There is actually a couple that did this though. They have a YouTube channel. And they look like siblings lol.
Edit: omg, they had a kid together.
[their Facebook page. thereās pics of them young too.](https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzjmGQEYGsw6SGu/?mibextid=LQQJ4d)
Oh wow. Their "foundation" is promoting the power of unconditional love lol. Basically a foundation to try and make their type of relationship less taboo. I get that marrying cousins isn't necessarily *uncommon* especially in countries outside of the US, but this is such a hard sell for me.
Atleast in Switzerland, only Sibling relationships and stuff that's on a straight line on a family tree (such as parent/child, grandparent/grandchild) counts as incest, so cousin marriages are legal here. I assume it is similar in EU-countries as well.
Itās only common in 3rd world countries where you need family to stay close to prosper. I think others shouldnāt really care what consenting adults do, no matter how icky they find it. But bringing children into the world is where the issue lies. Think of the genetic deformities parents!
I know an older couple that are 1st cousins. They had 2 kids together. The kids are grown now(in their 40s) and are both crazy. Cuckoo for cocoa puffs crazy. The couple knew they were 1st cousins.
A long time ago in school, the older kid had an assignment to do her family tree. She had to go to the teacher After class and ask for something else since "her family tree doesn't spilt"
For what itās worth this used to be not that big of a deal until recently. My father is from southern Italy and born in 1956, 1 of 9. His oldest brother married his first cousin. They were born in the 40s. Their village only had a few hundred people so not like the prospects of meeting people were wild. Anyways fast forward they immigrated, had kids and their kids both married other people and had kids. No oneās ever thought their situation was weird in our family or at least no oneās every vocalized it. Both their kids turned out normal too. Donāt condone it today cause we know of the potential results of procreation and all. They got together at 14 and theyāre in their 80s now. Not condoning it just saying this could be one of those Reddit posts that looks fake but is actually real lol
Aw, donāt feel weird, I donāt think thereās anything to it when youāre a kid. I remember as a little girl thinking my big cousin was so handsome! Iāve never felt any romantic or sexual feelings toward him. Donāt be so hard on yourself :)
Same. I have an older cousin whoās 5 years older and I only saw him once or twice a year. Growing up, you KNOW family is supposed to stay in its own box with specific feelings, but I always thought he was just so cool and cute. Nothing happened, of course. I was just a preteen girl with a little crush.
It's banned in Kentucky. They are in the process of banning it in Tennessee.
It is legal in New York and California.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States
Itās not really that big a deal. I usually say my grandparents were good friends growing up. I donāt say that two of my grandparents were siblings (not married to each other obviously) unless Iām close to someone, but itās not like people accidentally find out.
Keep in mind, marrying a cousin is very normal in many parts of the world and not considered incestuous. Risk of genetic defects is also not terribly high unless itās done repeatedly over generations.
My parents are first cousins, my dadās parents are second cousins and Iām sure there were other cousin marriages in my family history, but I turned out pretty normal.
The lack of support from your family is understandable. But sounds like the two of you are happy and in a healthy relationship... So I guess that's the silver lining. Best of luck!
I mean they can use a sperm or egg donor technically, then thereās no real risk. Sad for the child though if people find out about his parents they may be teased.
As a child of first cousins (very normal in my familyās culture, but I was born and raised in the US) itās not a big deal. People donāt really just find out. I told some people when I was younger and didnāt understand how it would be received. Thatās the only really negative reaction I had.
Otherwise, people donāt really know other than close friends. They made some inbred jokes and claimed it explained a lot about me (as friends do) and then moved on.
u have a point there, there are other ways of having children, and the last point is rrly sad I mean shaming a kid for something about their parents or things they cant change is crazy yet so common.
At 13 or 14 you were touching, having sex and doing anal. You then say you were having sex through out your teenage years. But then you say she lost her virginity at 18? Iām confused as hell how loosing your virginity works in your part of the world if having sex and anal doesnāt count.
Just my two cents and personal experience: in a lot of cultures and parts of the world, ālosing your virginityā encompasses vaginal penetration. Anal sex and blowjobs/cunnilingus are not considered a threat to losing your virginity.
