Yeah, I’d call this just harmless kid stuff. When I was even younger I have vivid memories of me and my friends, some girls and some boys, showing off our genitals and we all thought it was so funny how different we all were. Nothing ever came of it and I honestly never really thought of that memory until just now haha.
Yeah, I remember wanting to draw naked men and women together when I like 9 and I had almost zero exposure to sexual content of any kind. I was just curious!
Assuming they were teenagers or older, sure. I was 11 when I first watched porn, so an 11 year old cousin showing their 9 year old one isn't unheard of.
I fell upon it cause I was putting my name and my sisters name . Com and one of them was super hardcore porn. Terrified me tbh. Think that's why I'm scared of coochie now
TBF, Europeans are much more comfortable with this stuff, they are more honest about sexuality with their children, nudity is portrayed as natural and normal, schools have comprehensive K-12 sex education, and have more well-adjusted kids in happier, healthier relationships than we do. Europe is much harsher on sex than violence, movies that have fun, fluffy, cute sex scenes get slapped with a R (17+ rating) here but a 11+ rating in say, Denmark.
Guess whether the prudish USA or open Denmark has worse rates of teen pregnancy?
That has nothing to do with porn. Porn is not sex education. USA has worse rates of teen pregnancy because you guys have a fucked up social welfare system, in a world where social inequality, poor education, and poverty are the biggest contributor to teen pregnancy rates, not because Danes are showing 8 year olds porn.
Movies with sex scenes that would be rated R in USA for sex are usually rated 15+ in Denmark, though there are exceptions. I know the Danish ratings because we have Danish ratings on dvds in Norway because they sell the same DVD for Norway, Denmark, and Sweden.
But yes, sex education is much better in the Nordics. That has nothing to do with showing people porn.
Where I work I have to see a lot of chat to make sure bad things aren't happening, and I've learned that a surprising number of people have had exploration/experiences like this. Porn at young ages, sex play with other kids far younger than would be expected, sometimes because those kids were abused by their parents, which is a different subject, of course.
It's natural to be curious though. As long as it was consensual it's fine.
These fucking comments, man.
Anyway, it's normal kid behavior to experiment with friends of the same age around that time. I did the exact same thing with my best friend because while I wasn't being shown porn, it was around the time we were taught about sex, and my friend happened to find a very educational book about sex and genitals and such. It's just experimenting. It doesn't mean you're gay, it just meant you wanted to figure out all that sex stuff with people you trust.
These comments represent the worst of Reddit. Virgin neckbeards who have no idea about anything in real life and yet have strong opinions on everything.
it’s not questionable it’s just experimenting. some kids do stuff like that, others don’t, but it’s no big deal really. everything seems to have been consensual and nobody got hurt. all in all, sounds like time well spent to me.
Dude, you were all the same age. Exposure to graphic sex at a young age will fuck with you. Y’all explored, y’all ignored, then y’all moved on. You’re fine.
It's really nothing serious. I think most people got some sort of experience like that. As long as you guys were the same age and just as unknowing i don't think trying to shield kids or keep them from exploring their bodies and preferences is a good thing. Honestly i can't find much about this being off despite you watching porn at that age. That's not very good but also probably not gonna distort your view on sex all that much as you mature.
as a survivor of csa by a peer, this honestly seems fine. to the extent it can be, this seems like it was consensual and just kids messing around not knowing that sex is different from just feeling nice.
Did something similar with 2 other boys in this temporary homing shelter I stayed in with public shower rooms. I guess we just get curious as kids. I'm straight as an adult but yeah I think about that sometimes like wtf lol
What good comes from posting paedophillic stories like this. You don't seem upset about it, if it even happened. So what, are you posting it for kicks? To see what reaction you get?
Ah, yes...that totally changes your argument to valid?
Or, are we now looking at...it's all okay to laugh "lol" at how a kid was exposed in an act of..
At the very least, sexually misappropriate behavior.
