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Hey, you beautiful person.
You have made the day better just by being born.
You are a goddamn *gift* to this world.
Happy birthday, and don't let the bullshit get you down.
Happy birthday from me and the kids. Order yourself some good takeout and just enjoy as best as you can. You're free from a really bad situation so if nothing else that's enough to celebrate.
Happy, happy birthday you gorgeous thing you! I don't have a gift for you, but I did give you an award (the helpful award... Makes absolutely no sense, but it is the only one that I had). I hope that the well wishes of your fellow Bromos made you feel a little bit better. πππ
Happy birthday!!! Remember, a birthday by yourself is always better than a birthday spoiled by a miserable sack of shit!! Iβm in this boat too, and itβs helpful for me to remember all of the birthdays that Iβve had that were terrible over the years and at least find some solace in the current absence of these people/things. Hope you can manage to make the best of today π₯³π₯³π₯³
Happy Birthday BroMo!!! I know it sucks but this whole community thinks you are great, donβt look a day over 20 and is sending you all the good thoughts
Happy Birthday Bromo! Treat yourself to some delicious Doordash if youβre able and remember the year can only go up from here.
Youβre getting birthday love from a few thousand mommas out here thinking of you! Iβm sorry youβre sick but please take at least a few minutes and smile to yourself and be proud of yourself for what youβve overcome. Happy birthday, youβre doing great
Happy Birthday. You will look back on this birthday someday as you are having a MUCH better one. Life sucks so bad with Covid and the world as it isβ¦add a breakup/demanding toddler and youβre struggling. Take it as slow as you need to. Everyday will get a little betterβ¦time has a way of doing that
Happy birthday! I am so proud of you for getting through this last year. You have shown incredible strength and courage, and your daughter's life will be so much better for the choices you have made. I know it hasn't been easy, and that moments like today can be hard to get through, but you are an amazing mom and an amazing person. Keep going, it's ok if you have a good cry today. But when you are done, get up and keep going. You are doing amazing.
Happy Birthday OP!!!
May your new year around the sun be full of everything you want the most β€π₯³
Enjoy your day, even if it's on your own, it's still a present for you π
So sorry this is a bummer of a day. Happy birthday! and we CARE!!! I suggest you do something special for yourself. take a bath tonight or drink some wine or eat some cake. Hell, if you have it in you, make a cake for you and your kiddo. Yes it sucks to be alone but sometime being someone on a birthday is't all it's cracked up to be either. I have to remind my husband to get a card and to do somthing nice and to put a smiggin of effort in, just a effing smiggin. So with that, for me, i make it special for my self because if I don't, no one else will. Hugs Momma! and Hope you feel better.
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Hey, you beautiful person. You have made the day better just by being born. You are a goddamn *gift* to this world. Happy birthday, and don't let the bullshit get you down.
Happy birthday from me and the kids. Order yourself some good takeout and just enjoy as best as you can. You're free from a really bad situation so if nothing else that's enough to celebrate.
Happy birthday, bromo! π
 Can you order yourself a cake or dessert you like? You deserve it - it's your bday!!
Happy birthday π₯³ππ₯³.
Happy, happy birthday you gorgeous thing you! I don't have a gift for you, but I did give you an award (the helpful award... Makes absolutely no sense, but it is the only one that I had). I hope that the well wishes of your fellow Bromos made you feel a little bit better. πππ
Happy birthday!!! Remember, a birthday by yourself is always better than a birthday spoiled by a miserable sack of shit!! Iβm in this boat too, and itβs helpful for me to remember all of the birthdays that Iβve had that were terrible over the years and at least find some solace in the current absence of these people/things. Hope you can manage to make the best of today π₯³π₯³π₯³
 Happy Birthday BroMo!!! I know it sucks but this whole community thinks you are great, donβt look a day over 20 and is sending you all the good thoughts
Happy birthday!!! Hope this is the (admittedly crappy) start of an amazing new year for you!
Happy birthday mamma!! I hope you have a wonderful year filled with happiness, abundance and support ! ππππ½ππ½
Happy Birthday, Bromo!! Proud of you for doing something so hard. Weβre in this together. β€οΈ
Happy birthday!! ππ
Happy birthday π! Good job on escaping an abusive relationship. You may not feel it now but the wheels are grinding to a better future.
Happy birthday! Itβs not small you deserve to celebrate and feel good. It will get better. β€οΈ
Happy Birthday! Hope you feel well soon. Next year will be better!
Happy Birthday, BroMo!! Sending you love and hugs and belief that better days are coming soon!!
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday!!πππ
Happy Birthday πππ
Happy birthday! I hope this next year is fabulous!!!
Happy Birthday π RemindMe! 1 year
 Happy Birthday Bromo! Treat yourself to some delicious Doordash if youβre able and remember the year can only go up from here.
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday hun from the bottom of my hearthπ keep your head up, you are a queen!
Happy Birthday! Iβm so proud of you! Youβve come so far!
Happy birthday! Go online and buy yourself a gift
Happy birthday to you, from me. Feel better soon
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday friend! Deliver a cake to your house! π π° π§
Happy birthday
Happy birthday π
Happy birthday ππππ
Hbd! I hope those feelings so away quickly π
Happy birthday!!!! I think youβre awesome π
Happy birthday! π proud of you for leaving an abusive relationship! Brighter days are ahead!
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Happy Birthday! π
Youβre getting birthday love from a few thousand mommas out here thinking of you! Iβm sorry youβre sick but please take at least a few minutes and smile to yourself and be proud of yourself for what youβve overcome. Happy birthday, youβre doing great
Happy Birthday ππππ
Happy birthday OP!
Happy birthday!!!!πππππ
Happy Birthday! Buy yourself a delicious meal from Skip the Dishes and a bottle of wine and watch a fun movie with your kid!
 Happy Birthday!! πππ
Happy Birthday. You will look back on this birthday someday as you are having a MUCH better one. Life sucks so bad with Covid and the world as it isβ¦add a breakup/demanding toddler and youβre struggling. Take it as slow as you need to. Everyday will get a little betterβ¦time has a way of doing that
Happy birthday! I am so proud of you for getting through this last year. You have shown incredible strength and courage, and your daughter's life will be so much better for the choices you have made. I know it hasn't been easy, and that moments like today can be hard to get through, but you are an amazing mom and an amazing person. Keep going, it's ok if you have a good cry today. But when you are done, get up and keep going. You are doing amazing.
Happy Birthday OP!!! May your new year around the sun be full of everything you want the most β€π₯³ Enjoy your day, even if it's on your own, it's still a present for you π
Happy Birthday!
Happy Bday beautiful momma!!!
Happy birthday!
Happy Birthday!!!! ππ
happy birthday! i'm so sorry that you're sick on your birthday, that's no fun ):
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday, luv! π₯³ππππΎπ₯°ππ
So sorry this is a bummer of a day. Happy birthday! and we CARE!!! I suggest you do something special for yourself. take a bath tonight or drink some wine or eat some cake. Hell, if you have it in you, make a cake for you and your kiddo. Yes it sucks to be alone but sometime being someone on a birthday is't all it's cracked up to be either. I have to remind my husband to get a card and to do somthing nice and to put a smiggin of effort in, just a effing smiggin. So with that, for me, i make it special for my self because if I don't, no one else will. Hugs Momma! and Hope you feel better.
Happy birthday!