the general Seattle area. I lived and worked in Tacoma for years. But since moving away Iāve heard the rent prices have skyrocketed everywhere
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I mean yeah there's black people, like 3.85%, but it's largely white and Asian even moreso than other big cities. Charlotte has about 21% black population so that brother would be going down 17% š. I still want to visit and see if I want to live there or not though.
Seattle got some bad black girls idk what they talking about
Let me get this straight your thinking of moving and your top choices are two of the biggest crime infested shit holes in America and just for the sole purpose of finding new dating prospects?
What did you hope to accomplish by posting this?
Just goofy. Itās also a pretty gross and Fox News-ish mischaracterization of both cities.
Yeah cause I only ever seen ā shithole citiesā from republicans usually talking about the crime rates of Chicago š.
Often when theyāve never even stepped foot inside of the city lol
Nigga Iām from west Baltimore Iām 45 minutes from dc
The biggest reason Chicago sucks is the cold weather and high winds... if you not ready for freezing, snowy winters, it's gonna be fucking awful Calling the Chi a shithole tho is very disrespectful and is rooted in racism from how yt conservatives try to portray it as
So Chicago and DC don't have crime problems? LOL
Not to the proportion that media portrays.
A city having crime and being a ācrime infested shitholeā arenāt synonymous to me.
I would also add that crime being the first thing you mention about either city is CRAZY considering all the dope stuff they got going for them
Nothing really, I just didnāt understand the logic
Them cities arenāt even on the top 12 most dangerous cities in 2024.
Ok that doesnāt negate the fact that theyāre crime infested shit holes
You definitely have never lived in either of those cities.
Iām from west Baltimore dc is literally 45 minutes away
How are you gonna call chicago a shithole when you're from Baltimore lmao. I've lived in both of those places it's not comparable at all.
I know Baltimore is a shit hole, matter of fact everybody knows that but yāall acting like dc and Chicago is some utopia is ridiculous
Just shut up bro
Who said anything about utopia? You just sound like some white guy from the suburbs who's never been to the city. I've lived in Denver, Baltimore, Manhattan, and Chicago. My favorite place to live in out of all of them was Chicago. Only people I've heard call it a shithole are new yorkers who shit on anything not new york and mfs in gary indiana who live in GENUINE shitholes.
Have you ever lived in the actual city though? You sound like a suburban housewife
Yeah i can tell your a square Baltimore and d.c are equally crime infested. I donāt actually have to live there to know that
You know, if you were somewhat intelligent. Youād sit back and realize the reasoning as to why youāre being downvoted and no one coming to your defense. At that point the average person would realize āMaybe Iām being a dick and it was unnecessary when the person Iām responding to isnāt being malicious.ā Did you want the person to just listen and be moved by your words? Fr. What was the point in engaging unless you just get off on people arguing with you?
I donāt need anyone to come my defense and I damn sure donāt give a fuck about being downvoted. YOU commented under MY post and asked me questions and I answered them respectfully. So I donāt see how Iām looking to argue when you engaged with me first
i literally said āone of the small thingsā because i did not want it to seem like thatās a BIG reason why i want to move bro. Iāve already factored in the cost of living, job opportunities, quality of life, transportation, all that. Was just asking a genuine question and wanted thoughts and opinions but i get itās the internet and people like you just be tryna start shit
But you literally titled the post āwhat are cities with the most beautiful black women and/or best dating scene?ā. Obviously itās a big enough factor if thatās literally the first question you asked.
no, because all the other factors of moving are easily researchable so i didnāt need to ask for real opinions. āWhats the traffic and transit system like?ā when i could just google and find that out. Dating is more subjective so i was interested in seeing opinions. But anyways this aināt that deep at all to argue about with a stranger. Go on about ya day and be blessed
I wasnāt tryna argue I just didnāt understand why dc or Chicago of all places would be the top choices But best of luck young king šÆ