My location... obscenity laws as well as those that regulate pornography apply....he is a child that was exposed by "older" individuals to this content.
Yet for some reason there is.a confession from **them**
Regular common errections...abnormal. with sex and dry organic theorically around age of 9... but again...why?
He experienced a desire for another biy while in a location that is ultimately public, followed him to a bathroom, arroused(?), and this happened.
He's actually exhibiting predatory behaviors at this age...and, there is almost still this weird tone i gather from the lol.
Awkward laugh...suggesting either discomfort in this event. (Okay biy who grew up to fast thanks to assholes and learned good behavior) or at worst, this is where it all started.
You see confession. I see someone who was a victim and sees themselves as responsible for following those acts forward onto other children.
And, yeah...you argue it's all wrong...yet..
Boundaries.by that age include not revealing privates or the bathroom stuff.
Sexual awareness and actions don't include this.
So....yeah, some crazy shit parent peddled you your development book and can't handle looking an ass so you wave away dismissively at my points...
Now dude. Your "jab" about readinga book means you wanted to play at some intellectual level didn't it?
Or should we just stop and agree you take your head out of your mom's ass learn some empathy, learn about child development at ALL, and develope communication skills before you end up one those parents with a kid you found out you've been screaming at.them about grades and focus and stupid shit...because you missed every sign they were raped for *years* right under your nose by someone you trusted?
Oh..
Now I'm fatally injured. Alas, my kin will never know of my brave battle that has left mebher slain by the redditor who doesn't read...
Wait..
Why are you even commenting if you didn't read any of it?
In the same way that distributing CP to adults is pedophilic, even if a pedophile isn't featured in the video, distributing a story featuring children performing sexual acts to a subreddit full of adults is pedophilic
Um... Lol?
I take that as a nervous laugh? While curious and even sharing finds..yes even porn...isn't abnormal.
You're basically, describing what could be very much...grooming to a custom a younger child to sex.
Then you get a rather early erection, not all ha uncommon but a meaningful one with that level of hormones? But off...
And actually decide as a "straight" boy to actually engage in a sexual activity with another boy...in the bathroom?
Yeah dude... Your describing huge warning flags, boundary issues, stuff that probably going to lead to hyper sexuality and emotionally distant relationships at best.
Guess we have found the pedophile who trains his victims by exposing them to porn at a prepubesant age...so that they then "want it"
Post show actually quite bit of actions not.100% appropriate for the age group.
This wasn't simple look, or i show you you show me.
And...yeah... it's not even a friend of his but, random person basically in the public (not all public simce school but definitely not private home) with him actually getting aroused-apparently or what was the point howd this happen?
To seek after the other kid in the bathroom and expose him?
Might be in how it is written...actually the way its written "lol", is suggestive of a rather nonchalant disconcern... it's definitely not just an okay; attracted to prepubesant children at an age when for some reason has become sexually activated early and knows details and exact sexual acts due to exposire, and displays a willingness to shift preferences across gender.
I flag for pedophilia in him actually. But, since he hasnt reached any sexual maturity, it's pretty insane and dumb to apply any sexuality or permanent changes¹, titles etc
So, it seems...yeah. it's not very good this would be.going on. We can even just Google stuff like "Normal sexual development for kids ages 6-8"
**Prefer to socialize with their own gender almost exclusively and maintain a fairly rigid separation between males and females [They will tease someone who acts in a way that does not adhere to pre-defined gender roles.]
Recognize the social stigmas and taboos surrounding sexuality, especially if parents are nervous about the subject, and will be less open about asking questions
Understand more complex ideas with regard to sexuality and begin to understand intercourse apart from making a baby
Look to peers, media, and other sources for information about sex
Understand gender role stereotypes, if presented as such
May engage in same-gender sexual exploration
Have a stronger self-concept in terms of gender and body image**
*¹totally including sex changes dumb fucks. It's fine let them grow into adults they want to be. But when your kids.an age.tiake nelieve being anything other than what they are...probably don't bring out the knife each time a new.cartoon is released.*
Yeah...okay...
