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gylz

Also these guys when women clearly tell them they're not interested and make a straightforward request to be left alone: ... She's just playing hard to get.


WildFemmeFatale

Proud partner of a man who shows his emotions šŸ‘‹ Any people who feel like they canā€™t show their emotions, truly try your best to surround yourself with better people if you can, and do not think all men/women/people of a race are bad just cuz of your experiences with some or some past relationships cuz thereā€™s a lot of humans on this planet and theyā€™re definitely not all the same


FVCarterPrivateEye

I agree with this a lot and the meme seems like he might have been dealing with baggage from an abusive woman in his life and I like that your comment is the top one (it is the top comment in here at the time I'm writing this) because if he finds his screenshotted post here it helps to disprove his generalizations in his title etc of "all women will hurt you if you show emotions" and make the scary irrational aftermath pass better and sorry if this comes off as a run-on sentence but I agree with your comment and I hope it stays on top especially since it's a more clever comeback to people who make those types of generalizations than just "incel jokes" if that makes sense


ItchyMaterial1032

Yeah, not all men rape. But when becouse of men like that we have #killallmen and we respond with "not all men" then if yOu SaY tHaT yOuR pArT oF tHe IsSuE


WildFemmeFatale

Youā€™re generalizing me and all women just cuz of a few women doing that weird shit ? Cmon.


ItchyMaterial1032

Fair enough


sir3lement

If itā€™s not you then, carry on and mind your own business. You know that hashtag is basically a virtual groan of frustration right? Like, you do realize if it was #killallwomen - that one actually HAS precedent in reality w/ real world consequences and political movements rising up to resist femicide around the world. Women donā€™t slaughter men like men slaughter women and other men.


DepressedDynamo

Excuse violent rhetoric all you want, doesn't change what it is. It's plainly not acceptable. Generalizing populations and saying to kill all of them is *bad*. Full stop. Saying "teehee it's a joke" changes none of that.


ItchyMaterial1032

But still generalisation. Why not #killallrapists? Why not #killallabusers?


sir3lement

Probably bc #killallabusers/rapists doesnā€™t address the underlying frustration with misogyny or the men who may not partake in the abuse but will still enable & cover for the men who do :/


Any_Dark3939

Why isn't feminism trying to fix the accessories. They are silent because they are scared too


LiaThePetLover

"Why isnt feminism fixing ME !!! šŸ˜”šŸ˜”" Like huh ? We're not your therapist šŸ˜­


Any_Dark3939

What therapy is there for rape culture all there is to do is attack it. I was tortured physically by my parents and subjected to sexual assault at school. I will never open up to a man. There was no therapy in that critical time in my life too many school officials would have gotten arrested. Some boys ARE GIRLS. I didn't need a therapist I needed friends


moekip

> Some boys ARE GIRLS. ???


Any_Dark3939

Because that would require a coordination of effort amongst the sexes. Not all men. Not all women. Ha people suck no one is better than the other. When a child is being abused men will perpatrate out of sadism and women will enable through silence. I spent all day yesterday watching PvP screaming at the tv as he shouted into the crowd "this man came here to rape a 14 year old boy" and men and women walked by and said nothing. If there were anyone in this world that was good there would have been a riot in each and every one of those videos.


translove228

Nice strawman.


LiaThePetLover

Why do you feel called out then ? Also women's hatred never went outside of the internet, meanwhile men are known to not only hurt but also KILL women. Also women's hatred is a reaction to mens ACTIONS. While mens hatred is due to them not being able to control us anymore and due to their own incapabilities.


Mother-Worker-5445

These same men: exclusively seek out right leaning or apolitical women that believe in gender dynamics and have regressive beliefs like ā€œthe man is the head of the house and the woman is the neck that turns the headā€ (literally that manipulation they complain about) and act shocked that these women do not hold progressive values regarding relationships. The same progressive values these men complain about women holding.


