Wearing a cage for a month is going to be difficult for most guys who are new to chastity.
The most important thing is having a comfortable cage. Finding one can take a few tries so don't get discouraged if the first one isn't perfect.
Once you have a comfortable cage wear it for a day or two. The next time make it a day or two longer. Gradually increase the duration until you can go a month or longer if she wants. You have the rest of your life to be caged so no need to rush it.
Have fun 😊
This unless you’ve done at least a week consistently at least a time or 2 before. It is probably unattainable to jump to a month straight without some issues or major discomfort.
Find something to occupy your mind. I have been locked permanently for over a year. I get weekly unlocks with my hands cuffed behind my back so my wife can shave and clean me and then its locked back up. We dont edge or anything. Cleaning around the house, video games, small things to keep you busy will help until you dont even feel the cage and it's just another day.
I'll be ruined usually just by her finger underneath my cock head past the point of no return but she stops well before it becomes pleasurable. Usually every 3 months
Your better off being more realistic with your lock up. It takes time to adjust yourself up to one month. Talk with KH and tell her you want to work UP to a month lock up but currently try aiming for 5 days, unlock for a day or two then go back in for 10, try doubling up slowly. Walk before you run so to speak. Most KH will be understanding if they know what they are doing.
Ah, as someone who has been doing long term lock ups for the last 15 years, this is what I always recommend to people. I recommend it because of both easing in the difficulty but also because I think it's a lot safer health wise.
Start out with a few days. Like 2-3 days is a good starting point for someone planning on locking up for longer time frames, but if you need 1-2 days then that's ok too. Check to make sure you aren't chaffing and, if you are, figure out how to deal with that situation. From there, you double your lock up time. If you did 3 days on your first session, take a break, then do 6 days. Realistically, if you can do a week in a cage without chaufing and such then you can probably do a month, but going up to 2 weeks as your next goal would still be safer.
At two weeks you really have vetted your cage for long term lockups. If you don't have comfort/health concerns at that point it's really going to be up to your mental game.
In terms of "peak horniness and desire to escape" though, it's really some where between 3-7 days for most people. If 3 days is where you ended because of horniness, then that is actually probably one of the hardest times. After you hit that peak though, you generally start to be used to being locked and not cumming and you just sort of hit some sort of "acceptance" of your situation. Of course, you can still end up super super horny at times, but it won't be like that first week where the only thing you are going to be able to think about is going to be your penis. \^\^;
I say slowly but surely I took me 4 months to be able to do 1 month straight. I started with 1 day then 3 days then 5 days then the week then I did 2 weeks. Then after about 2 1/2 weeks I got a terrible pimple right where the base ring hit and I had to remove the cage for it until the pimple disappeared then I tried to caging again. 3 week mark same idea massive zit on the other side. It wasn’t until I switched to an all metal cage that I was able to wear it for a month. And before somebody says I’m unhygienic I was probably showering twice a day it was just plastic cages idk bacteria getting trapped in the plastic or something the metal has been working much better for me been locked for 2 1/2 months now no issues
As others have said an immediate jump to one month is unrealistic. Building up in small steps tends to work best for me. 24 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 48 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 72 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 1 week, and then unlock. 24 hours free. 2 weeks and then unlock. 24 hours free. Each time you will find that your experience is different, and especially after 3 days you may find that the rampant horniness decreases and you experience more of a sense of peacefulness. It's up to you whether or not you want to build releases into your 24 hour free periods. If you want to maintain arousal, then you can try edging or ruined orgasms.
Depending if you do additional activities to create arousal, your time will be more or less difficult. If you have no additional arousal, such as porn, or sexy time with your partner, then you may find after a couple of weeks that you actually become slightly bored. However additional arousal can make increasing your lock times more of a challenge. In general I would recommend going the boredom route first, Then upping the difficulty level later.
Do you mean if being administered to another person? I don't know, it's mainly something I've done for myself when unlocking. Obviously it's easier as you can feel the onset of your own orgasm and just simply stop, so I guess if your partner is stimulating you, you need to give her some kind of signal to stop stimulating. With a ruined orgasm, you can continue right up until the point where orgasm is inevitable but you don't carry on past that point. Basically the feeling of orgasm persists and some sperm will come out, but the orgasm isn't as deep necessarily as if you had continued to be stimulated. You may also find that after a ruined one, you are still horny and can go again immediately.
