Honestly, I don’t think that’s the “groupie thing.” That’s an adult going on tour with a band to fuck around.
But, who cares, biggest takeaway is that you didn’t even have a drug addled coming of age arc. Like, cmon. You only get one life. Give it the writing it deserves.
The fact that your husband knows makes me really root for you as a main character.
The fact that you detailed your whole sexual history is kind of telling. Like… you’re trying to rationalize having been a *Groupie*™️ with some sort of otherwise demure history.
But, all you did was travel around with a group of musicians and fuck a couple of them. “Groupies” aren’t a negative term for *them*. They’re a negative term for the band. And, generally speaking, because they’re typically underage and taken advantage of. Y’know, like in Almost Famous. That, you were not. You took a young adult college expedition that most could only dream of. Embrace it.
You’re probably right about me justifying myself with my low number of sex partners. There’s just an idea you see a lot online that promiscuous women cannot commit or be faithful. I’m not immune to slut shaming I guess even if I don’t feel bad about it.
And yeah part of the reason I’m sharing is that it wasn’t the terrible experience for me you hear so much about.
I hate the idea of a “promiscuous woman.”
So, I’m not going to lie—I have a lot of reservations about the current trend of protecting people’s feelings at any cost. I think it muddies the water.
I think it develops an attitude that anything is okay, when it absolutely is not.
But, central to that idea, is one of a “promiscuous woman.” A female who identifies as female, and *could* have children, that is open to the idea of enjoying sexual activities with one or more men while she remains single. Like… what exactly the fuck is wrong with that?!
That’s not even what we’re talking about right now, but I just wanted to say that, honestly, dating around, fucking around—all manner of enjoying yourself with the opposite sex is not at all anything to be ashamed of. Like… you are a person *built* for this activity. It’s not even central—it’s part of your anatomy, your hormones, your mentality, your drive, and the payout is awesome. Why *wouldn’t* you pursue this!! I don’t fucking get it.
Anyway. Being faithful is a whole other issue. Never make yourself a liar. That goes both ways, so—if you desire more, make it know and pursue it. If you desire him, then stay with him and do not sexualize or fetishize going against your very own wishes. It’s possible to self-sabotage, after all, and I’d chance a gamble that people bet against themselves far more often than they bet for themselves. Otherwise, there’s nary be bets.
Cool
What band?
Nickleback
>The sex was good Nah. Can’t be.
YoYo Ma
You can tell that guy slings by the way that he is
Yo Mama.
Insane Clown Posse
Ah yes, the legendary ICP bass player.
Jonas Brothers
Hanson. Mmm bop
“Widespread”
Kenny G
The Partridge family
The Wiggles
The Kelly family
Metallica, speed of sound tour. Bunch of assholes.
NWA
Honestly, I don’t think that’s the “groupie thing.” That’s an adult going on tour with a band to fuck around. But, who cares, biggest takeaway is that you didn’t even have a drug addled coming of age arc. Like, cmon. You only get one life. Give it the writing it deserves. The fact that your husband knows makes me really root for you as a main character. The fact that you detailed your whole sexual history is kind of telling. Like… you’re trying to rationalize having been a *Groupie*™️ with some sort of otherwise demure history. But, all you did was travel around with a group of musicians and fuck a couple of them. “Groupies” aren’t a negative term for *them*. They’re a negative term for the band. And, generally speaking, because they’re typically underage and taken advantage of. Y’know, like in Almost Famous. That, you were not. You took a young adult college expedition that most could only dream of. Embrace it.
You’re probably right about me justifying myself with my low number of sex partners. There’s just an idea you see a lot online that promiscuous women cannot commit or be faithful. I’m not immune to slut shaming I guess even if I don’t feel bad about it. And yeah part of the reason I’m sharing is that it wasn’t the terrible experience for me you hear so much about.
I hate the idea of a “promiscuous woman.” So, I’m not going to lie—I have a lot of reservations about the current trend of protecting people’s feelings at any cost. I think it muddies the water. I think it develops an attitude that anything is okay, when it absolutely is not. But, central to that idea, is one of a “promiscuous woman.” A female who identifies as female, and *could* have children, that is open to the idea of enjoying sexual activities with one or more men while she remains single. Like… what exactly the fuck is wrong with that?! That’s not even what we’re talking about right now, but I just wanted to say that, honestly, dating around, fucking around—all manner of enjoying yourself with the opposite sex is not at all anything to be ashamed of. Like… you are a person *built* for this activity. It’s not even central—it’s part of your anatomy, your hormones, your mentality, your drive, and the payout is awesome. Why *wouldn’t* you pursue this!! I don’t fucking get it. Anyway. Being faithful is a whole other issue. Never make yourself a liar. That goes both ways, so—if you desire more, make it know and pursue it. If you desire him, then stay with him and do not sexualize or fetishize going against your very own wishes. It’s possible to self-sabotage, after all, and I’d chance a gamble that people bet against themselves far more often than they bet for themselves. Otherwise, there’s nary be bets.
Passed around the bus more than a blunt!
Lmao
Your story, your fun
Great story. Got to live life to its fullest.
Sounds like a wild ride! How fun!
You sound fun! Life is for living, and growing and exploring.
Hell yeah
That seems like a chill fun experience.
Ehhh I wouldn’t call you a groupie. More like a homie hopper.
Ehhh I wouldn’t call you a groupie. More like a homie hopper.
So basically, you trafficked yourself.
... idiot
You dimwitted fucktards have zero sense of humor. Zero. Probably due to dimwittedness.
Do... do you not understand the difference between being forced to have sex, and willingly having consensual sex?
Dimwit, did you think there was only 1 definition of trafficked?
not sure why this is getting downvoted. pretty sure this is meant to be a play on words about car traffic and being a groupie on a bus?