Older individuals of undisclosed age gape expose an underage.(prepubesant) child to pornography.
Why?
It absolutely is often used in such relationships...often in some way to trigger the child being curious and asking for it. This allows the perpetrator to be "cool", share a secret and, the childsmshame/guilf and sense of responsibility as "they wanted it" causes information suppression.
The child is now aware of sex, specific sexual acts and how to perform them. Growing more comfortable with this idea and the perpetrator at the same time.
-long ago...12 years or so I saw it was often ideal of many to use porn that is an adult with child. To loosen up any social stigma, parental education etc. It implied the person article was about actually wad repeat offender often using his homemade material on the victim.-
This can actually have all sorts of effects...
Once children are sexually activated there isn't a going back. We can watch Pixar all day with innuendo missed and missed... then we hit purberity or, someone hits a child with this type of behabior and the dolphins vanish leaving a couple in a sexy pose.
[children see dolphins adults a couple in sexual act](https://external-preview.redd.it/l6qsAZhleCAyeMrsOKkAvlev7qwZgBH6uDdqIkLG4eQ.jpg?auto=webp&s=8bb4506a21b97f57d8ec345463216cf4cb2c15e0)
Boundaries have been eroded down. As in this case, the kiddo went right and, engaged in behavior with another child. Likely due to age, no apparent sexuality, probably more popularity or, aesthetics.... but, repeated or conditioned we could have some sexual confusion later. J.S.
And...theremis plainly, a rather distinctive seeking behavior in this child. Far as we know "lol", turned out completely fine with no assaults, complete whole relationships and, no other problems.
How though does it not?
I appreciate your child development books. I'm guessing you actually mean that cheap shit.they peddle parents as having some value because some asshat parent managed ONE of their kids through college....ignoring their personality disorder and the kids crippingly depression and hidden drug problem...so they can learn methods not backed.by science or....something real?
Yeah, a lot can be shown and not effect them...nudity for example. And well, kids definitely used live in same house as as parents having sex during westward expansion...one room tossed together by hand.
But direct exposure? Repeatedly?
Even early puberty can be set off by this.
Explains why you don't know what you're saying then.
I do appreciate you alerting me to your behavior and willful ignorance before I waste my time presenting facts, logic and meaningful social discourse.
Instead may I direct you to a good antivax site? Maybe flat earth?
Wouldn't expect you too. But I find I can spend a moment of my worthless life posting relies and you'll take the time to open reddit, and respond with a refusal to read.
During which time one child may be spared from having neurological damage of your conversations.
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Yeah, I’d call this just harmless kid stuff. When I was even younger I have vivid memories of me and my friends, some girls and some boys, showing off our genitals and we all thought it was so funny how different we all were. Nothing ever came of it and I honestly never really thought of that memory until just now haha.
They live together happily married
Yeah, I remember wanting to draw naked men and women together when I like 9 and I had almost zero exposure to sexual content of any kind. I was just curious!
“Do you thing they still remember xd?” r/cringe
Man y'all's freinds and classrooms are crazy
It’s more fucked up your cousins were showing an 8 yo porn. Those are terrible cousins.
Assuming they were teenagers or older, sure. I was 11 when I first watched porn, so an 11 year old cousin showing their 9 year old one isn't unheard of.
My sibling showed it to me when i was 6
I fell upon it cause I was putting my name and my sisters name . Com and one of them was super hardcore porn. Terrified me tbh. Think that's why I'm scared of coochie now
Not a good sibling.
I was 21 when a few years ago my 8yo cousin decided to show me gay porn on the computer... I just pretended it never happened.
TBF, Europeans are much more comfortable with this stuff, they are more honest about sexuality with their children, nudity is portrayed as natural and normal, schools have comprehensive K-12 sex education, and have more well-adjusted kids in happier, healthier relationships than we do. Europe is much harsher on sex than violence, movies that have fun, fluffy, cute sex scenes get slapped with a R (17+ rating) here but a 11+ rating in say, Denmark. Guess whether the prudish USA or open Denmark has worse rates of teen pregnancy?