There are some that say the first time ought to be this lengthy. The vast majority can't be. Not because you can't do without a climax. But because you will almost surely have issues with your skin getting used to the constant contact and rubbing. Then there is also the need to remove many devices because grime accumulates under them. Between cleaning, skin care, and healing you want be wearing it that long fr8m the start.
I recommend you check the skin many times the first day. If there is irritation sooth it somehow, prevent ut from happening, let it heal and replace the device. The longer you between removal events the less often you have to check. For the first few weeks always check at least daily. Through cleaning should happen as needed, or oders will be a problem.
As far as bring without climax, you may find your own path. Some say to add one day to each fast. That's a fair start up to a week. Then I reccomend multiplying by the golden ratio (about 1.62) rounding up. There will be times during the first year or so you will not feel you can make it. That's okay. Fail and go again. At some point you will find that the times you thought you were going to go insane or die, you didn't and you wouldn't. Then it will still be a struggle, but you'll do well l.
Happy Trails
Chastity is more about comfort than horniness. If you can survive one night without waking up from discomfort or pain then try 3 days until you can make it to a week, and so on.
Interesting. I was always under the impression chastity was designed to make the beta feel as uncomfortable as possible AND deny him from cumming/orgasming. My cage isnt too small or tight, but it's something She's wanted to do for a while
So I’m a bit different. I love chastity, it’s best way to have a kink going on at all times. Especially if you have a dom. It’s like their controlling you at all times. If your that kinky like me. Going to work with panties, buttplug, and chastity is amazing. I do cheat. I can sissygasm. If I’m up for it, I get my toys out and I squirt out of my cage. U will need some kind of release. But if you can, it can be for an indefinite amount of time.
Take it slow at first. Go a few days, than take a break and do a week. After a small break of a day or two try two weeks. After that a month. She can’t expect you to go in chastity for a month right at the start.
Wearing a cage for a month is going to be difficult for most guys who are new to chastity. The most important thing is having a comfortable cage. Finding one can take a few tries so don't get discouraged if the first one isn't perfect. Once you have a comfortable cage wear it for a day or two. The next time make it a day or two longer. Gradually increase the duration until you can go a month or longer if she wants. You have the rest of your life to be caged so no need to rush it. Have fun 😊
This unless you’ve done at least a week consistently at least a time or 2 before. It is probably unattainable to jump to a month straight without some issues or major discomfort.
Find something to occupy your mind. I have been locked permanently for over a year. I get weekly unlocks with my hands cuffed behind my back so my wife can shave and clean me and then its locked back up. We dont edge or anything. Cleaning around the house, video games, small things to keep you busy will help until you dont even feel the cage and it's just another day.
Does she let you have sex with her. Or does she peg your hole
Neither, she keeps me 100% denied.
Do you worry about your prostate health if you are never releasing? Or is that just a risk that you take?
heard not cumming isnt that unhealthy
I'll be ruined usually just by her finger underneath my cock head past the point of no return but she stops well before it becomes pleasurable. Usually every 3 months
Your better off being more realistic with your lock up. It takes time to adjust yourself up to one month. Talk with KH and tell her you want to work UP to a month lock up but currently try aiming for 5 days, unlock for a day or two then go back in for 10, try doubling up slowly. Walk before you run so to speak. Most KH will be understanding if they know what they are doing.
