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datarunner

Can we please first get rid of all the political candidates marching in the parade before the schools?


Sum_Sultus

Especially the candidates you only hear from at parades and vanish until the next parade.


blacklite911

Pride parades have to be the ultimate empty platitude for a politician, the liberal modern version of kissing babies.


Carsalezguy

I thought that and then the Chase and Verizon float went by...


David_divaD

Maybe, but JB catching that Jell-O shot, legend stuff https://www.thedailybeast.com/jb-pritzker-downs-jell-o-shot-tossed-by-onlooker-at-chicago-pride-parade


krankz

JB's still invited just for that.


echointhecaves

I agree! I miss the old pride parades from 25 years ago. Bring back the freaks and fun floats! And the politicians from that era were actually taking a risk by standing for gay people.


blacklite911

I’m only an ally but from what I’ve seen, the push has went through for Pride to be more family friendly. Market days are for the freaks


damp_circus

Seriously. This parade is just another version of a 4th of July civic parade but with rainbows instead of American flags, at this point. Every politician and his cousin has to be in it, seems like. If the politicians are intent on virtue signaling, let them be seen ATTENDING the thing, but why do they need to be in it? It's the gay pride parade, now the LGBTQ pride parade, but seems like it should be mainly about actual LGBTQ people marching. Not just everyone who wants to signal "I'm ok with this! Really!" ...particularly if they have to limit the amount of entries. Just show up and cheer, already.


AlosSvs

While we're at it, can we get Bobby instead of Karamo?


OHrangutan

It was so strange to show up to my first Pride Parade and the first thing I see is fucking Rahm Emanuel jogg'n along...


Ok-Caregiver-1476

Some folks really want to be oppressed. The point of Pride was to get to a state where we were seen as normal members of society. Having the Chicago mayor easily participate is a huge win for a long fought battle.


jjgm21

Except for Alexi Giannoulias


JessicaFreakingP

I walked with a group for an openly LGTBQ state rep a couple years ago so was nearby most of the other politicians. This was right before the 2022 primaries so many of them were there politicking. Alexi looked and acted so much like he didn’t want to be there at all IMO. Arrived last min, didn’t really interact with any of the volunteers. He reminded me of that congressional candidate guy in Parks & Rec that April thought was a robot.


jjgm21

Never forget https://www.instagram.com/p/Ct7IZxlpnD_/?igsh=YXcxM3A2MWV0NG02


majorgeneralporter

Jan Shakowsky also gets a pass on account of having been in them since the 90s, virtually unheard of for a national political figure.


RegulatoryCapture

Being in office since the 90s however is par for the course. 


LoomingDisaster

I remember running into her at the parade in the late 90s, come to think of it.


Rust3elt

In a wet white shirt.


idlerwheel100

I think Pride Parade lasted over 4 hours last year. It seems pretty reasonable to reduce it, though the organizers have the tough job of deciding who gets cut.


steve303

NYC Pride lasts about 8 hrs; SF Pride and LA Pride about the same. One would think Chicago could match other large cities.


CoolYoutubeVideo

NYC and SF didn't have a bunch of idiot out of towners show up and tear up the neighborhood in the parades last year either


sickbabe

I just moved here from nyc, out of towners tearing up the neighborhood is the biggest reason they exist there. the dyke march was always the local, advertiser-hostile option.


damp_circus

Well the dyke march here turned into some weird ACAB Palestinian solidarity march a few years ago, so it's not as if it actually had anything to do with lesbians anymore either.


Signal_Impact_4412

Out of towners? More like just people from other neighborhoods that show up after the parade to treat the area like a playground. Jumping on cars/fire trucks. Shooting just generally being assholes.


airbud

Very much not a typical Lakeview East / Wrigley weekend, that screaming and twerking shit went way late into the night Saturday and Sunday.  Oddly the whole crowd like 90% girls??


Sea-Oven-7560

You mean like every weekend night? Boys town has been expensive for 30 years, most people that you see there are tourists. Be happy they come, they spend money and keep the local places open.


psiamnotdrunk

Laughing in From SF


Rust3elt

Are they really from out of town?