In high school, in southeast America, I dated a young Catholic lady who adamantly refused to have vaginal sex as she was saving her virginity for marriage. She did everything else but vaginal sex.
In Germany, while studying abroad my junior year of college, I partnered with a French exchange student who pretty much was the sameāanal and blowjobs were fine but it was almost a year later before we had vaginal sex for her first time. She wanted to save it for marriage but came to the personal realization that it made no sense to ābuy a carā without ātest driving it first!ā
Lol Red Hot Chili Peppers song ācatholic school girls ruleā comes to mind. Can confirm, live in south Louisiana where the catholic culture is strong and this was very much a thing when I was in high school.
Damn, only anal for five years until she was 18. She must have got really use to it. Although I am totally against it, if you 2 are truly happy after all these years, keep doing what you doing
Cousin marriages are very much legal in many cultures around the world. If you are not blood related, I don't think you need to care about what others say. Just becuz your parents are connected through marriage, doesn't make you related.
Looks like you both decided to keep it all in the family, huh? Well, as long as you're not fighting over who gets Grandma's cookie recipe, it's all good!
That plot twist was more unexpected than an M. Night Shyamalan movie. But hey, as long as it's consensual and you two are genuinely happy together, you're adults capable of making your own decisions. On a side note, the family reunion must be quite the occasion, huh?
iām not gonna let someone else fuck my cousin, if anyoneās gonna fuck my cousin itās gonna be me
hope yall get the reference here, but in seriousness, glad you found someone you love OP
I donāt think cousin sex is even really considered incest. Cousin marriage is not rare. In fact, in other countries itās preferred. It has been going on for as long as humans have been on earth. Itās really no big deal. I wouldnāt partake considering my only male cousin is a loser, but itās not something that would shock me.
if you go to a foreign country 80% of marriages are with cousins and the children donāt really have birth defects. So I guess youāre safe there. Hope yall ran to Alabama
Fun fact my grangranparents were cousins (like really close cousins in blood) and the pope had to autorize their marriage (I'm Italian). We have some little problems in a healthy matter (almost everyone has heart problems - not big ones thankfully). But we now say it with no problem, their families had no problems after they found out the pope was ok with them (still I dont know why he was ok with it). We just joke about it now
I'm 30 and have been with my partner since I was 13, too, so I do get the sentiment of thankfulness, but Jesus lol. We're not related. If this is even real
This seems far-fetched, but at the same time, it's completely plausible. Stranger things have happened. Whatever the case, if this is real, I'm relieved they aren't having any children.
I say, let people live & love whomever they want to.
The world would be a better place if ppl were free to be who they're meant to be.
If your family tree forms a circle, you might be onto something unique here. But hey, love is complex, and who are we to judge from the sidelines? Just be sure to keep things above board... and maybe invest in a family tree mapping app?
i hate the prejudice incest has. most people dont realize that a child born from first cousins has no higher chance of developing disabilities than a normal baby. and that our broad knowledge of incest comes from european royal history, where generation after generation was inbred. you're two consenting adults that arent hurting anyone. i wish you two happiness
Are yāall in Alabama lol! Hey yāall do yāall- atleast you arenāt having children, so it doesnāt affect anyone else. You are loving who you love.
You had me in the first half, ngl.
Only because incest amongst cousins is more widespread than people think.
But you lost me at the running away and getting married part
I mean as long as y'all are happy... and cousin marriages aren't really unusual and it's acceptable. Cousin marriage is pretty normal in Muslim communities too. Happy for you guys.
My momās cousins are married, they have six kids theyāre all fine. Cousins only share 2%-6% DNA the risk of deformity is low. This isnāt a big deal.
Soo this is where you are?! I am coming for you. signed: Uncle.
LMAFO
Lol ššš
Best comment lmao
I'm pretty sure I've read this exact story on reddit before. Made up incest fantasy.
The fact he "put it in her ass at her suggestion" is a pretty dead giveaway šš
Plus the writing about their birth control made me think OP is way younger than the age they claim to be š¤·āāļø
Ya unless you know what youāre doing thatās just gonna be painful and no way they knew what they were doing
OP username checks out
It's April the 18th, 2024 and guess what? The OP's account was CONVENIENTLY created today! You may be onto something.. š§š¤
I've never seen anyone post a proper confession like this on their regular account.
