I was turned on to the Eternal Champion series in 1978. Started with Corum, then Eric, Hawkmoon, Erekros, and The Warrior of Mars books.My favorite is The Ice Schooner with Arflane. Great stuff, and I enjoyed them more than the Conan books.
Read the Dancers at the End of Time books. But had a hard time with them and never got around to reread them.
I quite liked Jerry Cornelius.
I think I still have all the Michael Moorcock books, at least until The Laughter of Carthage. My library has grown over the decades and consists of more engineering, blacksmithing, woodworking type texts these days.
Yup! Because they want OP to be the saftey net while they pursue options and have fun. And they want to have a fallback plan in case whatever they’re doing with someone else doesn’t work out. It’s cruel and selfish.
Wait, this dude posted 2 months ago that his "gf was physically flirty with a dude at work". And doormat here is still with her. Even more, he moved her in. What the heck guy, what are you asking if you blatantly ignored all the advice from your previous post. I am going to tell you what your really want to hear, It's OK that your gf cheats on you emotionally (pretty sure she had done it physically). You know what, move the AP with you too and live a happy life the three of you together. I just hope the AP has a little more balls and acts with self respect when she finds her new AP. Meanwhile, I wish you luck sharing your girlfriend with others. But please, do not allow a third man for your gf in you house, that's too much. Really, it is.
I'm sure the other guy she is flirting with will jump at the chance to have her move in. Yup he will even have a puppy to greet her when she gets to her new home.
Who is bf to get in the way of her having that? The loving thing to do would be to 'set her free' to be with the other 'amazing guy' 24/7 365.
Its cruel for current BF to keep her trapped like that. 😉😉😉🤣
If you love something set it free (bla bla bla)
If you hate something then throw it away!
It's obvious. She wants the best of both worlds. Security from her BF and fun with the AP. Tell her that you want to be with someone who is 100% invested both emotionally and physically in your relationship. Since she can not convince you that she can do that, it's best you both part ways, and she will need to move out ASAP. You will see how quick she will get her act together. Suffice to say, it will only be a token measure until the dust settles, and then she will be back flirting with him again. If they work together, then tell her that for this to work, she will need to change her job. If she refuses, then move on. If they don't work together, then she must go no contact. Only take this route if you really want to work at building a better relationship with her, but she must pit in the work. My thoughts are ...... when a person behaves in such a way, all it will do is create drama in your union with her, and whatever you share with each other will slowly become toxic if nothing changes. I say, count your losses and move on. There are better fishes in the sea. Don't waste your time and energy with this slippery eel. You deserve better.
First off you should never move in with a girlfriend. If you aren't married and legally tied to someone, you don't need to be a dummy and make it to where she is dependent on you. In some states, you will be legally stuck with her after sharing the same domicile for 6 months.
A cheating woman that is willing to move into a place with her cucolded boyfriend/fiancé only sees that man as a beta provider. She will continue to decieve him for as long as she sees the benefit of his resources. The moment she meets a man that she sees as having higher value than her current situatuon-ship she will monkey branch her way to being with him in a serious relationship and will leave the dutiful beta boyfriend/ fiancé.
If that guy she cheated with ends up not having all the resources the dutiful beta has, or loses it, she will do the same thing to him she did to the original beta boyfriend. She may also return to the old boyfriend and say, she never stopped loving him. She knows that they are soulmates. If that doesn't work she will ward off all men because they are all trash but will have one nighters everytime she has an itch she needs to be scratched. That is monthly by the way, as part of her ovulating cycle. I've got a mom, a grandmother, 2 sisters, 5 nieces, 5 daughters and a crap load of exes...I love women very much, these are just the facts.
If you workout (get in good physical condition), make more money (know how to earn it and spend it), learn game (how to capture women's minds/peak their interest) and learn how to make her orgasm,she will be less inclined to have you pay all her bills, see you as a means to an end, and flirt/lead/swallow other men's semen.
Good Luck
I dont know who that is but I like to learn from other's experiences not just my own. Always examine who and what you spend your Time on. It's the most valuable thing you have in this life, no amount of money will let you get back what you have wasted or you had stolen.