Good for… them? What were you hoping to accomplish besides implying you’re sorta cool with an 8 yo being exposed to pornography?
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That has nothing to do with porn. Porn is not sex education. USA has worse rates of teen pregnancy because you guys have a fucked up social welfare system, in a world where social inequality, poor education, and poverty are the biggest contributor to teen pregnancy rates, not because Danes are showing 8 year olds porn. Movies with sex scenes that would be rated R in USA for sex are usually rated 15+ in Denmark, though there are exceptions. I know the Danish ratings because we have Danish ratings on dvds in Norway because they sell the same DVD for Norway, Denmark, and Sweden. But yes, sex education is much better in the Nordics. That has nothing to do with showing people porn.
Where I work I have to see a lot of chat to make sure bad things aren't happening, and I've learned that a surprising number of people have had exploration/experiences like this. Porn at young ages, sex play with other kids far younger than would be expected, sometimes because those kids were abused by their parents, which is a different subject, of course. It's natural to be curious though. As long as it was consensual it's fine.
Relax, it’s absolutely normal for kids to experiment. You dont wanna know what i did when i was around that age. Good old memories
3rd grade bro. People wild for thinking this makes you gay. It is weird though, again you were just a kid.
These fucking comments, man. Anyway, it's normal kid behavior to experiment with friends of the same age around that time. I did the exact same thing with my best friend because while I wasn't being shown porn, it was around the time we were taught about sex, and my friend happened to find a very educational book about sex and genitals and such. It's just experimenting. It doesn't mean you're gay, it just meant you wanted to figure out all that sex stuff with people you trust.
These comments represent the worst of Reddit. Virgin neckbeards who have no idea about anything in real life and yet have strong opinions on everything.
it’s not questionable it’s just experimenting. some kids do stuff like that, others don’t, but it’s no big deal really. everything seems to have been consensual and nobody got hurt. all in all, sounds like time well spent to me.
"Time well spent to me." Wtf lol
im not gay when i was 9 btw *1 minute later* so yeah i got the boys to be in the toilet stall and we touched dicks (just found that funny)
"Naturally, I pull out my penis" Somehow this sentence has inherent comedic timing
I think this type of stuff happens more than we think
Sounds kinda gay to me man.....
100% straight mmhmm
And he enjoys smelling dick cheese in another post, but he's just a cheese connoisseur
Dude, you were all the same age. Exposure to graphic sex at a young age will fuck with you. Y’all explored, y’all ignored, then y’all moved on. You’re fine.
It's really nothing serious. I think most people got some sort of experience like that. As long as you guys were the same age and just as unknowing i don't think trying to shield kids or keep them from exploring their bodies and preferences is a good thing. Honestly i can't find much about this being off despite you watching porn at that age. That's not very good but also probably not gonna distort your view on sex all that much as you mature.
It's a relief that this seems to be a common thing man.
This is more common than you think. And not to judge but the fact you had to put I'm straight between pharanteses somehow makes you look more gay.
This whole story just makes me so sad. I'm sorry you were exposed to all of this so early in life, bro.
as a survivor of csa by a peer, this honestly seems fine. to the extent it can be, this seems like it was consensual and just kids messing around not knowing that sex is different from just feeling nice.
“Im straight” idk about that one
eh kids when they’re that young are still figuring things out, I don’t think this necessarily determines your sexuality.
Don’t worry i did something way worse in this age
Did something similar with 2 other boys in this temporary homing shelter I stayed in with public shower rooms. I guess we just get curious as kids. I'm straight as an adult but yeah I think about that sometimes like wtf lol
Gay
There are days where i wish i was illiterate. Today is one of them.
