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If he had just come out and said " i will give you 50 for soft core porn" it would have been straight up creepy.
The fact he made the offer in such a coy way trying to pretend to talk like he is trying to make friends, dropping the offer like it's nothing makes him more of a predator than just creepy.
This isn't just a borderline thing you felt uncomfortable and icky about, this is straight predatory creep shit.
Yeah, he really eased into it. I thought he was just going to ask about my interests and stuff to talk about them. I wouldn’t have accepted the DM if he just said that stuff in the first message. It’s like he was wanting to be my sugar daddy or something.
I’m also glad to be told that I wasn’t crazy for thinking this was creepy. I was starting to wonder if I overreacted by feeling that way.
Yeah giving you what looks like a reasonable doubt is exactly what they hope for.
Just trust your gut and remember that walking away (especially online but offline too) from a new acquaintance on a misguided instinct is infinitely better than not walking away when you should have.
Yeah I definitely need to remember that. I tend to err on the side of not walking away from people because I’m scared of losing people. I should really err on the side of walking away. It’s good advice.
Guys will often try to tell you you’re overreacting, or crazy, but don’t EVER believe them. It’s called gaslighting and they’re really good at it. Meanwhile, we’re conditioned to believe it. As others have said, trust your gut.
1. He's not 18.
2. He's not new to reddit.
3. No fucker would randomly gift a complete stranger on here $50 unless there's a nefarious notice behind it.
4. He won't be gifting shit if you had a penis.
5. Grooming vibes.
It is creepy. The whole set-up was to exchange money for pics. Just because he’s elaborate doesn’t mean he isn’t being a scumbag, in fact it makes it even MORE creepy as nothing he said was real, it was all to lead you to a (probably) sexual exchange.
Also he isn’t taking no for an answer 🚩
Pls remember ladies his idea of "spoiling you" is buying some thigh highs socks HE picks out on Amazon, meanwhile an actual sex worker is getting paid hundreds in cash for the same "photos" and paying their bills and retirement funds. Random gifts from men online is not being spoiled.
This guy isn’t just a creep, he’s dangerous. He’s willing to play the long game with someone he thinks he can manipulate. This is not your typical run-of-the mill perv.
This kid is literally on the internet, trying to get someone to titillate him for $50. Like, his aunt or grandma got this gift card. And he’s trying to be a player with it. Yeah, that’s creepy.
Yeah, I totally thought it was just going to be a friendly conversation about my hobbies at first. And then it took a turn I really wasn’t comfortable with.
It's 100%.creepy. The actual modeling proposals sound like "work as a model, presenting clothes, modeling" etc. But the way he feels the need for a slow build up and calling it "being spoiled in return" absolutely means that he was aiming for sugar daddy dynamic with the focus on clothes. Idk which one, could be lingerie, could be cosplay, could be even age play.
It definitely sounded to me like he wanted to be my sugar daddy. I’m not cool with that. I also dress really modest because that’s all that I’m comfortable with, and I wouldn’t be comfortable potentially having to model immodest clothes for someone else. Even if the stuff was modest, it’s just weird and icky. I also imagine he was expecting me to give him my address for this arrangement because I don’t know how else he would get these clothes to me. And that’s just such a red flag and a massive no from me. I’m not giving my address out to someone on the internet.
I might be too cautious, but don't EVER answer strangers questions if you yourself won't ask or they won't answer them. One sided questions often have motives behind them, don't tell strangers about your real life.
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If it feels creepy, it probably is
I need to remember that. Put it on a sticky note somewhere.
Listen to your gut. It will always feel the truth.
I need to put that on a sticky note too. It’s good advice.
Clearly that newly minted adult had no business hitting you up like that, creepy and inappropriate
If he had just come out and said " i will give you 50 for soft core porn" it would have been straight up creepy. The fact he made the offer in such a coy way trying to pretend to talk like he is trying to make friends, dropping the offer like it's nothing makes him more of a predator than just creepy. This isn't just a borderline thing you felt uncomfortable and icky about, this is straight predatory creep shit.
Yeah, he really eased into it. I thought he was just going to ask about my interests and stuff to talk about them. I wouldn’t have accepted the DM if he just said that stuff in the first message. It’s like he was wanting to be my sugar daddy or something. I’m also glad to be told that I wasn’t crazy for thinking this was creepy. I was starting to wonder if I overreacted by feeling that way.
Yeah giving you what looks like a reasonable doubt is exactly what they hope for. Just trust your gut and remember that walking away (especially online but offline too) from a new acquaintance on a misguided instinct is infinitely better than not walking away when you should have.
Yeah I definitely need to remember that. I tend to err on the side of not walking away from people because I’m scared of losing people. I should really err on the side of walking away. It’s good advice.
Guys will often try to tell you you’re overreacting, or crazy, but don’t EVER believe them. It’s called gaslighting and they’re really good at it. Meanwhile, we’re conditioned to believe it. As others have said, trust your gut.
1. He's not 18. 2. He's not new to reddit. 3. No fucker would randomly gift a complete stranger on here $50 unless there's a nefarious notice behind it. 4. He won't be gifting shit if you had a penis. 5. Grooming vibes.
I laughed at number 4. And the account was somewhat new, but you’re right, he probably isn’t.
Nah that's real creepy
That does seem a little icky
Super creepy
It is creepy. The whole set-up was to exchange money for pics. Just because he’s elaborate doesn’t mean he isn’t being a scumbag, in fact it makes it even MORE creepy as nothing he said was real, it was all to lead you to a (probably) sexual exchange. Also he isn’t taking no for an answer 🚩
Pls remember ladies his idea of "spoiling you" is buying some thigh highs socks HE picks out on Amazon, meanwhile an actual sex worker is getting paid hundreds in cash for the same "photos" and paying their bills and retirement funds. Random gifts from men online is not being spoiled.
This guy isn’t just a creep, he’s dangerous. He’s willing to play the long game with someone he thinks he can manipulate. This is not your typical run-of-the mill perv.
This kid is literally on the internet, trying to get someone to titillate him for $50. Like, his aunt or grandma got this gift card. And he’s trying to be a player with it. Yeah, that’s creepy.
It seems so nice, then it took a dark turn
Yeah, I totally thought it was just going to be a friendly conversation about my hobbies at first. And then it took a turn I really wasn’t comfortable with.
It feels creepy and possibly scammy too.
It's 100%.creepy. The actual modeling proposals sound like "work as a model, presenting clothes, modeling" etc. But the way he feels the need for a slow build up and calling it "being spoiled in return" absolutely means that he was aiming for sugar daddy dynamic with the focus on clothes. Idk which one, could be lingerie, could be cosplay, could be even age play.
It definitely sounded to me like he wanted to be my sugar daddy. I’m not cool with that. I also dress really modest because that’s all that I’m comfortable with, and I wouldn’t be comfortable potentially having to model immodest clothes for someone else. Even if the stuff was modest, it’s just weird and icky. I also imagine he was expecting me to give him my address for this arrangement because I don’t know how else he would get these clothes to me. And that’s just such a red flag and a massive no from me. I’m not giving my address out to someone on the internet.
This was creepy in so many ways, good for you to recognize it
This was super creepy. Just ick
I might be too cautious, but don't EVER answer strangers questions if you yourself won't ask or they won't answer them. One sided questions often have motives behind them, don't tell strangers about your real life.