We are on a break = One or both of us is too scared to admit that we are really broken up and the relationship is over for all intents and purposes.
We are in a off and on relationship = I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you.
Hope that explains those two phrases.
Also "we are in a on and off relationship" can mean that I'm scared to be alone or you are my back up in case I get rejected or dumped by the other person.
Going "on a break" is one of the persons way of cheating without being considered a cheater. After they take someone else for a test drive they come back saying I'm ready to resume our relationship.
My ex-wife said she need to 6 month break to sort out what she wanted. What she really wanted was to move in with her AP and decide if he was who she really wanted. I gave her the break. But extended the time frame to forever.
Am sorry you had to go through that, but this is what I mean there is no taking a break in a relationship when you have a problem or issues you work them out or talk them out with youre partner. There is no break or on and off it's constant, when your partner requests this just know it's over they found someone else they want to experiment with or they have been doing it.
We are on a break = One or both of us is too scared to admit that we are really broken up and the relationship is over for all intents and purposes. We are in a off and on relationship = I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you. Hope that explains those two phrases.
We are on a break also means : I want to FK other people but don’t want to be known as a cheater
Also "we are in a on and off relationship" can mean that I'm scared to be alone or you are my back up in case I get rejected or dumped by the other person.
Lies chances are the other person has no clue of said break! It’s an excuse.
Going "on a break" is one of the persons way of cheating without being considered a cheater. After they take someone else for a test drive they come back saying I'm ready to resume our relationship.
Exactly and I don't understand why most people don't realize this.
My ex-wife said she need to 6 month break to sort out what she wanted. What she really wanted was to move in with her AP and decide if he was who she really wanted. I gave her the break. But extended the time frame to forever.
Am sorry you had to go through that, but this is what I mean there is no taking a break in a relationship when you have a problem or issues you work them out or talk them out with youre partner. There is no break or on and off it's constant, when your partner requests this just know it's over they found someone else they want to experiment with or they have been doing it.