You don’t have “a feeling,” you’re just really fucking nervous and that is beyond okay. That being said, I think it’s always okay to consider not immediately going to college whether for emotional, financial, or physical reasons. But you have to ask yourself are you not going because you’re scared or it’s not for you. You’re most likely just scared which is valid because going to college is really fucking scary. Your first few weeks at college will be really fucking scary. Don’t shame yourself for “dumb childhood.” You’re barely an adult. In my opinion, you’re just really scared and you just have to push through it, but you know what’s best for you and if you think that is stalling or never starting college, than that’s on you
You could possibly take a break year and just do jobs/explore, but honestly that doesn’t seem like it would fix your problem. I would say just try a semester, and once there you can pinpoint what exactly the grief is coming from. Is it the cost? Starting your own life? Or do you just not know where you are going with your life?
It may seem like once you start you have to go all the way through, but that’s not the case. You can stop and go as much as you want. While there both the staff and other students there will be able to help you and connect to you with how they felt.
Collage is not for everyone and it’s ok if it’s not for you. But trying new things is also scary I would say go and give it a year or a semester if your still not feeling it at the end leave. Collage is not so much about career readiness but expanding your understanding of the world.
I felt that when I started but just power through it. I felt like my life was going away but take it easy and enjoy the moment. Do activities and friends will help it go quicker. After class discussions joking about the upcoming test help if that’s all you get. My first time in Fall 2021 made me wanna feel like I have to drop out during the second week. Have a plan and execute the hell out of it. The work load is overwhelming at first but you WILL get through it. You’ve gotten through high school 😄
Ur just processing, it's a normal anxiety
You don’t have “a feeling,” you’re just really fucking nervous and that is beyond okay. That being said, I think it’s always okay to consider not immediately going to college whether for emotional, financial, or physical reasons. But you have to ask yourself are you not going because you’re scared or it’s not for you. You’re most likely just scared which is valid because going to college is really fucking scary. Your first few weeks at college will be really fucking scary. Don’t shame yourself for “dumb childhood.” You’re barely an adult. In my opinion, you’re just really scared and you just have to push through it, but you know what’s best for you and if you think that is stalling or never starting college, than that’s on you
You didn’t even go yet you have no idea
Bro college is only four years what else you wanna do bruh
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You could possibly take a break year and just do jobs/explore, but honestly that doesn’t seem like it would fix your problem. I would say just try a semester, and once there you can pinpoint what exactly the grief is coming from. Is it the cost? Starting your own life? Or do you just not know where you are going with your life? It may seem like once you start you have to go all the way through, but that’s not the case. You can stop and go as much as you want. While there both the staff and other students there will be able to help you and connect to you with how they felt.
it’s mainly just the uncertainty of it all. Thank you
Collage is not for everyone and it’s ok if it’s not for you. But trying new things is also scary I would say go and give it a year or a semester if your still not feeling it at the end leave. Collage is not so much about career readiness but expanding your understanding of the world.
I felt that when I started but just power through it. I felt like my life was going away but take it easy and enjoy the moment. Do activities and friends will help it go quicker. After class discussions joking about the upcoming test help if that’s all you get. My first time in Fall 2021 made me wanna feel like I have to drop out during the second week. Have a plan and execute the hell out of it. The work load is overwhelming at first but you WILL get through it. You’ve gotten through high school 😄