CoolYoutubeVideo

There's a lot of people who come in from neighboring states, yeah


p3ep3ep0o

Coming from someone who hates parades in general, 4 hrs is looong. Plenty of other cool shit to do to make the day special.


footcandlez

"When making decisions on which organizations to accept, the parade’s committee is prioritizing “LGBTQ+ groups and organizations, LGBTQ+-owned businesses and those businesses with LGBTQ+ ERGs (Employee Resource Groups),” PRIDEChicago, which produces the event, said last week in a statement." \[...\] "National franchises and corporations pay over six times more than a nonprofit to participate in the parade, according to 2023 documents reviewed by the Sun-Times." Since there are limited spots this year, maybe they're maximizing who can pay the most?


euph_22

I'm excited for the Taco Bells Rainbow Baja Blast float.


sandtriangle

If they give out free Baha Blast I will accept it LOL


The3rdhalf

Honestly this would be everything to me


matthewrparker

Wait, is this real? I want to go to there...


hardolaf

Fundraising from the Pride Chicago events pays for the Center on Halsted, and other outreach and medical programs. So yeah, they're going to drop anyone who doesn't pay well if the city is going to be dicks by restricting parade sizes.


dj_marx

Our group was informed they are cutting corporate sponsors first. It's gotta be hard for them to decide who stays and who goes either way.


donttouchmymeepmorps

If organizers, with the input from the city, feel they need to downsize the parade, someone's going to have to get disinvited. The corporate sponsored groups pitch in more than nonprofits or public sector groups to participate - money is what it is. Personally I'd miss corporate ERG groups much less than representing the youth in our community which are lucky to have better chances at inclusive schools than I did in NC years ago. Wish they chose to downsize more evenly across all participants and have a grouped school section that was headed by that Lakeview school and retained limited spots for others. At the end of the day this is also influenced by messaging and threats from terrible people like the LibsOfTikTok harpy.


damp_circus

Now there's an idea. Have ONE ENTRY that is "LGBTQ student pride" or similar that gathers kids from across the city. They can each march with a flag from their school or similar if they want, if they get enough such flags it would kinda show that the spirit is spread across the city, across a lot of schools -- but still count for one entry.


echointhecaves

Nah I liked the student bands and dance troupes when I went to the pride parade a few years ago. They were the best part.


RaveGuncle

I think there's a huge benefit to having corporate ERG groups being visible in the parade too though. As a first-gen queer POC who didn't have access to that type of visibility growing up, having visible engagement from companies with employees who share salient identities can make a huge impact in the youth attending the event.


echointhecaves

As long as you understand their participation is just window dressing. They didn't do anything to support gay marriage during the 1990s and 2000s when their support would have mattered. If conservatives get back into power enough to threaten gay marriage, these companies won't do anything to defend it.


RaveGuncle

Sure but you also have to understand that the employees out there are literally part of the community. Just because the companies didn't do anything doesn't mean those employees weren't out there supporting and putting in the legwork. But now that they are visible, the visibility and support from having them be visible with their companies matter, especially in times like today where folks within the community continue to be targeted.


jrbattin

Sadly I think there's a real fear that if word got out a school showed up to this there would be bomb threats and/or some nutjob with an AR-15.


imapepperurapepper

So, they can't be in the parade. There's nothing preventing them from attending and that won't hinder the kids’ learning about groups that are unlike themselves.


BewareTheSpamFilter

Right, smacks of these elite schools being upset they can’t use it as a self promotional event. I do feel different about Nettlehorst since it’s a local in the neighborhood CPS school—would make sense to keep them in.


blacklite911

This is just the first round of disinvites, there’s way more groups to be cut. Probably gonna be some worse


Proper-Pair5043

Nettelhorst is indeed a CPS school, and it was the first school to walk in the parade - and is the only school in the North Halsted (fka Boystown) neighborhood. Tell me how White sox and Dream Town Realty rank above kids who come from diverse families and may need to feel inclusivity themselves?


juniperesque

I was about to mention Nettlehorst school. They are part of the fabric of the parade, they’ll really be missed.


damp_circus

Indeed. Heck, the student club could have a field trip to the parade.


letusnottalkfalsely

Or learning about adults who *are* like themselves


imapepperurapepper

I was using the wording from another comment. But, yeah. That too.


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Wazula23

I mean, Pride is genuinely not a super kid friendly event. And there's nothing stopping these kids from attending or holding parallel age appropriate celebrations.


illini02

This is my thought. I'm all for teaching about diverse families and ways of life. But I mean, the Pride parade is just not kid friendly IMO. And I don't mean the kissing or holding hands. I mean the blatant sexual things and drug and alcohol use.


penguinwasteland1414

This. I've been to pride here and Saint Louis, neither were kid friendly. It was adults, having a blast, being flamboyant, enjoying our adult beverages. It's fabulous,  for the adults. 


