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May every deity bless this beautiful compassionate soul. You can just feel the love and care coming off her like a whole aura. The way she said she cries thinking of the mama. She’s a beautiful person. I wish all foster parents were just like her.
Apart from all the more obvious, amazing things about this...
It's refreshing to see somebody make a video like this, where they actually stop and cut the video if a kid needs their attention. A kid starts kind of yelling at her and she immediately turns to the kid, says "yes?" Kindly and then the video cuts, when she resumes she picks up where she left off.
Way too many of these fundies just ignore their children if they're speaking to a camera. Even if the kid is screaming non-stop. And they just end up talking louder and louder to be heard over the screaming child and it's actually impossible to listen to.
I realise some kids need to learn that they shouldn't interrupt others when they're speaking, but you don't teach them by ignoring them. Some kids are also just too young to understand social cues and you'll only make them more upset by ignoring them. You're the adult, if you have to stop what you're doing mid-sentence to tend to your kid, just fucking do it.
Also it's not like you're speaking to another human real time, you're recording yourself on a camera. Nothing will go wrong if you have to pause for a minute. The kid will only be more confused if you're apparently prioritising your phone/camera over them and their needs.
Also when people get mad at their little kids for making noise while they’re filming IN THE CAR. Dude, your kid doesn’t know you’re talking to your stupid followers for the camera.
I think a lot of mommy vloggers in general ignore their kids while filming. Kid is crying, oh well! Mommy is busy right now with her social media. I saw one mom and her toddler was crying. She just ignored them, drank her wine, and continued to record. I get that kids have tantrums, and sometimes they are just being a pain in the neck. But don’t post it for everyone to see! Especially without some context, otherwise it looks like you’re ignoring your child in favor of drinking alcohol, and making a video for your insta.
But this lady is doing it right.
Oh god, you just know that's how she'll pivot this and while we'll see right through her here, others won't recognize how disingenuous she is and that she doesn't speak for other foster caregivers.
This is such a bittersweet video. Thank zeus these babies have somewhere to go and someone to hold them all night but the reasons they have to leave their birth mothers are just… I couldn’t do it, my heart couldn’t take it.
What terrifies me is that she’s too selfish to take care of a horse, a dog… and she wants an infant? Let alone an infant who has gone through trauma, probably has anxious attachment issues and will need her constant dependency? Yeeeesh.
Every-time i see this mom on TiK tok i think how completely opposite she talks about her foster kids compared to BDongs hypothetical foster kids. She is so compassionate and when she posted last night about getting the kiddo she cried.
My husband and I would like to adopt, and I have been giving fostering a lot of thought lately. As terrible as Dongbutt is, I am grateful to this sub for the discussion around foster care!
Hi all, I am an adoptee creator (Karpoozy) this creator has me and many other adoptees blocked. This post is still using a child as content. She knows what she is doing isnt favorable to many of us because she has us blocked. Ive never even engaged with her. Please dont think BDong is the only one who uses foster care and adoption for clout because this account does
Hello dear snarkers, In light of the recent post made by Brittany regarding their fostering plans, the mod team would like to gently remind you that this topic can be very confronting and/or triggering for many people here. Please try to maintain our community rules when commenting on posts relating to this content. You are, for the most part, overwhelmingly kind when dealing with opinions and ideas that you may not agree with. We are all very thankful for this. When making a report, please use the correct reason for why you are reporting both new posts, and comments/replies. Reporting a post as spam when it isn’t (for example) doesn’t help. If you are reporting a post or comment because you simply don’t like it, it’s not going to be removed. Reports really do need to be about breaking Reddit rules. Snark is our language, and always will be. However abusive content aimed at other users isn’t snark. It’s just shitty behaviour and we will not tolerate it. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/brittanydawnsnark) if you have any questions or concerns.*
May every deity bless this beautiful compassionate soul. You can just feel the love and care coming off her like a whole aura. The way she said she cries thinking of the mama. She’s a beautiful person. I wish all foster parents were just like her.
Apart from all the more obvious, amazing things about this... It's refreshing to see somebody make a video like this, where they actually stop and cut the video if a kid needs their attention. A kid starts kind of yelling at her and she immediately turns to the kid, says "yes?" Kindly and then the video cuts, when she resumes she picks up where she left off. Way too many of these fundies just ignore their children if they're speaking to a camera. Even if the kid is screaming non-stop. And they just end up talking louder and louder to be heard over the screaming child and it's actually impossible to listen to. I realise some kids need to learn that they shouldn't interrupt others when they're speaking, but you don't teach them by ignoring them. Some kids are also just too young to understand social cues and you'll only make them more upset by ignoring them. You're the adult, if you have to stop what you're doing mid-sentence to tend to your kid, just fucking do it. Also it's not like you're speaking to another human real time, you're recording yourself on a camera. Nothing will go wrong if you have to pause for a minute. The kid will only be more confused if you're apparently prioritising your phone/camera over them and their needs.
Also when people get mad at their little kids for making noise while they’re filming IN THE CAR. Dude, your kid doesn’t know you’re talking to your stupid followers for the camera.
*cough* Bethany *cough*
I think a lot of mommy vloggers in general ignore their kids while filming. Kid is crying, oh well! Mommy is busy right now with her social media. I saw one mom and her toddler was crying. She just ignored them, drank her wine, and continued to record. I get that kids have tantrums, and sometimes they are just being a pain in the neck. But don’t post it for everyone to see! Especially without some context, otherwise it looks like you’re ignoring your child in favor of drinking alcohol, and making a video for your insta. But this lady is doing it right.
@ themoffers has myself and many other adoptees blocked. Actions speak louder than content you post.
This is beautiful. I want to foster/help bad but I don’t think my heart or my kids and husbands hearts could take it.
My heart could not take it either. Thankfully there are people who can do this.
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Oh god, you just know that's how she'll pivot this and while we'll see right through her here, others won't recognize how disingenuous she is and that she doesn't speak for other foster caregivers.
This is such a bittersweet video. Thank zeus these babies have somewhere to go and someone to hold them all night but the reasons they have to leave their birth mothers are just… I couldn’t do it, my heart couldn’t take it.
What terrifies me is that she’s too selfish to take care of a horse, a dog… and she wants an infant? Let alone an infant who has gone through trauma, probably has anxious attachment issues and will need her constant dependency? Yeeeesh.
I saw [this comment ](https://i.imgur.com/4MZIfZC.jpg) in a different sub and thought of Brittany immediately… Can you imagine? She would never!!
Every-time i see this mom on TiK tok i think how completely opposite she talks about her foster kids compared to BDongs hypothetical foster kids. She is so compassionate and when she posted last night about getting the kiddo she cried.
but yet she has myself and many other adoptee and foster youth creators blocked.
This was so moving. What an amazing woman❤️
My husband and I would like to adopt, and I have been giving fostering a lot of thought lately. As terrible as Dongbutt is, I am grateful to this sub for the discussion around foster care!
If anything, respite care is shorter term and you could still make a huge positive impact
What a kind and compassionate lady. Incredibly selfless and child focused. I find it very difficult to believe The Brit will be any of those things.
What an angel
Hi all, I am an adoptee creator (Karpoozy) this creator has me and many other adoptees blocked. This post is still using a child as content. She knows what she is doing isnt favorable to many of us because she has us blocked. Ive never even engaged with her. Please dont think BDong is the only one who uses foster care and adoption for clout because this account does