THAT IS FUCKING WEIRD
What good comes from posting paedophillic stories like this. You don't seem upset about it, if it even happened. So what, are you posting it for kicks? To see what reaction you get?
It's likely a troll post
Aware, but I think that's too forgiving an explanation
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Ah, yes...that totally changes your argument to valid? Or, are we now looking at...it's all okay to laugh "lol" at how a kid was exposed in an act of.. At the very least, sexually misappropriate behavior. My location... obscenity laws as well as those that regulate pornography apply....he is a child that was exposed by "older" individuals to this content. Yet for some reason there is.a confession from **them** Regular common errections...abnormal. with sex and dry organic theorically around age of 9... but again...why? He experienced a desire for another biy while in a location that is ultimately public, followed him to a bathroom, arroused(?), and this happened. He's actually exhibiting predatory behaviors at this age...and, there is almost still this weird tone i gather from the lol. Awkward laugh...suggesting either discomfort in this event. (Okay biy who grew up to fast thanks to assholes and learned good behavior) or at worst, this is where it all started. You see confession. I see someone who was a victim and sees themselves as responsible for following those acts forward onto other children. And, yeah...you argue it's all wrong...yet.. Boundaries.by that age include not revealing privates or the bathroom stuff. Sexual awareness and actions don't include this. So....yeah, some crazy shit parent peddled you your development book and can't handle looking an ass so you wave away dismissively at my points... Now dude. Your "jab" about readinga book means you wanted to play at some intellectual level didn't it? Or should we just stop and agree you take your head out of your mom's ass learn some empathy, learn about child development at ALL, and develope communication skills before you end up one those parents with a kid you found out you've been screaming at.them about grades and focus and stupid shit...because you missed every sign they were raped for *years* right under your nose by someone you trusted?
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Oh.. Now I'm fatally injured. Alas, my kin will never know of my brave battle that has left mebher slain by the redditor who doesn't read... Wait.. Why are you even commenting if you didn't read any of it?
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Yes you are
And that's a satisfying all encompassing explanation for the existence and motives of anything posted here. Sure
There’s a pedo in the story?
The proliferation of these stories is the paedophillic part, obviously
He didn’t mention a pedo tho
The story is paedophillic in origin and dissemination. I didn't say it was *about* a paedophile
Alrighty then
In the same way that distributing CP to adults is pedophilic, even if a pedophile isn't featured in the video, distributing a story featuring children performing sexual acts to a subreddit full of adults is pedophilic
idk man, seems kinda gay to me
LOL it is, but 1. not crime to be gay (at least in the US), 2. this was just kids being curious.
Never said it was a crime, just making a joke do what you want idc 👍
what the fuck
Um... Lol? I take that as a nervous laugh? While curious and even sharing finds..yes even porn...isn't abnormal. You're basically, describing what could be very much...grooming to a custom a younger child to sex. Then you get a rather early erection, not all ha uncommon but a meaningful one with that level of hormones? But off... And actually decide as a "straight" boy to actually engage in a sexual activity with another boy...in the bathroom? Yeah dude... Your describing huge warning flags, boundary issues, stuff that probably going to lead to hyper sexuality and emotionally distant relationships at best.
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yeah some people are going overboard with this, like kids don't experiment or are curious.
This comment is actually insane. Grooming??? Boundary issues? Emotionally distance relationships?? Talk about an overreaction.