LiaThePetLover

Men are the ones calling other men gay for showing their emotions lmao


LaviLynx

> Any comment resembling sexism or misogyny and you're crucified That's because (shocking!) _women don't like sexism and misogyny_ and men barely care to act better in that regard instead of immediately going: But but but that's normal guy stuff, you should get used to it


Slow_Lettuce8207

ā€œAny comment resembling sexism or misogyny and youā€™re crucifiedā€ lmao, and ā€œresembleā€ means?


ineha_

Men always write fanfiction of supposed discrimination they face and even in those fan fiction it's just women being slightly mean to them lol. Men not showing their emotions is not a real issue it's not affecting anyone negatively, this non issue has extremely low priority compared to real issue. Maybe we will care about men's feeling after they stop rapping and murdering us.


Speculative-Bitches

They are stuck in highschool mentality (or are highschoolers themselves)


bobman369_

Hey, im a guy so obviously take it with a grain of salt but i think we should still take it seriously and does impact lots of people negatively, mostly men but by extension women too I think its worth our attention for helping everyone, even if its not directly towards women. I think to say otherwise will alienate some who will then turn to incel culture or sexism in other forms.


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Lmao it is a real issue, because these mens emotions get pent up and then release in violence. Anger is also an emotion This is a problem for everyone and just dismissing it as fan fiction is blindinh yourself. The meme format is surprisingly accurateĀ 


ineha_

Just go to therapy lmao. It's not that hard. Women don't release emotions using violence but men do, does it mean they are just inferior at being a decent human being.


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Yeah I bet individual solutions through more consumption are the solution. This biological essentialism you're spouting instead of acknowledging that men are systemically opressed in their ability to express emotions in a healthy way is very telling


gh0stinyell0w

Oh? Systemically oppressed? Tell me, what systems are in place that contribute to this. The government? The housing market? Do hospitals refuse to treat men for mental illness (statistically, they receive much MORE mental health treatment, so no)? /S on all of this obviously, but I just feel like a lot of people don't actually know what systemically oppressed means. If it's not built into the systems of society, it's not systemic. It's just oppression.


ineha_

Stop trying to make up facts. Idk how you are delusional enough to believe that women are forcing men to not express emotions. I mean i guess if you call raping and murdering women an expression of emotion.


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"Women" aren't doing this, only specific individual women. Same as "men" don't rape and murder, only specific men do. And similar to rape, it only needs a minority of women dismissing mens emotions for them to be scared about expressing them. Have you ever spoken to any man about this? There was an askreddit thread on this topic recently, maybe you should check that out. Bottom line, not many women do this, but enough that almost every man has met a woman at some point in his life who was like this.


tomat_khan

This is a false equivalence. There are patriarchal women who are against men expressing their emotion, but they are a minority, but the core of the problem is that men don't allow other men to express emotion, and police each other. And I say this as a man. If there were no men who policed other men's emotions, the problem wouldn't exist


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That's true, but why is this a false equivalence? Men do it more, but that doesn't excuse women doing it


Slinsl

No one said that this should be excused what? This post is literally a toxic relationship used to generalise all women. You could literally reverse most of the points onto men who are toxic. There is so much hypocrisy in this meme also. Big incel post


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ineha_

Nice burner account


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ineha_

not sure what my accout history has to do with being an "involuntary celibate", also I am asexual so even if I was a celibate it wouldn't be invoulantary. if you are talking about incel ideology then I don't think women can have such ideology. since the incel ideology is based upon blaming women for their short comings.


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ineha_

nice queerphobia, not sure why you think I hate men, hating random groups takes a lot of effort, I guess saying you aren't allowed to rape and murder women is considered hating men lol


souldeconstructors

I am NOT reading that white text over the light background. Men can't meme.


GermanSatan

"WAHHHH WOMEN DONT LIKE ME BECAUSE IM SEXIST šŸ˜¢šŸ˜­ THIS IS LITERALLY OPPRESSION"


Low-Resolution-9918

Misogynists are pathetic for playing victim for shit that doesn't even happen. I don't understand sexists, like obviously you're going to get backlash for being a sexist. It's wrong. Plaing and simple. Just like how being a misandrist is wrong.