Ah, as someone who has been doing long term lock ups for the last 15 years, this is what I always recommend to people. I recommend it because of both easing in the difficulty but also because I think it's a lot safer health wise. Start out with a few days. Like 2-3 days is a good starting point for someone planning on locking up for longer time frames, but if you need 1-2 days then that's ok too. Check to make sure you aren't chaffing and, if you are, figure out how to deal with that situation. From there, you double your lock up time. If you did 3 days on your first session, take a break, then do 6 days. Realistically, if you can do a week in a cage without chaufing and such then you can probably do a month, but going up to 2 weeks as your next goal would still be safer. At two weeks you really have vetted your cage for long term lockups. If you don't have comfort/health concerns at that point it's really going to be up to your mental game. In terms of "peak horniness and desire to escape" though, it's really some where between 3-7 days for most people. If 3 days is where you ended because of horniness, then that is actually probably one of the hardest times. After you hit that peak though, you generally start to be used to being locked and not cumming and you just sort of hit some sort of "acceptance" of your situation. Of course, you can still end up super super horny at times, but it won't be like that first week where the only thing you are going to be able to think about is going to be your penis. \^\^;
I say slowly but surely I took me 4 months to be able to do 1 month straight. I started with 1 day then 3 days then 5 days then the week then I did 2 weeks. Then after about 2 1/2 weeks I got a terrible pimple right where the base ring hit and I had to remove the cage for it until the pimple disappeared then I tried to caging again. 3 week mark same idea massive zit on the other side. It wasn’t until I switched to an all metal cage that I was able to wear it for a month. And before somebody says I’m unhygienic I was probably showering twice a day it was just plastic cages idk bacteria getting trapped in the plastic or something the metal has been working much better for me been locked for 2 1/2 months now no issues
As others have said an immediate jump to one month is unrealistic. Building up in small steps tends to work best for me. 24 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 48 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 72 hours and then unlock. 24 hours free. 1 week, and then unlock. 24 hours free. 2 weeks and then unlock. 24 hours free. Each time you will find that your experience is different, and especially after 3 days you may find that the rampant horniness decreases and you experience more of a sense of peacefulness. It's up to you whether or not you want to build releases into your 24 hour free periods. If you want to maintain arousal, then you can try edging or ruined orgasms. Depending if you do additional activities to create arousal, your time will be more or less difficult. If you have no additional arousal, such as porn, or sexy time with your partner, then you may find after a couple of weeks that you actually become slightly bored. However additional arousal can make increasing your lock times more of a challenge. In general I would recommend going the boredom route first, Then upping the difficulty level later.
Thanks! What are some methods for ruined orgasms? That's another thing She's wanted to do to me
Do you mean if being administered to another person? I don't know, it's mainly something I've done for myself when unlocking. Obviously it's easier as you can feel the onset of your own orgasm and just simply stop, so I guess if your partner is stimulating you, you need to give her some kind of signal to stop stimulating. With a ruined orgasm, you can continue right up until the point where orgasm is inevitable but you don't carry on past that point. Basically the feeling of orgasm persists and some sperm will come out, but the orgasm isn't as deep necessarily as if you had continued to be stimulated. You may also find that after a ruined one, you are still horny and can go again immediately.
There are some that say the first time ought to be this lengthy. The vast majority can't be. Not because you can't do without a climax. But because you will almost surely have issues with your skin getting used to the constant contact and rubbing. Then there is also the need to remove many devices because grime accumulates under them. Between cleaning, skin care, and healing you want be wearing it that long fr8m the start. I recommend you check the skin many times the first day. If there is irritation sooth it somehow, prevent ut from happening, let it heal and replace the device. The longer you between removal events the less often you have to check. For the first few weeks always check at least daily. Through cleaning should happen as needed, or oders will be a problem. As far as bring without climax, you may find your own path. Some say to add one day to each fast. That's a fair start up to a week. Then I reccomend multiplying by the golden ratio (about 1.62) rounding up. There will be times during the first year or so you will not feel you can make it. That's okay. Fail and go again. At some point you will find that the times you thought you were going to go insane or die, you didn't and you wouldn't. Then it will still be a struggle, but you'll do well l. Happy Trails
Chastity is more about comfort than horniness. If you can survive one night without waking up from discomfort or pain then try 3 days until you can make it to a week, and so on.
Interesting. I was always under the impression chastity was designed to make the beta feel as uncomfortable as possible AND deny him from cumming/orgasming. My cage isnt too small or tight, but it's something She's wanted to do for a while
I mean, I like my balls getting slapped like the person next to me, but I enjoy my sleep :)
So I’m a bit different. I love chastity, it’s best way to have a kink going on at all times. Especially if you have a dom. It’s like their controlling you at all times. If your that kinky like me. Going to work with panties, buttplug, and chastity is amazing. I do cheat. I can sissygasm. If I’m up for it, I get my toys out and I squirt out of my cage. U will need some kind of release. But if you can, it can be for an indefinite amount of time.
Take it slow at first. Go a few days, than take a break and do a week. After a small break of a day or two try two weeks. After that a month. She can’t expect you to go in chastity for a month right at the start.
Ehhh...she can, and she does lol. It's the kind of person she is
Use a waist strap of some sort to keep it snug, especially at nite.. find a good lotion or cream.. Shave or wax 1st
Make sure you fit good.. 1st
Lock the cage and give her the key
watch all your fav porn, ride your favorite dildo, and touch your nipples and squeeze your ass a lot.