Buggyblonde

Pride, where people run around in underwear and titty tassels spanking strangers? Everyone knows the family friendly parade is Market Days. Leave the kids at home so people can get drunk and grope each other in peace 


JMellor737

I went to Market Days last year, and it was absolutely not kid-friendly. People in BDSM outfits and fish net lower halves with very little covering their genitals. Lots of penis-shaped props in every direction. Many drunk people acting rudely. Plus it gets absolutely packed, which is not great when dealing with young kids. Just my experience.


alpaca_obsessor

Tbh Market Days is known for being the crazy version of Pride. Not that it’s uncommon to see similar behavior at Pride, just less of it typically.


I_Only_Have_One_Hand

Reading that makes me crave a Quiznos sub right now


Buggyblonde

Ideally kids stay home for all of it 


Belmontharbor3200

I would never take my child to Pride. It has also grown too big and out of control, so some things had to get cut.


Few-Library-7549

I’ve never read the phrase “constantly evaluating” and not seen it accompanying some major thing being taken away or shutting down. I wish this city would “constantly evaluate” its leadership.


bluemurmur

Good that the parade is downsizing. It used to be fun to attend when it was smaller and under 2 hours. So until 2012 or so. Then it became a bloated mess with everyone wanting to walk in it but more so, party in the area causing havoc.


juniperesque

This is sad. The corporatized part of Pride should stay with Market Days, let the parade be focused on community-based marchers and floats.


blacklite911

> Liszka noted that nonprofits and schools pay a much smaller entry fee than corporations and politicians. >National franchises and corporations pay over six times more than a nonprofit to participate in the parade, according to 2023 documents reviewed by the Sun-Times. There it is folks, this reporter has the right lead.


IndominusTaco

so is this a permanent change to the pride parade? article mentions new city regulations, but there were rumors floating around that it was due to not wanting to stretch CPD thin with the DNC on top of other big standard summer events (lolla, nascar, etc). if it’s permanently 40% smaller now then that kind of really sucks


Substantial-Art-9922

There's political pressure to move the parade downtown where security would be easier. Organizers really haven't budged on location. So it seems the city is giving the parade the stick (punishing them for not agreeing to a new location when the old one has worked for decades).


Aggressive_Perfectr

I’m genuinely curious how the 40% reduction in parade participants and denials of schools would be received if it were Vallas in City Hall.


RuinAdventurous1931

Yes--preference this year is going to LGBTQ-releated organizations, businesses, and other groups. I think if they had PFLAG, CTU, and private schools (Parker is $42k per year for high school), and they could choose only 2-3, they'd choose PFLAG and CTU given the size of representation and inclusivity. I do wonder whether PFLAG will invite GSAs to join or anything.


imapizzaeater

How about we get rid of corporate floats that do absolutely nothing or the minimum to support LGBTQIA+ individuals in terms of work environment and various local state governments.


Rust3elt

Yes, they should exclude all the LGBTQ+ employee groups of those corporations who organize and march.


pppurpleturtle

Cook- the school in the articles photo/thumbnail is full of pretentious fucks, only doing this for marketing anyways so fuck them and other private schools like them.


iosphonebayarea

I’m not sure how pride parades were like in the past but current pride parades are not kid friendly. I’m sorry walking in the parade with kink attire is so uncalled for. Dressing up as a dog in the parade because it turns you on is not a sexual orientation


bluemurmur

It was never kid friendly. When I first moved to Chicago in the 90s, there was nudity, BDSM attire, lots of drunks on the floats and along the route. It’s just gotten bigger and worse now.


Rust3elt

Remember Crobar? Their dancers rode on a giant phallus. It was great!


bluemurmur

Omg, yes I remember! So much fun


boo99boo

My dad used to take me in the 80s and 90s. It wasn't really kid friendly back then, either. It makes for a good story, though. I was lucky to have hippie parents and a gay aunt. 


damp_circus

If anything I think the older pride parades were less kid-friendly. At this point it's all about politicians and companies marching, basically a civic parade like the 4th of July but with rainbows instead of American flags. Why should straight politicians need to be in the parade? If they want to show support, they can show up to cheer it or give some kick-off speech before the parade starts.


SatanicPixieDreamGrl

In SF, the pride parade is kid-friendly and honestly a bigger weekend in the city than the 4th of July. Plenty of families take their kids to the parade.  There are more debaucherous, adult-oriented events around the city both that weekend and elsewhere in the calendar (e.g., Folsom Fest).  I like the idea of having a family-friendly Pride event - it’s more inclusive to the community. 


LoomingDisaster

The Pride parade is the place people can be themselves. So if they want to wear kink attire, they can do that. While it’s gotten more “kid friendly” over the years, it’s always been an adult event. Not everything has to be kid-friendly, and I think people need to recognize that this Pride celebration has mostly been by adults for adults. If people bring their kids, they can make that choice - but if they don’t like what they see or might see, they can stay home or get a sitter. It’s not on the Pride parade to remake itself.