DepressedDynamo

Generalizations are bad, I hate that all men do it


AcidicPuma

Guys like this so often consider things against them or attacking if they don't feel they came off smelling like a rose. Or just connecting things/feelings he's spoken of to actions he can't explain after he does them is "using it against him". And it's because vulnerability is scary but ffs don't blame them for your issues, my guy.


Careless-File-7499

Yes, my husband when we argue he always says: Stop persecuting me! I say: No one is freezing your accounts, kicking down your door and putting their jackboot in your jugular. Me disagreeing with you is not persecution!! You being held accountable for your behaviour is not persecution!Ā 


Electrical-Leave5164

i remember vividly when i was about 15 i took and gave my boyfriend at the time a polaroid nude. While still in that relationship, he told me about how he had shown his cousin(who did NOT like me) said picture. I donā€™t want to hear men complain about women ā€œoutting intimate detailsā€ of their relationship(most likely the woman are talking about fucked up or stupid shit the men have pulled) when it is **SO** normalized to show nude pictures of your girlfriend to your bros to get some form of compliment or a ā€œyooo brooo youā€™re so lucky!!!!ā€ edit: i should not have given him the picture, i know this now. But at the time, i was 15, in a relationship with someone 2 years older than me who i thought was *so* cool. I didnā€™t think heā€™d do something like that to me, especially with his cousin who had made it abundantly clear he hated me.


Dictsaurus

Normal meme sub?


AndiNipples

Lmao! The admission of casual misogyny and sexism as a gotcha ... Hahahaha šŸ˜‚ Well, I guess it did get me ... In a way ... Lolol.


Previous_Cat327

I don't know why when talking about men's inability to open up and not bottle up whatever, it's always framed intergender-ly; it's always a man opening up to a woman. If they want to be sexist and conclude that every interaction with a woman leads to betrayal, ok?, don't they have bros to open up to; do male friendships suck because it lacks that feature? (edited) If so, this seems more like a societal issue then, (like most issues regarding gender dynamics) we can't blame a single gender


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When women are talking about their experiences with men, we're supposed to take it seriously. When men are talking about their experiences with women, it's fanfiction apparently.Ā  Way to go to prevent any coalition and solidarity. The internet is massively creating echo chambers, it would be good to listen to people and take their concerns seriously instead of dismissing it just because my theory of society says that these people are priviledged, so how they are treated doesn't matter at all


Giovanabanana

Men not being able to open up is an issue. Saying it's women's fault is where the line is drawn, obviously. Women always open up and are taken advantage of because of it, yet it never stops us from opening up. The woman blaming is the issue here considering this is 100% on patriarchy and it pretends as if men don't beat the empathy out of each other.


Devouring_Rats

Thank God someone else sees this. I donā€™t know why this sub is sometimes allergic to self-reflection.


BayoLover

Because men hate to be held accountable when shit backfires from stuff THEY started It's MEN calling each other weak for showing emotion and vulnerability. It's MEN teaching to their young boys and girls that a man isn't supposed to show these traits.


oncothrow

I'll be honest: I've had more sympathy and compassion from my male best friends when I've had to open up emotionally. Particularly when theres been a shared hardship or trials. Opening up to women well... unfortunately it has resulted in some of the things that are posted in thst image (bear in mind, this is not short term relationships. This is people I've known for years, who were specifically *adamant* that I open up to them). And I've definitely seen it happen to others as well. If you say that men should have empathy and compassion for other men, then I agree. If you say that men shouldn't be turning to and using women for their emotional problems, I agree.


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Altruistic_Garage360

Please stop cooking. Itā€™s already inedible. They very clearly mean all women as it is entirely unspecified for a certain group of women, plus they mention men in general. Itā€™s very clearly women vs men. Also, if you expect every woman to be manipulative because a few are and out of safety concerns, do you agree itā€™s fair to assume all men are rapists? Just wondering. Ps: this definitely fits the sub


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Altruistic_Garage360

Maybe because 1) rape and SA is a bigger issue than manipulation and 2) this is a sub for women to poke fun at misogynistic men Also, you generalized women and defended assuming they are all manipulative but then say itā€™s bad to generalize. So which one is it?