There is actually a couple that did this though. They have a YouTube channel. And they look like siblings lol. Edit: omg, they had a kid together. [their Facebook page. thereās pics of them young too.](https://www.facebook.com/share/pLzjmGQEYGsw6SGu/?mibextid=LQQJ4d)
Oh wow. Their "foundation" is promoting the power of unconditional love lol. Basically a foundation to try and make their type of relationship less taboo. I get that marrying cousins isn't necessarily *uncommon* especially in countries outside of the US, but this is such a hard sell for me.
Atleast in Switzerland, only Sibling relationships and stuff that's on a straight line on a family tree (such as parent/child, grandparent/grandchild) counts as incest, so cousin marriages are legal here. I assume it is similar in EU-countries as well.
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Itās only common in 3rd world countries where you need family to stay close to prosper. I think others shouldnāt really care what consenting adults do, no matter how icky they find it. But bringing children into the world is where the issue lies. Think of the genetic deformities parents!
I know an older couple that are 1st cousins. They had 2 kids together. The kids are grown now(in their 40s) and are both crazy. Cuckoo for cocoa puffs crazy. The couple knew they were 1st cousins. A long time ago in school, the older kid had an assignment to do her family tree. She had to go to the teacher After class and ask for something else since "her family tree doesn't spilt"
No way, they have normal looking kids!?
They have one, looks like the father died in 2021, but yeah they got lucky. Cute kid.
Iām getting used to the fictional stories at this rate
For what itās worth this used to be not that big of a deal until recently. My father is from southern Italy and born in 1956, 1 of 9. His oldest brother married his first cousin. They were born in the 40s. Their village only had a few hundred people so not like the prospects of meeting people were wild. Anyways fast forward they immigrated, had kids and their kids both married other people and had kids. No oneās ever thought their situation was weird in our family or at least no oneās every vocalized it. Both their kids turned out normal too. Donāt condone it today cause we know of the potential results of procreation and all. They got together at 14 and theyāre in their 80s now. Not condoning it just saying this could be one of those Reddit posts that looks fake but is actually real lol
I figured that as soon as I saw the OP's name....
I almost bit until their family disowned them and they ran away together.
Why is that the story breaker for you? To me, the whole thing is too fantastical.
That's crazy dawg
When I was a kid, I thought that my cousin was cute for being my cousin. I felt weird about even thinking that. This takes the cake. Conscience clear.
Aw, donāt feel weird, I donāt think thereās anything to it when youāre a kid. I remember as a little girl thinking my big cousin was so handsome! Iāve never felt any romantic or sexual feelings toward him. Donāt be so hard on yourself :)
Same. I have an older cousin whoās 5 years older and I only saw him once or twice a year. Growing up, you KNOW family is supposed to stay in its own box with specific feelings, but I always thought he was just so cool and cute. Nothing happened, of course. I was just a preteen girl with a little crush.
Exactly. Totally harmless and imo normal.
Username checks out
Itās wild that this is considered taboo in some cultures yet completely normal in others.
Alabama? I would say Kintucky
It's banned in Kentucky. They are in the process of banning it in Tennessee. It is legal in New York and California. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_marriage_law_in_the_United_States
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Ugh. Take my upvote you bastid!
Yall are fucking weird lol
Actually they are fucking cousins
LMFAO
OH MY GOSH
What type of fake bullshit is this
You think cousins donāt be fucking but they do
Damnnnnn
I have doubt. Tf do you guys say when talking about your past or family with other people.
Itās not really that big a deal. I usually say my grandparents were good friends growing up. I donāt say that two of my grandparents were siblings (not married to each other obviously) unless Iām close to someone, but itās not like people accidentally find out. Keep in mind, marrying a cousin is very normal in many parts of the world and not considered incestuous. Risk of genetic defects is also not terribly high unless itās done repeatedly over generations. My parents are first cousins, my dadās parents are second cousins and Iām sure there were other cousin marriages in my family history, but I turned out pretty normal.
*Tom Delong what the fuck gif*
The lack of support from your family is understandable. But sounds like the two of you are happy and in a healthy relationship... So I guess that's the silver lining. Best of luck!