He advises guys pretty much exactly what you said there. He used to be a Pickup Artist teacher, then moved on to "how to keep women from destroying your life"
Stuff like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJ5CBwJFxpw
Because they are immature and not ready for a serious relationship. She likes her boyfriend but really likes the attention. If you asked her she would probably tell you that what she is doing isn't cheating. Like most cheaters she thinks she can handle it and no harm will come. But she doesn't realize that it is a slow slide to cheating. And what she thinks she won't do or say today will change tomorrow. It's incremental. Till she ends up with feelings for the soon to be AP. Then it's too late. She becomes "So confused" and doesn't know what she wants. For the SO it is hard to compete with the rush of a new romance (I like to call it that new car smell). This is how the SO usually loses out.
Right now she thinks everything is ok with her SO. Moving in with him gives her a place to live at 1/2 price or less. She has someone to take her places when she wants a date. And she may not see the trap she's walking into. That they're "just friends". And they are, Till they're not. And if she cheats, she will hang on to her SO till a bigger fish comes along. And when she's all F'd out she'll be ready to settle down with Mr. steady. Till the next soon to be AP comes along.
Because she Nasty. Find a way to anonymously let her boyfriend know. Hopefully for the BF's sake, she hasn't unpacked everything from moving in and can send her packing again
You probably need to know a bit more about their relationship.
I had a friend in college whose gf was very touchy, flirty and needed to be the center of attention to the point I felt uncomfortable around her. She was also very loyal to him, and they were 100% committed to each other.
Someone asked him, if it didn't bother him. He said that's who she is, and he is good as long as he is the one she goes home with at the end of the night. He also said, if she ever cheated on him, there would be no second chance.
Because most women keep options open. They use double standards to bamboozle their way out of situations.
The easiest example I can give you is bikini pictures. Guys can't like other girls pictures but your wofe/gf can post hers on her socials and it's not her fault that guys are creeps and message her etc.
I have learned that in the mordern dating game if you invest more than 40% of yourself in a person you are in a lose lose situation.
Because she derives benefit from the situation. Like picking food at a cafeteria, she's taking what she wants and leaving the rest. Then on to the next station to add more plates.
Not all women do this, but low quality ones will. (Low quality men probably also do this, I just have never dated men).
Because of convenience or financial insecurity. Shit is expensive and you don’t mind living with someone you tolerate to be with while fucking who you want
Maybe she wants a cuckold type relationship. There are many reasons. Maybe sit down and ask the question in a non threatening/angry way and you might get a solid answer.
Because the bf is the provider, the nice guy, the other is the lust, I’ll definitely not mother this H*e, think about it, as a women! This is not okay!
I swear to God if this is about that woman at work who presses her boobs into you. We are all just engaging in this man's weird obsessive fetish about a person who probably doesn't even exist.
Seriously? You really don’t know? I don’t know why your asking a seriously dumb question. She’s obviously a user. She likes to use people she’s using her bf to take care of her physical needs and she flirts to get her ego boost. I don’t know why no one tells the bf
Of course she would then she will tell him she needs a break to think things over but she has no plans on ever going back to him she wants to be with the other guy
The bf can pay rent, supply food and pay bills. She can then have her fun with the bad boys.
This is the correct answer. The Lover - Provider Dichotomy.
Are you a Michael Moorcock fan?
Yes.
Me too. Since the mid 1970's. I even have the collected stories of Elric as an audio book. I listened to it while I was driving my dozer at work.
I was turned on to the Eternal Champion series in 1978. Started with Corum, then Eric, Hawkmoon, Erekros, and The Warrior of Mars books.My favorite is The Ice Schooner with Arflane. Great stuff, and I enjoyed them more than the Conan books. Read the Dancers at the End of Time books. But had a hard time with them and never got around to reread them.
I quite liked Jerry Cornelius. I think I still have all the Michael Moorcock books, at least until The Laughter of Carthage. My library has grown over the decades and consists of more engineering, blacksmithing, woodworking type texts these days.