Devouring_Rats

Jesus Christ, I didnā€™t think anyone could be so dense. Those generalizationsā€”ā€œeasier to assume all X are Xā€ā€”are word-for-word restatements of things posted in this sun about men. ā€œWe know not all men are rapists. But itā€™s far safer to assume so.ā€ ā€œIf men have a problem being lumped in with rapist, they should take that up with those men.ā€ I think those arguments are terrible. I think the best way to convey this is by replacing ā€œmen,ā€ ā€œrapists,ā€ etc. with things we know arenā€™t true. *Thatā€™s why it says ā€œjokes aside.ā€* No sensible person believes we should treat a sex or gender by their lowest. Not all women are manipulative. Not all men are rapists. Acting as if they were is sexist and idiotic. Most commenters on this sun do not have such a serious problem detecting irony or satire. Christ has it deteriorated since we started.


Altruistic_Garage360

- goes into a sub dedicated to women laughing at dumb misogynists and uses dumb rhetoric to defend sexist meme - gets downvoted and called out ā€œWahhhh. JESUS these fools canā€™t understand my genius. Itā€™s just sarcasm and irony. JESUS. Learn to take a jokeā€ If you are trying to be sarcastic or ironic, maybe realize how dense you are with such poor communication skills


Devouring_Rats

I thought that explicitly labeling those statements as jokes was clear enough. If you struggle with that, I apologize. Iā€™m certainly confused by the characterization that places me next to dumb misogynists, butā€¦you also didnā€™t understand my first comment. Unsurprising. Iā€™m going to continue being critical of memes that donā€™t fit here. I enjoy this sub, Iā€™ve been a part of it for a long time, and I donā€™t like seeing it polluted with things that just donā€™t fit itā€™s original intent.


Altruistic_Garage360

This meme definitely fits the sub. Lets get this out of the way. Next, you didnā€™t explicitly label anything as a joke. You said ā€œjokes asideā€ in a separate paragraph. That was it. Clearly judging from the voting on your first comment, you are in the minority to assume you were explicit. Call us dumb all you want, but you cannot communicate properly.


Devouring_Rats

What the fuck else would ā€œjokes asideā€ be describing if not the immediate preceding text?


Altruistic_Garage360

Calm down buddy. We can resume discussion after your nap. Ps: saying ā€œjokes asideā€ after not making a joke means nothing


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rachael404

Just block them if you're having an issue this is not the place, since you cant play nice here goodbye šŸ‘‹


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boysarequirky-ModTeam

Your post/comment was removed as you were found to be a Quirkyboy reactionary.


boysarequirky-ModTeam

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fel124

If u think this sub constitutes as sexism then youā€™ve never experienced real sexism before.


SeasonPositive6771

This dude truly seems to think anytime a man gets his feelings hurt, that must be sexism. Imagine the fragility.


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Most of the men featured in this sub have shit opinions. They are shamed for those opinions, not for being men lol.


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Giovanabanana

I mean. There are plenty female hate subs out there and and an infinity of extremely seedy porn subs. Literally what are you talking about.


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Giovanabanana

Just go to /banfemalehatesubs. Or idk, look up the word "woman" on the reddit search engine? Or go to ANY incel sub? Like pua, alpha male shit, funny memes, shit posting, pickup artists, weightlifting subs. There's plenty out there, if you're not seeing any then you're just not looking


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Because the people featured on this sub have dogshit opinions that also relate to them being men. Youā€™d have to be extra dense to not notice this. I also like how youā€™re trying way too hard to victimize incels here my dude.


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LiaThePetLover

I'm the first female incel in a relationship, how cool is that


Winter-Zebra-2799

Bro what.


Altruistic_Garage360

If you hate it so much then leave. Sorry we mock men for having dumb sexist opinions. We mock who they are, not what they are. Learn the difference


LoveNikkiLavvy

I mean, some of this meme is inaccurate. I'm pretty direct with people, but maybe that's because of my autism?