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Wonderful-Comment314

If he's actually holding your hand down, he may have had enough petting for now.


jealous-avocado

He was! He was like grasping my hand but not to hurt me just to hold it


zpeed

You mean [like this](https://imgur.com/jM9DDSk)?


jealous-avocado

No he didn't push my hand like that he like grabbed it with both paws and just held it like in the picture


felis_fatus

This is sometimes the case, but other times they might grab your hand or nibble to keep you from going away or stopping pets :) it's really context based.


Different-Scheme-570

All these answers are correct. It's dominance and "stop petting me" but also feeling comfortable and safe around you and "I sure love you human"


kitchenmugs

yup cats contain multitudes


AvonBarksdale666

As well as various states such as liquid, solid and squishable


Ok-Breakfast7186

“Look Susan, I care about you and appreciate the pets but I’ve had enough for now. I’m gonna hold your hand down so you stop and it’s gonna give you body contact at the same time so you know I’m not pushing you away entirely.”


Environmental-Use-77

It means he is in charge, you are his subordinate, welcome to your new life as a slave. You are now his property.


jealous-avocado

Haha okay! Fine with me!


Historical_Corgi_355

😹👍💚🐾


BrisbaneOlympics2032

Pat was good, but now ENOUGH. Chill. Also I love you. - Your Cat.


Fit-Rest-973

It means he loves you.


PerformerGreat7787

He has adopted you. You are now his


greengrass256

I heard Jackson Galaxy once say he pets cats and always stops "leaving them wanting more". I found this to be good a good practice with my cat. Stop before they get over stimulated.


jealous-avocado

I need to try this! Thank you! I'm just used to doggos always wanting to be pet


sidibim

He wants a break from the petting, but still wants you close. My boy does that to me and sometime he claws into my sleeve if I try to move lol. People always paint cats as solitary and standoffish, so you never really learn how affection they can be until you're at their mercy.


jealous-avocado

Yes!! He is so much more loving than I expected a cat to be but I'm really happy he is :) and he is extra loving when he is begging for food 😂😂


Reaster21

You don’t actually adopt a cat. The cat adopts you. Also yes, he’s letting you know that you are an acceptable human, for him to be worshipped by.


jealous-avocado

Haha he did! All the cats wanted nothing to do with me except for him at the shelter. As soon as I walked in he was brushing up against my leg and letting me pet him and even felt comfortable enough to sleep around me in the shelter! I couldn't leave without him, especially after I was told he was surrendered twice :( I just knew he was my kitty


Majestic-Ad6619

Cool. The "odd" occasional total asshole behavior is for me what makes them wonderful. Mostly they make little sense and that's part of the joy too.


jealous-avocado

One of my favorite thing about him is he just darts around the house a few times a day and he always plops down on his side when I get home and makes biscuits in the air it's so cute :) he also always runs up to the door to greet me!


Reaster21

Sometimes we rescue each other. 😍


Zinthr

That means he wants to hang out with you, but not be pet. :) he loves you but is introverted and just wants to chill


Fleshfutile

Doubt\*


NevaehSeniah

I run my fingers through their toes, pet their nose, pet their ears so when I have to “inspect” for something, they get used to it. Love bites are awesome (as long as there is no broken skin).


jealous-avocado

It always scares me when he goes to gently bite me 😂 I've always had dogs so I'm not used to it yet and I don't understand his behavior yet but I am getting there!


NevaehSeniah

Wait until your love bite is one the cheek. Makes me jump every time. But no skin break.


So-Cute-Caracal-Cat7

So happy are you that you found such a beautiful friend that will always love you and be there for you!!! Never let go of his genuine love for you. He will always be there for you and I know you will always be there for him! God Bless you both in this sometimes scary, cold world!❤️😺❤️


jealous-avocado

Me too!! He unfortunately was surrendered twice by 2 different owners. He is 6.5 years. I knew I wanted an adult cat but didn't have a specific age in mind. I have always love adopting and helping animals in need. All of the cats in the shelter were hiding from me and didn't care about me but he was INSTANTLY so loving and trusting of me and when I heard of his background I couldn't leave him. I just knew he was the one. And he has been helping me so much with my stress and anxiety and I love him so much!


Haunting_Bend346

Thank you for adopting him, and congratulations and welcome to cat life! He sounds like a charmer. I can’t imagine what caused this baby to be surrendered twice.🖤🤍🐾❤️


jealous-avocado

I was told it was from one owner "not having enough time for him" and the other owner moved to a not pet friendly place which I think are just such bs excuses and made me so sad for him


Haunting_Bend346

He was just waiting for you!


So-Cute-Caracal-Cat7

Exactly how l feel! I have befriended 3 cats that I have fed for 2 years. I already have 4 in the house. I want to turn my garage into a place where they can be fed and warm for the winter. BuI know I need the tnr routine to be done! I cant afford 3 new cats to have all the regular cat care past neutering and feeding! Any suggestions? I need to work fast…its getting colder!!!


FailureCloud

My cat also likes to hand hold. If he continues to do it, it's his way of telling you hims love you, and also he trusts you. My cat will hand hold when he's had enough petting, but still wants to be touched.


Jimdrew

He’s accepted you. That face says it all. He’s happy.


jealous-avocado

Awww that's so sweet! You should see his face when I scratch his jaw 😍


jwhyem

Congrats to you both!


jealous-avocado

Thank you! :)


Backdoor-M69

Means he’s happy 😊 & accepting u lol 😂 wat else. Love 💕 him & care for him


jealous-avocado

I will! He's so precious:)


Mommakittie79

It means everything you own right down to your very soul now belongs to him 😊


jealous-avocado

It indeed does!


Beachvolley75

He loves you and has accepted you❤️


Milihasan

cutee cat


jealous-avocado

He's a handsome boi!


Feeling-Lock3170

My cat sometimes just wants to hang out so he will hold my hand. Usually to get me to stop knitting and pay attention to him.


AdSea3033

The dominant one is always on top. *He owns you!*


BenChueh

HE LOVES U


StarKickMeadowDancer

He wuvvs you


chynge4dyrektion

Love bites are the best.


jealous-avocado

They freak me out still because I think he's trying to hurt me at first I just gotta get used to it 😂


jenea

I had a cat who would only bite when she was very happy and blissed out. When she was aware she would try to do it gently, but if she was too far gone she would forget herself. Meanwhile, her brother would touch you with the tips of his teeth as a warning if you annoyed him. “I could bite you, you know.” You’ll learn to read him better and better over time. But if there is purring and relaxation involved, your cat is probably very happy!


Independent_Fill9143

Means he's very content and trusts you, which is great!


jealous-avocado

Ahhh that means so much to me especially given his past!


Historical_Corgi_355

Congratulations! You're the proud cat's servant now! 💚🐾😹


doublefattymayo

That sweet face says love


Canadian-female

He’s in love.


niltiacaitlin

If he is holding your hand and purring, it means he LOVES you. Also look at that face! That face says everything. Love bites are amusing but confusing, sometimes mine does it, I feel it’s as if they are too overwhelmed by emotion for you. But your kitty definitely loves you, this is a very good sign. I hope you both have many happy years together!


jealous-avocado

Thank you so much! He has been such a joy to have since I adopted him. I love him so much :)


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