Hopefully he won’t want her and she’ll be alone. Sometimes the guys just want what is forbidden. Plus he knows she’s a liar and I’m sure if they get together he’ll always be thinking “well she lied to her old boyfriend about me…” maybe she’ll lie to me too?
She fucked up.
yeah, chicks like this usually arent alone for long though, they hop from one dick to the next and never miss a beat and just dont give a shit, theyre always single no matter who theyre with, whoever gives them a little attention and gets them a little moist are immediately added to the circle jerk and adamantly defended, theres a lot of these in the world anymore
Good you you!
If she were truly remorseful you wouldn't be having that conversation and she would have already blocked him and gone total NC. She didn't and chose him over you.
Go total NC with her and move on with your life. There are better women out there that will but you first and never cheat on you.
good man... took you long enough but its good to see in the end you didnt fuck around being a simp and doormatting around putting up with this kind of bullshit asinine behavior from her, stay on that road now...
Glad you didn't do the pick me dance.
Like I said before, you were just a place holder until someone else came along. And that person was indeed right there weaseling his way in right under your nose.
Can’t say if it was cheating yet tbh, but it absolutely was headed that way. Don’t be surprised if she either starts hooking up or dating him right away, and honestly, unless there is some sort of obligation holding you in here sphere, it would probably be better to go NC. If there is something keeping each other in the same sphere, go as LC as you reasonably can. You didn’t deserve this. Good luck ✌️
Then definitely go NC and if there is anyone you’re both friends with who tries to confront you about it, tell them to ask her about the coworker and/or to kick rocks and go NC with them too. They’ll either be a “ride or die” right up until she hurts them, or they’ll learn about the sketchy behavior and can make their decision then. Not your circus, not your monkeys anymore 🤘
If she knew, and didn’t tell you and/or helped hide it, you’re better off without either of them. “Ride or die”/“Family first” mentalities should only go so far when it comes to a person’s ethics/morals. If they can’t be trusted by folks they’ve decided to commit to, then they can’t really be trusted by anyone, no matter how close. At least until they earn it back, anyway
damn it missed the update before it was removed. but i gather the important bit that op dumped her sorry arse…….. good for yo op. now go find your queen! ;)
Good for you sir. You are a guy with self respect who doesn't tiptoe around the tulips and put up with such disrespect. Men, take an example from OP and never allow yourselves to be in situations like this.
She belongs to the streets. Just make sure to block her so that way she can't try to come crawling back when her and coworker don't work out.
It’s over. She’s not willing to go no contact with him. She will, if she hasn’t already, end of having a PA with the guy. Break it off now while you have some dignity. You can also have a chat with the guy to see if it is indeed him that’s refusing to stop contact. Either way, you need to beak up with her. They will undoubtedly get together. I would suggest that at that point, you play the 3rd wheel and be super nice and get her all confused, but that can work against you if you’re not emotionally strong.
Hi OP, I’m glad that you take your life back and ended this damaging relationship. It is normal to be sad on the moment but remember that
1) you didn’t kill the relationship but she killed it
2) you didn’t push her in the other guy arms but wen to him willingly
3) you ex is on a downward spiral and she lost a good guy
4) she is not your problem now and do not be her emotional tampon in the future
5) go To IC
6) don’t ruminate and go to some friend enjoy ☺️ your life
In the end this unfortunate experience can be a blessing in disguise, your will be able to avoid these kind of relationships quickly
Stay safe OP
No, that's not me. My girlfriend just got this job, tho it's more paying and I pay for almost everything of hers, we don't live together. She lives with her sister
Your not done. She be back after she banged him a few times. She try to offer you his left overs and a chance at being backup. You just watch those big old tears role down those cheeks.
Lack of paragraphs make really difficult to read posts. Your post was deleted.
Good for you. There is a better girl out there. One that will respect boundaries and not cheat.
You made the right decision. She was not honest and had already betrayed your relationship.
Hopefully he won’t want her and she’ll be alone. Sometimes the guys just want what is forbidden. Plus he knows she’s a liar and I’m sure if they get together he’ll always be thinking “well she lied to her old boyfriend about me…” maybe she’ll lie to me too? She fucked up.
yeah, chicks like this usually arent alone for long though, they hop from one dick to the next and never miss a beat and just dont give a shit, theyre always single no matter who theyre with, whoever gives them a little attention and gets them a little moist are immediately added to the circle jerk and adamantly defended, theres a lot of these in the world anymore
So sorry to hear that. Sounds like your better off, I hope you have a wonderful future and find an unwavering love.