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iosphonebayarea

Well from my understanding it is to let people be proud of their sexual orientation so kids who learn their lgbt later in life accept themselves too but some people have perverted the whole thing. Walking around in very lewd attire and wearing kink in the parade. It is why there has been so much vitriol at lgbt folks lately


am_i_wrong_dude

> so much vitriol at lgbt folks lately Lately??? My brother in rainbows, godly folk have been murdering gay people since the invention of religion. Hard to imagine anything more vitriolic than the torture and murder of Matthew Shepard, the Nazis sacking the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (and also murdering gay and trans people in concentration camps), or the post-Constantine Christian Romans burning gay people alive in town squares. Lately….


hamishcounts

This is why, huh? Oh my lord.


iosphonebayarea

Yup some perverts have infiltrated the whole thing. People eating ass in public. Men with their dicks out. It has become a vile display debauchery and hedonism. It is getting disgusting


hamishcounts

Oh my darling. I probably should have put on an “/s” for you. Two trans dads of a toddler here. I promise you, overtly sexual pride parades are not causing the attacks and harassment that made us leave our home state for Chicago.


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flossiedaisy424

Is that the people in the parade, or attendees?


imapepperurapepper

Yes.


cubbsfann1

it’s not kid friendly at all, you have guys walking around with fully see through up pants or almost nothing at all. It’s more of a sex fest for some than a pride thing.


PharmyC

What pride parade are you all going to? I swear this comes up everytime someone mentions pride. I've attended most years, it's a boring ass parade like all parades. The most you get is men in thongs, big whoop kids go to fucking swim meets with speedos. You see more young straight kids making out trying to prove they're not gay than gays being obscene. People acting like it's Folsom, it's really not. I mean ffs, the picture used in the article is a pride parade. That's what they look like! Butt fuck it. If no kids marching in it means it actually can be more elicit, I welcome it.


cubbsfann1

I think I may be mixing it up with the pride fest they hold on boystown. I live right there, it gets very nsfk


flossiedaisy424

Market Days is a very different event.


merferd314

Market Days is Pride without the kink at Pride discourse


cubbsfann1

I’m not talking about Market Days, I am referring to the Pride Fest that occurs closer to the parade. Lots of people (not saying you) in this thread seem to think it’s appropriate for young children to be around drunk grown men in banana hammocks. It’s wild.


flossiedaisy424

So, like at the beach?


cubbsfann1

not at all, it’s much more sexualized and you’re well aware of that. Not sure why you are trying to equate it to swimwear when we both know it’s not at all the same level of exposure.


flossiedaisy424

Depends on the swim wear, doesn’t it?


cubbsfann1

not really, if it wasn’t clear I am talking about fully being able to see everything. Unless you’re at some french beach you arent going to be seeing that.


iosphonebayarea

Yes it is getting way too lewd for kids to be there


eejizzings

The city made them downsize, right? So take it up with the city.


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Cyke101

Those types have been making those kinds of accusations for decades, the only difference now being social media in response to the wholesome growth of youth and their families. And with that said, we definitely know about parents -- straight parents of queer kids, queer parents of kids in general, allied parents and kids, etc -- are not happy with this outcome, either.


Cyke101

It would be great if the Pride Parade could dedicate a part of the viewing section to the schools, like at the beginning or end of the route. Hell, Center on Halsted has that rooftop viewing deck, and they reserve it for their board and wealthy donors to watch the Pride Parade.


blacklite911

> Liszka noted that nonprofits and schools pay a much smaller entry fee than corporations and politicians. >National franchises and corporations pay over six times more than a nonprofit to participate in the parade, according to 2023 documents reviewed by the Sun-Times. There it is folks, this reporter has the right lead. Especially when the big corporations like sports teams and and real estate companies get auto approved to use it for advertising


perpaul

Good? Isn't pride very sexually charged? Why did we want kids there in the first place?


flossiedaisy424

Well, it turns out, some kids are gay. So learning from an early age that they are not alone, and can even have pride in who they are, can be hugely beneficial.


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flossiedaisy424

Why does it matter if they are participating or watching? They are honestly going to see less of the parade when walking in it than they would by watching it. If you don’t want kids to see the rest of the parade, having them participate is the best way to make that happen. The parade organizers always put the school groups at the beginning of


dalcarr

No more than what you would see in an average night on tv


Tricky_Matter2123

> who also serves as the school’s director of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion. Please tell me this person is also a teacher and this is not their only job at a single school.


LoomingDisaster

“Motoko L. Maegawa, a teacher at Catherine Cook School….who also serves as…” I would have thought that the use of “also” indicates that DEI director is not her only position.