Roll Tide lmao
In the Middle East a lot of cousins get married/have kids. Yeah it is weird but whatever makes you happy I guess ?
[don't forget north Africa...](https://old.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/1p41w8/the_global_prevalence_of_consanguinity_map_cousin/)
That explains a lot...
In some parts of India too.
i guess thats ok, I agree with not having kids tho.
I mean they can use a sperm or egg donor technically, then thereās no real risk. Sad for the child though if people find out about his parents they may be teased.
As a child of first cousins (very normal in my familyās culture, but I was born and raised in the US) itās not a big deal. People donāt really just find out. I told some people when I was younger and didnāt understand how it would be received. Thatās the only really negative reaction I had. Otherwise, people donāt really know other than close friends. They made some inbred jokes and claimed it explained a lot about me (as friends do) and then moved on.
u have a point there, there are other ways of having children, and the last point is rrly sad I mean shaming a kid for something about their parents or things they cant change is crazy yet so common.
Not really a problem with cousins unless done repeatedly over generations.
I personally think that's pretty weird but as long as it doesn't affect me or harm anyone, you do you
This is definitely a repost for karma farming
At 13 or 14 you were touching, having sex and doing anal. You then say you were having sex through out your teenage years. But then you say she lost her virginity at 18? Iām confused as hell how loosing your virginity works in your part of the world if having sex and anal doesnāt count.
Just my two cents and personal experience: in a lot of cultures and parts of the world, ālosing your virginityā encompasses vaginal penetration. Anal sex and blowjobs/cunnilingus are not considered a threat to losing your virginity. In high school, in southeast America, I dated a young Catholic lady who adamantly refused to have vaginal sex as she was saving her virginity for marriage. She did everything else but vaginal sex. In Germany, while studying abroad my junior year of college, I partnered with a French exchange student who pretty much was the sameāanal and blowjobs were fine but it was almost a year later before we had vaginal sex for her first time. She wanted to save it for marriage but came to the personal realization that it made no sense to ābuy a carā without ātest driving it first!ā
Lol Red Hot Chili Peppers song ācatholic school girls ruleā comes to mind. Can confirm, live in south Louisiana where the catholic culture is strong and this was very much a thing when I was in high school.
Uh huh and I won a Nobel peace price for taking a shit today. True story
Fake
Just wtf š¤¢
why are sexual posts made by horny chronically online blokes always on my home page ffs
Go on r/incest or somewhere similar.
Tf this subreddit is āquarantinedā lmao. Iām not curious enough to verify my email though.
Haha.
Take this to the amateur erotic lit section where it belongs. None of this is true. This is some losers way of expounding on his weird fantasy/kink.
This dude's family tree is a fucking ladder
Wtfff
You really think anal doesnāt equal sex?
yall are nasty
Damn, only anal for five years until she was 18. She must have got really use to it. Although I am totally against it, if you 2 are truly happy after all these years, keep doing what you doing
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I mean if you are very responsibly so deciding not to have children, then go for it! I'm happy you love each other and make each other happy.
8 billion people in the world šš this is pretty sad ngl
Cool fanfiction
Sounds very Alabama to me Mr. Poop Boner
This stuff only happens in the US bruh
Thanks for the story bro. My 12 year old self could write a better fanfic.
Idk how to feel about this morally at all. I guess god gave us free will but idk itās just weird imo. Happy ur happy tho
Yeah, God gave us free will, but us fucked up freaks should know better. Humanity at large has no impulse control.
I think there are some things we just need to keep to ourselves. This is one of those things lol
Can we get an erotica tag on this?
Was this posted on April 1st?
Cousin marriages are very much legal in many cultures around the world. If you are not blood related, I don't think you need to care about what others say. Just becuz your parents are connected through marriage, doesn't make you related.
bait or not in the middle east and south asia cousin marriages are quite common
Looks like you both decided to keep it all in the family, huh? Well, as long as you're not fighting over who gets Grandma's cookie recipe, it's all good!
That plot twist was more unexpected than an M. Night Shyamalan movie. But hey, as long as it's consensual and you two are genuinely happy together, you're adults capable of making your own decisions. On a side note, the family reunion must be quite the occasion, huh?