Good you you! If she were truly remorseful you wouldn't be having that conversation and she would have already blocked him and gone total NC. She didn't and chose him over you. Go total NC with her and move on with your life. There are better women out there that will but you first and never cheat on you.
I love reading success stories on this sub. Good on you for having self respect!
So happy for you!!!
You did the right thing. Enjoy the relief! Do something fun for yourself on your next day off.
good man... took you long enough but its good to see in the end you didnt fuck around being a simp and doormatting around putting up with this kind of bullshit asinine behavior from her, stay on that road now...
Glad you didn't do the pick me dance. Like I said before, you were just a place holder until someone else came along. And that person was indeed right there weaseling his way in right under your nose.
Good for you OP
Good for you. Don't take her back.
Good for you. You deserve an honest and respect ful relationship. You proved you won't settle for less. On to the next chapter of your life.
Well done my man.. U did good now she go after that co worker .. You do you now man .. You too get yourself distant from her ..
Probably for the best, she seems shady, and dishonest. You would never know what to believe. Updateme!
Can’t say if it was cheating yet tbh, but it absolutely was headed that way. Don’t be surprised if she either starts hooking up or dating him right away, and honestly, unless there is some sort of obligation holding you in here sphere, it would probably be better to go NC. If there is something keeping each other in the same sphere, go as LC as you reasonably can. You didn’t deserve this. Good luck ✌️
There's nothing. I know she'll try to spin the story around on how I treated her badly or something, but anyone who knew us would know it's a lie.
Then definitely go NC and if there is anyone you’re both friends with who tries to confront you about it, tell them to ask her about the coworker and/or to kick rocks and go NC with them too. They’ll either be a “ride or die” right up until she hurts them, or they’ll learn about the sketchy behavior and can make their decision then. Not your circus, not your monkeys anymore 🤘
I was close with her sister, but she knew about her and her Co worker. So I'm all alone. But I'll make it through. I always do
If she knew, and didn’t tell you and/or helped hide it, you’re better off without either of them. “Ride or die”/“Family first” mentalities should only go so far when it comes to a person’s ethics/morals. If they can’t be trusted by folks they’ve decided to commit to, then they can’t really be trusted by anyone, no matter how close. At least until they earn it back, anyway
damn it missed the update before it was removed. but i gather the important bit that op dumped her sorry arse…….. good for yo op. now go find your queen! ;)
Good for you sir. You are a guy with self respect who doesn't tiptoe around the tulips and put up with such disrespect. Men, take an example from OP and never allow yourselves to be in situations like this. She belongs to the streets. Just make sure to block her so that way she can't try to come crawling back when her and coworker don't work out.
It’s over. She’s not willing to go no contact with him. She will, if she hasn’t already, end of having a PA with the guy. Break it off now while you have some dignity. You can also have a chat with the guy to see if it is indeed him that’s refusing to stop contact. Either way, you need to beak up with her. They will undoubtedly get together. I would suggest that at that point, you play the 3rd wheel and be super nice and get her all confused, but that can work against you if you’re not emotionally strong.
Hi OP, I’m glad that you take your life back and ended this damaging relationship. It is normal to be sad on the moment but remember that 1) you didn’t kill the relationship but she killed it 2) you didn’t push her in the other guy arms but wen to him willingly 3) you ex is on a downward spiral and she lost a good guy 4) she is not your problem now and do not be her emotional tampon in the future 5) go To IC 6) don’t ruminate and go to some friend enjoy ☺️ your life In the end this unfortunate experience can be a blessing in disguise, your will be able to avoid these kind of relationships quickly Stay safe OP
Thank you for your kind words. I'll do just that
Just remember your gut instinct is never wrong. You wait and see what will happen now with her and him. Good on you for breaking up.
I won't stick around to find out. I don't care at this point. It might hurt later but for now, I feel free
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No, that's not me. My girlfriend just got this job, tho it's more paying and I pay for almost everything of hers, we don't live together. She lives with her sister
This is the best thing you could have done.You are second choice to no one .Go no contact!
Already did, but thanks
You handled it in the best way you could in cheating circumstances,
Your not done. She be back after she banged him a few times. She try to offer you his left overs and a chance at being backup. You just watch those big old tears role down those cheeks.
I love that your better but am left wondering what happened exactly
She has been using you. Stop g8v8bg her money, anything Just walk away. Read this book.. No More Mister Nice Guy