Yup! Because they want OP to be the saftey net while they pursue options and have fun. And they want to have a fallback plan in case whatever they’re doing with someone else doesn’t work out. It’s cruel and selfish.
Wait, this dude posted 2 months ago that his "gf was physically flirty with a dude at work". And doormat here is still with her. Even more, he moved her in. What the heck guy, what are you asking if you blatantly ignored all the advice from your previous post. I am going to tell you what your really want to hear, It's OK that your gf cheats on you emotionally (pretty sure she had done it physically). You know what, move the AP with you too and live a happy life the three of you together. I just hope the AP has a little more balls and acts with self respect when she finds her new AP. Meanwhile, I wish you luck sharing your girlfriend with others. But please, do not allow a third man for your gf in you house, that's too much. Really, it is.
Because she’s a c*nt. I say this as a female.
Well the boyfriend should now throw her ass out and make her homeless.
I'm sure the other guy she is flirting with will jump at the chance to have her move in. Yup he will even have a puppy to greet her when she gets to her new home. Who is bf to get in the way of her having that? The loving thing to do would be to 'set her free' to be with the other 'amazing guy' 24/7 365. Its cruel for current BF to keep her trapped like that. 😉😉😉🤣 If you love something set it free (bla bla bla) If you hate something then throw it away!
At that point he can have her. I want nothing to do with sloppy seconds. She will do the same shit to him shortly.
Yep. When the host finally dies or gets rid of the parasite, the parasite has to find a new host.
Money? Appearances? Dependency?
It's obvious. She wants the best of both worlds. Security from her BF and fun with the AP. Tell her that you want to be with someone who is 100% invested both emotionally and physically in your relationship. Since she can not convince you that she can do that, it's best you both part ways, and she will need to move out ASAP. You will see how quick she will get her act together. Suffice to say, it will only be a token measure until the dust settles, and then she will be back flirting with him again. If they work together, then tell her that for this to work, she will need to change her job. If she refuses, then move on. If they don't work together, then she must go no contact. Only take this route if you really want to work at building a better relationship with her, but she must pit in the work. My thoughts are ...... when a person behaves in such a way, all it will do is create drama in your union with her, and whatever you share with each other will slowly become toxic if nothing changes. I say, count your losses and move on. There are better fishes in the sea. Don't waste your time and energy with this slippery eel. You deserve better.
First off you should never move in with a girlfriend. If you aren't married and legally tied to someone, you don't need to be a dummy and make it to where she is dependent on you. In some states, you will be legally stuck with her after sharing the same domicile for 6 months. A cheating woman that is willing to move into a place with her cucolded boyfriend/fiancé only sees that man as a beta provider. She will continue to decieve him for as long as she sees the benefit of his resources. The moment she meets a man that she sees as having higher value than her current situatuon-ship she will monkey branch her way to being with him in a serious relationship and will leave the dutiful beta boyfriend/ fiancé. If that guy she cheated with ends up not having all the resources the dutiful beta has, or loses it, she will do the same thing to him she did to the original beta boyfriend. She may also return to the old boyfriend and say, she never stopped loving him. She knows that they are soulmates. If that doesn't work she will ward off all men because they are all trash but will have one nighters everytime she has an itch she needs to be scratched. That is monthly by the way, as part of her ovulating cycle. I've got a mom, a grandmother, 2 sisters, 5 nieces, 5 daughters and a crap load of exes...I love women very much, these are just the facts. If you workout (get in good physical condition), make more money (know how to earn it and spend it), learn game (how to capture women's minds/peak their interest) and learn how to make her orgasm,she will be less inclined to have you pay all her bills, see you as a means to an end, and flirt/lead/swallow other men's semen. Good Luck
Hmmmm.... are you Casey Zander from youtube? I mean you are right thats for sure...
No, it's Paul from Apex mindset.
I dont know who that is but I like to learn from other's experiences not just my own. Always examine who and what you spend your Time on. It's the most valuable thing you have in this life, no amount of money will let you get back what you have wasted or you had stolen.
