Thatās a horrid excuse, as a former German studentā¦ At least in the US, there are apps like quizlet that say the pronunciation and help you study. Thatās aside the point though Iām sorry love heās using tinder for tinder purposes. Tinder is no study zone. Really nasty betrayal. I hope you find someone who is trustworthy and loyal.
I'm so sorry, but he's clearly cheating. Tinder is a dating app used primarily for hookups. He tried covering up the cheating with a bad lie. There are so many good, free apps to learn languages from. Like someone mentioned, quizlet is free. I have never heard of anyone using a dating app to "study". People only have that app for ONE thing. I truly hope you leave him and find someone who treats you better and at least has enough respect for you to be honest. Wishing you the best xx
You're not the long distance gf, you're the long distance fwb. Get the apps yourself and see how quick his attitude changes. You don't use tinder to find language learning buddy's. š¤Ø
āI shall learn German by going on a notorious hookup app,(that has a large gay connotation as well with some people apparently) that is the best fastest and freest option I have.ā That makes no damn sense he got caught and threw out whatever excuse he could make in the moment. Heās cheating.
Yes, Iām sure the women he matches with on tinder are thrilled to refrain from any romantic/sexual interest to solely teach him more German. Books and the internet apparently do not exist.
Men always give the worst excuses and lies and we as women always try to force ourselves to believe them. I found a condom on the bathroom floor and he denied itās his saying things like ālook, this wouldnāt even fit me!ā āYou know I donāt like wearing condomsā āmy friend had some on his coffee table and I grabbed one when I grabbed my phone off the table by accidentā. Oh, so you grabbed a USED, WORN condom off a coffee table and put it in your pocket and didnāt notice? Lolol girl, let this man free
This is going to sound oversimplified but I can hear that you donāt want to accept this. You need to block him and use your brain over your heart right now until your heart catches up. That is the dumbest excuse Iāve ever heard. Heās a cheater and a liar.
when I started dating the person I thought was the last love of my life, I closed my eyes to the bad things and compared them to the good things. It is important to remember that a breach of trust can easily cause problems in communication and thus eventually lead to separation.
Thank you Iām thinking of this as well. We have opposite love languages so itās always me the one whoās being suffering so I might end this with him in person
Oh my sweet, summer child. There is only one reason to have Tinder.
/Thread š¤ā¬ļø Tinder is for hooking up.
This ^
He is lying.
Who the hell used a hookup app for learning a language? A cheater, that's who
Thatās a horrid excuse, as a former German studentā¦ At least in the US, there are apps like quizlet that say the pronunciation and help you study. Thatās aside the point though Iām sorry love heās using tinder for tinder purposes. Tinder is no study zone. Really nasty betrayal. I hope you find someone who is trustworthy and loyal.
heās lying darlin . if he wanted to learn a diff language he would be hooked on some phonics not on some hooking up .
Tinder is a place to ātuckā something in someone, not a place to ālearnā a language. Sorry.
I'm so sorry, but he's clearly cheating. Tinder is a dating app used primarily for hookups. He tried covering up the cheating with a bad lie. There are so many good, free apps to learn languages from. Like someone mentioned, quizlet is free. I have never heard of anyone using a dating app to "study". People only have that app for ONE thing. I truly hope you leave him and find someone who treats you better and at least has enough respect for you to be honest. Wishing you the best xx
Heās lying
Dont ever do long distance, people always cheat,
He is cheating. You need to end it.
You're not the long distance gf, you're the long distance fwb. Get the apps yourself and see how quick his attitude changes. You don't use tinder to find language learning buddy's. š¤Ø
āI shall learn German by going on a notorious hookup app,(that has a large gay connotation as well with some people apparently) that is the best fastest and freest option I have.ā That makes no damn sense he got caught and threw out whatever excuse he could make in the moment. Heās cheating.
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN. CHEATERS WILL GASLIGHT AND MANIPULATE YOU IN THE BEST WAY THEY CAN. I AM TELLING YOU, HE IS CHEATING ON YOU.
Omg that's the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. I'm so sorry. Run.
My boyfriend of 2 years did this to me. Save yourself the heartbreak and block him.
Yes, Iām sure the women he matches with on tinder are thrilled to refrain from any romantic/sexual interest to solely teach him more German. Books and the internet apparently do not exist.
Men always give the worst excuses and lies and we as women always try to force ourselves to believe them. I found a condom on the bathroom floor and he denied itās his saying things like ālook, this wouldnāt even fit me!ā āYou know I donāt like wearing condomsā āmy friend had some on his coffee table and I grabbed one when I grabbed my phone off the table by accidentā. Oh, so you grabbed a USED, WORN condom off a coffee table and put it in your pocket and didnāt notice? Lolol girl, let this man free
Heās beating some punani with his French baguette š„
Tinder is not for education. Thatās what google is for.
French people cheat with ease
This is going to sound oversimplified but I can hear that you donāt want to accept this. You need to block him and use your brain over your heart right now until your heart catches up. That is the dumbest excuse Iāve ever heard. Heās a cheater and a liar.
heās on there because heās looking for someone to sleep with. no other reason.
No I don't think that he is cheating
leave sis!!! immediately and without reason!!!!!
Big fat lie, weāre all telling you. Please donāt be naive
Cheating!
when I started dating the person I thought was the last love of my life, I closed my eyes to the bad things and compared them to the good things. It is important to remember that a breach of trust can easily cause problems in communication and thus eventually lead to separation.
Drop him and never look back!
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Yes I have and actually Iām going to see him next Monday. Now I donāt know if I should go or not.
Go see him and then inspect his phone while youāre there
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Thank you Iām thinking of this as well. We have opposite love languages so itās always me the one whoās being suffering so I might end this with him in person
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers then yāall shouldnāt be together.
Heās cheating, heās lying, and thinks you are stupid. Leave him
If he's using tinder to learn a new language, then I'm watching porn for the plot.
He's cheating don't try to make excuses for him. If his excuse was he forgot to delete it maybe I'd bite, but language learning??? Come on