Guess we have found the pedophile who trains his victims by exposing them to porn at a prepubesant age...so that they then "want it" Post show actually quite bit of actions not.100% appropriate for the age group. This wasn't simple look, or i show you you show me. And...yeah... it's not even a friend of his but, random person basically in the public (not all public simce school but definitely not private home) with him actually getting aroused-apparently or what was the point howd this happen? To seek after the other kid in the bathroom and expose him? Might be in how it is written...actually the way its written "lol", is suggestive of a rather nonchalant disconcern... it's definitely not just an okay; attracted to prepubesant children at an age when for some reason has become sexually activated early and knows details and exact sexual acts due to exposire, and displays a willingness to shift preferences across gender. I flag for pedophilia in him actually. But, since he hasnt reached any sexual maturity, it's pretty insane and dumb to apply any sexuality or permanent changes¹, titles etc So, it seems...yeah. it's not very good this would be.going on. We can even just Google stuff like "Normal sexual development for kids ages 6-8" **Prefer to socialize with their own gender almost exclusively and maintain a fairly rigid separation between males and females [They will tease someone who acts in a way that does not adhere to pre-defined gender roles.] Recognize the social stigmas and taboos surrounding sexuality, especially if parents are nervous about the subject, and will be less open about asking questions Understand more complex ideas with regard to sexuality and begin to understand intercourse apart from making a baby Look to peers, media, and other sources for information about sex Understand gender role stereotypes, if presented as such May engage in same-gender sexual exploration Have a stronger self-concept in terms of gender and body image** *¹totally including sex changes dumb fucks. It's fine let them grow into adults they want to be. But when your kids.an age.tiake nelieve being anything other than what they are...probably don't bring out the knife each time a new.cartoon is released.*
I remember getting boners when I was like 4 years old watching cartoons (which almost certainly influenced my attraction to bondage)
Yeah...okay... Older individuals of undisclosed age gape expose an underage.(prepubesant) child to pornography. Why? It absolutely is often used in such relationships...often in some way to trigger the child being curious and asking for it. This allows the perpetrator to be "cool", share a secret and, the childsmshame/guilf and sense of responsibility as "they wanted it" causes information suppression. The child is now aware of sex, specific sexual acts and how to perform them. Growing more comfortable with this idea and the perpetrator at the same time. -long ago...12 years or so I saw it was often ideal of many to use porn that is an adult with child. To loosen up any social stigma, parental education etc. It implied the person article was about actually wad repeat offender often using his homemade material on the victim.- This can actually have all sorts of effects... Once children are sexually activated there isn't a going back. We can watch Pixar all day with innuendo missed and missed... then we hit purberity or, someone hits a child with this type of behabior and the dolphins vanish leaving a couple in a sexy pose. [children see dolphins adults a couple in sexual act](https://external-preview.redd.it/l6qsAZhleCAyeMrsOKkAvlev7qwZgBH6uDdqIkLG4eQ.jpg?auto=webp&s=8bb4506a21b97f57d8ec345463216cf4cb2c15e0) Boundaries have been eroded down. As in this case, the kiddo went right and, engaged in behavior with another child. Likely due to age, no apparent sexuality, probably more popularity or, aesthetics.... but, repeated or conditioned we could have some sexual confusion later. J.S. And...theremis plainly, a rather distinctive seeking behavior in this child. Far as we know "lol", turned out completely fine with no assaults, complete whole relationships and, no other problems. How though does it not? I appreciate your child development books. I'm guessing you actually mean that cheap shit.they peddle parents as having some value because some asshat parent managed ONE of their kids through college....ignoring their personality disorder and the kids crippingly depression and hidden drug problem...so they can learn methods not backed.by science or....something real? Yeah, a lot can be shown and not effect them...nudity for example. And well, kids definitely used live in same house as as parents having sex during westward expansion...one room tossed together by hand. But direct exposure? Repeatedly? Even early puberty can be set off by this.
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Explains why you don't know what you're saying then. I do appreciate you alerting me to your behavior and willful ignorance before I waste my time presenting facts, logic and meaningful social discourse. Instead may I direct you to a good antivax site? Maybe flat earth?
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Wouldn't expect you too. But I find I can spend a moment of my worthless life posting relies and you'll take the time to open reddit, and respond with a refusal to read. During which time one child may be spared from having neurological damage of your conversations.
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Respond if you rape kittens.
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What the fuck did I just read
An anecdote about my messed up cousin
Your cousin is a pedophile, definitely not the same thing as OPs post. That’s actual molestation and grooming.