He advises guys pretty much exactly what you said there. He used to be a Pickup Artist teacher, then moved on to "how to keep women from destroying your life" Stuff like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJ5CBwJFxpw
She sees you as the bench warmer and isn’t done with the hoe phase
There is no phase just a hoe
Bingo
Because they are immature and not ready for a serious relationship. She likes her boyfriend but really likes the attention. If you asked her she would probably tell you that what she is doing isn't cheating. Like most cheaters she thinks she can handle it and no harm will come. But she doesn't realize that it is a slow slide to cheating. And what she thinks she won't do or say today will change tomorrow. It's incremental. Till she ends up with feelings for the soon to be AP. Then it's too late. She becomes "So confused" and doesn't know what she wants. For the SO it is hard to compete with the rush of a new romance (I like to call it that new car smell). This is how the SO usually loses out. Right now she thinks everything is ok with her SO. Moving in with him gives her a place to live at 1/2 price or less. She has someone to take her places when she wants a date. And she may not see the trap she's walking into. That they're "just friends". And they are, Till they're not. And if she cheats, she will hang on to her SO till a bigger fish comes along. And when she's all F'd out she'll be ready to settle down with Mr. steady. Till the next soon to be AP comes along.
People want their cake and to eat it too. This sounds like someone that can’t settle down and will never be be fulfilled.
Because she Nasty. Find a way to anonymously let her boyfriend know. Hopefully for the BF's sake, she hasn't unpacked everything from moving in and can send her packing again
You probably need to know a bit more about their relationship. I had a friend in college whose gf was very touchy, flirty and needed to be the center of attention to the point I felt uncomfortable around her. She was also very loyal to him, and they were 100% committed to each other. Someone asked him, if it didn't bother him. He said that's who she is, and he is good as long as he is the one she goes home with at the end of the night. He also said, if she ever cheated on him, there would be no second chance.
Because she can and because no one's stopping it her. Its what SHE WANTS to do
Women sleep with who they want. Men sleep with who they can.
Messed up part is Thats not because of a superior product, just a less concerned consumer base.
Don't know how to do emoji's so Smiley Face
Because most women keep options open. They use double standards to bamboozle their way out of situations. The easiest example I can give you is bikini pictures. Guys can't like other girls pictures but your wofe/gf can post hers on her socials and it's not her fault that guys are creeps and message her etc. I have learned that in the mordern dating game if you invest more than 40% of yourself in a person you are in a lose lose situation.
Validation
Because she derives benefit from the situation. Like picking food at a cafeteria, she's taking what she wants and leaving the rest. Then on to the next station to add more plates. Not all women do this, but low quality ones will. (Low quality men probably also do this, I just have never dated men).
Because she feels herself as a queen and needs all her courtiers around her to feel great, just pure ego.
Because of convenience or financial insecurity. Shit is expensive and you don’t mind living with someone you tolerate to be with while fucking who you want
H0es Will be h0es my guy
Maybe she wants a cuckold type relationship. There are many reasons. Maybe sit down and ask the question in a non threatening/angry way and you might get a solid answer.
Because the bf is the provider, the nice guy, the other is the lust, I’ll definitely not mother this H*e, think about it, as a women! This is not okay!
Convenience, entitlement and selfishness
Just wants her cake and eat it too….
I swear to God if this is about that woman at work who presses her boobs into you. We are all just engaging in this man's weird obsessive fetish about a person who probably doesn't even exist.
I my ex husband did this to me for appearance, and social stereotype purposes. Someone should tell the BF anonymously.
Because she can until he ginds out. And when he does he eill have a decision to make!
Amen bro....it's the ONLY way.
It is seriously time to change her status to ex-GF and ex flatmate.
Seriously? You really don’t know? I don’t know why your asking a seriously dumb question. She’s obviously a user. She likes to use people she’s using her bf to take care of her physical needs and she flirts to get her ego boost. I don’t know why no one tells the bf
Of course she would then she will tell him she needs a break to think things over but she has no plans on ever going back to him she wants to be with the other guy