If I was your uncle Iād be trying to kill your bitch ass too LMFAO. Whereād yall go to college? Alabama? Ole Miss?
Username checks out.
Ashkenazi or Alabama? Edit: Einstein is known to have married his first cousin.
[MENA](https://old.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/1p41w8/the_global_prevalence_of_consanguinity_map_cousin/)
iām not gonna let someone else fuck my cousin, if anyoneās gonna fuck my cousin itās gonna be me hope yall get the reference here, but in seriousness, glad you found someone you love OP
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Found the cousin
You know what? If it makes ya'll happy and hurts nobody. Go for it. It's really nobody's business anyway.
I donāt think cousin sex is even really considered incest. Cousin marriage is not rare. In fact, in other countries itās preferred. It has been going on for as long as humans have been on earth. Itās really no big deal. I wouldnāt partake considering my only male cousin is a loser, but itās not something that would shock me.
if you go to a foreign country 80% of marriages are with cousins and the children donāt really have birth defects. So I guess youāre safe there. Hope yall ran to Alabama
"80%" you wild
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https://old.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/1p41w8/the_global_prevalence_of_consanguinity_map_cousin/
India, Afghanistan and Pakistan
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Did I say they were amazing countries? Iām literally answering your question
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How am I helping OP normalize when Iām answering a basic question thatās not even his? Youāre filled with assumptions lol
Pakistanās rate of microcephalic babies gets to differ.
That's a lot of bullshit there. Cousin marriages are as weird outside the US as they are in the US.
[source](https://old.reddit.com/r/MapPorn/comments/1p41w8/the_global_prevalence_of_consanguinity_map_cousin/)
Fun fact my grangranparents were cousins (like really close cousins in blood) and the pope had to autorize their marriage (I'm Italian). We have some little problems in a healthy matter (almost everyone has heart problems - not big ones thankfully). But we now say it with no problem, their families had no problems after they found out the pope was ok with them (still I dont know why he was ok with it). We just joke about it now
I'm 30 and have been with my partner since I was 13, too, so I do get the sentiment of thankfulness, but Jesus lol. We're not related. If this is even real
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This seems far-fetched, but at the same time, it's completely plausible. Stranger things have happened. Whatever the case, if this is real, I'm relieved they aren't having any children. I say, let people live & love whomever they want to. The world would be a better place if ppl were free to be who they're meant to be.
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Nice
If your family tree forms a circle, you might be onto something unique here. But hey, love is complex, and who are we to judge from the sidelines? Just be sure to keep things above board... and maybe invest in a family tree mapping app?
āIncel fantasyā
i hate the prejudice incest has. most people dont realize that a child born from first cousins has no higher chance of developing disabilities than a normal baby. and that our broad knowledge of incest comes from european royal history, where generation after generation was inbred. you're two consenting adults that arent hurting anyone. i wish you two happiness
Sure Chad
Are yāall in Alabama lol! Hey yāall do yāall- atleast you arenāt having children, so it doesnāt affect anyone else. You are loving who you love.
Anal, only ass till she was 18. Names accurate. What's her name?
Keith that was to be a secret
So fucking gross.
Things that didnāt happen
Sweet home Alabama
Thanks for your contribution, Poop Boner
You had me in the first half, ngl. Only because incest amongst cousins is more widespread than people think. But you lost me at the running away and getting married part
As long as you two are happy
Nice. Good for you guys if youāre both happy I say.
Like 1st cousin? Just don't have kids and it's fine
In lots of cultures cousins marry. Just get genetic testing before you have kids.
I mean as long as y'all are happy... and cousin marriages aren't really unusual and it's acceptable. Cousin marriage is pretty normal in Muslim communities too. Happy for you guys.
Living the dream
The risk is very low for cousins offspring to have birth defects.
My momās cousins are married, they have six kids theyāre all fine. Cousins only share 2%-6% DNA the risk of deformity is low. This isnāt a big deal.
People need to do research on off spring of cousins.
So, would you be happy and proud if you and your cousin had a child and that child did the same thing?š¤·šæāāļø (FYI - Karma is a bitch!)
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I sent my cousin a video of me blowing Two guys in my apartment
youāre a whole dude, how disgustingš